Am twenty and a poly undergraduate,these morning just because i change my phone's body case of N500 she starts to look me in a furious way.mind you i have been using this phone since i was in js3 and it has been falling and falling since those years,she bought my other siblings phones but all she tell me is to wait for my time i agreed and wait it almost 7years now That i have been using the phone without complain.so this evening when i was helping her doing some chores she started frowning at me next thing i heard was a slap,she took a cane and started beating me i was pained i cried my heart out.i use to be quiet and calm whenever she is beating me but this evening i spoke out my mind shouting and yelling at her(i told her is it because i bought a second new phone body case she is acting strange or what she kept abusing and and cursing me that am a barstard)i cried heavly i felt like taking poision but i think about it and stoped the thinkinq as am writing these with a depressed and deprived heart

omoh your wahala no be here oo!! only you know what to do

Twenty year old baby...

Wetin person no fit see for Nairaland does not exist


My Candid advice. Your mom still sees you as a kid. You need to let her know that you ain't one anymore. Next time she tries to flog you, instead of just rolling over and crying like a toddler, hold the cane and snatch it from her, if she tries to slap you, hold her hand. you no be drum. By the time you don do am like three times respect go come naturally....

tayeloveme4rel:
Am twenty and a poly undergraduate,these morning just because i change my phone's body case of N500 she starts to look me in a furious way.mind you i have been using this phone since i was in js3 and it has been falling and falling since those years,she bought my other siblings phones but all she tell me is to wait for my time i agreed and wait it almost 7years now That i have been using the phone without complain.so this evening when i was helping her doing some chores she started frowning at me next thing i heard was a slap,she took a cane and started beating me i was pained i cried my heart out.i use to be quiet and calm whenever she is beating me but this evening i spoke out my mind shouting and yelling at her(i told her is it because i bought a second new phone body case she is acting strange or what she kept abusing and and cursing me that am a barstard)i cried heavly i felt like taking poision but i think about it and stoped the thinkinq as am writing these with a depressed and deprived heart

You are not a bastard and it is a pity that your mum's paranoia is getting the better of her. But I suggest you meet your dad, or someone who is close to your mother and discuss this predicament. And lastly, do not exchange words with her ; she is your mother and you are to honor her.

Peace

falcon01:
omoh your wahala no be here oo!! only you know what to do

HOW DO U mean sir pls i need help am depressed and denied my provisions as a child in my family

Ammishaddai:
You are not a bastard and it is a pity that your man's paranoia is getting the better of her. But I suggest you meet your dad or someone who is close to your mother and discuss this predicament.

ok thanks am very gratefull my mother is just too harsh on me

she kept abusing and and cursing me that am a barstard)i cried heavly

How else do you want her to explain your paternity?

Research more about your father.

Is your father truly your father? Is she truly your mother?



I see no reason why an undergraduate changed his phone case and brings unnecessary hatred and evil.

You need to start asking questions.

tayeloveme4rel:



ok thanks am very gratefull my mother is just too harsh on me

Try and meet someone who is close to her and discuss the matter. Because right now, you need the listening ear of someone who can serve as an advocate between you and your mother

tayeloveme4rel:
Am twenty and a poly undergraduate,these morning just because i change my phone's body case of N500 she starts to look me in a furious way.mind you i have been using this phone since i was in js3 and it has been falling and falling since those years, she bought my other siblings phones but all she tell me is to wait for my time i agreed and wait it almost 7years now That i have been using the phone without complain.so this evening when i was helping her doing some chores she started frowning at me next thing i heard was a slap,she took a cane and started beating me i was pained i cried my heart out.i use to be quiet and calm whenever she is beating me but this evening i spoke out my mind shouting and yelling at her(i told her is it because i bought a second new phone body case she is acting strange or what she kept abusing and and cursing me that am a barstard) i cried heavly i felt like taking poision but i think about it and stoped the thinkinq as am writing these with a depressed and deprived

Please DO NOT overlook this “Bastard” statement, people truly say how they feel when they are angry.

