luminouz:


What are you saying? What's the essence of dating someone I can't ask.direct questions from? So I shouldn't ask about her past and make guesswork based on the girls in her area and then magically conclude and marry her? . That's is some weird redpill stuff,if you ask me. So if na oshodi or ojota area, I would conclude she is loose but if na Ajah or Maitama, I would say she is ermm less razz? What of Ado-Ekiti in ekiti or Okumagba in Warri. Isikwuato in Abia nko? Or Ohwhelogbo in Isoko North? Should I use it also for Obagana along Lokoja or Zungeru in Zaria?

Ask of her past. It forms a basis for the present and a foothold for the future. Any statement she makes of her past would be vetted to determine whether you are dating a perpetual liar or not. Other indices from such are her mindset, her personality, her goals and lastly her faults.

I can bet with my left ball that she would never tell you the truth if you ask her about her past

Dabronze:
I can bet with my left ball that she would never tell you the truth if you ask her about her past

Most won't but some will, from my own experience. The few who did told me fate is a mudafucker. Whatever they are hiding now might become revealed later,so why not bare everything now and if I don't like them, they will leave.

The others who didn't, got caught in the end. Somehow, somewhere...

when i was surving fb this evening,i saw one of my school mate post,she posted a pictures of a wedding ceremony of my class mate,this girl was too hypergamous,when we're in junior classes she always form that she can't date her class that we too small for her,she flocks around ss3 student and most of our brothers in the street,after she'd spent her teens and earlier twenties to LovePeddler around and showing us she's bigger and mature than us,with a lot of body count,she now settle for less,thou i didn't know the guy(fiance) financial statures but with his pictures that i saw,he doesn't match any of us that this girls said she can't date,in terms of handsome,in their pictures the guy hold him tight with a smile on his face,to him now he's won a trophy,maybe he think he doesn't deserve a beautiful girl like her,that the girl is doing him a favour by accepting to marry him

Brayss:
when i was surving fb this evening,i saw one of my school mate post,she posted a pictures of a wedding ceremony of my class mate,this girl was too hypergamous,when we're in junior classes she always form that she can't date her class that we too small for her,she flocks around ss3 student and most of our brothers in the street,after she'd spent her teens and earlier twenties to LovePeddler around and showing us she's bigger and mature than us,with a lot of body count,she now settle for less,thou i didn't know the guy(fiance) financial statures but with his pictures that i saw,he doesn't match any of us that this girls said she can't date,in terms of handsome,in their pictures the guy hold him tight with a smile on his face,to him now he's won a trophy,maybe he think he doesn't deserve a beautiful girl like her,that the girl is doing him a favour by accepting to marry him

That's the way of the world honestly.

She got a provider and he got ermmm, his trophy wife

luminouz:

Most won't but some will, from my own experience. The few who did told me fate is a mudafucker. Whatever they are hiding now might become revealed later,so why not bare everything now and if I don't like them, they will leave.

The others who didn't, got caught in the end. Somehow, somewhere...

ok' just to avoid the story that touch the heart, the vetting is very important @ early stage of relationship that all i have to say.

geedot:
Just a quick one, after leaving women to focus on your goals. After achieving those goals, what next?
Majority still want to go pick a woman after they've attained their goals.

Winner: Women!

Why do most men think they need women to feel complete? Even after knowing how rebellious, devilish they can be.
This is very synonymous to keeping a lion as pet, it's just a matter time before you get devoured by your "lovely little pet".

I think men being redpilled is just like fighting against their nature; majority will lose.
I'm sorry, I can't and don't want to be like the average man. MGTOW!!!

MGTOW in Nigeria

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flogthem:

when we talk patriachy,don't bring Islam into it abeg.
We all know women in Islam are no more than slaves
its obvious you are power obsessed.
people who behave this way most times are dealing with insecurities and are try to overcompensate for it by being tyrants!

nobody wants to be under a tyrant,not even animals

This is where some of you get it wrong.

The guy you responded to, totally understands the dynamics of patriarchy.

