| Told Her My Age , She Blocked Me by Nelbless(m): 4:04pm On May 03, 2021 |
Guys am in dilemma....
first am at the 12 o'clock side of 30 and feel its necessary i settle down not just with a random gal....but that fellow who i will definitely fall in love with...
i met Jane (not her real name) in 2004, during the era of yahoo messenger, we became very close distant friends, nothing more, i knew every relationship she entered vice versa (we never met until 2015....which lasted for just 1 hour .....i meant out seeing ourselves...
then we went back to our distant friendship again till date, however having had turbulent affairs, same with her, we decided to take our friendship to the next in 2017........(while on same distance stuff) as at then it was heaven on earth....but gradually my heart began to grow weary of her, then i muted the affair .
well we came back again this year...january as i had measured my recent dates with her and none actually came close, i made a u turn, reignited the affair, but then i thought i would feel the way i had felt before (sadly till date) i feel nothing!!!
somehow i met and fell so deep for someone last month, i mean i began altering my agendas as i felt i had finally met the fellow i had been looking for, it was purely beautiful, we had planned seeing her parents this month, then i remembered she is yoruba, i mean with what i had learnt age is strongly enforced here and a huge deal....having later learnt she just clocked 26 while i will be 37 in two months time, i dim it fit drawing her attention to my age, initially she pleaded with me not to tell her, but then for some reasons i defied her and still did told her, she was shocked....next day till date , she blocked me off!!!
some folks around me do not understand why i do not love the other gal, who works in the judiciary and loves me maybe way more .....the thing is presently am really confused as i do not want to settle with her and still have my eyes out there as i do not love her enough to marry her.......and in all honesty, i really need to get company prior to the ember period.
Do i move on with the lawyer girl and hope i will develop affection when we are together or hold on for the right fellow, again it's been said...that as a man its better to settle with the woman that loves us than the woman we love, i mean i know my home is secure if i marry who loves me but what about me, how i feel, the emotional fulfillment?
advice please....forgive my typos/ grammatical errors as i cant proof read now 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Told Her My Age , She Blocked Me by Xenry: 4:06pm On May 03, 2021 |
Lol, I thought they said age is just a number?
It's funny how you would be thinking girls are everywhere untill when it's time for you to marry.
I honestly wish I could give you some suggestions, but I didn't understood what you wrote.
Maybe the next commenter can help you out. 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Told Her My Age , She Blocked Me by duduade: 4:37pm On May 03, 2021 |
Please release the judiciary girl... Be sincere with her
There s no point getting serious with her when you know you will CHEAT ON HER.. there absolutely no point...
Don't worry by the time you are 40 you will get your priorities right when it gets to tying the knots
It's funny how these young girls can easily knock the heads of these older men and get away with it.. 2 Likes |
| Re: Told Her My Age , She Blocked Me by iRepNaija1: 4:43pm On May 03, 2021 |
OP, there are some women out there that want to date within a certain age bracket, just like men. Move on and find someone else. Good luck. 2 Likes |
| Re: Told Her My Age , She Blocked Me by talk2hb1(m): 5:01pm On May 03, 2021 |
Nelbless:
Guys am in dilemma....
first am at the 12 o'clock side of 30 and feel its necessary i settle down not just with a random gal....but that fellow who i will definitely fall in love with...
i met Jane (not her real name) in 2004, during the era of yahoo messenger, we became very close distant friends, nothing more, i knew every relationship she entered vice versa (we never met until 2015....which lasted for just 1 hour .....i meant out seeing ourselves...
then we went back to our distant friendship again till date, however having had turbulent affairs, same with her, we decided to take our friendship to the next in 2017........(while on same distance stuff) as at then it was heaven on earth....but gradually my heart began to grow weary of her, then i muted the affair .
well we came back again this year...january as i had measured my recent dates with her and none actually came close, i made a u turn, reignited the affair, but then i thought i would feel the way i had felt before (sadly till date) i feel nothing!!!
somehow i met and fell so deep for someone last month, i mean i began altering my agendas as i felt i had finally met the fellow i had been looking for, it was purely beautiful, we had planned seeing her parents this month, then i remembered she is yoruba, i mean with what i had learnt age is strongly enforced here and a huge deal....having later learnt she just clocked 26 while i will be 37 in two months time, i dim it fit drawing her attention to my age, initially she pleaded with me not to tell her, but then for some reasons i defied her and still did told her, she was shocked....next day till date , she blocked me off!!!
some folks around me do not understand why i do not love the other gal, who works in the judiciary and loves me maybe way more .....the thing is presently am really confused as i do not want to settle with her and still have my eyes out there as i do not love her enough to marry her.......and in all honesty, i really need to get company prior to the ember period.
