Hello nairalander
there is this lady iv been dating for some months and i later discover she is very troublesome..
reason it take me for too long to discover is the fact that she shows me love and always apologise when we are having misunderstanding.
i am very broke guy infact since last year i back to my home town to start my phone repair buz. I can be able rent a room which im currently living with a friend but this lady keep bear with me and always advice me to raise even if it is a 10k tha she will add 5k to it and we will rent a single room apartment but settle down is the last thing for me atlest for now cos i hardly feed myself cos no financial capacity to make my shop attractive to customers.
fast foward i discover this is doing this to settle down cos age is not at her side then i started to withdraw and i finaly open up to her to look for another guy cos i am not ready to settle down.
behold my peopple after a month she came with pregnant and said i must marry her.
i just need your advice

She came with pregnancy how? Did you have unprotected sex? If yes, why are u shocked? Please do the needful.

Be a man, be responsible and fix this but firstly confirm about the authenticity of the pregnancy..

What is her first and last name

I want to ask Orunmila

You are not ready to settle down, you are broke that you can't even feed Yourself not talk of someone, yet you kept a girlfriend who can't even help herself either, before you go into something, you have to examine yourself, and examine the person you are going into a relationship with to know if you can handle the heat, make sure the pregnancy is yours before knowing what to do.

Ritzybeauty:
Be a man, be responsible and fix this but firstly confirm about the authenticity of the pregnancy..

I believe i am responsible foq the pregnant
but my concern is how violence this lady could ae im future
and also not ready to wife any woman now cos i know i am not financial capable to do that now
i dont even have a room of my own now

zed7:
She came with pregnancy how? Did you have unprotected sex? If yes, why are u shocked? Please do the needful.

yes i do
i am responsible for pregnant but not ready to settle down the babe in question is over ready and dont want baby mama of a thing
my life is mess now

Freestainworld:
You are not ready to settle down, you are broke that you can't even feed Yourself not talk of someone, yet you kept a girlfriend who can't even help herself either, before you go into something, you have to examine yourself, and examine the person you are going into a relationship with to know if you can handle the heat, make sure the pregnancy is yours before knowing what to do.

yes you are right
i am reggreting that decision right now

OP, you're not ready to be responsible for another person but you were ready to have sêx without protection? This is the consequence and part of being an adult is facing the consequences of our choices. I'm not trying to patronize you but you haven't offered any positive solutions for yourself, this woman, and the baby, you only want ways to get rid of her. I mean, honestly, how do you expect this to go down? You want her to leave, pregnant for you, and what? Get married to someone else? Decide to raise the kid alone and not involve you? Tell you that she was cheating and the child is not yours?

Please be responsible and do what you need to do.

If she's troublesome tell her and seek counselling if possible. After all these and the connect isn't there please stay off marriage.

Right now inform her, you can't marry her but will take care of her till she has the baby and hopefully your business would've improved BUT make sure you get counsel from an expert on the troubling issues seen in both of you

Arrrrrrrh

Lol ! I don't know weather I should laugh or I should sympathize with you.

You knew all this while that she was violent and that didn't stop you from exploring the unexpected. Ladies; You see why nigga's will always sleep with you and get away.

Oga goan do the needful, you are a daddy, when you were in the other room making babies you didn't consult us. Just brace up and finally learn to live with her violence.

The way wey some of una dey think and act dey surprise me. You never get money to fit rent a room for yourself and u dey sleep with woman without protection. U think say the white water wey dey come from ur Dickson during sex na PAP? Oga, if u fit climb woman and pour inside without considering ur condition, I see no reason why u no go marry her and take care of the child without thinking of ur condition aswell. Some of una brain eeh, chai.
All my life, I've never tasted raw sex before. No be because say I no like am or I no dey hear say E sweet, but na my condition dey restrain me cus I no wan make my pikin come face wetin I face for my childhood. As for u, baba go take care of ur formed sperm and start buying pampers

Run for your life bro... don't allow any woman trap you with pregnancy

you are broke and struggling and she's troublesome and you still went ahead to get her pregnant...u really get mind..
I jus dnt know why I dnt fancy girls whenever I go broke...na to hustle and focus my guy n I jus pray u ain't responsible for dt pregnancy bcox na dier ur suffer start o

If I don't have a job and I'm broke I will be emotionally down.As in,my sex drive will be very low.No erection.I won't find any lady attractive.I will be lonely.I wonder how most broke and jobless guys still have erection.

Did you sleep with her Carry your cross and stop disgracing yourself! You are broke but your pencil is not broke in sex

Some kids should understand something, if you are broke and not ready to be a father, zip up!!! Some disgracing your thining manhood radarada

Take her in, and try to hustle more don't worry all will be well, and for the money to make your place of work to be attractive should be a the problem of your source of wealth, your talent should speak for u and you know things are Increasing, by the order of the day so u need to increase your price when working in style, and for the girl that is not an issue, just make sure u tell her that u don't have any financial at your back that if she can scale through with u that is alright what is done is done, no ctrl + z in life .. so if you have other family members who can help that will be grateful...

Mr man you have to accept the pregnancy and if you don't then the girl creator will judge you

Try and explain to her about your financial status, if she agrees then you really need to step up your game because I believe no child deserves to be brought to this world to suffer.. I hope things get better for you

horladexino:


I believe i am responsible foq the pregnant
but my concern is how violence this lady could ae im future
and also not ready to wife any woman now cos i know i am not financial capable to do that now
i dont even have a room of my own now

iRepNaija1:
OP, you're not ready to be responsible for another person but you were ready to have sêx without protection? This is the consequence and part of being an adult is facing the consequences of our choices. I'm not trying to patronize you but you haven't offered any positive solutions for yourself, this woman, and the baby, you only want ways to get rid of her. I mean, honestly, how do you expect this to go down? You want her to leave, pregnant for you, and what? Get married to someone else? Decide to raise the kid alone and not involve you? Tell you that she was cheating and the child is not yours?

