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Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by Chisaedhor: 5:29pm On May 07, 2021
FrLukas:


Don't you and your wife talk?

Is communication so bad between the two of you that you can't ask your wife if she's ready for the do?

Not about we talking, its about the medical side of it.
Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by babadee1(m): 5:30pm On May 07, 2021
Chisaedhor:
This is exactly 1month 5 days since my wife puts to birth. Mother and baby safe and sound via Normal Delievery

Since then I don zip up shagrin but he get as body dey do me now, as body no be firewood na.

Please is it okay to start making love to her now??

Lala abeg help a brother.

Google is giving me confusing answers

Why don't you discuss with your wife like a human being, instead of asking Google or strangers on the internet? Usually it takes at least six weeks for perineal tears to heal properly after delivery. But every woman's body is not the same. The best person that can tell you is your wife herself. Ask her.

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Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by Pele10: 5:31pm On May 07, 2021
So person no go live him normal life again becoz kon3 got problem. Abi since buhari enter aso rock 6yrs naw you never f*uck. abi buahri way kari the con3 4 head tel u say him no get time 4 pleasure?
Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by Reelmii: 5:31pm On May 07, 2021
Bmaster:
you hating on facts then,
Because true true body no be firewood
body no be firewood for both men and women oo
Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by NwaIgboBoy(m): 5:32pm On May 07, 2021
After 4yrs
Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by Pele10: 5:33pm On May 07, 2021
Like which other way pls
Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by ThankGod10: 5:33pm On May 07, 2021
Bros the exact period to Bleep ur wife after delivery is in 2weeks time i.e if it through natural means of delivery but If na through C&S give her 2months to check her health situation...

Forget that guy wey de carry country situation put 4 house na mumu de worry am.
Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by Nobody: 5:34pm On May 07, 2021
Bryan88:
Oga if u don't hav anytin meaningful to contribute, jst shot ur trap.
who be dis?
Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by Emola12(m): 5:35pm On May 07, 2021
buh u no say if u nack ur wife now like three times belle fit enter there again so ur pikin go come be say dem collect 11 month from each other hand'' my advice for u now be say go find all those woman wey dey sell (AGBO) so u go dey use al dos one dey clean mouth before ur wife go com ready again
Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by Nobody: 5:35pm On May 07, 2021
Chisaedhor:


Not about we talking, its about the medical side of it.

She's the one who knows how she feels in her body.

If you approach her and she says she's not ready that you should give her a little bit more time, then so be it.
Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by WinterMinter(m): 5:35pm On May 07, 2021
Oh that's your point,well no one is a saint
I use it when I want to enjoy myself (not sexual immorality grin )or just an excuse for being lazy
loveymom:


It irritates me mostly when people use it to justify their infidelity.
Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by pek(m): 5:36pm On May 07, 2021
There is no particular period of time. Each woman is wired differently. You can find out from her through words or action. If she doesn't want it, then let her be.

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Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by Bestmanwealthy(m): 5:36pm On May 07, 2021
If u check am and he stand I got shock am for ur narsh grin
Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by Chiomsies: 5:39pm On May 07, 2021
You can resume activities when your wife feels healed,this healing period depends largely on whether or not she had an episiotomy (tear). However,you should be good to go after 6 weeks of delivery and you have done 5weeks so goodluck.

Congratulation on your baby's arrival.

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Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by bewla(m): 5:39pm On May 07, 2021
thorpido:
Did she have a normal delivery or a C/S?
Read again you get the answer
Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by Daisukee: 5:40pm On May 07, 2021
Was once in a similar situation, baby was two months old, I called my elder sister to ask if it’s too early to start knacking my woman , she told me “ some Dey do am after one week sef, e depends on the body” jesu cool smiley

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Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by streetsoldier1(m): 5:40pm On May 07, 2021
Chisaedhor:


So because say problem full the country make I no get happiness with my family.

So I should kill my self because problem full Nigeria??

When its time to vote ona go use religion, tribe and sentiment vote. undecided

get other means of happiness nah, buy shawama, watch football especially arsenal matches.
Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by cococandy(f): 5:41pm On May 07, 2021
Normal recommendation is to wait 6 weeks MINIMUM.
But most importantly. How is she feeling?

