Am getting fed up already, it all started yesterday, Sunday is always our little time because throughout the week days it's always busy, we just get to call eachother or chat. This Sunday when she called she started giving me excuses that she is tired, that she just came back from her parents place and all, dat she is just cooking and she doesn't know when the food will be done and all, I was already getting infuriated, I just had to calm my nerves, i just had to ask her why she did not plan her schedule with our normal time out together, after some hours I went into her dm and I told her how I was disappointed with what happened tonight, her next reply was an emoji, I was like with all these talks all you could reply was an emoji, later she started begging telling me she was sorry and all, as we continued the chat, I just noticed that there was no replies from her anymore, I had to wait for some minutes just to be sure she hadnt slept off, lo and behold it was my call that woke her up, she was already sleeping, I didn't know how I was feeling at that point, you don't sleep off when you are chatting with people , it's wrong, inform them u are tired and the other person will know that u are not available for that moment, I just had to end the chat yesterday night, fast forward to this morning, she started begging that she was sorry about yesterday and all, well one thing I know about this girl is that ,anything she has put her mind not to do she won't even do it. I told her how unhappy I was about what happened and all she was like she is sorry and , well I forgave her and I started playing with her dat why didn't she call me now, the next response was ehn I know the kind of person you are and the way you talk at times, later she placed a call to me and asked me why I was still angry at her, I was like it's normal dat I should get angry, her next reply was, ehnnn, if I know dat this is the way I would be doing dat we would talk another day, and she hanged up the call, I was so surprised, I had to send a voice note to her tell her how I was disappointed, her next reply was an emoji again, I still sent another voice note telling her how her actions looks disrespectful, and her reply was, "okay I will look into my actions", sincerely right now I just feel bad I love this lady yet she messes up with her emotions every now and then coupled with the fact that she is a stubborn lady and doesn't listen to instructions except hers .

ok

You are the tantrums originator based on your own report card.

Having a girlfriend at this time the country is in chaos should be treated as an act of terrorism!



There's no much difference between you and Shekau.

Who dey keep girlfriend?

U are not ready for relationships.

You are the emotional one here. Be a man!

Keeping track of all those little things she does is just getting yourself hurt unnecessarily. I expect you as a guy not to even notice or count those things but here you are sounding like an emotional wreck over trivial things.

You're stressing that girl. And to think she already complained to you about her demanding schedules yet you still find faults where there's non. She's even nice to be playing cool and mature with you. If twas me, I would have long closed your file.

Give her space. She'll come around when she's less stressed.

character

you get luck,she even dey apologise to you,from the write up it seems na you get issues.

300whitewolves:
I was already getting infuriated, I just had to calm my nerves, i just had to ask her why she did not plan her schedule with our normal time out together

Altruism is key. People go through a lot daily and if she's tired, she's tired. You should understand and let her be.
Your timeout session is a selfish WANT by yourself to commune, cling and feel loved in your relationship.
Meanwhile, welfare or proper health/mind state is an important NEED to every human.
Learn to know what is important and what is flimsy.

My jurisdiction: Next time be empathetic. The timeout session can move.

300whitewolves:

you don't sleep off when you are chatting with people , it's wrong, inform them u are tired and the other person will know that u are not available for that moment,

Again, people doze off while in classes, watching movies or chatting. That is completely normal. I believe you are being conceited.


Jurisdiction:

There are aspects you need to get mature at. But don't worry I believe that will come with age (I suppose you are still in your early twenties)
For now leave the girl alone and stop stressing her over unnecessary things. If you are not getting along with her, let her go. I bet she'll be happy at the freedom.
Ideally, no one should hold anyone to emotional Ransome.


NB. One of the most important asset of an human is your ATTITUDE. It is key to interpersonal relationships. Be the best yourself before you demand the best from someone else.

Cheers.

Na you get problem mr man, haba! You no get work ni?

Overlook am ee

hehehe...

my niggar loves that word

disappointed

Seriously you're very toxic, immature, controlling and unreasonable. She get her own life too na. You just want her to do whatever you want and if she doesn't, you get disappointed. You're the dolt with an emotional tantrum. She told you that she is tired, she just came back from her parents place, and also cooking but all you could do is get infuriated. She slept off because she is tired but your empty head won't allow you to understand that she is tired and needs to rest. Stop being self-absorbed.

Married people and people with relationships are just so problematic.
Every mallam with his own ship.

Maybe you are too available

Na you throw all the tantrums for this your write up. Is her name Olivia? Kahn? Cos she's just catching tantrums left right and center.

OP, damn!

You whine more than a girl sef.
That girl knows your mumu buttons




N.B: Why is your moniker 300whitewolves? You should choose 1000angrybirds!!!

In every relationship you find yourself in always get hold of your emotions, learn to over look some certain and unnecessary things, I had a lady that if I give 10 attributes let's say 9positive attributes and one negative attributes about her self and how she relates to me she will ignore the 9positives once and focus one on the just one negative attributes, when I placed a call to her she was given me attitude, for me to hang up the phone i told her I call her later, when I got home she sent a msg of not willing to continue I didn't respond, the next day she started hitting me with calls and msg I locked up although we later spoke but that was in the evening.