That’s the best time to pay attention to people to know what they are capable of, the truth and what they have in mind for you.

Always keep it in mind that she addressed you as a bastard and never expect much to avoid breaking down when you find out the truth about that statement.

No biological mother will call her child a bastard.

tayeloveme4rel:


HOW DO U mean sir pls i need help am depressed and denied my provisions as a child in my family

Do you have something you do that fetches you income? Are you self sustaining? If yes, talk to her and your dad on why you want to move out to rent a place no matter how small as you need your sanity.

Op are you a male or female ....


Light my kpoli

tayeloveme4rel:


HOW DO U mean sir pls i need help am depressed and denied my provisions as a child in my family

Ok let me be straight with you, you problem ain't getting better I ain't gonna lie to make you feel good. it's an issue that's deep down from the root you just have to endure the sh*t till you become an independent man But for now it ain't stopping just Learn to live with it. if you have any where else to go fine, but if Not just push it down and keep living the Hell!

A 20 yr old isnt a child anymore.Get it into your head.

ictjobber:
Twenty year old baby...

Wetin person no fit see for Nairaland does not exist


My Candid advice. Your mom still sees you as a kid. You need to let her know that you ain't one anymore. Next time she tries to flog you, hold the cane and snatch it from her, if she tries to slap you, hold her hand. you no be drum. By the time you don do am like three times respect go come naturally....

Why are you like this for God sake, atleast have the fear of God.

Did you do this same thing you are asking the op to do?

And is this right im any way?


The bible said obey you father and mother so that your days will be long on earth.
If your mum beats you because you buy a phone cover that is not justified enough,parent don't do things like that, I will advice you to go to her and apologies and ask what exactly do you do to warrant such treatment from her. You are no longer a kid no doubt,but maturity simply means being responsible. You will have kids one day. So try and be a good child

donstan18:

Please DO NOT overlook this “Bastard” statement, people truly say how they feel when they are angry.

That’s the best time to pay attention to people to know what they are capable of, the truth and what they have in mind for you.

Always keep it in mind that she addressed you as a bastard and never expect much to avoid breaking down when you find out the truth about that statement.

No biological mother will call her child a bastard.

Dman I am forced to agree with you. No mother can call her child a bastard, no matter how angry she is.

tayeloveme4rel:
Am twenty and a poly undergraduate,these morning just because i change my phone's body case of N500 she starts to look me in a furious way.mind you i have been using this phone since i was in js3 and it has been falling and falling since those years,she bought my other siblings phones but all she tell me is to wait for my time i agreed and wait it almost 7years now That i have been using the phone without complain.so this evening when i was helping her doing some chores she started frowning at me next thing i heard was a slap,she took a cane and started beating me i was pained i cried my heart out.i use to be quiet and calm whenever she is beating me but this evening i spoke out my mind shouting and yelling at her(i told her is it because i bought a second new phone body case she is acting strange or what she kept abusing and and cursing me that am a barstard)i cried heavly i felt like taking poision but i think about it and stoped the thinkinq as am writing these with a depressed and deprived heart

an undergraduate that is being flogged with cain.
you need to grow up.

tayeloveme4rel:
Am twenty and a poly undergraduate,these morning just because i change my phone's body case of N500 she starts to look me in a furious way.mind you i have been using this phone since i was in js3 and it has been falling and falling since those years,she bought my other siblings phones but all she tell me is to wait for my time i agreed and wait it almost 7years now That i have been using the phone without complain.so this evening when i was helping her doing some chores she started frowning at me next thing i heard was a slap,she took a cane and started beating me i was pained i cried my heart out.i use to be quiet and calm whenever she is beating me but this evening i spoke out my mind shouting and yelling at her(i told her is it because i bought a second new phone body case she is acting strange or what she kept abusing and and cursing me that am a barstard)i cried heavly i felt like taking poision but i think about it and stoped the thinkinq as am writing these with a depressed and deprived heart

You have tolerated enough from her and to avoid you having a fixcuff with her, just plan and find a relationship you either report her or you leave the house for good

What about your dad?

if you can hustle to see yourself through school, I will advice you leave there to somewhere else.
Be strong and patient

Don't make a decision now you'll regret twenty years later.


