| Re: I Noticed That My Girlfriend Is Cheating On Me And This Later Happened by LOVEGINO(m): 10:50pm On Apr 24, 2021 |
doggedfighter:
Can you use paragraphs next time, please.
I am finding this hard to read.
Please can you point out where she cheated in this your childish story.
Or you are just trying to create a usual women bashing thread?
Where do women meet these children that call themselves boys? 
SS 2 and SS 3 boys should stop creating threads here. u don finish dis young man finish. In fact him and d mod deserve e-slap. 1 Like |
| Re: I Noticed That My Girlfriend Is Cheating On Me And This Later Happened by Nobody: 10:50pm On Apr 24, 2021 |
..."she is very hungry and her reason was
that she didn't like what they cooked in her house. I have to
invite her over to my house and she ate very well and even
took a bottle of soft drink before leaving for her house that
night which I also gave her a naira note in case she wants
to buy anything the following day".
what's the meaning of this act?!
as in it's now your subtle responsibility to feed her and give her money cos you're dating her?!
and how did she paid you back for that gesture?! by being arrogantly stubborn, no be so?!
koh make sense at all! |
| Re: I Noticed That My Girlfriend Is Cheating On Me And This Later Happened by LOVEGINO(m): 10:57pm On Apr 24, 2021 |
Geonigga:
I have sometime in February this year made a post of a lady I met and who refused taking my calls one certain night and which I did a post seeking for advise here.
Let me now go straight to the recent happening in the relationship with this lady whom I met in the church and who also live in the same estate with me in fact her house is not that far from mine though she is living with her aunt.
It happened that on Wednesday being the 21st of April, 2021, when I arrived home from work, it is my usual practice to call her and when I called her that very day, she took her call and told me that she is very hungry and her reason was that she didn't like what they cooked in her house. I have to invite her over to my house and she ate very well and even took a bottle of soft drink before leaving for her house that night which I also gave her a naira note in case she wants to buy anything the following day.
The following day being the 22nd of April, as usual when I came back from work around 6:30pm, I put two calls across to her which were made in different intervals, but lol and behold this lady I thought she was my girl friend didn't pick up the calls, I remained calmed and went to bed that night.
However, during the course of the night, around 11:30pm that night my phone rang and I took the phone to know who was calling, it was this my so called girl friend that was calling, I had to ignore the call.
The following day very early in the morning she called again but I was preparing for work and I didn't want anything that will ignite sad mood on me, I have to ignored her calls even when I was at the office.
Later in the evening when I was about leaving the office she called again and I picked up the call with a mild attention, she then asked why I refused taking her calls since, I replied her by saying that she started it, this lady has to immediately end the call and up until now she has refused to take my calls or call back.
Please I really want to know who is at fault here because she is now making it look as if I am at fault but as it is I have made up my mind to call it a quit if she can not step down her pride and apologize. I will appreciate you guys opinions on this. I just hope dis childish write up is not real cuz d fuvkedup pass our politicians own. Please stay away from relationship for now. U never reach. 2 Likes |
| Re: I Noticed That My Girlfriend Is Cheating On Me And This Later Happened by folks4luv(f): 11:05pm On Apr 24, 2021 |
I was reading and waiting to see how you caught her cheating but nothing. She didn't pick your call and she is cheating on you? You should not be in a relationship. You should grow up first, have some self confidence 1 Like |
| Re: I Noticed That My Girlfriend Is Cheating On Me And This Later Happened by sodiamond: 11:21pm On Apr 24, 2021 |
Geonigga:
I have sometime in February this year made a post of a lady I met and who refused taking my calls one certain night and which I did a post seeking for advise here.
Let me now go straight to the recent happening in the relationship with this lady whom I met in the church and who also live in the same estate with me in fact her house is not that far from mine though she is living with her aunt.
It happened that on Wednesday being the 21st of April, 2021, when I arrived home from work, it is my usual practice to call her and when I called her that very day, she took her call and told me that she is very hungry and her reason was that she didn't like what they cooked in her house. I have to invite her over to my house and she ate very well and even took a bottle of soft drink before leaving for her house that night which I also gave her a naira note in case she wants to buy anything the following day.
The following day being the 22nd of April, as usual when I came back from work around 6:30pm, I put two calls across to her which were made in different intervals, but lol and behold this lady I thought she was my girl friend didn't pick up the calls, I remained calmed and went to bed that night.
