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What Happened Between My Girlfriend And My Mother by funkmrflexx(m): 5:38pm On May 17, 2020
We Have Been Dating For 1 Year and 6 months now. I’ve met her parents, we wanted to get married last year but her dad told me to wait till she finishes school which is supposed to be next year. I’m 25 years old and she’s 22 .

I live alone in the city while my mom lives in the village. My younger sister who I’m sponsoring through school sometimes comes to my place during holidays and weekends. My girlfriend practically lives with me because she comes from a type of an Abusive family. So she lives with me and I even assist her with school fees and house rents sometimes. I’ve spent even more than her father for her school.

Everyone In my family knows her and she’s a very wonderful girl. Typical wife material. She supports me every time even when I’m broke. I’m not the type of guy that dates a lot of girls . I don’t even cheat on her. Since I met her I’ve done away with a lot of ladies. I’m 100% committed to the relationship

But the problem is that she Has very bad anger issues. I mean she can destroy your property when she’s angry and I’m the quiet type. I don’t like hitting a lady execpt once in a while a general brain resetting slap. When she starts she doesn’t listen to anyone. Not me, not even her parents. So anytime she’s angry like this I will just find a way to make her laugh. Both of you can just be eating and she will get angry if you ate the fleshy part of the meat and left oily part for her (we have quarreled because of that I mean serious quarrel) . Sometimes I get tired of the whole situation. At the end even when she’s wrong I’ll let her for peace to reign. So I try to manage the anger at home so it shouldn’t go out

So we went to visit my mom in the yesterday. Because of curfew we slept over. So my mom bought us mangos this morning and told us to carry.

My girlfriend then said she doesn’t like mango that if I want to eat my mango I should carry it myself. Then my mom (she is the type that always shouts at every body. The real wahala woman) told her that if she can’t carry the mango then she should just put it on my head for me to carry na (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na).

That was the only thing my mom said. Then she sparked. Started shouting at my mom. That she should stop talking to her like that, that she doesn’t like it. In fact she’s going home. So she carried her bag and started going home. Every one in the compound started saying it’s ok (Na dat thing why dem tell u Dey make u Dey vex so) she was still shouting. I was even try to calm her down but no way. She was still shouting. Even my sister who had never seen her angry before became angry (na so you b? She said). I was really disappointed In her

The issue is what even made me angry is how she reacted. If she didn’t like what my mom said made her angry. At least she should have waited till we got home (this was the first time we were both sleeping over) then she would tell me. Or she could have called my sister and told her what my mom said. After all the fracas, she went inside the room till we left. I just told everybody to just leave her.

So when we got home I told her what she did was wrong that she shouldn’t have reacted like that. Na there war start. She started yelling and shouting at me that if my mom talks to everyone like that she won’t take it (my plan was to tell her that she should apologize to her. Because my mom already apologized that she won’t talk to her again like that. Which I know she will o . So we can just forget about the issue. But she never accepts she’s wrong ) She said I took her to my village to intimidate her in front of my family people, I was really angry and called her uncle and told him what happened. He said there was nothing wrong with what my mom told her (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) and that he would talk to her .

I even scolded my mom before I left that I didn’t like what she said what she did that’s she was just causing issue. My girlfriend said when my mom said the word (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) that I should have immediately rebuked my mom. But me sef no see anything wrong with what my mom said( If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

I just Dey follow her uncle advise and leave her be until she calms down and I talk to her

So my people what’s offensive in this word? If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

But this her attitude don tire me. Break up is not on the card for me at least not yet. She always thinks that they are other guys out there because she has a lot of toasters but I know they can’t do quarter of what I’m doing for her. In this modern time it’s difficult to see a guy who will allow his girlfriend stay with him thereby losing his freedom to do certain things. A guy who doesn’t cheat, a guy who takes care of her does everything for her .

I just think the things she went through in her family is affecting her physiological. And sometimes when I think about leaving her I feel pity because she can’t go back to her parents house.

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Re: What Happened Between My Girlfriend And My Mother by Tadeknkeepcalm: 5:45pm On May 17, 2020
Ehya,
That statement is very painful. It can make someone even commit suicide.


Now that you can't break up with the girl, kuku break up with your mama

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Re: What Happened Between My Girlfriend And My Mother by Ningen(m): 5:45pm On May 17, 2020
She has very bad anger issues . I mean she can destroy your property when she’s angry...