Do i move on with the lawyer girl and hope i will develop affection when we are together or hold on for the right fellow, again it's been said...that as a man its better to settle with the woman that loves us than the woman we love, i mean i know my home is secure if i marry who loves me but what about me, how i feel, the emotional fulfillment?
advice please....forgive my typos/ grammatical errors as i cant proof read now You Better Leave The Lawyer Lady, don't waste her time. 3 Likes |
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| Re: Told Her My Age , She Blocked Me by AngelicDamsel(f): 7:31pm On May 03, 2021 |
When you hear reasons for break up, you will begin to wonder if there is more than meets the eye. Age for example: too young for me, too old for me, not my age range, outside my age range, my age mate, I don't know his/her age. Don't try to understand why, just move on. abfemi163:
Ma this your fine sense has plenty sense ooo,can i know u ma?
Now you know me.  snowball11:
This is the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth! |
| Re: Told Her My Age , She Blocked Me by Thegracefulness: 7:35pm On May 03, 2021 |
1 Like |
| Re: Told Her My Age , She Blocked Me by Jerakson: 7:37pm On May 03, 2021 |
But guy your face looks funny fr 1 Like |
| Re: Told Her My Age , She Blocked Me by Nobody: 7:51pm On May 03, 2021 |
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| Re: Told Her My Age , She Blocked Me by pedocatcher: 8:00pm On May 03, 2021 |
You furkking pedofile. At 2004 she was 9 and you were 20. You furkking pedofile |
| Re: Told Her My Age , She Blocked Me by pedocatcher: 8:01pm On May 03, 2021 |
Nelbless:
Guys am in dilemma....
first am at the 12 o'clock side of 30 and feel its necessary i settle down not just with a random gal....but that fellow who i will definitely fall in love with...
i met Jane (not her real name) in 2004, during the era of yahoo messenger, we became very close distant friends, nothing more, i knew every relationship she entered vice versa (we never met until 2015....which lasted for just 1 hour .....i meant out seeing ourselves...
then we went back to our distant friendship again till date, however having had turbulent affairs, same with her, we decided to take our friendship to the next in 2017........(while on same distance stuff) as at then it was heaven on earth....but gradually my heart began to grow weary of her, then i muted the affair .
well we came back again this year...january as i had measured my recent dates with her and none actually came close, i made a u turn, reignited the affair, but then i thought i would feel the way i had felt before (sadly till date) i feel nothing!!!
somehow i met and fell so deep for someone last month, i mean i began altering my agendas as i felt i had finally met the fellow i had been looking for, it was purely beautiful, we had planned seeing her parents this month, then i remembered she is yoruba, i mean with what i had learnt age is strongly enforced here and a huge deal....having later learnt she just clocked 26 while i will be 37 in two months time, i dim it fit drawing her attention to my age, initially she pleaded with me not to tell her, but then for some reasons i defied her and still did told her, she was shocked....next day till date , she blocked me off!!!
some folks around me do not understand why i do not love the other gal, who works in the judiciary and loves me maybe way more .....the thing is presently am really confused as i do not want to settle with her and still have my eyes out there as i do not love her enough to marry her.......and in all honesty, i really need to get company prior to the ember period.
Do i move on with the lawyer girl and hope i will develop affection when we are together or hold on for the right fellow, again it's been said...that as a man its better to settle with the woman that loves us than the woman we love, i mean i know my home is secure if i marry who loves me but what about me, how i feel, the emotional fulfillment?
advice please....forgive my typos/ grammatical errors as i cant proof read now You furrking pedofile  |
| Re: Told Her My Age , She Blocked Me by Nobody: 8:11pm On May 03, 2021 |
Catfishing:
You mean, he is fugly 
let me not laugh 3 Likes 
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| Re: Told Her My Age , She Blocked Me by pozehnani(f): 8:22pm On May 03, 2021 |
Never marry someone you're not emotionally attached to. I repeat, never!.
I know it can be very difficult getting Someone who loves you equally but its better to wait than to be with someone you'll will have to endure till God knows when.
Such is life. 1 Like |
| Re: Told Her My Age , She Blocked Me by Michelle55: 8:58pm On May 03, 2021 |
pedocatcher:
You furkking pedofile. At 2004 she was 9 and you were 20. You furkking pedofile Do you have reading comprehension edakun?
Where did he state that he started seeing her when she was 9 abi shey na eyes dey pain you ni?
This is why it's required to thoroughly go through any topic before commenting to avoid disgracing your ancestors with avoidable stupidity.