However, during the course of the night, around 11:30pm that night my phone rang and I took the phone to know who was calling, it was this my so called girl friend that was calling, I had to ignore the call.
The following day very early in the morning she called again but I was preparing for work and I didn't want anything that will ignite sad mood on me, I have to ignored her calls even when I was at the office.
Later in the evening when I was about leaving the office she called again and I picked up the call with a mild attention, she then asked why I refused taking her calls since, I replied her by saying that she started it, this lady has to immediately end the call and up until now she has refused to take my calls or call back.
Please I really want to know who is at fault here because she is now making it look as if I am at fault but as it is I have made up my mind to call it a quit if she can not step down her pride and apologize. I will appreciate you guys opinions on this.  I'm laughing at your immaturity |
| Re: I Noticed That My Girlfriend Is Cheating On Me And This Later Happened by Damisam93(m): 11:21pm On Apr 24, 2021 |
EmeraldHash:
Go to romance section. Search for reality every guy should know. Start from page 1. You will thank you destiny for doing so Please can you provide the link |
| Re: I Noticed That My Girlfriend Is Cheating On Me And This Later Happened by Lilphat: 12:08am On Apr 25, 2021 |
Responsibilities of men are numerous |
| Re: I Noticed That My Girlfriend Is Cheating On Me And This Later Happened by Olumiday15: 12:40am On Apr 25, 2021 |
soundOsonic:
You are an insecure child.
Someone didn't pick your call, you didn't think that the person might be busy, and she even called you back and yet you decided to do thesame.
She is more matured than you, when you refused to pick her call atleast she asked you why.
I know she won't believe how foolish she is dating an immature child. bros Dey calm down ...u no sabi as babes Dey do .....I get the one wey go Dey online for WhatsApp and I go call am like 3 times e no go pick ....na to move on no time |
| Re: I Noticed That My Girlfriend Is Cheating On Me And This Later Happened by Amb1045(m): 12:47am On Apr 25, 2021 |
let the girl go, na very immature girl. I have been in your shoe before. unless you just want to have sex with, serious relationship let her gi |
| Re: I Noticed That My Girlfriend Is Cheating On Me And This Later Happened by richeeyo(m): 1:56am On Apr 25, 2021 |
1beat:
you're not ripe for relationship.
you lack knowledge of handling marital issue.
because you have feed her for a night she must not do mistake. you need to learn how to over look something. Respect bro |
| Re: I Noticed That My Girlfriend Is Cheating On Me And This Later Happened by Came4amod: 4:29am On Apr 25, 2021 |
Sorry to say .. these girls don’t need any reason to cheat these days .. they believe is being matured to go Bleep a rich guy and bring cash for the now not too rich guy .. all girls are olosho 1 Like |
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| Re: I Noticed That My Girlfriend Is Cheating On Me And This Later Happened by DUNKA(m): 5:14am On Apr 25, 2021 |
Geonigga:
I have sometime in February this year made a post of a lady I met and who refused taking my calls one certain night and which I did a post seeking for advise here.
Let me now go straight to the recent happening in the relationship with this lady whom I met in the church and who also live in the same estate with me in fact her house is not that far from mine though she is living with her aunt.
It happened that on Wednesday being the 21st of April, 2021, when I arrived home from work, it is my usual practice to call her and when I called her that very day, she took her call and told me that she is very hungry and her reason was that she didn't like what they cooked in her house. I have to invite her over to my house and she ate very well and even took a bottle of soft drink before leaving for her house that night which I also gave her a naira note in case she wants to buy anything the following day.
The following day being the 22nd of April, as usual when I came back from work around 6:30pm, I put two calls across to her which were made in different intervals, but lol and behold this lady I thought she was my girl friend didn't pick up the calls, I remained calmed and went to bed that night.
However, during the course of the night, around 11:30pm that night my phone rang and I took the phone to know who was calling, it was this my so called girl friend that was calling, I had to ignore the call.
The following day very early in the morning she called again but I was preparing for work and I didn't want anything that will ignite sad mood on me, I have to ignored her calls even when I was at the office.
Later in the evening when I was about leaving the office she called again and I picked up the call with a mild attention, she then asked why I refused taking her calls since, I replied her by saying that she started it, this lady has to immediately end the call and up until now she has refused to take my calls or call back.
