Everyday I wake up think about how to improve my life, take care of my mom and my little family. The thoughts of debts I have incurred.

Been long I slept for good 4hrs. Whenever I sleep, the thoughts or let me say dream of the debt I owe will suddenly wake me up.

No skill, no permanent job, only once in a while jobs like serving food in parties and light laboring jobs, half education(ssce).. Trust me, I fear for my future.

My little bro isn't in Lagos with us, but he wants to come home to visit us but he doesn't have transport fare. When I chatted to ask him when he's coming. Then I heard the bitter truth.

He told me, I'm a useless brother, that why would he have a brother like me and still be broke.

He told me to go and make money even if it's ritual, that my mates are doing better than me.

The words are stucked into my head right now and I can't get it off anytime.

Am trying to let those words motivate me do better but am not sure I can help myself alone.
No family to meet to raise me, I'm working but it's like I'm doing nothing.

What I need right now, is a way forward. I need a mentor to help me through this difficult times. I can do better than this, I believe in myself, but I don't have what it takes to be independent. I need connections, new life or a permanent paid job or mentorship.

Why not use him for money ritual, then use the money to help the remaining family members.

SUPERPACK:
Why not use him for money ritual, then use the money to help the remaining family members.

Great Idea.

SUPERPACK:
Why not use him for money ritual, then use the money to help the remaining family members.

I support this.

Na small pikin dey worry am.

Have you considered learning a trade?

SUPERPACK:
Why not use him for money ritual, then use the money to help the remaining family members.

Lol bro u wicked oo

SUPERPACK:
Why not use him for money ritual, then use the money to help the remaining family members.

Walahi, very good idea

What a silly little boy he is...
I would expect entitled behaviour like this from a lady, but coming from a guy, this is irritating behaviour.

I wish I could slap senses into your bro, make him sef go try hustle.

Oga, you do not owe him and don't make someone's entitled mentality put you in trouble. He should live his life and make his money.

No go do bad thing ooo because he go deny you.

SUPERPACK:
Why not use him for money ritual, then use the money to help the remaining family members.

Fantastic idea.

Noh make ham giv u headache o, nah small-boy still dey worry ham but u self fu*k up small o, u for 'balance' small b4 u marry naw, 4get d 'half education'.
I once wrkd at a Nigerite distributor firm walahi d chairman noh finish secondary school & all his employee nah graduates even d security guy den gt ND.
Learn a skill, Start a trade or find a beta' paying job bt dnt 4get to fast & pray o, nah Africa we dey

SUPERPACK:
Why not use him for money ritual, then use the money to help the remaining family members.

lol.. I know he's just a kid, but his words got me good

Romanoff:


I support this.

Na small pikin dey worry am.

Have you considered learning a trade?

yeah, I really wish to. But I have two things stopping me.
1. I have a kid and his mother to take care of.
2. I intend to learn fashion design, but what I was charged is more than what I make in a month.

crackhaus:
What a silly little boy he is...
I would expect entitled behaviour like this from a lady, but coming from a guy, this is irritating behaviour.

I wish I could slap senses into your bro, make him sef go try hustle.

he's a soldier bro. He just feels I should sometimes cover some of his bills

GboyegaD:
Oga, you do not owe him and don't make someone's entitled mentality put you in trouble. He should live his life and make his money.

No go do bad thing ooo because he go deny you.

he's making money. Far better than me, cus he's a military personnel. But he feels as a brother I must also provide for him not mind my financial status

AfricanGiant91:
Noh make ham giv u headache o, nah small-boy still dey worry ham but u self fu*k up small o, u for 'balance' small b4 u marry naw, 4get d 'half education'.
I once wrkd at a Nigerite distributor firm walahi d chairman noh finish secondary school & all his employee nah graduates even d security guy den gt ND.
Learn a skill, Start a trade or find a beta' paying job bt dnt 4get to fast & pray o, nah Africa we dey

I am not married yet, though I had a kid with my girlfriend.
And about the skill or starting a trade I would need finance to make them happen. And am trying to get a job also.

I pray a lot also, I hope I find breakthrough soon

Millytipzy:
yeah, I really wish to. But I have two things stopping me.
1. I have a kid and his mother to take care of.
2. I intend to learn fashion design, but what I was charged is more than what I make in a month.

How much were you charged?

Romanoff:


How much were you charged?

40k for one year training, though I was told I can pay it twice. Truly, I have passion for the fashion designing but trust me I cannot afford the quarter talk less of half

Millytipzy:
he's a soldier bro. He just feels I should sometimes cover some of his bills

What the hell kind of soldier is he?
Don't they pay soldiers anymore?

You ought to stop making excuses for his bad behaviour

crackhaus:

What the hell kind of soldier is he?
Don't they pay soldiers anymore?

You ought to stop making excuses for his bad behaviour

he's handsomely paid and am not making excuses for him.
He has sent me into brooding mood despite d fact he's financially okay than me.

For now I'm even thinking of cutting the contact between us till I make it

Millytipzy:
he's making money. Far better than me, cus he's a military personnel. But he feels as a brother I must also provide for him not mind my financial status

What a selfish entitled individual he is. Cut him off for now as you need your sanity.

GboyegaD:


What a selfish entitled individual he is. Cut him off for now as you need your sanity.

exactly what I have in mind.. I am cutting him off for some time

Tell your lil bro omo Toni baba ola,Toni baba lowo EMA baja enu e lowa.don't stress yourself 3+7=10,6+4=10,5+5=10 look at various numbers that makes 10.you time would come but try to add yourself with skills

hakeemhakeem:
Tell your lil bro omo Toni baba ola,Toni baba lowo EMA baja enu e lowa.don't stress yourself 3+7=10,6+4=10,5+5=10 look at various numbers that makes 10.you time would come but try to add yourself with skills

I understand this clearly and I will work towards acquiring a skill

Millytipzy:
40k for one year training, though I was told I can pay it twice. Truly, I have passion for the fashion designing but trust me I cannot afford the quarter talk less of half

You can get for less now o. Like 20-30k per year. Or you start with six months.

Romanoff:


You can get for less now o. Like 20-30k per year. Or you start with six months.

yeah, I understand ur concern ma. But nonetheless it's all about d payment

Your brother offered himself for money rituals, so what are you waiting for? Your brother is right, you are useless if by the end of June you have not used this brother of your for money rituals and you the money made to buy half of your village

Millytipzy:
yeah, I understand ur concern ma. But nonetheless it's all about d payment

Work towards it. Else, you'd just keep procastinating.

Romanoff:


Work towards it. Else, you'd just keep procastinating.

OK thanks

SUPERPACK:
Why not use him for money ritual, then use the money to help the remaining family members.