Lemmy123:

I said same religion... And religion is not the total way of life, culture is... I'm resisting the urge to call you names right now, but I won't

Now look at this:
You met a guy, he's everything you want in a man, caring, passionate, handsome maybe, well comported, gentle, intelligent and responsible man.. You're excited, you can't wait to introduce him to your parents, but suddenly he told you he's a Christian, and you're a Muslim, or told you he's a Muslim and you're a Christian..
Now because of your principles, which I don't know where you got them from, you let him go with all those rare qualities, never giving him a chance because he practices a different religion.. How does that make you look? Almost stupid isn't it? Yes, that's what I wanted you to see..

We're all human first before we're Christians or Muslims

Sometimes it saddens me when people put religion far above humanity.
..What then is the essence of "love your neighbor as yourself"
..the parable of -- the Christian who was late for church and refused to stop and help a dying man vs the Good Samaritan who did..should give people who carry religion on their head something to reflect on.
.. sometimes when I see kids from different tribes and religious backgrounds playing together happily and heartily..I feel SAD.
Why?..because in a few years...that innocence will be replaced with different shades of bigotry infused in them over time by their parents and community.

BarrElChapo:


What's important for one might be inconsequential to the other. That said take your L in peace. Love & Light bro

Seriously? My L?
Alright, peace out to you bruh

obembet:


Please change your mentality. Everything is not about money. Money is good but money is not everything. We see beyond money

Auntie forget that thing,...you go say you I mean you see beyond money...
Don't use We...it's wrong to speak for others without their consent...

halogate:

Sometimes it saddens me when people put religion far above humanity.
..What then is the essence of "love your neighbor as yourself"
..the parable of -- the Christian who was late for church and refused to stop and help a dying man vs the Good Samaritan who did..should give people who carry religion on their head something to reflect on.
.. sometimes when I see kids from different tribes and religious backgrounds playing together happily and heartily..I feel SAD.
Why?..because in a few years...that innocence will be replaced with different shades of bigotry infused in them over time by their parents and community.

Oil dey your head, you go school well...
As innocent as we were as kids, we used to follow our friends to their place of worship and they too did come with us to our until our parents made us see reasons why we shouldn't, giving both imaginary and concocted reasons... So, it's just a matter of time before we become enemies of ourselves, that's if we had not been already

Lemmy123:

Oil dey your head, you go school well...
As innocent as we were as kids, we used to follow our friends to their place of worship and they too did come with us to our until our parents made us see reasons why we shouldn't, giving both imaginary and concocted reasons... So, it's just a matter of time before we become enemies of ourselves, that's if we had not been already

Sadly..we have become.
..the circle continues..
.. another generation of bigots
..the divide increases
..evil continues to thrive.
.. humanity continues to suffer.
:::To ur first comment. I wonder if the angels would ask her what church she attended while on earth?..maybe the zone and branch she belonged to, plus the pastor in charge.
...Turning down a good and caring man God has sent because he attends a different church.

halogate:

Sadly..we have become.
..the circle continues..
.. another generation of bigots
..the divide increases
..evil continues to thrive.
.. humanity continues to suffer.
:::To ur first comment. I wonder if the angels would ask her what church she attended while on earth?..maybe the zone and branch she belonged to, plus the pastor in charge.
...Turning down a good and caring man God has sent because he attends a different church.

What can we say?

paulolee:
have been on this bea matter for a month n she finally agree to go out on a date with me, i asked us to start a relationship n she told me dt she cnt even think about it because m too broke n have pride, she said my ego is too big for a gee dt is broke n isnt famous..
I was pained n dt was d last time I took a bea for a date....no time to de stress myself over girls wey dey after money than love..

Bro, it is hard to conceive but you self think am. Maybe God just used that girl to remind you that you are not there yet. Nothing good comes easy, so to have a easy life, bro, I call you again, if you don't have any reason to make money, juat make the money (legal hustle). Sometimes average is not the answer.

Lemmy123:

I said same religion... And religion is not the total way of life, culture is...

I'm resisting the urge to call you names right now, but I won't

Now look at this:
You met a guy, he's everything you want in a man, caring, passionate, handsome maybe, well comported, gentle, intelligent and responsible man.. You're excited, you can't wait to introduce him to your parents, but suddenly he told you he's a Christian, and you're a Muslim, or told you he's a Muslim and you're a Christian..
Now because of your principles, which I don't know where you got them from, you let him go with all those rare qualities, never giving him a chance because he practices a different religion.. How does that make you look? Almost stupid isn't it? Yes, that's what I wanted you to see..