Please I really want to know who is at fault here because she is now making it look as if I am at fault but as it is I have made up my mind to call it a quit if she can not step down her pride and apologize. I will appreciate you guys opinions on this. How old are you? |
| Re: I Noticed That My Girlfriend Is Cheating On Me And This Later Happened by etoete77: 6:23am On Apr 25, 2021 |
Brother listen to yourself, the girl love and put her heart in you more than you do,. You are at fault. You call a lady twice and she didn't pick up the the call, you didn't call back from 6.30 pm till she later call by 11.30 pm and you refused to pick, she call in the morning, you refused to pick, she call at work, you refused to pick, you are wrong. She hung the call at you because you don't value her, you are proud with useless ego, you think she value the food you value, she values you but you didn't see it. She just realized how less value you placed on her. 1 Like |
| Re: I Noticed That My Girlfriend Is Cheating On Me And This Later Happened by Tundex911: 7:40am On Apr 25, 2021 |
Small pikin dem worry both of una...
Ogbeni Goenigga comot for here jare
Smh |
| Re: I Noticed That My Girlfriend Is Cheating On Me And This Later Happened by steam74: 7:50am On Apr 25, 2021 |
This is so childish man. |
| Re: I Noticed That My Girlfriend Is Cheating On Me And This Later Happened by TommyGs(m): 7:50am On Apr 25, 2021 |
AngelicDamsel:
Very correct thinking my dear.
If you react to an offense by repeating what the offender did, then you are at much fault as the offender.
Do me I do you. Man no go vex.
You are at fault. Apologize for your hasty conclusions founded on the foundation of assumptions.
Assumption kills relationship faster than anyone can describe.
My advice:
Be the man, lead every situation, be the bigger one, show strength, conquer her shortcomings with your manly wisdom; what is the wisdom? Boldness and courage to fix the issue and not the blame. This is the evidence of maturity. Addressing the issue and taking responsibility.
Never play a blame game with a person you love.
You get. 
If she doesn't take it as an issue, then you two need to discuss. When there communication, you will discover more than what words can express. Communication is key. |
| Re: I Noticed That My Girlfriend Is Cheating On Me And This Later Happened by Papadoh(m): 8:46am On Apr 25, 2021 |
I'm taking the female's side on this one. This dude is immature. |
| Re: I Noticed That My Girlfriend Is Cheating On Me And This Later Happened by Psoul(m): 9:08am On Apr 25, 2021 |
Geonigga:
I have sometime in February this year made a post of a lady I met and who refused taking my calls one certain night and which I did a post seeking for advise here.
Let me now go straight to the recent happening in the relationship with this lady whom I met in the church and who also live in the same estate with me in fact her house is not that far from mine though she is living with her aunt.
It happened that on Wednesday being the 21st of April, 2021, when I arrived home from work, it is my usual practice to call her and when I called her that very day, she took her call and told me that she is very hungry and her reason was that she didn't like what they cooked in her house. I have to invite her over to my house and she ate very well and even took a bottle of soft drink before leaving for her house that night which I also gave her a naira note in case she wants to buy anything the following day.
The following day being the 22nd of April, as usual when I came back from work around 6:30pm, I put two calls across to her which were made in different intervals, but lol and behold this lady I thought she was my girl friend didn't pick up the calls, I remained calmed and went to bed that night.
However, during the course of the night, around 11:30pm that night my phone rang and I took the phone to know who was calling, it was this my so called girl friend that was calling, I had to ignore the call.
The following day very early in the morning she called again but I was preparing for work and I didn't want anything that will ignite sad mood on me, I have to ignored her calls even when I was at the office.
Later in the evening when I was about leaving the office she called again and I picked up the call with a mild attention, she then asked why I refused taking her calls since, I replied her by saying that she started it, this lady has to immediately end the call and up until now she has refused to take my calls or call back.