Please be responsible and do what you need to do.

not that i dont want to responsible for the pregnant but she is nt reason with my condition
what she want is to settle down which i cant for now
but i will take care of the pregnant

gaius01:
Arrrrrrrh

Lol ! I don't know weather I should laugh or I should sympathize with you.

You knew all this while that she was violent and that didn't stop you from exploring the unexpected. Ladies; You see why nigga's will always sleep with you and get away.

Oga goan do the needful, you are a daddy, when you were in the other room making babies you didn't consult us. Just brace up and finally learn to live with her violence.

gaius01:
Arrrrrrrh

Lol ! I don't know weather I should laugh or I should sympathize with you.

You knew all this while that she was violent and that didn't stop you from exploring the unexpected. Ladies; You see why nigga's will always sleep with you and get away.

Oga goan do the needful, you are a daddy, when you were in the other room making babies you didn't consult us. Just brace up and finally learn to live with her violence.

Lalami3232:
The way wey some of una dey think and act dey surprise me. You never get money to fit rent a room for yourself and u dey sleep with woman without protection. U think say the white water wey dey come from ur Dickson during sex na PAP? Oga, if u fit climb woman and pour inside without considering ur condition, I see no reason why u no go marry her and take care of the child without thinking of ur condition aswell. Some of una brain eeh, chai.
All my life, I've never tasted raw sex before. No be because say I no like am or I no dey hear say E sweet, but na my condition dey restrain me cus I no wan make my pikin come face wetin I face for my childhood. As for u, baba go take care of ur formed sperm and start buying pampers

chai
oga be calming down na mistake i do i no kill person
i only need your advice cos right now i dont knw where to start

horladexino:
Hello nairalander
there is this lady iv been dating for some months and i later discover she is very troublesome..
reason it take me for too long to discover is the fact that she shows me love and always apologise when we are having misunderstanding.
i am very broke guy infact since last year i back to my home town to start my phone repair buz. I can be able rent a room which im currently living with a friend but this lady keep bear with me and always advice me to raise even if it is a 10k tha she will add 5k to it and we will rent a single room apartment but settle down is the last thing for me atlest for now cos i hardly feed myself cos no financial capacity to make my shop attractive to customers.
fast foward i discover this is doing this to settle down cos age is not at her side then i started to withdraw and i finaly open up to her to look for another guy cos i am not ready to settle down.
behold my peopple after a month she came with pregnant and said i must marry her.
i just need your advice

Op, Stop Being A Coward, Marry Her. She Will Support. I Know Things Are Hard But 2 Is Better Dan 1.

boss, SMA GOLD IS NOW #4500

PAMPERS SEF DONE COST

SHOULD I HELP YU NAME OF TWINS INCASE UR STUBBORN GIRLFRIEND BORN TWO

Goldbw122:
Take her in, and try to hustle more don't worry all will be well, and for the money to make your place of work to be attractive should be a the problem of your source of wealth, your talent should speak for u and you know things are Increasing, by the order of the day so u need to increase your price when working in style, and for the girl that is not an issue, just make sure u tell her that u don't have any financial at your back that if she can scale through with u that is alright what is done is done, no ctrl + z in life .. so if you have other family members who can help that will be grateful...

jah bless you baba
thanks for being a source of motivation for me

pelenaija:
Mr man you have to accept the pregnancy and if you don't then the girl creator will judge you

sir
where did i said i will not accept the pregnant?
even after we depart for like 5 weeks i still take a responsible of the pregnancy...
i only post here if there are peopple with similar situation and how they go about it

Khd95:
boss, SMA GOLD IS NOW #4500

PAMPERS SEF DONE COST

SHOULD I HELP YU NAME OF TWINS INCASE UR STUBBORN GIRLFRIEND BORN TWO

nawah for you o
just tell me what you want to gain for adding salt to my wund

happy married life

horladexino:
Hello nairalander
there is this lady iv been dating for some months and i later discover she is very troublesome..
reason it take me for too long to discover is the fact that she shows me love and always apologise when we are having misunderstanding.
i am very broke guy infact since last year i back to my home town to start my phone repair buz. I can be able rent a room which im currently living with a friend but this lady keep bear with me and always advice me to raise even if it is a 10k tha she will add 5k to it and we will rent a single room apartment but settle down is the last thing for me atlest for now cos i hardly feed myself cos no financial capacity to make my shop attractive to customers.
fast foward i discover this is doing this to settle down cos age is not at her side then i started to withdraw and i finaly open up to her to look for another guy cos i am not ready to settle down.
behold my peopple after a month she came with pregnant and said i must marry her.
i just need your advice

To advice you properly, we need to know how old you are; so if you don't mind, tell us?

VanDerWaalforces:
To advice you properly, we need to know how old you are; so if you don't mind, tell us?

i am 28yo and she is 25yo

Omo eh y’all niggas needs to start using your brains.
There was this girl I was running package with early this year, the girl broke die and me na management I dey manage my life, we were always having unprotected sex but I Dey always do withdrawal method. Na so one day the thing sweet me well I pour my akamu inside the girl, omo fear catch me because my eye don clear, i started avoiding the girl and after some weeks I no hear “I miss my period” na so I take ghost the girl finally. I’m always giving her excuses she don tire. I can’t come and ruin my life because of 5 minutes pleasure. Baba e don happen so you go know what to do oo