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Re: Over-Pampered Kids Are Very Troublesome And Stubborn by Hndrrxxx(m): 7:39pm On May 09, 2021
What of kids wy dem no show love at all??


Killers grin grin

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Re: Over-Pampered Kids Are Very Troublesome And Stubborn by Tedpgrass: 7:40pm On May 09, 2021
It's dependent on a few factors..

If you correct early and talk them through the process. Often corrections don't need the stick or the naughty corner model, I find

Just the "corner eye", we both understand each other. grin grin...


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Re: Over-Pampered Kids Are Very Troublesome And Stubborn by karzyharsky(m): 7:40pm On May 09, 2021
Especially parent with just a child.....they too over-pamper

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Re: Over-Pampered Kids Are Very Troublesome And Stubborn by Nobody: 7:41pm On May 09, 2021
I love babies cool
Re: Over-Pampered Kids Are Very Troublesome And Stubborn by ChiefSosa(m): 7:41pm On May 09, 2021
NwaNimo1:
Don't worry.....there's no money for pamper's again

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Re: Over-Pampered Kids Are Very Troublesome And Stubborn by Mekanus(m): 7:42pm On May 09, 2021
Belafonte:


Exactly. Pain is a natural, necessary human phenomenon. Depriving your child of learning from pain by setting boundaries and correcting deviant behaviour will end in tears for both parent and child
Not only the parent but the society at large.

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Re: Over-Pampered Kids Are Very Troublesome And Stubborn by CourseCrib(m): 7:43pm On May 09, 2021
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Re: Over-Pampered Kids Are Very Troublesome And Stubborn by Angrygoat: 7:45pm On May 09, 2021
I will never smack my kid till he does the unbelievable. Unless that pikin do spoil from womb. That is why DNA na must
Re: Over-Pampered Kids Are Very Troublesome And Stubborn by ChiefSosa(m): 7:47pm On May 09, 2021
grin

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Re: Over-Pampered Kids Are Very Troublesome And Stubborn by iampeterben(m): 7:48pm On May 09, 2021
Very true dealing with one now.

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Re: Over-Pampered Kids Are Very Troublesome And Stubborn by INCREDIBLE007(m): 7:51pm On May 09, 2021
truth be told over pampering is a net destroyer of destiny
parents and would be parents
don't over pamper your children

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Re: Over-Pampered Kids Are Very Troublesome And Stubborn by Glamouzpeter(f): 7:52pm On May 09, 2021
Sunnyshinylight:
Spiritual strength and courage are needed for our spiritual warfare and suffering.

Those who would prove themselves to have true grace, must aim at all grace; and put on the whole armour of God, which he prepares and bestows.

The Christian armour is made to be worn; and there is no putting off our armour till we have done our warfare, and finished our course.y

The combat is not against human enemies, nor against our own corrupt nature only; we have to do with an enemy who has more than a thousand ways of beguiling unstable souls.


The devils assault us in the things that belong to our souls, and labour to deface the heavenly image in our hearts. Wow.

We must resolve by God's grace, not to yield to Satan.

Resist him, and he will flee. If we give way, he will get ground. If we distrust either our cause, or our Leader, or our armour, we give him advantage.

The different parts of the armour of heavy-armed soldiers, who had to sustain the fiercest assaults of the enemy, are here described.

There is none for the back; nothing to defend those who turn back in the Christian warfare.

Truth, or sincerity, is the girdle. This girds on all the other pieces of our armour, and is first mentioned.

There can be no religion without sincerity.

The righteousness of Christ, imputed to us, is a breastplate against the arrows of Divine wrath.

The righteousness of Christ implanted in us, fortifies the heart against the attacks of Satan.

Resolution must be as greaves, or armour to our legs; and to stand their ground or to march forward in rugged paths, the feet must be shod with the preparation of the gospel of peace.

Motives to obedience, amidst trials, must be drawn from a clear knowledge of the gospel.

Faith is all in all in an hour of temptation. Faith, as relying on unseen objects, receiving Christ and the benefits of redemption, and so deriving grace from him, is like a shield, a defence every way.

The devil is the wicked one. Violent temptations, by which the soul is set on fire of hell, are darts Satan shoots at us.

Also, hard thoughts of God, and as to ourselves.

Faith applying the word of God and the grace of Christ, quenches the darts of temptation.

Salvation must be our helmet. A good hope of salvation, a Scriptural expectation of victory, will purify the soul, and keep it from being defiled by Satan.