That liberal ideology is why women get away with murder.

You think Arab women are not happy?

Nigeria is so matriarchal that some of you can't see you're cucks even when you identify with the redpill.

Do these and you won't regret.

Vetted woman or Unicorn contradicts AWALT.
but okay
No arguments

SOZINN:
Vetted woman or Unicorn contradicts AWALT.
but okay
No arguments

Vetting doesn't mean she is NAWALT. For me, at least it's better than going in blind and letting love lead or some other BS. Basically, it's you screening a woman who you want to bear your kids and pass on your legacy. Not every woman will pass this screening but it doesn't mean she is a unicorn. Basically,this is for Patriarchy,not baby mama niggas or lone wolves of MGTOW.

Niggas go broke trying to prove that they are not broke to a broke bïtch. At the end of the day she's yours but the "y" is silent.

SOZINN:
Vetted woman or Unicorn contradicts AWALT.
but okay
No arguments

SOZINN, you do mix things up quite a bit and I understand that it's not done with a malicious intent. Your red pill awareness is undoubtable.

AWALT is an indisputable fact of the red pill, no doubt. However, like I always say, it stops no man from marrying if they want to, but AWALT makes them understand what they are getting into. How they end up, is of no relevance to you, personally, EXCEPT learning from their experiences whether negative or positive. There are pros and cons to whatever every step everyman choose to take after swallowing the red pill. It depends on what every man what for himself.

That doesn't stop you from expressing your red pill "bias". If it's done within sane, mature and respectful language, even those who don't fancy your ideas will still agree with you.

For me, any form of legal engagement with a woman (backed by government) makes absolutely no sense to me, but if a brother who has swallowed the red pill, decides to go to Ikoyi marriage registry to legally pair with his woman of interest (knowing the risks) who am I to stop or discourage him?

Choose your "POISON" carefully!

geedot:
Just a quick one, after leaving women to focus on your goals. After achieving those goals, what next?
Majority still want to go pick a woman after they've attained their goals.

Winner: Women!

Why do most men think they need women to feel complete? Even after knowing how rebellious, devilish they can be.
This is very synonymous to keeping a lion as pet, it's just a matter time before you get devoured by your "lovely little pet".

I think men being redpilled is just like fighting against their nature; majority will lose.
I'm sorry, I can't and don't want to be like the average man. MGTOW!!!

SOZINN:
Niggas go broke trying to prove that they are not broke to a broke bïtch. At the end of the day she's yours but the "y" is silent.

Damn! What a punchline.

Submissiveness of a woman is not negotiable neither can you use money to buy it is your powerful masculinity that you display that spark the sexual tension in her, you inner game, your killer instinct ,let the fellin of your presence will be her arousal ,always control your emotion ,be confident,be dominant,be self-reliance ,be assertive,be sellfish,be unpridictable, be mysterious ,put yourself first and never give a Bleep about her, make her replacable by havin the aboundance mentality.
#redpillpartriach

neyohh:


This is where some of you get it wrong.

The guy you responded to, totally understands the dynamics of patriarchy.

That liberal ideology is why women get away with murder.

You think Arab women are not happy?

Nigeria is so matriarchal that some of you can't see you're cucks even when you identify with the redpill.

Word!!!!

Western liberalized feminized men are useless simps that is why they fear Islam. They are scared of masculinity and some of them will be claiming redpillers SMH!

Islam is far the best religion for both men and women

Most Nigerian men don't understand Wat they have until they loose it. Nigeria is patriarchal but some idiats just want it to be gynocentric by force

DEMZEE:


Hypergamy

Yes thanks,

DAY 117, 2021

"She said she really loves me" has been the method used by females to shovel men's stupidity deeper.

Be wise and make proper alignment.

Authority: Maintain frame.

To improve yourself as a man

In confidence and ways to address certain life issues perfectly

Watch peaky blinder
Those characters are great
Like Thomas
Oswald
And one other guy that came for revenge at some point..