We're all human first before we're Christians or Muslims

You see, that's where you're getting it wrong. You've never read beyond the scope of social studies.
So religion is not a set of belief that guides one life? Wait, do you not know all cultures(principalities aspect of it) are formed from religion.
The above emboldened part does not make any sense grammatically but I understand.
Now, you yourself are the very evidence of why such a union will not work—difference in set of beliefs.
I simply gave a discerning view but you're itching to call me names. Careful there, your hypocrisy is showing.
Now to address your poor excuse of an example. When you say everything you want in a partner does it not occur to you that some people consider religion and in the true sense they are not "everything"? Can you not see that, like those whom you would refer to as extremist, your beliefs and "qualities" supercedes other's? "Since I don't consider religion therefore you too must not or you're foolish". Doesn't that capture your myopic thinking?
Say for example, a Muslim woman imagines that her idea of a loving husband wakes her up for the fair (morning) prayer and together they observe solah as it is their way of life
Or a Christian man cherishes that he admonishes his family every morning with the scriptures as an important aspect of his life. So these qualities, in your own mind, are not differences when their ideals can not be achieved when they are of different religion?

If you take 5 seconds to analyse what you are saying, you would realise what you've written is just full of projections applauded by people of like mind keeping you stuck in an echo chamber.

Another example incase you're a slow person. If you wanted to get married or at least form a relationship, I presume "not taking religion seriously" is part of the qualities you would look out for. So if you see someone that has "everything" but insists on their religious principles, would you not separate from her? And if you do so isn't that within your right as an individual without being called foolish?
I would really like to know your answers to this questions mr.intellectual.

Note: what do you mean by humanity first? Have they denied you anything within your right by not giving in to a relationship with you or are you the one trying to truncate their rights and freedom by forcing your opinion on them?

very funny, :Dvery funny, she meant ur pocket is short guy, once u have money height no b pblr

Goodybagyo1:
How many inches are you?

am 5.5 feet tall

AKAyomide:

I also experience that from a girl I gave so much attentions to express herself to, gave her a lot of times to discuss with her but she told me I was a nice person, kind and intelligent but she could not date me because I am short.I am 169cm tall. I have to settle down for friendship with her.

Men that shit ain't nice fah!

Chibyko:
One told me I was too old for her�... Mehn!
I was 27 and she was 20. I took the pain with my full chest and moved on. I am happily married and expecting my first Baby. I hope she is happy wherever she is.

Thats good

dalass:

Well, was that brutal

A litle bit.

Spiff20:
how many feet are you?

am 5.5 feet

Mo10go:
E get one girl way I dey talk to when I dey Uni, this bae like meee but she no fit date me, I just decided to chill for her for like 2 months without checking on her anymore and she don't care, "F2F friendship" later in holiday we jam for akure we both of us dey stay, e get on my friend way him house b like paradise he just call me make I come over for a week,I Sha move to his side and him sef no dey hear make girl dey Bleep guys up, I just use d opportunity call the baby like 2 days and she was angry that I didn't call her, 3rd day I carry her go Chicken republic and she shop for him family, I don't care, later way she go house nah call on call say If I like make I just disappear again, I was sorry baby I'm ready to stay, a week after I told her to visit me in my house and she came over, she shock wen she see settings, I give her chicken with Chivita and after she shop pepper soup,I just decide to leave her for dinning me the watch ball for my own room, she text me on phone that where I dey,I give her the direction and she almost faint wen she get inside, I was like today is judgement day for us, she start talking about relationship, where my girlfriend and blabla,I was like I don't have girlfriend oo,she don't even ask who get the house, we talk and talk and the end we no no who off light but when she later find out that no be my house and she dey ask for money money,me way b say I b pako GIDI... OMO she just block my number and e sweet me too...nah serious relationship I get for her from the beginning but we end up like nah u no ham

Go back to primary school and learn writing. You are a very big disgrace.

