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Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by ericquien: 1:37pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
Righteousness2:My broke married brother, take this advice OK.It Shall be well with u |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by seyz91(m): 1:40pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
i just dey laugh since this post funny me die udoji2021: |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by chelsea04(m): 1:40pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
atimes before u make any move aknowledge God. That woman is bigger than u and she can be married spiritually. Go and ask her parent who truely she is, for her actions changing so sudden and of the truth u are afraid of her that was why i said she is stronger than u spiritually dont go to prayer huz u will make the matter worst go to God in prayer start praying night around 12 to discover who she is but be wise. |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by Caleb17: 1:45pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
You guys are not really helping the young man at all!!!!!!. The most tangible advice I have seen here are from her fellow women ( with F as gender ) who should advice his wife better. All these men shouting endure , pregnant women are wired and all that rabatash. Cannot endure what he is going through now. I can bet my.... On that. Pregnancy changes women mood sometimes but not to the extent of bitting her husband , wounding him and calling him unprinted and unpredictable names. Marriage nah world war 4 ni? I understand a pregnant woman eating wired foods but I don't understand beating and wounding. I understand a pregnant woman wanting to smell her husband's excrete but I don't understand bitting and wounding. I understand a pregnant woman sending her husband out to buy her a particular delicacy and latter changing her choice immediately but gentlemen and ladies I still don't understand bitting, slapping brutally abusing the man. For what nah? I have seen some pregnant women as much as 6 months still selling small small things just to support her husband. I even saw one today at Afo market grabbing palm kernel from a customer who came to sell. Those ones fell from heaven ba? Abi there pregnancy is fake? A friend of mine went to her shop a day before she delivered a bouncing baby girl and she just pour the pikin like the Hebrew women. OP I understand what you are going through now but you have to realise that your marriage is on a very faulty foundation. You couldn't even afford money for bride price oh , and the medical condition you stated and went ahead to marry in this current nice economy of Nigeria. The lady in question was super desperate for marriage , played her game and it worked on you like magic. Having acquired the hallowed status of MRS, and even have baby on top, you can't go away for now. I am in the line and I can tell you the legal implications of running away. If she takes you to court, the is when your problem will begin officially. Pray hard and work even more harder. Don't forget the first advice. May sure you visit a good church every morning and lie down flat in the alter and cry your heart to God. After that immediately proceed to work , visit some NGOs and explain your problem but don't beg them for money, just take their advice. And before I forget , start making plans to pay her bride price. Bride price is more spiritual than you can imagine. Come back here later and give your testimony. Advice to men, make sure you are financially stable to an extent before you marry to avoid coming to Nairaland for advice. Goodluck bro 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by Worlddeba(m): 1:45pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
We all are facing one thing or the other. believe me when i say people have seen worse. Just keep holding your own. God will intervene as long as you working hard. |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by peacettw: 1:46pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
Besides the fact that I think this story is concocted heavily, please leave your wife alone. She is pregnant for Christ's sake. How can a woman in her second trimester follow you to the farm under this terrible weather. Most first pregnancies are associated with pregnancy-induced hypertension, and here you are wanting her to work like she has nothing going on. Just let her be and be sure that you are not hitting her. You are a suspect with all these insensitive trash you have been vomiting here |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by alexsoftwork(m): 1:48pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
Righteousness2: I taught u have a Bible verse for everything. Thank God. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 1:49pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
Nnamebuka: Thank you so much for this. I will mention you with my details on another thread cos I don't want people to start thinking I post this because of money. thanks again |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by ericquien: 1:53pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
udoji2021:My friend shut up..... If U harm that poor pregnant gir,I send u to jail. U knew were neither ready or capable, yet u went ahead to marry Her.U don't love that girl,otherwise, will work hard,get stable financially, before marrying her. |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by hstar: 1:53pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
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Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 1:55pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
