There is this girl am dating, really love the girl but she is every guy friend and guys seems to like her once they set eye on her despite they might be other girls around.
I love this girl so much but sometimes turn it to jealousy when i see her with strange guys.
She normally complain of her ex not respecting her in a sense they might go out with her and excuse her and be meeting another girl while am kind of opposite of the ex.
Fast forward, i needed her respect but don't think i got enough. She sometimes tell me she wanna see me in the next few minute, I'll make myself available only to meet a strange guy talking to her, I'll just wait for almost 30minute and i will get up and go but once the guy go, she will call to ask where I am and i will be piss and got angry and not the 1st time it happen.
Funny enough, she piss off and wonder why i get angry despite her been telling me that she will never take her legs to a man house neither the man forcing her too.

AM I OVER REACTING?
What should i do

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Godbless3:
There is this girl am dating, really love the girl but she is every guy friend and guys seems to like her once they set eye on her despite they might be other girls around.
I love this girl so much but sometimes turn it to jealousy when i see her with strange guys.
She normally complain of her ex not respecting her in a sense they might go out with her and excuse her and be meeting another girl while am kind of opposite of the ex.
Fast forward, i needed her respect but don't think i got enough. She sometimes tell me she wanna see me in the next few minute, I'll make myself available only to meet a strange guy talking to her, I'll just wait for almost 30minute and i will get up and go but once the guy go, she will call to ask where I am and i will be piss and got angry and not the 1st time it happen.
Funny enough, she piss off and wonder why i get angry despite her been telling me that she will never take her legs to a man house neither the man forcing her too.

AM I OVER REACTING?
What should i do

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it's too early to complain about irrelevant matter. if you can't take it just quit.




RELATIONSHIP IS NOT CHILD PLAY.

Jeon:
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Ndi ARA!!


To the topic. Communication! Communication!! Communication!!! Tell her the way you feel uncomfortable okay

Jeon:
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it's too early to complain about irrelevant matter. if you can't take it just quit.




RELATIONSHIP IS NOT CHILD PLAY.

I did that for a long time since 2014 untill late last year having getting close to her enough.

That's Pure Laziness.
If you want her to respect or value you, Get busy with your work.

airminem:
Ndi ARA!!


To the topic. Communication! Communication!! Communication!!! Tell her the way you feel uncomfortable okay

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Seakay:
That's Pure Laziness.
If you want her to respect or value you, Get busy with your work.

It always happen when she call me to meet with her and i oblige.
Not as if i para when i see her with, i always wait for 30minutes or more and i will go back to where i was and she will call me back when the guy is gone and thats when i over react.

airminem:
Ndi ARA!!


To the topic. Communication! Communication!! Communication!!! Tell her the way you feel uncomfortable okay

Not mad because she was with a guy, am just piss because i will wait for more than half an hour and she won't even do as if i was there.
Talk to her about it but she always brush it aside and will walk out of me.

Godbless3:


Not mad because she was with a guy, am just piss because i will wait for more than half an hour and she won't even do as if i was there.
Talk to her about it but she always brush it aside and will walk out of me.

She understands you but you need more respect from her.

airminem:


She understands you but you need more respect from her.

I was hoping she could have just walk down to me and tell to wait atleast 30minute that she will be free. Thats what i would have done.
May be i ask for too much that i can't get.

its seems you don't trust her...and a relationship without trust is like a cellphone without service,all you can do is just to play game....Stop being jealous man...

tosik:
its seems you don't trust her...and a relationship without true is like a cellphone without service,all you can do is just to play game....Stop being jealous man...

I trust her to a certain degree. If fact i nearly lost my life for trusting a friend but i do trust that much.

Playing game is just the solution.

I think you should get busy with your work, and stop always wanting to see her.


A partner can become bored out of always wanting to be seen..they may become fly too.


Be activity-inclined.

Love is not an Indian movie.


I also understand you love her.

I also don't like those kinds of too social ladies.


Don't love anyone with your heart without your brains.


You are welcome.

Be like this bros Na kid. Hey, OP how old are you again?

