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Greetings,

I would like to inquire about my girlfriend who happens to be pregnant.

Not here to bore anyone who maybe interested in this issue.

Respectfully I urge knowledgeable people in the house especially medical practicioners to give me clearer explanations to the pressuring issue.



My girlfriend whom I've been dating for quite a long period of time happens to be pregnant, and I'm so cool with the news which she broke yesterday.

Now she is insisting that she can't keep this baby because she is still a young lady of 22, who have got dreams to accomplish.

This is making me feel like there is something I still don't understand, even though we had no plans of nursing a baby but we have always talked about never giving in for an abortion at a time like this.

She ended her last menstrual circle around 23rd of last month which started on 18th according to her, I believe ovulation begins between 12-14 days depending on her circle.

She came to my place on the 4th of this month, being the day of easter and I was always on protection apart from on the 8th, where there was a break of condom and I never bothered to strap on another.

Although I assume not cumming inside her, I know it is still possible that a little drop of sperm might have found a way down there.

I will do well to include the ultrasound results that was carried out by her yesterday, as I'm starting to think the child is not mine for her to counter my decision of keeping the baby.

It's her decision bro

Not necessarily! It's not necessarily because the child isn't yours.

The pregnancy involves her and will affect her too. Maybe even more because it'll be obvious on her far more than you. If you dey walk street, no one will know you've impregnated someone but it'll be very obvious on her at a particular stage.

Secondly, because she's carrying it, she'll be the one to bear the complications; complications she may not be ready to put up with while doing some other things in her life.

So she could have been refusing for other reasons not necessarily because you don't own it.

Then, even though what she wants to do is somewhat abhorrent, I offer you no condolences or support, I'm sorry to say.

Whoever does GBIM should be ready to see GBIM!

Since you've impregnated her outside marriage, whatever happens, dey bear am my son.

That's just me though and I'm sure I'm insignificant. You can continue seeking help elsewhere maybe you'll find it.

Take care son.



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TripleDdotcom, many thanks for your input.

Hmmn. I don't want to accuse your girlfriend but there's a possibility that pregnancy isn't yours depending on the length of her cycle.

If you used protection from 4th to 8th and the condom broke on the 8th, she should be way pass her fertility window Unless she has a 33 to 34 day cycle.

If she insists on aborting the pregnancy, it's her body, her choice, her life.

I'd suggest you shun premarital sex sha. Even condom that you used didn't save you.

It's impossible and Very senseless of any girl who has been receiving lashing from either mr. Dickson or Mr. prickson to say she doesn't want a baby now regardless of her fvcking age but na only her spread her two k-legs for you to dish your guinea corn akamu there willingly

Like I do tell my real dudes, that I'd instantly break up with any girl who insist on aborting my precious seed simply because she isn't ready while I'm ready.....

she can't dictate for you op....So long say you didn't deny the pregnancy and you think you're capable of taking care of the baby when she finally lays it,then she should keep her mouth shut and allow your seed to grow into a full foetus.....

Not your child

wickedmmm:
It's her decision bro

What kinda foolish decision are you talking about here bro

Goddamn it,na which kind mumu men full this Nairaland self...Very low mentality men...

Tueh*

Romanoff:
Hmmn. I don't want to accuse your girlfriend but there's a possibility that pregnancy isn't yours depending on the length of her cycle.

If you used protection from 4th to 8th and the condom broke on the 8th, she should be way pass her fertility window Unless she has a 33 to 34 day cycle.

If she insists on aborting the pregnancy, it's her body, her choice, her life.

I'd suggest you shun premarital sex sha. Even condom that you used didn't save you.

Thanks for your helpful contribution, she does have a 28-days menstrual circle.

But the confusing aspect is that during are ovulation which is assumed as 12-14days after menstruation, I was protected.

I am so confused because I was together with her 24/7 of her stay.

LovelyDady:
Thanks for your helpful contribution, she does have a 28-days menstrual circle.

But the confusing aspect is that during are ovulation which is assumed as 12-14days after menstruation, I was protected.

I am so confused because I was together with her 24/7 of her stay.

With a 28day cycle, it ain't yours bro. You're a cover up.

I hope I'm wrong sha.

Condom could have leaked without you knowing but even with a leak, she could have ovulated 3 to four days before the 4th.

I could be wrong.

Sonnobax15:
What kinda foolish decision are you talking about here bro

Goddamn it,na which kind mumu men full this Nairaland self...Very low mentality men...

Tueh*

It is actually her decision. Since he's not married to her, he has no right to any decision.

It's her body and her life.

Know this and know peace.

I don't know about your girlfriend OP but if I do get pregnant now that I'm not married that I don't have money I will abort it
If I die, I die

Oga it's yours,a woman can get pregnant at anytime or day aslong as sperm went inside her, every woman's body is different ,those 12days and 14days ovulation counting fails we all have different body system.