Your types makes it difficult for one to breath properly in this country, just read and pass next time to avoid this costly mistake! 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Told Her My Age , She Blocked Me by cayorday89(m): 9:14pm On May 03, 2021 |
Thegracefulness:
Nairaland nowadays has become “Dear Aunty Kemi.” Those weekly relationship columns we read on “The Nation” and “Daily Sun” those days. I wonder if they still have them.
Anyways, a summary of what you’re trying to find out is, if you should marry a woman who loves you, but you do not especially love her in return, or go ahead to chase after the one you love, but does not also love you in return.
Even Obadiah know say them no dey chuk hand for fire.
I thought nowadays nobody married for love? Majority of marriages, look deep within the lines, they either marry for comfort, or material satisfaction. Nobody talks about true love again. I’m wondering if you’re different.
Luckily for you, you’ve seen a woman who loves you, and is ready for you, but you want to spend waste precious time chasing another person. Tor. Still very much in vogue, and there is the radio review of it on Naija Info 99.3fm every Wednesday 9am by Jimi Disu... 1 Like |
| Re: Told Her My Age , She Blocked Me by cayorday89(m): 9:21pm On May 03, 2021 |
pedocatcher:
You furkking pedofile. At 2004 she was 9 and you were 20. You furkking pedofile Mr catcher, na you employ yourself for work wey dem no send you, na why comprehension no dey part of the criteria to employ you for this critical assignment you gave to yourself, if not you would have read and understood that two ladies specifically are involved and the bone of contention in this very issue. 4 Likes |
| Re: Told Her My Age , She Blocked Me by Akintundexxy: 9:23pm On May 03, 2021 |
cayorday89:
Still very much in vogue, and there is the radio review of it on Naija Info 99.3fm every Wednesday 9am by Jimi Disu... Jimi Disu [quote author=cayorday89 post=101355464] Still very much in vogue, and there is the radio review of it on Naija Info 99.3fm every Wednesday 9am by |
| Re: Told Her My Age , She Blocked Me by cayorday89(m): 9:25pm On May 03, 2021 |
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| Re: Told Her My Age , She Blocked Me by snowball11(m): 9:57pm On May 03, 2021 |
AngelicDamsel:
When you hear reasons for break up, you will begin to wonder if there is more than meets the eye.
Age for example: too young for me, too old for me, not my age range, outside my age range, my age mate, I don't know his/her age. Don't try to understand why, just move on. This is the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth! 1 Like |
| Re: Told Her My Age , She Blocked Me by Nobody: 10:11pm On May 03, 2021 |
SmellySperm:
let me not laugh I copied your image. Thanks |
| Re: Told Her My Age , She Blocked Me by abfemi163: 10:18pm On May 03, 2021 |
Ma this your fine sense has plenty sense ooo,can i know u ma? AngelicDamsel:
When you hear reasons for break up, you will begin to wonder if there is more than meets the eye.
Age for example: too young for me, too old for me, not my age range, outside my age range, my age mate, I don't know his/her age. Don't try to understand why, just move on. 1 Like |
| Re: Told Her My Age , She Blocked Me by Nobody: 10:26pm On May 03, 2021 |
you are too old for her thou but the mean thing is that...
don't tell me and you told her
what if you guys marry?
wait a minute! you'll say she's trying to command you.
its even better that she understood and disappear |
| Re: Told Her My Age , She Blocked Me by frozen70(f): 10:28pm On May 03, 2021 |
Nelbless:
Guys am in dilemma....
first am at the 12 o'clock side of 30 and feel its necessary i settle down not just with a random gal....but that fellow who i will definitely fall in love with...
i met Jane (not her real name) in 2004, during the era of yahoo messenger, we became very close distant friends, nothing more, i knew every relationship she entered vice versa (we never met until 2015....which lasted for just 1 hour .....i meant out seeing ourselves...
then we went back to our distant friendship again till date, however having had turbulent affairs, same with her, we decided to take our friendship to the next in 2017........(while on same distance stuff) as at then it was heaven on earth....but gradually my heart began to grow weary of her, then i muted the affair .
well we came back again this year...january as i had measured my recent dates with her and none actually came close, i made a u turn, reignited the affair, but then i thought i would feel the way i had felt before (sadly till date) i feel nothing!!!
somehow i met and fell so deep for someone last month, i mean i began altering my agendas as i felt i had finally met the fellow i had been looking for, it was purely beautiful, we had planned seeing her parents this month, then i remembered she is yoruba, i mean with what i had learnt age is strongly enforced here and a huge deal....having later learnt she just clocked 26 while i will be 37 in two months time, i dim it fit drawing her attention to my age, initially she pleaded with me not to tell her, but then for some reasons i defied her and still did told her, she was shocked....next day till date , she blocked me off!!!
some folks around me do not understand why i do not love the other gal, who works in the judiciary and loves me maybe way more .....the thing is presently am really confused as i do not want to settle with her and still have my eyes out there as i do not love her enough to marry her.......and in all honesty, i really need to get company prior to the ember period.