I'm sorry you feel bad.

Just be yourself. Everything will be fine.

:omoh your wahala no be here oo!! only you know what to do HOW DO U mean sir pls i need help am depressed and denied my provisions as a child in my family

tayeloveme4rel:


HOW DO U mean sir pls i need help am depressed and denied my provisions as a child in my family

Taye, you cant think of yourself as a child and expect your mom to treat you as an adult. At 20yrs, a lot of people are taking care of themselves without depending on their parents anymore. Please try to personally develop yourself first, find something small to do that will fetch you money and everything else will fall into place.


By the way, there is something unique to Polys, especially those village Polys that make you guys act weird. Once you're done with the OND, biko consider changing narratives. Good luck.

if your mum call you a bastard ask her to show u your father or you will kill her

Where is your father?

Mrsoft3:


Why are you like this for God sake, atleast have the fear of God.

Did you do this same thing you are asking the op to do?

And is this right im any way?


The bible said obey you father and mother so that your days will be long on earth.
If your mum beats you because you buy a phone cover that is not justified enough,parent don't do things like that, I will advice you to go to her and apologies and ask what exactly do you do to warrant such treatment from her. You are no longer a kid no doubt,but maturity simply means being responsible. You will have kids one day. So try and be a good child

... Your life must be very miserable.. Continue being a simp.

Just so you know... I am more closer to my mom than you will ever be with yours.

Mrsoft3:


Why are you like this for God sake, atleast have the fear of God.

Did you do this same thing you are asking the op to do?

And is this right im any way?


The bible said obey you father and mother so that your days will be long on earth.
If your mum beats you because you buy a phone cover that is not justified enough,parent don't do things like that, I will advice you to go to her and apologies and ask what exactly do you do to warrant such treatment from her. You are no longer a kid no doubt,but maturity simply means being responsible. You will have kids one day. So try and be a good child

Can you go and steal if your father ask you to simply because the bible telks you to obey them

ictjobber:
Twenty year old baby...

Wetin person no fit see for Nairaland does not exist


My Candid advice. Your mom still sees you as a kid. You need to let her know that you ain't one anymore. Next time she tries to flog you, instead of just rolling over and crying like a toddler, hold the cane and snatch it from her, if she tries to slap you, hold her hand. you no be drum. By the time you don do am like three times respect go come naturally....

sincerely speaking wetin person no fit see for nairaland truly does not exist

You are one of them! Why will you dish out such kinda barbaric advice to someone? Is better you view and take a walk than this unpalatable advice

Anyway, you've already said it all in your first paragraph

VTJN:
sincerely speaking wetin person no fit see for nairaland truly does not exist

You are one of them! Why will you dish out such kinda barbaric advice to someone? Is better you view and take a walk than this unpalatable advice

Anyway, you've already said it all in your first paragraph

A simp won't understand...

ictjobber:

A simp won't understand...

A mysogynist will obviously do...

tayeloveme4rel:
Am twenty and a poly undergraduate,these morning just because i change my phone's body case of N500 she starts to look me in a furious way.mind you i have been using this phone since i was in js3 and it has been falling and falling since those years,she bought my other siblings phones but all she tell me is to wait for my time i agreed and wait it almost 7years now That i have been using the phone without complain.so this evening when i was helping her doing some chores she started frowning at me next thing i heard was a slap,she took a cane and started beating me i was pained i cried my heart out.i use to be quiet and calm whenever she is beating me but this evening i spoke out my mind shouting and yelling at her(i told her is it because i bought a second new phone body case she is acting strange or what she kept abusing and and cursing me that am a barstard)i cried heavly i felt like taking poision but i think about it and stoped the thinkinq as am writing these with a depressed and deprived heart

Your mother loves you she sees you as a kid, next time dont talk back to your mother and try talk to someone closer to her