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TTOPSON:
Where no counsel is, the people fall: but in the multitude of counselors there is safety.
Pro. 11 :14

Love is a beautiful thing they say especially when you are with the right person. There is a general saying that ladies are many for single guys, that statement might be true for guys who don’t give much thought to whosoever they want to settle down with.

For people who considers the fact that it’s lifetime contract, their options might be limited. Sometimes, when you think you’ve known a particular person so well as friends to be able to live with him or her then you discover they are no go area when you start a relationship.

In awe of this reality, that’s what has brought about the question. How do you know you love someone?

I would appreciate mature mind response please.....

BENRAZY:
There is no such thing as love
Alpha male code

Cholls:
my brother have you experienced God's love

Bluezy13:
Cognitively :
Love is a phenomenon, an amorously ambiguous emotional state of mind characterized by ardent, unconditional and unselfish concern for the wellbeing of someone commonly existing between two opposite sex and governed by individualistic Imaginative utopia.

Consequent of the ambiguity of love, any attempt to define, classify or claim to know love will tantamount to erroneous absurdity.

In light of the above, one can only know when one is inlove if and only if one is inlove and when one ceases to be inlove, one will not know what being inlove is.
Being inlove is a function of experience.

Layman's View
When your heartbeats increases suddenly, when you are happy without any particular reason, when you are with someone and at the same time missing the person, when you see someone as faultless, when you wish someone could be happier even when that person is happy, when you are stupid for someone but you do not know you are stupid, when you helplessly think about someone almost every time, when you see some as being more important than yourself, when you feel like dying just seeing the person sad, when you constantly wish for more or to do more to someone even when that person is satisfied and there is really nothing more to do, when you dream of perfection while you are awake, when reality is no longer in your dictionary; then you know you are inlove.