To the Christian armed for defense in battle, the apostle recommends only one weapon of attack; but it is enough, the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God. It subdues and mortifies evil desires and blasphemous thoughts as they rise within; and answers unbelief and error as they assault from without.


A single text, well understood, and rightly applied, at once destroys a temptation or an objection, and subdues the most formidable adversary.

Prayer must fasten all the other parts of our Christian armour. There are other duties of religion, and of our stations in the world, but we must keep up times of prayer.

Though set and solemn prayer may not be seasonable when other duties are to be done, yet short pious prayers darted out, always are so. We must use holy thoughts in our ordinary course. A vain heart will be vain in prayer.

We must pray with all kinds of prayer, public, private, and secret; social and solitary; solemn and sudden: with all the parts of prayer; confession of sin, petition for mercy, and thanksgiving for favours received.

And we must do it by the grace of God the Holy Spirit, in dependence on, and according to, his teaching.


We must preserve in particular requests, notwithstanding discouragements. We must pray, not for ourselves only, but for all saints.

Our enemies are mighty, and we are without strength, but our Redeemer is almighty, and in the power of his mighty we may overcome.

Wherefore we must stir up ourselves. Have not we, when God has called, often neglected to answer? Let us think upon these things, and continue our prayers with patience.

Please I was unable to read till the end
Thank u

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Re: Over-Pampered Kids Are Very Troublesome And Stubborn by Edusouls(m): 7:53pm On May 09, 2021
Yeah that’s the kind of kids produced to the society today by equally foolish parents

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Re: Over-Pampered Kids Are Very Troublesome And Stubborn by akin9ja78(m): 8:02pm On May 09, 2021
Forget if your kid stubborn its because you or your father or mother is stubborn, allow the kid rest abeg.

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Re: Over-Pampered Kids Are Very Troublesome And Stubborn by matm: 8:03pm On May 09, 2021
No child abuse is greater than not instilling discipline in a child.
When u fail to discipline ur child when he errs or pick quarrel with whoever does so,u are a contributor to 99 percent of what we are going through in Nigeria today.
That so called cute baby is tomorrow's adult.
The beign u call a child today can be tomorrow's governor,president etc.But on the other hand,he can be tomorrow's terrorist .I don't want my child to feel pain,and u forget that the world in which we are is a jungle of survival of the strong at heart and the fittest.

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Re: Over-Pampered Kids Are Very Troublesome And Stubborn by Lama70(m): 8:06pm On May 09, 2021
SeaTrade:
One thing I really hate.
If I will ever have children,if you Bleep up the way I go take kick you ehn,
Unless maybe na female child sha but as for stubborn boys,I've got their medicine.
The mother will only vex but nothing will stop me from teaching the kid a bitter lesson,
Nonsense!

It's obvious you hate boys. Do you know that you can end up having all boys
Re: Over-Pampered Kids Are Very Troublesome And Stubborn by Mariokenny(m): 8:08pm On May 09, 2021
You forgot to mention kids raised by single mothers.

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Re: Over-Pampered Kids Are Very Troublesome And Stubborn by Cnach: 8:08pm On May 09, 2021
BluntCrazeMan:
Over-pampred Kids are very troublesome and Stubborn - Especially to those parents who usually do the over-pampring on them in the name of LOVE.
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A parent who claims to love the kid won't even correct the kid, because the kid is a kid.
The time the kid becomes stubborn and troublesome, the parent would start to compare and complain
Those are the list of their wahala. U don enter their trap before? Na that time u go knows say human being don over take devil

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Re: Over-Pampered Kids Are Very Troublesome And Stubborn by LikeAking: 8:11pm On May 09, 2021
BluntCrazeMan:
Over-pampred Kids are very troublesome and Stubborn - Especially to those parents who usually do the over-pampring on them in the name of LOVE.
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A parent who claims to love the kid won't even correct the kid, because the kid is a kid.
The time the kid becomes stubborn and troublesome, the parent would start to compare and complain

You need that troublesome and sturborness to survive in this world.

A good reason why the over pampared kids are making it big and the others are still in dia shells. Take Burna Boy for eg.

Guy no go dull your children oh.
Re: Over-Pampered Kids Are Very Troublesome And Stubborn by OmovuduTheBeast(f): 8:11pm On May 09, 2021
ThatFairGuy1:
Not far from truth

NA SO ONE AFONJA HEAD SLAMMING MAN CALLED NASIRU OLAWALE TAKE SPOIL HIM USELESS PIKIN FOR IRAGBIJI, OSUN STATE.

EKPA!!!