Please I really want to know who is at fault here because she is now making it look as if I am at fault but as it is I have made up my mind to call it a quit if she can not step down her pride and apologize. I will appreciate you guys opinions on this. Bro, how old are u again? You are childish and suffering from insecurity. Let me make it very clear to you. That you have a girlfriend and even if u are the one that gives her breathe in her lungs does not mean she must answer ur calls every moment u call her even if she has her phone in her palm. There are reasons why ppl may not answer their calls. Just the same way u enumerated few reasons u refused to pick up urs, including not wanting to spoil your morning cos u were preparing to go to work. So what made u think another person should not have reasons for not picking urs. Guy be very careful oo. This childishness is not expected to come from guys. The babe later gave u several calls which u refused to pick and when u picked u still went ahead to exhibit that fo0lish attitude of telling her that she started it. That girl is very matured by ending the call. When u are ready to talk, call her or look for her. That was just the message she passed to you. |
| Re: I Noticed That My Girlfriend Is Cheating On Me And This Later Happened by wallchat: 10:11am On Apr 25, 2021 |
Jessepaid:
hehehe...
first mistake...
you explained to her that she started it...
second mistake...
after calling her twice, you kept on calling...
forget the girl...
guys like you u gives me joy on nairaland. |
| Re: I Noticed That My Girlfriend Is Cheating On Me And This Later Happened by ObaOhiminni: 12:22pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
Mr. I respectfully want to ask where the said lady cheated... Thank u as I patiently await ur answer. |
| Re: I Noticed That My Girlfriend Is Cheating On Me And This Later Happened by chelseamann(m): 1:00pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
To slap you just de hungry me 1 Like |
| Re: I Noticed That My Girlfriend Is Cheating On Me And This Later Happened by Bola146(f): 1:23pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
doggedfighter:
Can you use paragraphs next time, please.
I am finding this hard to read.
Please can you point out where she cheated in this your childish story.
Or you are just trying to create a usual women bashing thread?
Where do women meet these children that call themselves boys?
SS 2 and SS 3 boys should stop creating threads here. God bless you! Increase the volume if they will hear 1 Like |
| Re: I Noticed That My Girlfriend Is Cheating On Me And This Later Happened by Anfield247(m): 1:37pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
Bola146:
God bless you! Increase the volume if they will hear
Hahahahahaha bola146, wisdom, will not kill you ! |
| Re: I Noticed That My Girlfriend Is Cheating On Me And This Later Happened by Ehisod(m): 2:25pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
Geonigga:
I have sometime in February this year made a post of a lady I met and who refused taking my calls one certain night and which I did a post seeking for advise here.
Guy, you are not mature enough to be dating yet. |
| Re: I Noticed That My Girlfriend Is Cheating On Me And This Later Happened by Samade7: 2:45pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
Instead of u to pick her call dat night n asked d reason why she didn't pick ur call......u concluded dat she's cheating on u.
For ur info, any man monitoring a lady is a complete dead person cos no one can monitor their movement. |
| Re: I Noticed That My Girlfriend Is Cheating On Me And This Later Happened by tioyoung(m): 2:52pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
soundOsonic:
You are an insecure child.
Someone didn't pick your call, you didn't think that the person might be busy, and she even called you back and yet you decided to do thesame.
She is more matured than you, when you refused to pick her call atleast she asked you why.
I know she won't believe how foolish she is dating an immature child. U are stupid for saying that The grl in question is cheating, she finished having fun with her supposed boyfriend after she don enjoy her self na e she decide to call d guy |
| Re: I Noticed That My Girlfriend Is Cheating On Me And This Later Happened by soundOsonic: 4:07pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
tioyoung:
U are stupid for saying that
The grl in question is cheating, she finished having fun with her supposed boyfriend after she don enjoy her self na e she decide to call d guy Why are you pained on top this small matter. Go and find work to do jobless man. |
| Re: I Noticed That My Girlfriend Is Cheating On Me And This Later Happened by EmeraldHash(m): 10:42pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
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| Re: I Noticed That My Girlfriend Is Cheating On Me And This Later Happened by Damisam93(m): 11:06pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
1 Like |
| Re: I Noticed That My Girlfriend Is Cheating On Me And This Later Happened by GabdelandAgro(m): 6:57pm On Apr 26, 2021 |
VTJN:
As in eh
I wonder how he got that his office job
He sound so weird, more like a secondary school boy!
I pity that girl maybe he got the job after using Lord Chosen Sticker on his CV Lollllllll |
| Re: I Noticed That My Girlfriend Is Cheating On Me And This Later Happened by VTJN(m): 7:21pm On Apr 26, 2021 |
tioyoung:
U are stupid for saying that
The grl in question is cheating, she finished having fun with her supposed boyfriend after she don enjoy her self na e she decide to call d guy you be nuisance i swear! I do mistake quote you sef |