I even scolded my mom before I left that I didn’t like what she said....


You didn't scold your girlfriend; the one with the terrible anger issues but scolded your mother??

Chei! Your ancestors must be whirling in pain.

Keep tolerating her “anger”.

She'll put it to good use oneday and strike sense into your head, then you'll know it's time to RUN.

It'll end in tears.

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Re: What Happened Between My Girlfriend And My Mother by GreatChizzy: 5:46pm On May 17, 2020
Like seriously you "scolded" your MOTHER?
You scolded your mother for a "girl friend" whom you had already knew had anger management issues? I hope your mother has other sons besides you; because you are a shame and a reproach to that woman you call your mother.

May God not give us Sons that would scold their mothers because of girl friends.

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Re: What Happened Between My Girlfriend And My Mother by PositiveDirect: 5:48pm On May 17, 2020
shocked

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Re: What Happened Between My Girlfriend And My Mother by Olochee: 5:49pm On May 17, 2020
Use ya head OP...

Love is blinding you.

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Re: What Happened Between My Girlfriend And My Mother by davosea(m): 5:49pm On May 17, 2020
You had better stay wise up and keep ya eye open in these real motherfucking world nigga,i dont wanna talk no more.

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Re: What Happened Between My Girlfriend And My Mother by SKhanmi: 5:51pm On May 17, 2020
This one will learn the hard way. Instead of you to flee for your life. Once had a girlfriend like that. They never change.

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Re: What Happened Between My Girlfriend And My Mother by MaxVee: 5:52pm On May 17, 2020
OP. i can swear you will learn your lesson the hard way....just keep being there you hear, good man, you dey enjoy s*x you think say na love...your eye go soon clear......when she treats you like an option, you learn to use the door.


very hard a decision to make but bro very necessary

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Re: What Happened Between My Girlfriend And My Mother by SHEAU(m): 5:54pm On May 17, 2020
Let the elders come and advice you, girl wey u never marry Dey behave like this, I swear if u marry her forget about your family..

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Re: What Happened Between My Girlfriend And My Mother by mamaafrik(m): 6:00pm On May 17, 2020
Op,skuru,squirrel dey your head,i can bet that you are not Yoruba.

If you are ,your sister alone self for don treat her forkup for your presence by tearing her better,tear leather slap.

You scolded your mom for a misdemeanor caused by your girlfriend,that you know yourself??

They should have listened to the priest when you were young,oloun,They should have used you for sacrifice .



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Re: What Happened Between My Girlfriend And My Mother by Odion2016(m): 6:02pm On May 17, 2020
You make it sound like not cheating on her is a trophy for you..Nop ,you are not supposed to cheat on her..
In between,, your gf is very rude. Even though I could not finish the epistle..
No lady can try such with my mum and still follow me down the aisle until she apologizes, my mum accepts and lets me carry on with the relationship,,if not, it is over.

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Re: What Happened Between My Girlfriend And My Mother by hatbricker: 6:02pm On May 17, 2020
This is not love bro, talk sense to her head and let her know you have options. No matter how beautiful she is, any girl who disrespect your mom like that would do worse when you marry her.

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Re: What Happened Between My Girlfriend And My Mother by Ghostrye: 6:03pm On May 17, 2020
My brother run oo. This is just the start of the wahala so don't wait until it gets to marriage. A failed relationship is always better than a failed marriage

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Re: What Happened Between My Girlfriend And My Mother by ReluctantAdult(m): 6:04pm On May 17, 2020
Domestic violence is not one-sided. Beware of the choices you're making. You might be stabbed in your sleep or poisoned to death. No be new thing, e dey always happen.

Short tempered people disgust me.

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Re: What Happened Between My Girlfriend And My Mother by zed7: 6:05pm On May 17, 2020
Avoid toxic people, they will only make you miserable.
That being said, you are in a relationship with an ingrate, an Ill mannered girl and a liability. It will end in nothing but tears.
Hope she wouldn't beat you and your family members one day.