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Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by armyofone(m): 5:41pm On May 07, 2021
How body dey do you ? Please tell us as we don't know and want to know.

Chisaedhor:
This is exactly 1month 5 days since my wife puts to birth. Mother and baby safe and sound via Normal Delievery

Since then I don zip up shagrin but he get as body dey do me now, as body no be firewood na.

Please is it okay to start making love to her now??

Lala abeg help a brother.

Google is giving me confusing answers
Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by 8stargeneral: 5:42pm On May 07, 2021
So,men na pervert a month plus u done dey complain...why u no Start after one week.
Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by cococandy(f): 5:42pm On May 07, 2021
loveymom:
I hate the slogan “body no be firewood” undecided
they use it to justify all kinds of nonsense sha

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Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by showafrica(m): 5:47pm On May 07, 2021
Chisaedhor:
This is exactly 1month 5 days since my wife puts to birth. Mother and baby safe and sound via Normal Delievery

Since then I don zip up shagrin but he get as body dey do me now, as body no be firewood na.

Please is it okay to start making love to her now??

Lala abeg help a brother.

Google is giving me confusing answers

6 weeks... Its remaining 1wk endure small. If woman born, her breast go big and attractive. If the thing succeed on you now prepare for another baby
Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by Chisaedhor: 5:48pm On May 07, 2021
showafrica:


6 weeks... Its remaining 1wk endure small. If woman born, her breast go big and attractive. If the thing succeed on you now prepare for another baby

grin grin

Thanks man.
Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by Onogiede(m): 5:50pm On May 07, 2021
Stomoney:
My prick no dey even dey stand this days and na Buhari cause ahm grin
���chia naija my people,...I just too love Nigeria if not this useless silly entity set of government,..it will raise my brother
Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by Nuliberry: 5:50pm On May 07, 2021
Chisaedhor:
This is exactly 1month 5 days since my wife puts to birth. Mother and baby safe and sound via Normal Delievery

Since then I don zip up shagrin but he get as body dey do me now, as body no be firewood na.

Please is it okay to start making love to her now??

Lala abeg help a brother.

Google is giving me confusing answers




Google answers = Different people, different experiences, may be after you are done, you upload your experience on Google too smiley.

Please kindly give your wife more time except you want to use style carry another baby ASAP( twins).
On a more serious note;
If she is doing exclusive breast feeding ( when I say exclusive, I mean complete exclusive, no baby formular of any kind, no water, baby is constantly suckling as and when needed) for six months, then this might suffice as a form of contraceptive, also you can add the knowledge of natural family planning if you know it, it will surely help you and your wife.

Hold body ooh, get knowledge asap before you do anything ooh, having baby back to back has never been palatable to the woman and the man.
Meanwhile you can curdle etc while you wait for the right time.
I hope this helps.

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Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by PDPGuy: 5:51pm On May 07, 2021
Wait till next month
Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by seyz91(m): 5:51pm On May 07, 2021
naso google and other search engine be

always complicating simple issue

adding more salt to person orange

my brother One month after birth you can continou to enter the place again and come out as you like
Chisaedhor:
This is exactly 1month 5 days since my wife puts to birth. Mother and baby safe and sound via Normal Delievery

Since then I don zip up shagrin but he get as body dey do me now, as body no be firewood na.

Please is it okay to start making love to her now??

Lala abeg help a brother.

Google is giving me confusing answers
Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by officialmario(m): 5:52pm On May 07, 2021
1month and 5days is far nah....
after she stop seeing bloob, you can knack apako, but make sure you always withdraw.
Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by showafrica(m): 5:52pm On May 07, 2021
Chisaedhor:


grin grin

Thanks man.

Yea my own no gree me, i fire 3 weeks self. I no kill anybody
Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by Chisaedhor: 5:53pm On May 07, 2021
showafrica:


Yea my own no gree me, i fire 3 weeks self. I no kill anybody

grin cheesy
Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by seyz91(m): 5:53pm On May 07, 2021
did you read the thread at all? undecided

what a question?

na people like you dey disturb invigilators or course lecture questions again after the instructions have been written above the question paper
thorpido:
Did she have a normal delivery or a C/S?

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Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by Nobody: 5:53pm On May 07, 2021
InaNla [url:
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What should help be fvcking before then? angry

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