SarutobiEky:
Be like this bros Na kid. Hey, OP how old are you again?

Lol, early 30's but no be kid matter bro.

Godbless3:


Lol, early 30's but no be kid matter bro.

Jeezus Kryst! Bros... You don mature pass like this nau
That babe dey use you catch confirm cruise. She be like girl wey like attention. Baba starve her of am..Na she go come beg you if she no beg you, it means she no send you before. When she come, tell am say you no like wetin she dey do, say you no fit cope, if she go change, no wahala.

Godbless3:


I trust her to a certain degree. If fact i nearly lost my life for trusting a friend but i do trust that much.

Playing game is just the solution.

lol all the best bro

Chai God ! Guy make money, forget about all this assholes , girls don't like where there's no money .

just get busy man...u way too available...

Robertgreene1:
interesting...

Noted

Godbless3:


It always happen when she call me to meet with her and i oblige.
Not as if i para when i see her with, i always wait for 30minutes or more and i will go back to where i was and she will call me back when the guy is gone and thats when i over react.

Next time don't wait.
Let me tell you a secret, If u want any girl to value you, never make yourself too available or predictable.

Seakay:

Next time don't wait.
Let me tell you a secret, If u want any girl to value you, never make yourself too available or predictable.

Ok... Thanks

I'm also experiencing this

though I'm much younger than you are

i don't love her,but I like her

she is not that attractive nor is she my specs,I just admire her because of the way she speaks

she is too social,she got more male friends than females

WinterMinter:
I'm also experiencing this

though I'm much younger than you are

i don't love her,but I like her

she is not that attractive nor is she my specs,I just admire her because of the way she speaks

she is too social,she got more male friends than females

I love her and knew about her social life and all her past.
I dn't really get angry because she is social, it just that she fun of calling me to see her but when am available she might possibly with some1 else and i had to wait more than 30minutes as if am not even there and the funny thing is i will get up and go but when she is alone she will me back as some kind of a messenger.

If dis ur story na TRUE... Forget d Bit*h, nah street h*e just hustle gt money shikena.
Talkin' 4rm Expr'

AfricanGiant91:
If dis ur story na TRUE... Forget d Bit*h, nah street h*e just hustle gt money shikena.
Talkin' 4rm Expr'

Don't have any reason to lie bro.

You really need to work on your self esteem. Only a man with very low esteem will tolerate this rubbish you're tolerating.

Seandisputed:
You really need to work on your self esteem.
Only a man with very low esteem will tolerate this rubbish you're tolerating.

Hmmmm

Godbless3:


It always happen when she call me to meet with her and i oblige.
Not as if i para when i see her with, i always wait for 30minutes or more and i will go back to where i was and she will call me back when the guy is gone and thats when i over react.

Guy you day vex me die. Ah ah

How will someone call you with a sense of urgency and ignore you when you come around. Ogbenni you need knock.

Like someone said up there, communicate. I cleared one lady's doubt during one date, meeting her for the first time she then wanted to see someone, my body language correct her intentions and she made it very brief, still I made her know my position on that. I'm not insecure but if we have a "we time" and you are seeing someone while leaving me in the cold, and I bring it to your attention thrice, I'll gladly walk.

There may be exception's on occasions of urgency or matters of critical importance, but a recurring decimal with her flirtatious nature with guys. Omoh you day try ooo.

Yusufisraelj:



Guy you day vex me die. Ah ah

How will someone call you with a sense of urgency and ignore you when you come around. Ogbenni you need knock.

Like someone said up there, communicate. I cleared one lady's doubt during one date, meeting her for the first time she then wanted to see someone, my body language correct her intentions and she made it very brief, still I made her know my position on that. I'm not insecure but if we have a "we time" and you are seeing someone while leaving me in the cold, and I bring it to your attention thrice, I'll gladly walk.

There may be exception's on occasions of urgency or matters of critical importance, but a recurring decimal with her flirtatious nature with guys. Omoh you day try ooo.

Hmmmm..... no scatter my head with knock o

Godbless3:


Hmmmm..... no scatter my head with knock o

Lols ogbenni, leave that girl alone. Seriously