Its just a movie but it says alot

SOZINN:
Him: how many men have you slept with
Satan: You know it's 54 but tell him 10
Her: I'm a virgin

Lol. Even shaytan de fear women

SOZINN:
Him: how many men have you slept with
Satan: You know it's 54 but tell him 10
Her: I'm a virgin

had to screenshot..
This will make a nice meme

Miracood2:
had to screenshot.. This will make a nice meme

post it here if u still create d meme

TheUndercover:
“A man will teach his wife what is needed to arouse his desires. And there is no reason for a woman to know any more than what her husband is prepared to teach her. If she gets married knowing far too much about what she wants and doesn’t want then she will be ready to find fault with her husband.” - Barbara Cartland.

Skepticus, Martinez39s, CaveAdullam, or anyone, please I need more explanation of this quote.

The quote is the foundation on what a healthy traditionally-conservative relationship/marriage is built on.

A man should be firm in leadership when it comes to relationship with his complementary but submissive partner. When the man fails in this, by not providing adequate leadership in the relationship, letting his woman get away with bad behaviours, or letting her indulge in pleasures and freedom over responsibility in the name of being "woke" or "liberal", he sets himself up for disrespect and even, marital failure.

A woman who can't be submissive to the sensible leadership that a man brings, radiating masculine vibes (lacks feminity) or being exposed to post-modernist liberal and feministic ideas (which is "knowing far too much " ) is "chaotic" and most likely, be a disaster in permanent relationship with a man who seeks a complementary, submissive partner.

Disagree!

geedot:
Just a quick one, after leaving women to focus on your goals. After achieving those goals, what next?
Majority still want to go pick a woman after they've attained their goals.

What next? Enjoy the fruits of your labour and use whatever you've gained to uplift men and others. Beautify the society in the best possible ways according to your ability and in your frame without going pass the limits of your boundary.

With a fait accompli ambition and mission, you can have fun with whatever show you love---women, travelling etc. Engaging with women is not a sin or a guilt worthy of (no) redemption. Men and women evolved together, the earlier this is understood, the better. Women are going no where!

Testosterones wants women, elevation, dominance, and leadership. Even if 99% of men skew MGTOW, and decide to shun women, women will still mate with the available 1% of men remaining and reproduce and spread their genes, especially if the man have what they want. Men want to spread their seeds and there's nothing anyone can do about it. Biology always triumphs over any social construct.

In the manosphere, whichever path you decide to take, you will have angels to comfort you and demons that will haunt you. Every path has intrinsic pros and cons. Understand: except you decide to live the life of a minimalist, all the goals you've accomplished, the things you've toiled and worked hard for will be inherited by someone once you die. Now the question: how many MGTOW will opt for a minimalist life: few trousers and sleeves; no house; no car, no long term business? Do you now see where patriarchs are willing to take the risk so that at least their empire can be ruled by their pedigree after their demise from the earth.

Except you choose to live a life of a minimalist, there's no need achieving your goals and hammering nails to every desired ambitions of yours; just live as you like and ensure you live little or nothing behind before you die.

geedot:
Winner: Women!

Power is the ability to live your life according to your terms and conditions. Power makes you answerable to none and gives you many advantages in hopping from one pole to another without being trounced. A good example are politicians.

Women can't be winner when you are in your frame and occupying power. No matter how long an invited guest stay in your house, you still have power over him. Goals accomplished means you're satisfied and from the superfluous of that satisfaction others benefit, women included. Women are not winners because you're the source of their gaity. Women are not winners because they're existing in your frame and in your frame, you can decide to do whatever pleases you, however, for order and not chaos.

geedot:
Why do most men think they need women to feel complete? Even after knowing how rebellious, devilish they can be.
This is very synonymous to keeping a lion as pet, it's just a matter time before you get devoured by your "lovely little pet".

A very plausible statement.

If women are rebellious and devillish because of their inherent nature, what will you then say of the millions of people men has killed as a result of totalitarianism, communism, status elevation? Hypergamy, solipsism are evolutionary strategies, however, they must be curtailed, hence, the reason for different walls raised around women to parry every air and food their internal ferocious beast requires for living.

