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Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by SniperSmurf(m): 10:26am On May 10, 2021
BluntCrazeMan:
Someone posted the Prayer-Point below on Facebook, and a lot of women were shouting “Amen ooo”:

“God abeg, put my husband in a position where I will secretly withdraw ₦1m+ from his account & he won't notice”
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Honestly speaking, some prayers don't deserve an “Amen”, no matter how it is disguised.
Some people may think that the poster was joking, and maybe join in the “Amen” bandwagon jokingly, not knowing that she just prayed to become an in-house thief.
.
See, if you want God to make your husband very very very rich, then ask God directly to make your husband very very very rich. And God will make your husband very very very rich, to the extent that he would be constantly dropping that type of huge sums for you for no reason at-all, and he would always say: “Oohh, It’s nothing my dear, just keep it”.
(I mean, must it be that you must take it “secretly”, before you know that God has answered your prayers??)
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Then, if you want God to make you to become an unnoticed In-House Thief, then ask God directly to make you an unnoticed In-House Thief, or ask HIM to make all your In-house thefts to always successfully go unnoticed.
In that case, God will understand, and HE will grant you your heart's desires.
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Let me make it very clear.
If your interest is actually in “Secretly Stealing” your husband's money, and you're praying that all your thefts would go unnoticed; then, even when the money is no more there in abundance, since the stealing behaviour had already entered deep into your blood, you will still go and steal the little shishiii wey remain.
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In fact, this question below is for such ladies who say this kind of prayer, (or those who reply “Amen” to such prayers), I would like to hear from you..
What exactly would you do if you discover that your son is praying such prayers too??
(Yes.. His parents' money is also his money, because the bulk of the money will eventually be spent on him - so he has the right to be secretly stealing the money too.... Isn't it??)

I think there is a command in the 10 commandments that says : Thou shalt not steal .That kind of prayer to steal from your husband is dead on arrival. In fact God might punish you for that. Anyway that was astute observation Op!

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Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by Romanoff(f): 10:27am On May 10, 2021
SweetDipBenny:
Go nd work! Abi future nobi female again undecided

The work I've done in my life, no female in your life can boast of it.

You think it's every woman that's a leech.

No let me drag you o, you no go fit stand am.

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Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by Dreyton36: 10:30am On May 10, 2021
Na love
No let mumu and over seriousness kill u
If I find my wife worthy enough to marry, Dem no born her well not to steal my money
Besides she doesn't need to ask before she's given

Na stingy man dey get thief as a wife

Lights up my kpoli in peace

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Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by Romanoff(f): 10:33am On May 10, 2021
Dreyton36:
Na love
No let mumu and over seriousness kill u
If I find my wife worthy enough to marry, Dem no born her well not to steal my money
Besides she doesn't need to ask before she's given

Na stingy man dey get thief as a wife

Lights up my kpoli in peace

May God bless you. I just wonder which kind husbands some women go get.

You no spend when Una dey do relationship, you no wan spend for your wife again.
Who else wan spend your money is not your wife?

Turn your wife to thief cause you be aka gum.

God help us o.

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Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by Nobody: 10:46am On May 10, 2021
Dreyton36:
Na love
No let mumu and over seriousness kill u
If I find my wife worthy enough to marry, Dem no born her well not to steal my money
Besides she doesn't need to ask before she's given

Na stingy man dey get thief as a wife

Lights up my kpoli in peace

Totally with you on the boldened, unfortunately many men are having headaches about flimsy things because they forget that she is a wife, not just any random woman....

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Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by Daradared2(f): 10:46am On May 10, 2021
me, i do, if he is in need, i give him back. hubby is a recklessness spender and he is fully aware that i do take his money. I used the one i can, and i save the one i can.

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Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by tk4rd: 10:50am On May 10, 2021
Lollittaa:

you're a stingy man angry
Like seriously??
He said that he usually gives the wife money, even without her demanding for it.
..
What makes it stingy again?
Please explain better
Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by Nobody: 10:51am On May 10, 2021
tk4rd:
Like seriously??
He said that he usually gives the wife money, even without her demanding for it.
..
What makes it stingy again?
Please explain better
please go away angry
Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by saphiere(f): 10:57am On May 10, 2021
[s]
BluntCrazeMan:
Someone posted the Prayer-Point below on Facebook, and a lot of women were shouting “Amen ooo”:

“God abeg, put my husband in a position where I will secretly withdraw ₦1m+ from his account & he won't notice”
..
Honestly speaking, some prayers don't deserve an “Amen”, no matter how it is disguised.
Some people may think that the poster was joking, and maybe join in the “Amen” bandwagon jokingly, not knowing that she just prayed to become an in-house thief.
.
See, if you want God to make your husband very very very rich, then ask God directly to make your husband very very very rich. And God will make your husband very very very rich, to the extent that he would be constantly dropping that type of huge sums for you for no reason at-all, and he would always say: “Oohh, It’s nothing my dear, just keep it”.
(I mean, must it be that you must take it “secretly”, before you know that God has answered your prayers??)
..
Then, if you want God to make you to become an unnoticed In-House Thief, then ask God directly to make you an unnoticed In-House Thief, or ask HIM to make all your In-house thefts to always successfully go unnoticed.
In that case, God will understand, and HE will grant you your heart's desires.
..
Let me make it very clear.
If your interest is actually in “Secretly Stealing” your husband's money, and you're praying that all your thefts would go unnoticed; then, even when the money is no more there in abundance, since the stealing behaviour had already entered deep into your blood, you will still go and steal the little shishiii wey remain.
..
In fact, this question below is for such ladies who say this kind of prayer, (or those who reply “Amen” to such prayers), I would like to hear from you..
What exactly would you do if you discover that your son is praying such prayers too??
(Yes.. His parents' money is also his money, because the bulk of the money will eventually be spent on him - so he has the right to be secretly stealing the money too.... Isn't it??)
[/s]What they mean is, God should make their husbands so rich to a point that even if they get 1m from him it won't affect his pocket.

It takes a sound mind to understand this.
Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by Bluntsisi: 10:57am On May 10, 2021
Lollittaa:

you're a stingy man angry
grin grin cheesy
In-House Thief Spotted.!!
cheesy cheesy grin

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Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by SweetDipBenny(m): 10:59am On May 10, 2021
Romanoff:


The work I've done in my life, no female in your life can boast of it.

You think it's every woman that's a leech.

No let me drag you o, you no go fit stand am.
Pls dont drag me. U cud b right. I dunno u nd i dunno d type of hustle u into undecided
Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by Nobody: 10:59am On May 10, 2021
Bluntsisi:
grin grin cheesy
In-House Thief Spotted.!!
cheesy cheesy grin
Why are you rude
Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by Bluntsisi: 11:00am On May 10, 2021
Lollittaa:

Why are you rude
Nothing.
Forgerrit

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Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by Nobody: 11:00am On May 10, 2021
Daradared2:
me, i do, if he is in need, i give him back. hubby is a recklessness spender and he is fully aware that i do take his money. I used the one i can, and i save the one i can.

Thumbs up my friend, the boldened is all it is about...because we are wise savers and will always show forth when they need it, ñoone should call it stealing, it is working togther to build the home..

If a man counts every money his wife takes from him, will he also count how many times she has given too...
Like I said, it is fun to do both ways then gist and yab over and it goes on and on.

Marriage is what you make of it, Dear Op, in the long run the attraction wears out, beauty fades, breast and penis shrinks, buttocks sags, 6 packs become packless, slim become fat or vice versa ,wrinkles and white hair come etc.
You see the little moments you share with wife,husband and kids and make them memorable are the only things that never wears out,,
If you always make those memories full of anger and resentment that is all the partner,kids will remember.

Op, Like I always say, this life no hard, pls dont make it harder, if she take ur money, na with prayers that heaven will answer provide more...
Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by Romanoff(f): 11:07am On May 10, 2021
SweetDipBenny:
Pls dont drag me. U cud b right. I dunno u nd i dunno d type of hustle u into undecided

Thank you.

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Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by moneyissweet(m): 11:09am On May 10, 2021
She don thief from me Taya sote I don dey give her all the money to keep for me. Since then my money dey in tact.

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Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by BluntCrazeMan: 11:14am On May 10, 2021
Lollittaa:

why so selfish angry
Selfish??
I guess you got me wrongly here
Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by BluntCrazeMan: 11:23am On May 10, 2021
femi4:
Like buying aso ebi cos your friends insist you must buy.

An average woman cannot separate her needs from wants.
Women and Aso-ebi...
Women and fashion.
..
At times, women think that what they take as priorities are also priorities for the men.
-- Fashion Accessories and Aso-ebi things for instance.
(Colour Of the Day at events, Every Month change of Wardrobe, e.t.c)
Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by BluntCrazeMan: 11:26am On May 10, 2021
Romanoff:


Probably cause those friends also bought her own asoebi.

All in all I tell women to hustle for their own money in marriage. You can buy yourself anything you want without hubby thinking he's doing you a favour.

Truth is, na money dey yab man.

If a man is rich, all these won't be an issue. The woman can even sit at home, lounge and Spa and hubby will be filling out allowance with joy.
You see your Bolded Statement,, that is what we continue to pray for.
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So that No Jupiter or Hades (whether from the heavens or from the hells) would ever bring it inside her mind to leave all those fat allowances in her account, and still think of stealing anything again for any reason..
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Let that spirit of stealing disappear and die.!!
Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by Romanoff(f): 11:28am On May 10, 2021
BluntCrazeMan:
You see your Bolded Statement,, that is what we continue to pray for.
..
So that No Jupiter or Hades would ever bring it inside her mind to leave all those fat allowances in her account, and still think of stealing anything again for any reason..
..
Let that spirit of stealing disappear and die.!!

Amen brother.

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Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by geunik(m): 11:30am On May 10, 2021
Romanoff:
It's for one reason, if they ask the husband, he won't give. But if you take it without informing him, most of them don't even know money was taken from them.

