There is this common feud between some mother-in-laws and wives that is still a mystery which gave rise to this question.

Ladies, if your mother-in-law is still alive, how would you feel if your husband hangs pictures of her on the wall? I can understand if she is dead but alive, would you welcome it ?


Cc: lalasticlala

Any lady I intend to spend the rest of my life with should have it at the back of her mind that my mother is my second God and I will splash her portrait anywhere in the house.

Though my mom is not the type that would encourage me to take the love I have for her to the extreme.



Lemme hear from the ladies here sha.

xynerise:
There is this common feud between some mother-in-laws and wives that is still a mystery which gave rise to this question.

Ladies, if your mother-in-law is still alive, how would you feel if your husband hangs pictures of her on the wall? I can understand if she is dead but alive, would you welcome it ?


Cc: lalasticlala

Why would the MIL's picture be framed on the wall?

I thought picture frames showcased the husband wife(s) and children?

bukatyne:


Why would the MIL's picture be framed on the wall?

I thought picture frames showcased the husband wife(s) and children?

This is for the Mama's boys who refuse to leave and cleave. His Mummy dictates everything even to what his wife just wear.

I don't mind one bit. Funny enough she was the one who snapped, enlarged and framed a picture of hers which she sent to us and it's hanging in our sitting room next to my FIL's.

I Wouldn't feel bad if he hangs pictures of his mum on the wall. I would gladly bring out pictures of my own mum and dad and also hang on the walls. With that, our kids can easily identity their grandparents.

What's there? Will that stop him from looking at my own face? You guys worry over little things a lot.

Iet him go ahead and hang it. I don't mind. If he likes, let him make her statue and use it to decorate the sitting room, I don't care.

Las Las, na me still dey there in person dey enjoy my man.

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Evil DIL..

So man pikin nor fit hang him mama picture for him own house again

What a troublesome question...

If you are in the mood and just want to start a quarrel with your wife for the fun of it, then go ahead and broach this subject to her.

You will get either of these two reactions:
1. She will become upset, and she will express it immediately.
2. She will become upset, but she will pretend she is fine with it... until a latter date. Lol

ALL women will fall into one of the two categories above, NONE is exempt... but be more careful around those women who fall into the second category.

crackhaus:
What a troublesome question...

If you are in the mood and just want to start a quarrel with your wife for the fun of it, then go ahead and broach this subject to her.

You will get either of these two reactions:
1. She will become upset, and she will express it immediately.
2. She will become upset, but she will pretend she is fine with it... until a latter date. Lol

ALL women will fall into one of the two categories above, NONE is exempt... but be more careful around those women who fall into the second category.

But why do they react that way?

DH would love to hang a framed picture of my MIL? Why, I'm cool with that He can hang it wherever he likes, I'll be extra careful around it thrice on Saturdays, twice on Sundays.. I'll guard it with my life, baby

LMAO.

I hope the man will also feel comfortable having his mother-in-law pictures hanging on the wall, so that the children will easily recognize both of their grandmothers, since their pictures hanging in their own husbands' house is not enough!

Lest I forget, the pictures must also be hung in the couples' bedroom.

AsherAmari:
What's there? Will that stop him from looking at my own face? You guys worry over little things a lot.

Iet him go ahead and hang it. I don't mind. If he likes, let him make her statue and use it to decorate the sitting room, I don't care.

Las Las, na me still dey there in person dey enjoy my man.

Imagine, of all the problems in Nigeria, it’s MIL picture is giving some people headache

lilyheaven:

Imagine, of all the problems in Nigeria, it’s MIL picture is giving some people headache

Very petty.

If he wants his mothers picture on the wall then she should also put her mothers picture on the wall.

Simple.


I believe its parents that have thier kids pics on the wall and not the other way around.

I honestly and sincerely love the response of ladies above, I like that no one indulge the guys here and Op for trying to start unnecessary banter between females, even the one trying desperately hard to portray his comment as 100% fact when it is just just a figment of his imagination and limited thought process, every single thing that happens in a family shouldn't result to issues or disagreements,

If the husband likes he should display a picture of his mum breastfeeding him in front of their home so that visitors and passersby can see it, that's his cup of shayi

Once again ladies, love y'all

What's the essence and relevance of this question?

We are talking about your parents' picture; so what exactly do you think the problem will be for a wife if her MIL’s picture is hanging on the wall?

It’s more or less saying that you as a married man hangs your mothers' picture on the wall and your wife has a problem with it; tell me, how would you feel? Why not let’s start from there since you think that hanging a parents' picture on the wall should become a problem for a wife.

There are more important things to worry about than this unnecessary question. Enough said

Romanoff:


This is for the Mama's boys who refuse to leave and cleave. His Mummy dictates everything even to what his wife just wear.

The question is just strange to me.

I have never seen a home where the parents' pictures are hung except if the couple is living in the man's parents' house.

What I know is that their family album contains the family members of both couples.

xynerise:


But why do they react that way?

Funny... that's like asking, Why do humans breathe air?

Chief Antelope and his troublesome question

When my house is not an art gallery..oh please.

Hmmm

Sijo01:
Chief Antelope and his troublesome question

The first time I heard women had issues with a man hanging his mum picture on the wall was on a Chris rock show.

He said “The only man that owns something is a single man. When you get married you own nothing, Absolutely nothing. Men if you think you own your house, hang your mama’s picture on the wall. It will disappear so fast, the next time you see it will be on your mums funeral. Your wife wife will be like babe see what I found cleaning out the room. You can use it for the obituary”

Except your MIL looks scary and is capable of inducing nightmares in kids, I see no reason why anyone should get mad about a picture.

missimelda01:
When my house is not an art gallery..oh please.

The house you built or what?
if it's mine, there's nothing my wife's gonna do, no be mouth.

Yes!!!

theForth:

The house you built or what?
if it's mine, there's nothing my wife's gonna do, no be mouth.

Maybe only you should live in the house..it’s not by force to get married because when I’m married the house becomes ours.

PlayMaker14:
Any lady I intend to spend the rest of my life with should have it at the back of her mind that my mother is my second God and I will splash her portrait anywhere in the house.

Though my mom is not the type that would encourage me to take the love I have for her to the extreme.




Lemme hear from the ladies here sha.

Just wondering your kind of dream house

IamGreen1:



Just wondering your kind of dream house

It will be beautiful and peaceful...


Kindly channel this your "wondering" act to your business or family dear, it will be useful there trust me.

I don’t count this as something that matters at all.
Family pictures are welcome.

I only have issues with disrespect.

Little things like these are inconsequential. People focus on the wrong things all the time. Women who have problems with little things like this often miss when bigger issues that can actually affect them and their future come up. Because they are focused on pictures, who seats in the front seat, who dished food from their pot, petty things etc, they miss important things.

cococandy:
I don’t count this as something that matters at all.
Family pictures are welcome.

I only have issues with disrespect.

Little things like these are inconsequential. People focus on the wrong things all the time. Women who have problems with little things like this often miss when bigger issues that can actually affect them and their future come up. Because they are focused on pictures, who seats in the front seat, who dished food from their pot, petty things etc, they miss important things.

I love this your post Nne, iji ya.