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Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by RSVP: 9:14am On May 13, 2021 |
it seems you have alot of time to play around with and that makes me wanna question what exactly you do for work. If you're a full time artist which I definitely doubt then you should be around your folks in same industry and not one local village for farmers or student who doesn't have much choice. If I should picture your lifestyle according to what you put out here then I would say you're also one of the few coded yahoo boi that doesn't like too much attention. Perhaps you have few money stacked in your account and you willing to promote your career with it but your problem is you trying to deassociate yourself with those fellow guy man that would bore you with lots of smoking, girls and irrelevant talk so you need to upgrade youself but unluckily you choose the wrong location my broda.. if you don't move out of there real quick then you might become their community baale very soon which is still a good thing . At least you can organize shows free of charge the only serious minded people I've came across with a decent figure of IQ level are young working class guys. You know all dus 7 to 7 type of guys but they don't have your time bro. So I will suggest you move to Lagos. I think that Ogba area will fit your type well or gather yourself and travel out of naija where your dream matches your environment Enter beta place for Lagos make you see watxup... Dem go put you on high key ur head go scatter. 2 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by amstamon: 9:15am On May 13, 2021 |
Froshloaded:Is it finiky or Finiki |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by Whobedatte(m): 9:16am On May 13, 2021 |
Investtorr:Bauchi ,Kano are out of it please |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by southpole: 9:17am On May 13, 2021 |
I live in Ikoyi, but I must tell you there is no city like Abuja in this country, it is only in Abuja you meet so many people with high degree of intelligent from different parts of the Country, other towns and cities in Nigeria are occupied by people with localized awareness. 9 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by Patozorinzo: 9:17am On May 13, 2021 |
Op, I don't think you have much problem. While searching for a better location, I think the best thing you need to do now is look for a good studio and spend much of your time there. Be friends with the producer. From there you'll meet people (artists) with the same ambition as you (not neccessary the same i.q but same passion for music) 3 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by Cryptodegen: 9:17am On May 13, 2021 |
Iamdbull: If you think you are better than everyone else in that community then you have a low IQ. you said you are an introvert and that may be the problem and not the environment 4 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by iamclime(m): 9:18am On May 13, 2021 |
Eze2000:You go like come Badagry! Peace and quiet, to a great extent. Don't worry about the road, it's improving. 1 Like |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by Blackdisciple(m): 9:20am On May 13, 2021 |
I moved from Abuja to a popular local town in ogun, I don't want to mention the name, in order to pursue my music career. See you ... Better move out of that place. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by Nobody: 9:21am On May 13, 2021 |
Bruh! Lemme tell you one thing. It was once said by a psychologist that when an enlightened person lives or dwells with people who he has exploring qualities than, they will lure you sociologically, mentality to eventually make you become degraded intellectually like them. Jakpa while you can. You may even find their pathetic discussion and voices irritative 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by IBreakRules: 9:24am On May 13, 2021 |
Esseite: Have any forum you can introduce me to? |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by mamaafrik(m): 9:24am On May 13, 2021 |
Go and rent apartment close to ShopRite ikeja and thank me later |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by hustla(m): 9:25am On May 13, 2021 |
doggedfighter: Best advice Or he should goto Abeokuta.. Find one nice GRA there.. Finish 1 Like |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by hustla(m): 9:27am On May 13, 2021 |
Iamdbull: Move to Abeokuta or Osogbo Find one GRA rent... Its cheap Infact, na you go dey beg people to visit you cos no one go send you |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by Zizicomm: 9:27am On May 13, 2021 |
Funminded: What do you do sir/ma? |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by Emperor88(m): 9:30am On May 13, 2021 |
At Op I can feel your pain. I also relocated to Mowe, Ogun state resently after living my whole life in Lagos and it was like a suicide decision. Too religuous, too hypocritical and very boring place...power supply is the worse I have ever experienced, recreational activities are almost zero, the ladies are not exposed and.the guysI just cant relate cuz of their low IQ....@OP my advice is just for you to adapt gradually, as an artiste find the best club, DJ's around that arear and if possible a music producer that can help you settle down faster and don't forget to always meditate and don't lose your worth trying to bring your level down and last last na Lagos you go still end up...the worse arear in Lagos is better than any where in other part of south west. 2 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by nams77: 9:33am On May 13, 2021 |
Richy4:You are right. It will be difficult to find his type but they exist I have experienced same thing with op. I moved somewhere due to some engagement and it was really frustrating! I was do lonely. I missed my former hood badly. I later discovered that the neighborhood laundry guy was someone who has traveled vastly and very exposed. He worked as a seaman before and had even lived in Libya at a time. We do sit together and discuss politics and sundry. He is a bit younger than me but who cares. He enjoys my company too because he gets to get current gist and happenings on the global stage. I'm planning to relocate now before my ambition and drive is stunted 2 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by DavidEsq(m): 9:34am On May 13, 2021 |
Ishilove: |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by femi4: 9:35am On May 13, 2021 |
Iamdbull:Come to lasgidi. ... oppression and depression will chase you away |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by atonement12: 9:39am On May 13, 2021 |
"will try and engage one in some meaningless side talks that will lower your I.Q. "- |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by dehiero: 9:41am On May 13, 2021 |
Buhari:Suggest a good place to settle in ogun |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by jieta: 9:41am On May 13, 2021 |
JeffSiberstein:I tell you, the mentality of deltans is second to none. |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by ogbuefi677(m): 9:42am On May 13, 2021 |
TempUser:I swear. With electricity, internet,money for alcohol and cigarettes, I can stay indoors for 2 months. All the company a human needs is in the internet nowadays. You can be online from morning to night on WhatsApp calls with who you want. Download and play music nonstop with you small bluetooth speaker,watch your football matches with your phone online.The list is endless 8 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by Originalsly: 9:42am On May 13, 2021 |
Maybe I don't get it. Is this wretched place rich in music?... a place where people.start making a name for themselves? .... lots of people into music live here? If not.... why choose here to move your music career? I want to believe you're here because of lowwww rent and not music career. You're not moving because of rent... you don't want to... cannot afford to pay more. 2 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by dehiero: 9:43am On May 13, 2021 |
Emperor88:How is the security in mowe? Am currently searching for a place there for smbdy |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by Nobody: 9:47am On May 13, 2021 |
Ishilove:Lol.. battling goats had me rotfl. Abeg ur life no short oo |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by Nobody: 9:48am On May 13, 2021 |
Iamdbull: Welcome to "Nigeria" 85% of the Population of this shiiiithole people are what you described above. It's a Very Tough environment for real Intellectuals like Us. Make plans and get the fuvk outta this hellhole..... 4 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by 8stargeneral: 9:50am On May 13, 2021 |
Wetin carry u go Ogun for d first time..Na u just put ur self for such environment,u go a place that will blend with ur career 1 Like |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by Nobody: 9:51am On May 13, 2021 |
Nigeria it self is a giant I.Q DRAINER 2 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by Nobody: 9:51am On May 13, 2021 |
doggedfighter: Lagos Is Super Shiiithole. The worstest place to live on Planet Earth most especially If you are POOR..... 1 Like |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by 001spice: 9:57am On May 13, 2021 |
doggedfighter:Madness and smell kill u there. Imagine this dirty cheap bitch |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by FarahAideed: 9:57am On May 13, 2021 |
You are in Ijebu ... |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by 001spice: 10:00am On May 13, 2021 |
Mr man u r the one that has a prb n nt our evironment 1 Like |
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