Makes me wonder why they just don't give their wife the money. Money that she will still go an steal from your wallet.

If you wife has a need and it's a genuine need, give her money.

You no gree give your girlfriend, you no wan give your wife.

Who you wan come give?

I'm not in support of theft in any form but give your wife money.

I know a wife who has borrowed money from almost all loan apps to the point that one loan app sent messages to all her contacts cause she couldn't meet up with payment.

Her husband is doing well, I am not aware of any house project they are doing so it makes me wonder why he doesn't give his wife money and he won't let her work.
Money to buy 69k soap
Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by Unitedabby(m): 11:34am On May 10, 2021
CharisEleos:
Taking ones belongings without their consent or knowledge is stealing. That you're their spouse doesn't justify it at all. Stealing is stealing. Period!

If I happen to get married tomorrow, I can never do such by His grace.

I wonder how some people are comfortable going into their hubby's wardrobe and "fabbing" (according to one of them) some of his money. It's preposterous. You're no different from the theif who breaks into people's houses and steal their stuff.

Men and Women, please stop it!
Kai this one weak me! You be bae Joh �

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Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by Romanoff(f): 11:37am On May 10, 2021
geunik:

Money to buy 69k soap

Why you self go marry woman wey dey use 69k soap of you no fit afford that lifestyle?

Don't make the mistake of marrying a woman who can't afford her vanity or whose vanity you can't afford.

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Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by BluntCrazeMan: 11:37am On May 10, 2021
unscripted:
bro , let love lead,, I woman that loves you properly will not take money that will harm you .. a woman that you care for properly will only take things you can both laugh about ..
You see, if she takes ₦20k out of ₦800k, no wahalla.. But if I get to notice it, she must tell me what she did with it...
But you see, for someone to take out ₦20k out of ₦40k,, hmmmmm..
..
In fact, taking away ordinary ₦1000 out of ₦5,000 is very dangerous.
And if you ask her about the ₦1k, she will be like:
“So, just because of ordinary ₦1k, you're doing as I the whole world is coming down on us?”
Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by BluntCrazeMan: 11:41am On May 10, 2021
igbosoupkitchen:


You have not quoted me well brother, recall i said we cant steal what is ours right?? Recall I also said we know it is btw us and never get the kids involved..
Only daddy and mummy knows where and how their money is kept so dont worry anout the kids.

Note that I said it is fun because we have "understanding" this wil not work where there is no understanding, cos in that case u will have fathers shouting at their wives in front of the children even extend the rantings to the kids..then it cant be fun, cos the children will begin to see their mother ad what the father called her , a thief *
Ok..
I got you now.
At least, the “Understanding” part takes care of it.
Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by focus7: 11:47am On May 10, 2021
Even my own that carry spirituality put for head like Jesus younger sister ehn, when it comes to money she behaves corny.

But me I dey throw face away o like say I no notice because last last she either spend it on home, the children or herself to my pride

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Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by BluntCrazeMan: 11:54am On May 10, 2021
Dreyton36:
Na love
No let mumu and over seriousness kill u
If I find my wife worthy enough to marry, Dem no born her well not to steal my money
Besides she doesn't need to ask before she's given

Na stingy man dey get thief as a wife

Lights up my kpoli in peace
Bro,, You never marry.. So Chill..
Come Back Five Years After your marriage.
At-least, by that time, with all your free-handedness towards her, you can come back and tell us that she no dey steal from you. Then we can agree with your Bolded Statement.
Because, once she dares to steal from you, then you had been stingy to her. Q.E.D
Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by BluntCrazeMan: 12:00pm On May 10, 2021
saphiere:
What they mean is, God should make their husbands so rich to a point that even if they get 1m from him it won't affect his pocket.

It takes a sound mind to understand this.
Mista-Woman, I think you and your sound mind should just get lost.
..
You need to weigh your thoughts and opinions from every possible angle before vomiting it out to the public.
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She clearly prayed for “Secretly Take”..
And not “GET..”
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And the whole arguments on this thread is about the “Secretly Taking”, which we had also established as “Stealing”..
If you support the stealing, then you state your reasons here, let us read it and analyse your response.
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So, don't Derail us with your silly sound-mind bla-bla-bla.
Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by Nobody: 12:14pm On May 10, 2021
BluntCrazeMan:
Ok..
I got you now.
At least, the “Understanding” part takes care of it.

Glad we are on the same page bro cheesy, thanks for being open minded, a rare occurrence on nairaland!!
Respect!!

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Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by daveP(m): 12:26pm On May 10, 2021
Sit people down for a month with a sound and proper Teacher of the Word, and let them learn About Prayer and you'll be shocked more than Half don't know how to pray truthfully asides the usual Kabashing that hides this sorry fact.

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Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by nick50(m): 1:12pm On May 10, 2021
Every women steals from thier husband cos they feel entitled to his money... No matter how rich a woman is she directly/indirectly steals from her husband

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Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by sofiscatedmoron: 1:15pm On May 10, 2021
Nigerian girls are obviously use less

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