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Re: Over-Pampered Kids Are Very Troublesome And Stubborn by ThatFairGuy1: 8:16pm On May 09, 2021
Uncouth Boy, getout
OmovuduTheBeast:


NA SO ONE AFONJA HEAD SLAMMING MAN CALLED NASIRU OLAWALE TAKE SPOIL HIM USELESS PIKIN FOR IRAGBIJI, OSUN STATE.

EKPA!!!

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Re: Over-Pampered Kids Are Very Troublesome And Stubborn by cococandy(f): 8:16pm On May 09, 2021
BluntCrazeMan:
This is typical of those:
“I love my baby.. I don't want my baby to cry... If my baby cries, it tears my heart apart.”
...
The baby had reached FOUR YEARS, and the baby is still a baby.
a four year old is still a baby.
Re: Over-Pampered Kids Are Very Troublesome And Stubborn by LikeAking: 8:17pm On May 09, 2021
OmovuduTheBeast:


NA SO ONE AFONJA HEAD SLAMMING MAN CALLED NASIRU OLAWALE TAKE SPOIL HIM USELESS PIKIN FOR IRAGBIJI, OSUN STATE.

EKPA!!!

And you think the ones floging their kids, their kids no spoil.

You bring up a child for adulthood, you bring up a child for the world.

At the end the success of youe child is the most important thing.

Take Burna Boy for eg, Is success is because he came from a family were he was pampaered. Burna boy was trained like a King and the world treats him that way. The dude cant settle for less like most of us and the world dey obey him commands.

The rich bring their kids up like kings, while the poor bring their kids up like servants.

A good reason why poor families remain poor from generation to genration.
Re: Over-Pampered Kids Are Very Troublesome And Stubborn by Nobody: 8:18pm On May 09, 2021
While over pampering is bad, some people love to pass on pure cruelty and wickedness in the name of discipline, when the kids start rebelling against the cruelty they are stubborn

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Re: Over-Pampered Kids Are Very Troublesome And Stubborn by ofiko123(m): 8:19pm On May 09, 2021
What is the use of overpamparing a child when you know that the child might not turn out good..

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Re: Over-Pampered Kids Are Very Troublesome And Stubborn by Celly2020: 8:19pm On May 09, 2021
This topic just came at the right time, my elder brother came to my house this evening and her over pampard child don't even alloy us discuss issue that we suppose to discuss because of as brothers because the kind condition the child plug this evening

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Re: Over-Pampered Kids Are Very Troublesome And Stubborn by LikeAking: 8:22pm On May 09, 2021
SeaTrade:
One thing I really hate.
If I will ever have children,if you Bleep up the way I go take kick you ehn,
Unless maybe na female child sha but as for stubborn boys,I've got their medicine.
The mother will only vex but nothing will stop me from teaching the kid a bitter lesson,
Nonsense!

Guy calm down.

You need your sons to be rugged in a civilized way.

Life is not for sheeps.

Parents are the number one destroyers of their kids destiny.
Re: Over-Pampered Kids Are Very Troublesome And Stubborn by emmabest2000(m): 8:26pm On May 09, 2021
SeaTrade:
One thing I really hate.
If I will ever have children,if you Bleep up the way I go take kick you ehn,
Unless maybe na female child sha but as for stubborn boys,I've got their medicine.
The mother will only vex but nothing will stop me from teaching the kid a bitter lesson,
Nonsense!

If you kick them anyhow when they are kids
when you grow older and they are all matured they will kick you back grin

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Re: Over-Pampered Kids Are Very Troublesome And Stubborn by LikeAking: 8:28pm On May 09, 2021
At the end the success of the children 9 mater.

If the over pampared kids become richer than the so called disciplined kids. SHAME!

Over pampered kids are the winners las, las. They dont settle for less, they fear no one, they get what ever they want in life.

Make una go investigate.

The truth of life is hidden from mankind.

Majority of what we call right is 100% wrong.

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Re: Over-Pampered Kids Are Very Troublesome And Stubborn by nwanyiugbo122(f): 8:39pm On May 09, 2021
Very true. I work in a private school where you dare not touch a child in the name of discipline, when you mistakenly do, the child will tell his or her parents, the parents will come and be giving serious warning infront of the child that him/her as the parent doesn't beat his children not to talk of a teacher, you will see a student touching a teacher's hair in admiration, you will see them talking back at the teacher carelessly, even when you are correcting them, they will be smiling stupidly without remorse. Parents are breeding uncultured children in the name of pampering. I have kids, I love them, but can't condone any act of misbehaviour from them.

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