Do i move on with the lawyer girl and hope i will develop affection when we are together or hold on for the right fellow, again it's been said...that as a man its better to settle with the woman that loves us than the woman we love, i mean i know my home is secure if i marry who loves me but what about me, how i feel, the emotional fulfillment?
advice please....forgive my typos/ grammatical errors as i cant proof read now The truth is that you will still cheat even if you marry your choice or you marry someone that made you a choice So keep searching until you are tired |
| Re: Told Her My Age , She Blocked Me by Nobody: 10:57pm On May 03, 2021 |
Nelbless:
Guys am in dilemma....
first am at the 12 o'clock side of 30 and feel its necessary i settle down not just with a random gal....but that fellow who i will definitely fall in love with...
i met Jane (not her real name) in 2004, during the era of yahoo messenger, we became very close distant friends, nothing more, i knew every relationship she entered vice versa (we never met until 2015....which lasted for just 1 hour .....i meant out seeing ourselves...
then we went back to our distant friendship again till date, however having had turbulent affairs, same with her, we decided to take our friendship to the next in 2017........(while on same distance stuff) as at then it was heaven on earth....but gradually my heart began to grow weary of her, then i muted the affair .
well we came back again this year...january as i had measured my recent dates with her and none actually came close, i made a u turn, reignited the affair, but then i thought i would feel the way i had felt before (sadly till date) i feel nothing!!!
somehow i met and fell so deep for someone last month, i mean i began altering my agendas as i felt i had finally met the fellow i had been looking for, it was purely beautiful, we had planned seeing her parents this month, then i remembered she is yoruba, i mean with what i had learnt age is strongly enforced here and a huge deal....having later learnt she just clocked 26 while i will be 37 in two months time, i dim it fit drawing her attention to my age, initially she pleaded with me not to tell her, but then for some reasons i defied her and still did told her, she was shocked....next day till date , she blocked me off!!!
some folks around me do not understand why i do not love the other gal, who works in the judiciary and loves me maybe way more .....the thing is presently am really confused as i do not want to settle with her and still have my eyes out there as i do not love her enough to marry her.......and in all honesty, i really need to get company prior to the ember period.
Do i move on with the lawyer girl and hope i will develop affection when we are together or hold on for the right fellow, again it's been said...that as a man its better to settle with the woman that loves us than the woman we love, i mean i know my home is secure if i marry who loves me but what about me, how i feel, the emotional fulfillment?
advice please....forgive my typos/ grammatical errors as i cant proof read now You met her when she was 9!!! Wow! |
| Re: Told Her My Age , She Blocked Me by Khd95(m): 2:38am On May 04, 2021 |
Bros if to say u hold plenty raba like alhaji Ned, she for no block u. Very anyhow set of people 1 Like |
| Re: Told Her My Age , She Blocked Me by rex444(m): 4:46am On May 04, 2021 |
With the way Nigerian marriages are going, I suggest it's better you marry a gal that loves U more than U love. .. U will understand why later 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Told Her My Age , She Blocked Me by Nelbless(m): 7:38am On May 04, 2021 |
pedocatcher:
You furkking pedofile. At 2004 she was 9 and you were 20. You furkking pedofile are you ok? did you read through at all before insulting yourself, these are two different folks, one is 26, the other is 30 and am 36...whats your problem? |
| Re: Told Her My Age , She Blocked Me by Nelbless(m): 7:40am On May 04, 2021 |
mikezuruki:
You met her when she was 9!!! Wow! Mhen whats wrong with some folks here....these are two people and am no pedophile!!!! read through please |
| Re: Told Her My Age , She Blocked Me by femi4: 8:35am On May 04, 2021 |
You are too old, she needs someone that's 9 o clock side of 30 |
| Re: Told Her My Age , She Blocked Me by pedocatcher: 9:31am On May 04, 2021 |
Michelle55:
Do you have reading comprehension edakun?
Where did he state that he started seeing her when she was 9 abi shey na eyes dey pain you ni?
This is why it's required to thoroughly go through any topic before commenting to avoid disgracing your ancestors with avoidable stupidity.
Your types makes it difficult for one to breath properly in this country, just read and pass next time to avoid this costly mistake! You furrking pedofile supporter |