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Re: What Happened Between My Girlfriend And My Mother by AskProf: 6:06pm On May 17, 2020
funkmrflexx:
We Have Been Dating For 1 Year and 6 months now. I’ve met her parents , we wanted to get married last year but her dad told me to wait till she finishes school which is supposed to be next year. I’m 25 years old , she’s 22 . I live alone in the city while my mom lives in the village . My younger sister who I’m sponsoring through school sometimes comes to my place during holidays and weekends . My girlfriend practically lives with me because she comes from a type of an Abusive family. So she lives with me . And I even assist her with school fees and house rents sometimes .I’ve spent even more than her father for her school. Everyone In my family knows her and she’s a very wonderful girl. Typical wife material . She supports me every time even when I’m broke. I’m not the type of guy that dates a lot of girls . I don’t even cheat on her . Since I met her I’ve done away with a lot of ladies. I’m 100% committed to the relationship

But the problem is that she Has very bad anger issues . I mean she can destroy your property when she’s angry and I’m the quiet type . I don’t like hitting a lady expect once in a while a general brain resetting slap. When she starts she doesn’t listen to anyone . Not me , not even her parents. So anytime she’s angry like this I will just find a way to make her laugh. Both of you can just be eating and she will get angry if you ate the fleshy part of the meat and left oily part for her(we have quarreled because of that I mean serious quarrel ) . Sometimes I get tired of the whole situation. At the end even when she’s wrong I’ll let her for peace to reign . So I try to manage the anger at home so it shouldn’t go out

So we went to visit my mom in the yesterday. Because of curfew we slept over . So my mom bought us mangos this morning and told us to carry .
My girlfriend then said she doesn’t like mango that if I want to eat my mango I should carry it myself . Then my mom(she the type that always shouts at every body . The real wahala woman) told her that if she can’t carry the mango then she should just put it on my head for me to carry na(If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) .
That was the only thing my mom said . Then she sparked . Started shouting my mom . That she should stop talking to her like that that she doesn’t like it. In fact she’s going home . So she carried her bag and started going home . Every one in the compound started saying it’s ok (Na dat thing why dem tell u Dey make u Dey vex so) she was still shouting. I was even try to calm her down but no way . She was still shouting. Even my sister who had never seen her angry before became angry(na so you b? She said). I was really disappointed In her

The issue is what even made me angry is how she reacted. If she didn’t like what my mom said made her angry . At least she should have waited till we got home(this was the first time we were both sleeping over) then she would tell me . Or she could have called my sister and told her what my mom said . After all the fracas . She went inside the room till we left . I just told everybody to just leave her.

So when we got home I told her what she did was wrong that she shouldn’t have reacted like that. Na there war start. She started yelling and shouting at me that if my mom talks to everyone like that she won’t take it (my plan was to tell her that she should apologize to her. Because my mom already apologized that she won’t talk to her again like that. Which I know she will o . So we can just forget about the issue . But she never accepts she’s wrong ) She said I took her to my village to intimidate her in front of my family people, I was really angry and called her uncle and told him what happened. He said there was nothing wrong with what my mom told her (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) . And that he would talk to her .

I even scolded my mom before I left that I didn’t like what she said what she did that’s she was just causing issue . My girlfriend said when my mom said the word (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) that I should have immediately rebuked my mom . But me sef no see anything wrong with what my mom said( If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)


I just Dey follow her uncle advise and leave her be until she calms down and I talk to her

So my people what’s offensive in this word? If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

But this her attitude don tire me. Break up is not on the card for me at least not yet. She always thinks that they are other guys out there because she has a lot of toasters but I know they can’t do quarter of what I’m doing for her . In this modern time it’s difficult to see a guy who will allows his girlfriend stay with him thereby losing his freedom to do certain things. A guy who doesn’t cheat , a guy who takes care of her . Does everything for her .

I just think the things she went through in her family is affecting her physiological. And sometimes when I think about leaving her I feel pity because she can’t go back to her parents house .



Is this just another tale?

Are you really 25 or you meant to say 15?

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Re: What Happened Between My Girlfriend And My Mother by anthonyuncle(m): 6:10pm On May 17, 2020
am still trying to know da river in benin that they sank da pot that dz girl used to cook ur brains.

for dz action alone, u are supposed to rebuke her & let her go away for life.

it's obvious that she doesn't want to change from da abusive nature of her family.

u better leave her (since she prefers her bad habit to u)

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Re: What Happened Between My Girlfriend And My Mother by 2special(m): 6:11pm On May 17, 2020
Guy,, you're irritating and weak

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Re: What Happened Between My Girlfriend And My Mother by bobowaja(m): 6:13pm On May 17, 2020
She even treats u like an option. cheesy
Greatresearcher... Come and add this one to your mumu boys list. These SIMPs will learn the hard way.