peacettw: suspect how sir, if you read through my previous posts, you will understand that she stop going to the farm since even before the pregnancy was 3months. and I never meant she should be following me to the farm but at least she can cook and keep for me cos I'm usually tired when I'm back. I swear to God, I can never beat someone's daughter talkless of the one I didn't even pay a dime on her head. trust me brother, all I want from her is her understanding and above all, she should stop hitting me as if I'm a kid. |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 1:57pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
ericquien: Don't take this personal, how I wish you are someone in or around Benue state so that you can personally confirm what I'm saying. As for not been capable, she knew it before the marriage so I don't understand why the change of behavior now |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by favour32(m): 1:57pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
Most pregnant women change and act crazily. So, bear with her she definitely return to normal. When the baby is born, good things will start to happen in your life. This time,you need good friends around you. With God,you will be okay. ***Nor mind some advice here. Nigeria is toxic! So,most of her citizens are toxic too. Most people are failures and in pains,so dem go tell you wetin go pain you the more to be like them. |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by obryns: 1:59pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
My brother,I want to believe she is still the same woman you married but you know pregnancy is about changes and raging hormones and it works differently for different women,all you need is to understand that she is not totally in control for what she does,if you understand this,it will help you endure this phase,some women become very weak n lazy during pregnancy,some become very irritable and aggressive, different shades for different people kinda thing,so calm down, understand,pray,love and support ur wife at this time,dtz y marriage is for matured people,all d best |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by vanvino(m): 1:59pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
udoji2021:People always blame pregnancy for a woman bad character & stupid attitude, was our mother not pregnant? Many women today are so lazy, what they do is put-a-good-show, get what they want, then back to default settings. People don't change they only get tired of pretending. We always talk about money money money, can't someone begin life with a girl and grow with her? Dangote that has all the money yet he is devorce twice, so what's the excuse? Too much money? My opinion to you bro. You need to develop patience & tolerance, Don't bother advising her, its pointless, she knows she had you. Don't quarrel or respond to any of her nagging. Do and provid what you can. Think of ur work & and the pregnancy. Learn what this moment is teaching you cus it will help ur next move after child birth or you fall for her fake tears when time comes. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by YelloweWest: 2:00pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
udoji2021:My statement has nothing to do with your financial status! Your personality is total wack! You want a pregnant woman to go to farm and do house chores? The whole time she was caring for you, you didn't complain. Now it's time for u to care for her and you are shamelessly wailing.. When you were fùcking her u didn't anticipate the responsibility of pregnancy? I no blame u sharr. I blame her low self-esteem, which made her desperate to settle for less. No hard working woman deserves a weakling of a man!!! |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by Emeraldgreene(f): 2:00pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
SO U WANT TO RUN AWAY? Is this how u will pay that Woman back for her loyalty and love to you? Chai u're very wicked selfish, childish and immature.its all about u and how are feeling. How old are u please? That Woman stood by u and took care of you wen u were sick in hospital until u we're strong enough,had nothing,were poor and broke,she ran away from her family to be with you after her family rejected u. So this is how u want to pay her back,by running away and abandon her and YOUR unborn child? You are Wicked. How many ladies of this generation,how many slay queens will agree to abandon her family and be with a man who is struggling,and be going to farm everyday? How many want to suffer? CONSIDER URSELF LUCKY U HAVE A GOOD WOMAN,HER TYPE IS RARE. Ur immaturity and childish mentality is wat u want to use to kill ur wife. Ur are the problem here not ur wife.At her pregnant stage,you still want her to follow you to farm, can u see how selfish u sound? You want to kill her and the innocent child,u want her to have a miscarriage. Marriage is for mature minds,not because u have fully developed male organs and beards.ur wife is pregnant and going through so much,coupled with no money.Give her a break. If u're smart this is what u will do, from now henceforth,show that Woman love,love ,love.she is shouting, screaming having mood swings ,hold her,hug her,pet her, pamper her. Fill her with lots of love overflowing she can't contain it. Whatever she does, don't complain,don't quarrel,overlook her.continue showing her love,even in her mood swings, continue to encourage her,tell her sweet things,how things will change for better and how u will shower lovely gifts on her. Do the house chores,cook,clean, wash,take care of her,urself and ur home.You are the head of ur home.Then after a some time