If you continually ring such bell, it indicates that: you're still in your anger stage or you're unable to game women or you don't understand the female nature thereby making you unable to flow with women without getting hurt.

Every pets that feeds on flesh harms; dogs even bite their owners sometimes. Whether you tame a lion or not, it harms. Tame women or not, their ferocious(hypergamous) nature is there just like the devouring nature of a lion. Give them a leeway and high tolerance to do what they like---onlyfans and instagram and live promiscuity you will get. And they will also destroy themselves and civilization synchronously. An untamed (woman) lion will devour whatever comes its way. In the West and some other nations, they've taken their ferocious nature to the family law and has seriously vitiated the government, hence the high rate of divorce, single motherhood, abandoned children and gynocentrism.

Family codes and conducts, religious laws, strong patriarchy are the tools used in putting this ferocious beast on leash. Taming the beast is not giving them comfort per say, you love them as pet and because they're dangerous pets what do you do? Remove their teeth. Simple. Tamed women/high value women are the ones that has been able to curb their ferocious nature, inculcated positive masculine traits and blending it with positive feminine trait.

If you want to enjoy a woman you must become her father and shaped her into what you want. If you possess her with your vestiges, it will be difficult for her to abandon you(the reason why many married women still play hid and seek with their exes). Yes, hypergamy is still in vogue, hence---abundance mindset, plate spinning, redpill awareness. This's the price men pay for indulging with women: the case of the clay and the potter

A toothless dog cannot harm but only bark.

geedot:
I think men being redpilled is just like fighting against their nature; majority will lose.
I'm sorry, I can't and don't want to be like the average man. MGTOW!!!

Plausible!

Men being redpilled aware is not fighting against their nature, but the bluepilled lies they've made to believe and lived with for aeons. Redpill is the saviour that has come to help men and teach them how the world really operates. Note: redpill is beyond the intersexual dynamics. It reveals the truth in every sectors of the economy.

On losing: like I said earlier, all paths have their pros and cons. MGTOW is not an exception! In as much you're a man, you must lose! Rationalizing this will never change this fact. Take heart and make peace with it. However, you can be able to strategize your life in ways were your loses aren't higher than your gains causing you serious harm at the end.

Choose the lesser evil or the evil you know you can bear.

Thanks.

Skepticus:


The quote is the foundation on what a healthy traditionally-conservative relationship/marriage is built on.

A man should be firm in leadership when it comes to relationship with his complementary but submissive partner. When the man fails in this, by not providing adequate leadership in the relationship, letting his woman get away with bad behaviours, or letting her indulge in pleasures and freedom over responsibility in the name of being "woke" or "liberal", he sets himself up for disrespect and even, marital failure.

A woman who can't be submissive to the sensible leadership that a man brings, radiating masculine vibes (lacks feminity) or being exposed to post-modernist liberal and feministic ideas (which is "knowing far too much " ) is "chaotic" and most likely, be a disaster in permanent relationship with a man who seeks a complementary, submissive partner.

Thank you so much Boss! with this explanation, we can say the "far too much" in the statement can also mean a woman who's experienced in a negative way, not a virgin and the likes, right?

TheUndercover:

Thank you so much Boss! with this explanation, we can say the "far too much" in the statement can also mean a woman who's experienced in a negative way, not a virgin and the likes, right?

Yeah. Sure.

The author of the quote is known to share traditionally conservative views concerning marriage.

CaveAdullam:

Disagree!


What next? Enjoy the fruits of your labour and use whatever you've gained to uplift men and others. Beautify the society in the best possible ways according to your ability and in your frame without going pass the limits of your boundary.

With a fait accompli ambition and mission, you can have fun with whatever show you love---women, travelling etc.

How you jumped to conclusions about my personality based on that little post of mine is still baffling to me.

I'm not in anger phase, because I don't even know what that is. I still have contact of my rich exes and we still meet once in a while. And I'm well aware of the disadvantages of not getting married.