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Re: What Happened Between My Girlfriend And My Mother by DanDeeBoss: 6:17pm On May 17, 2020
I can't be with someone who has anger issues in the first place..... shey you grab??

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Re: What Happened Between My Girlfriend And My Mother by bobowaja(m): 6:18pm On May 17, 2020
zed7:
Avoid toxic people, they will only make you miserable.
That being said, you are in a relationship with an ingrate, an Ill mannered girl and a liability. It will end in nothing but tears.
Premium tears grin

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Re: What Happened Between My Girlfriend And My Mother by ichidodo(m): 6:19pm On May 17, 2020
Stupid f**king simp...

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Re: What Happened Between My Girlfriend And My Mother by EricBloodAxe: 6:22pm On May 17, 2020
Your girlfriend screams at your mum and you don't shut her up immediately with a hot slap and apologize to your mum? What is wrong with some guys? Are you sure you're normal? Something must be seriously wrong with you.

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Re: What Happened Between My Girlfriend And My Mother by Nephilim: 6:27pm On May 17, 2020
Scolding ur mom is a bad behavior.
You should apologize to your mom.
Your girlfriend shout back at your mom, woooooooww! That's incredibly impressive cos you stood there like a dundy, let me tell you something if you marry that girl unless she change your home will become like that's of her family home.

A lady that tries that shit with me will first get warning, if she tries it second time will experience the processes involves in a man changing from a gentle man to a beast, the anger and terror on my face will even make her pee her pant!

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Re: What Happened Between My Girlfriend And My Mother by bobowaja(m): 6:28pm On May 17, 2020
EricBloodAxe:
Your girlfriend screams at your mum and you don't shut her up immediately with a hot slap and apologize to your mum? What is wrong with some guys? Are you sure you're normal? Something must be seriously wrong with you.
Most mothers raised their male child weak. His mother is reaping the seed of a weak man she sowed.

Never hit a woman, never shout on her, treat her like a Queen.... Na wetin deh end am be this. Full grown simpletons!

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Re: What Happened Between My Girlfriend And My Mother by TransflectTP(m): 6:28pm On May 17, 2020
If that is the kind of woman you want to end up with as a wife, I really pity you bro. Ask yourself, marriage being a life time commitment, will I be able to cope with this kind of woman as a wife in the rest of my life? Young man, such a woman will create serious problem and enmity among you and your family members. She will totally turn you against your family members. Imagine telling you to have shut up your mum. For her to even stand and exchange words with your mum on first visit, do you know what that is? She's practically not a good products for man to end up with.

I won't say much, the signs are already everywhere to see.

Lalasticlala
Seun
Mynd44

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Re: What Happened Between My Girlfriend And My Mother by eunisam: 6:35pm On May 17, 2020
If you marry that girl, bros you don marry fire. I repeat if you marry that girl u have set your generation on fire.

guy who u be to scold you mum because of one Mumu girl we no get home training?

I dey vex for u, u sure say u be man at all? chai, I no want talk shaaa because



( If
you no fit carry the mango
u for kuku put am for e head)


I dey vex die.

our last born, the last girl in my family will just reset her brain with some covid-19 organic slaps

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Re: What Happened Between My Girlfriend And My Mother by Abasilim: 6:38pm On May 17, 2020
Someone that you pay her school fees and lives with you shouts back at your mother and you can't see break up in the card yet?! Me that can't even shout back at my mother. So its when she breaks your mother's head that break up will appear on the card? OP you're not doing well at all.

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Re: What Happened Between My Girlfriend And My Mother by TripA(m): 6:50pm On May 17, 2020
dude get this straight you could overlook her anger and marry her but she's not changing except with serious counseling and therapy ....until you get tired and you cheat ...or wait you don't cheat but your at an event you get chatty with another female she flares up and embarrasses you or fights in public



bottom line is her anger can make her chop your dick off or stab you multiple times
your choice

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Re: What Happened Between My Girlfriend And My Mother by Bluish44(m): 6:55pm On May 17, 2020
Story

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Re: What Happened Between My Girlfriend And My Mother by Shormiey(m): 6:56pm On May 17, 2020
I dare not talk before I chop another ban......dude, what the fvck is wrong with you? Why will you allow her to talk down on your mum like that? Hmmm!!! Time you straighten up your ways bro..or else six feets is gonna be your portion with that anger-infested lady...my quiet cent undecided

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