casually mention it to her that u love her so much and how she acts hurts u terribly.U tell her that please my darling stop being harsh with me. Pray to God for success and work hard,double ur efforts,it's not only farming u can do, their are other jobs u can do,anything legit to get money ,as soon as u get money,go and meet her family and pay her bride Price.You need parental blessings,it's very very important.You cannot build a marriage that we without doing the needful. Lastly,both of you, quickly go for counseling,in church,a therapist or an elder...you should enrol in another church if ur church banned u and don't want you.pray to God to show u which church ge wants a to be. Winners church is a good place,they have a heart of helping those in need anda they support u in this trying time to bounce back.Pray and invite God into ur home and ask him to direct your affairs,ur steps and help you to be the head of your home he created you to be. Marriage is not easy,but u are lucky u have a good woman bby ur side to make life's journey easier. Life is not easy,life is full of problems,there are tougher challenges ahead.what are u gonna do wen they come? You must stand up as a man,fight and conquer ur problems head on. I didn't want to type ,cos I have no strength but I had to reply u wen u said u want to run away. |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by Anfieldboss: 2:03pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
They always change bro |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by mrdino(m): 2:03pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
To be honest with you; you are your own problem, you have an issue with misplaced priorities, first you jumped straight into marriage without making adequate preparations (financially and mentally), secondly, instead of you to be seeking advice on how to break free from poverty, you are here blaming your wife. |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 2:04pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
Caleb17: You summarize everything my brother, some of them don't know what I'm facing but went as far as insulting me. I really appreciate your advice, may God bless you |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by Chasegb(m): 2:09pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
Her actions might be a little harsh, but please understand she’s pregnant...Don’t try to run, rather be patient and try to find other ways to raise money for the family. You will be fine. |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 2:13pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
Emeraldgreene: Thanks for your time and advice. I really appreciate |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by Fvckyouall: 2:14pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
Romanoff: shebi the thing muzz you too. Sha when a lady gets pregnant she begins to think about the future of that kid, that explains the character. they should have planned before entering into marriage |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by Johncuppa(m): 2:19pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
udoji2021:Bro, you have a greater glory ahead but you have just been gunned with a demon possessed girl. Very shortly, she will dominate your life, be controlling you anyhow and drawing your virtue through sexual intercourse. Bashing is allow though, I know many will not believe this. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 2:20pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
Johncuppa: hmmmmm |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 2:22pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
Don't be wicked Make money |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by Chinny024(f): 2:23pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
My dear,provide for her at this critical condition...She needs money, love, care,and happiness.. Endure for her as well..Pregnancy Hormone fluctuations is at its peak..She's facing challenges too...Being pregnant without adequate care no be moi moi.....Puerperal psychosis is real. Avoid it at all cost.. Rally around till she delivers.. Good luck!!! |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 2:24pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
Chinny024: thank you. I'm trying my best. I pray God should bring peace sooner than expected. thanks again |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by preciousele(f): 2:25pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
Maybe, you need to pray then and ask her people for forgivenes... Becareful and dnt think of running. All is going to be well |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by Arsenate(m): 2:25pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
Caleb17:You've just got to hand it to nairaland for housing some of dumbest bunch in the universe. Being violent and abusive is normal because a woman is pregnant not because she is has always been a mean human being looking for a reason to show her true self according to them. Just got pissed reading the comments here especially from men. |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by Nnamebuka: 2:29pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
udoji2021:Kindly drop the number and bank. Don't include your name it'll automatically pick it up. And if you get the alert just comment "seen" |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by ebukaokeke234: 2:30pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
This behavior is common in expecting mother's. Just be patient. With time after delivery, she will surely be the wife that you used to know |
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