The point am making is learn to give the "I don't care attitude" once you start putting mind in little things she does the more it affects u.

I got bored when I read up to the tired part, and people fall asleep while chatting tho. I will say no more,Sha remember na we be your best plug for everything sexual enhancement

Beloved3:


Altruism is key. People go through a lot daily and if she's tired, she's tired. You should understand and let her be.
Your timeout session is a selfish WANT by yourself to commune, cling and feel loved in your relationship.
Meanwhile, welfare or proper health/mind state is an important NEED to every human.
Learn to know what is important and what is flimsy.

My jurisdiction: Next time be empathetic. The timeout session can move.





Again, people doze off while in classes, watching movies or chatting. That is completely normal. I believe you are being conceited.


Jurisdiction:

There are aspects you need to get mature at. But don't worry I believe that will come with age (I suppose you are still in your early twenties)
For now leave the girl alone and stop stressing her over unnecessary things. If you are not getting along with her, let her go. I bet she'll be happy at the freedom.
Ideally, no one should hold anyone to emotional Ransome.


NB. One of the most important asset of an human is your ATTITUDE. It is key to interpersonal relationships. Be the best yourself before you demand the best from someone else.

Cheers.

It's been a while I read an insightful comment... Thanks bro

Bro na you be the issue

300whitewolves:
Am getting fed up already, it all started yesterday, Sunday is always our little time because throughout the week days it's always busy, we just get to call eachother or chat. This Sunday when she called she started giving me excuses that she is tired, that she just came back from her parents place and all, dat she is just cooking and she doesn't know when the food will be done and all, I was already getting infuriated, I just had to calm my nerves, i just had to ask her why she did not plan her schedule with our normal time out together, after some hours I went into her dm and I told her how I was disappointed with what happened tonight, her next reply was an emoji, I was like with all these talks all you could reply was an emoji, later she started begging telling me she was sorry and all, as we continued the chat, I just noticed that there was no replies from her anymore, I had to wait for some minutes just to be sure she hadnt slept off, lo and behold it was my call that woke her up, she was already sleeping, I didn't know how I was feeling at that point, you don't sleep off when you are chatting with people , it's wrong, inform them u are tired and the other person will know that u are not available for that moment, I just had to end the chat yesterday night, fast forward to this morning, she started begging that she was sorry about yesterday and all, well one thing I know about this girl is that ,anything she has put her mind not to do she won't even do it. I told her how unhappy I was about what happened and all she was like she is sorry and , well I forgave her and I started playing with her dat why didn't she call me now, the next response was ehn I know the kind of person you are and the way you talk at times, later she placed a call to me and asked me why I was still angry at her, I was like it's normal dat I should get angry, her next reply was, ehnnn, if I know dat this is the way I would be doing dat we would talk another day, and she hanged up the call, I was so surprised, I had to send a voice note to her tell her how I was disappointed, her next reply was an emoji again, I still sent another voice note telling her how her actions looks disrespectful, and her reply was, "okay I will look into my actions", sincerely right now I just feel bad I love this lady yet she messes up with her emotions every now and then coupled with the fact that she is a stubborn lady and doesn't listen to instructions except hers .

I just read your post very well, guy you dey nag o. That's feminine energy bro. Like I said too available

Aaaaarghmed:
you get luck,she even dey apologise to you,from the write up it seems na you get issues.

thank u I hate men that nag nc distrub me,

Somebody told you she was tired and you are feeling disappointed in her, because she won't have time for you to Bleep her abi, yeye man


Na Desmond Elliot cause all these nonsense

Omg!
I feel for the girl already.She doesnt even know what shes getting into.Male nsg and attrntion seeker.

Were you starved of affection and attention by your parents?

Give hrr a damn breathing space .
Tueh!

When they say some women nag too much, here is a man that nags more than a woman. This your story is just irritating. That girl dey try cus I can't put up with this your sh*t.

This OP nah mumu...u are just being possessive for no reason.. She suppose take permission b4 she sleep?

OP, you are not nagging. People have things to do with their lives. If you commit some of your time to a person, the person should be good enough to tell you when they won't be able to be with you at that time and why. You could as well use that time for something else. There is communication, there is effective communication. You can try to teach your girlfriend how to communicate effectively and how to respect people's time.

If she doesn't learn, please move on. There's better ways to spend your time than pouring water in basket.

Don't let anyone tell you that you are nagging. This is your girlfriend here, not friends with benefits or sugar mummy that you share no emotional attachment with.

michaelwilli:
OP, you are not nagging. People have things to do with their lives. If you commit some of your time to a person, the person should be good enough to tell you when they won't be able to be with you at that time and why. You could as well use that time for something else. There is communication, there is effective communication. You can try to teach your girlfriend how to communicate effectively and how to respect people's time.

If she doesn't learn, please move on. There's better ways to spend your time than pouring water in basket.

Don't let anyone tell you that you are nagging. This is your girlfriend here, not friends with benefits or sugar mummy that you share no emotional attachment with.

You just made my day boss, my girlfriend is someone I have in mind to get settled with.