Parachoko:
Lol... What's your height?

am 5.5 feets tall

Frales6:
Me no sabi embarrass person oooo. I always put myself in the person's shoes. you mustn't be millionaire b4 we run things oooo, only say you must not be a lazy guy man. And if I no want you I will mean it...not that I don't want you and I will still be demanding things that your babe should demand. I no want you still I will wear clothes without pant to your house and stay till night, watching films in your laptop with you and when you touch me I will tell you that I don't want to do anything.

remove your mask Guy, this format don cast.

Sexxzz offcourse

Laurene:
remove your mask Guy, this format don cast.

who be guy? I'm telling you what is happening and you're calling me a guy. what if you find out that I'm a lady what will apologize me with? I don't have time to hide my identity

FalseProphet1:
I see see so many fake stories on this thread. This I have seen.

This guy na confirm Were �

XXXXTENTACION:
Yeah fellas whats the most brutal rejection you have ever recieved from a lady

for me it's just happened that i was just chicking this girl and everything was just moving smoothly i was very happy that yeah she will finally accept me only for her to tell me that yeah bro i like you and i think you are smart but i won't be able to date you cause you are too short. And i was like what the fvck

I don't get rejected because I don't toast girls, it's girls that toast me...The girl I'm dating did everything to get me.. There's another one sef that's just deceiving herself not me...I don't even give any girl the chance to reject me..I noticed girls flock around guys with one or two formidable achievements not necessarily your physical appearance.

obembet:


Please change your mentality. Everything is not about money. Money is good but money is not everything. We see beyond money

Mehn you look good.

SmartPolician:
The most brutal and confusing rejection I have gotten from a lady is the one I got from a lady who enjoys it when we go under the sheet buck naked, but does not want me to date her.

She says there's no connection between us - that she just likes me. I have never experienced something like that because I really liked the girl. That babe is too classy and stunning.

Las las, we ended the whole thing because I wanted to keep her but she wasn't interested. Some women are complicated.

Aside the title wetin you dey find you don get sex wey na wetin most dey offer why you wan come date again. No wonder She reject you ni

Spidermon:


Mehn you look good.

Thanks dear

MetroBaba1:


So true. We don't...

But, its unfair.

emperorventure4:


Aside the title wetin you dey find you don get sex wey na wetin most dey offer why you wan come date again. No wonder She reject you ni

It was behind sex, she's my ideal woman.

paulolee:
have been on this bea matter for a month n she finally agree to go out on a date with me, i asked us to start a relationship n she told me dt she cnt even think about it because m too broke n have pride, she said my ego is too big for a gee dt is broke n isnt famous..
I was pained n dt was d last time I took a bea for a date....no time to de stress myself over girls wey dey after money than love..

Hustle make dem no use your ATM do ruler for village meeting as one Bro. suggested.

obembet:


Please change your mentality. Everything is not about money. Money is good but money is not everything. We see beyond money

Lies everywhere

Chibyko:
One told me I was too old for her�... Mehn!
I was 27 and she was 20. I took the pain with my full chest and moved on. I am happily married and expecting my first Baby. I hope she is happy wherever she is.

One girl said something similar to me.

I told her to fvck off. What of Regina that married ancestor.

Omo my own if no be say man hard small, na heart attack person go get. she chat me up for morning make i order pizza for her, apparently she was with her ex (soon 2 becum her bf back) for them 2 eat. long story short..that same day she sha denied me ever being an interest to her, in front of my boss and colleagues, cos her bf who happens 2 be a junior colleague had threatened my life earlier on, so i had 2 make a case in the office incase anytin happens to me afterwards. we were all summoned and apparently she denied me just as Peter denied Jesus with her full chest.


after manipulating my emotions with her bk 2 bk night calls, made emotions grow and trash me up like Lawma. since that time i dey fear Ondo girls.

Religion can become culture.

Lemmy123:

I said same religion... And religion is not the total way of life, culture is... I'm resisting the urge to call you names right now, but I won't

Now look at this:
You met a guy, he's everything you want in a man, caring, passionate, handsome maybe, well comported, gentle, intelligent and responsible man.. You're excited, you can't wait to introduce him to your parents, but suddenly he told you he's a Christian, and you're a Muslim, or told you he's a Muslim and you're a Christian..
Now because of your principles, which I don't know where you got them from, you let him go with all those rare qualities, never giving him a chance because he practices a different religion.. How does that make you look? Almost stupid isn't it? Yes, that's what I wanted you to see..

We're all human first before we're Christians or Muslims