I'm this type of person that gets fed up of people easily, so why on earth should I get married and be stuck with one person for the rest of my life?
The more money a man has, the more reason he believes he needs more women, while the more money a woman has, the less reason for her to associate with men.

I think like the average woman, I enter relationships based on what I stand to gain from it and not for 'love' or anything. My Facebook has less than 150 friends on it, my WhatsApp has less than 70contacts. If you are not beneficial to me, I have no reason to keep you around[both male and female].


You see redpilled men say, once your wife shit tests you or cheats on you, send her packing. Some of them think marriage is like relationship where you can just send your partner packing, kids are involved now with families of both parties too.

Let's assume you successfully send her packing, what next again? Remarry? And your new wife does the same[which will definitely happen], will you send her packing too to get married to another since women is an integral part of the average man.

I'm not trying to force my opinion on anyone, but knowing this is fire, and it will burn you no matter how you try to manoeuvre your way around it.
Not touching the fire at all to avoid being burnt, or wearing gloves to avoid the effect of the pain that comes with touching it. Which of these two sounds like what a wise man should do?

NB: My own version of MGHOW is not getting married officially and not monk mode or whatever.

geedot:
How you jumped to conclusions about my personality based on that little post of mine is still baffling to me.

I'm not in anger phase, because I don't even know what that is. I still have contact of my rich exes and we still meet once in a while. And I'm well aware of the disadvantages of not getting married.

I'm this type of person that gets fed up of people easily, so why on earth should I get married and be stuck with one person for the rest of my life?

No conclusion about your personality was postulated because not only women/sexual relationship can entirely form the personality of a man. Observations were drawn from your comments and observations was concluded within that same comment. @boldened is another clue which can form part of the anger phase heuristics.

geedot:
The more money a man has, the more reason he believes he needs more women, while the more money a woman has, the less reason for her to associate with men.

True!

geedot:
I think like the average woman, I enter relationships based on what I stand to gain from it and not for 'love' or anything. My Facebook has less than 150 friends on it, my WhatsApp has less than 70contacts. If you are not beneficial to me, I have no reason to keep you around[both male and female].

Of course, life's a game, all play to win. I can relate with this. Playing women's game thereby giving you leverage over them is another level of the redpill awareness.

geedot:
You see redpilled men say, once your wife shit tests you or cheats on you, send her packing. Some of them think marriage is like relationship where you can just send your partner packing, kids are involved now with families of both parties too.

Let's assume you successfully send her packing, what next again? Remarry? And your new wife does the same[which will definitely happen], will you send her packing too to get married to another since women is an integral part of the average man.

The dilemma of a patriarch. All women can/will cheat if the tools I made mentioned of earlier in curtailing them are blunt or not (well) used.

Like you said before: men think they're incomplete without women and such thought is false. Even though biology is in vogue, men can still attain discipline over their libido. Yeah it's costly dealing with women, only the men that can function well in that trade should engage in it.

geedot:
I'm not trying to force my opinion on anyone, but knowing this is fire, and it will burn you no matter how you try to manoeuvre your way around it.
Not touching the fire at all to avoid being burnt, or wearing gloves to avoid the effect of the pain that comes with touching it. Which of these two sounds like what a wise man should do?

A real wise man will catenate a stream of water to where the fire burns and quench it.

geedot:
NB: My own version of MGHOW is not getting married officially and not monk mode or whatever.

If you can bear the consequences of the path you take, it means you have power over your life and not move by the dictates of anyone around.

Thanks.

--The tougher the men around her, the softer she is. The softer the men around her, the tougher she is. The toughest woman is the fatherless woman, for the fatherless woman seeks a surrogate by whoring herself.

U are dope niggA

-- A woman never wants you to need her, only to want her. The moment your want becomes need – she no longer wants you

Following bro

--All past sacrifice is null and void if your continued association does not provide her with a tangible benefit. To simplify: if you cannot help her now, she does not care if you helped her before.[See Briffault’s Law]

Plenty oil full ur head