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Have You Found Yourself In Ths Situation Before by blazepascal(m): 8:13am On May 19, 2021
The kind of feeling when you are so tired of loving someone, but you can't tell him/her because you don't want to hurt them or you don't want them to see you as bad person
What a crazy feeling!!!!

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Re: Have You Found Yourself In Ths Situation Before by dokkyelele(f): 8:56am On May 19, 2021
blazepascal:
The kind of feeling when you are so tired of loving someone, but you can't tell him/her because you don't want to hurt them or you don't want them to see you as bad person
What a crazy feeling!!!!

It happens most times but you just have to hold on if you truly love them, but if not then wait for them to offend you and then you drift away and make sure you won't regret it but you will if the person really loves you

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Re: Have You Found Yourself In Ths Situation Before by blazepascal(m): 1:28pm On May 19, 2021
dokkyelele:


It happens most times but you just have to hold on if you truly love them, but if not then wait for them to offend you and then you drift away and make sure you won't regret it but you will if the person really loves you
hmm ..ok
Re: Have You Found Yourself In Ths Situation Before by Bola146(f): 6:12pm On May 19, 2021
Hummmm... I was in that type of relationship before. The guy was so caring and nice. But..... He smokes weed and drink ogogoro like foods, he doesn't like eating good foods. I was so afraid when he began to slim down and his face looked scary. I took him to counselor, we both visited different clinics, I was really praying for him but he couldn't change. I have to stay far slowly undecided undecided he was mad that he didnt get my attention like before, I took him out on a date to a botanical gardens where eveywhere was cool bought him drinks one day when I noticed he was on his normal senses, I slowly broke the news to him that I quit! He was just crying ( like he knew what i wanted to tell him) and I cried too, at the end of the date we both laughed and that was just it.


It's better you quit on time and make them understand in a proper way without any fight.

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Re: Have You Found Yourself In Ths Situation Before by richmond500: 6:37pm On May 19, 2021
When I got tired, I just left her in the relationship,
I really can't tell someone "its over" I feel guilty doing that, I just withdraw small small, then distance comes and with time u are not interested in me again, I can wait for months or a year to finally breakup, patience is a virtue sef

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Re: Have You Found Yourself In Ths Situation Before by Uncle93(m): 6:40pm On May 19, 2021
Bola146:
Hummmm... I was in that type of relationship before. The guy was so caring and nice. But..... He smokes weed and drink ogogoro like foods, he doesn't like eating good foods. I was so afraid when he began to slim down and his face looked scary. I took him to counselor, we both visited different clinics, I was really praying for him but he couldn't change. I have to stay far slowly undecided undecided he was mad that he didnt get my attention like before, I took him out on a date to a botanical gardens where eveywhere was cool bought him drinks one day when I noticed he was on his normal senses, I slowly broke the news to him that I quit! He was just crying ( like he knew what i wanted to tell him) and I cried too, at the end of the date we both laughed and that was just it.


It's better you quit on time and make them understand in a proper way without any fight.

Wow deep
Re: Have You Found Yourself In Ths Situation Before by paulolee(m): 6:57pm On May 19, 2021
its not easy bro but maybe easy if you both stay a bit far from each other because you can do the slow withdrawal approach
but if she stays close to you, the only way is to start keeping different female friends n tell her that you need a break and space..
she may get d point n find another guy before you know..
Re: Have You Found Yourself In Ths Situation Before by lillyontop(m): 7:53pm On May 19, 2021
I always tell people something love alone doesn't keep a relationship but commitment does, in any relationship there are always times both parties fall out of love but if you are committed to that person you will always want the relationship to spark back up.. That's why some couple goes for reconnection outtings together example ( vacations or booking an hotel for a week just the both of them) to talk and see how the relationship is going to go back on track...

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Re: Have You Found Yourself In Ths Situation Before by blazepascal(m): 10:26pm On May 19, 2021
Bola146:
Hummmm... I was in that type of relationship before. The guy was so caring and nice. But..... He smokes weed and drink ogogoro like foods, he doesn't like eating good foods. I was so afraid when he began to slim down and his face looked scary. I took him to counselor, we both visited different clinics, I was really praying for him but he couldn't change. I have to stay far slowly undecided undecided he was mad that he didnt get my attention like before, I took him out on a date to a botanical gardens where eveywhere was cool bought him drinks one day when I noticed he was on his normal senses, I slowly broke the news to him that I quit! He was just crying ( like he knew what i wanted to tell him) and I cried too, at the end of the date we both laughed and that was just it.


It's better you quit on time and make them understand in a proper way without any fight.
exactly
Re: Have You Found Yourself In Ths Situation Before by blazepascal(m): 10:27pm On May 19, 2021
richmond500:
When I got tired, I just left her in the relationship,
I really can't tell someone "its over" I feel guilty doing that, I just withdraw small small, then distance comes and with time u are not interested in me again, I can wait for months or a year to finally breakup, patience is a virtue sef
Re: Have You Found Yourself In Ths Situation Before by blazepascal(m): 10:28pm On May 19, 2021
paulolee:
its not easy bro but maybe easy if you both stay a bit far from each other because you can do the slow withdrawal approach
but if she stays close to you, the only way is to start keeping different female friends n tell her that you need a break and space..
she may get d point n find another guy before you know..
OK ..bro
Re: Have You Found Yourself In Ths Situation Before by blazepascal(m): 10:29pm On May 19, 2021
lillyontop:
I always tell people something love alone doesn't keep a relationship but commitment does, in any relationship there are always times both parties fall out of love but if you are committed to that person you will always want the relationship to spark back up.. That's why some couple goes for reconnection outtings together example ( vacations or booking an hotel for a week just the both of them) to talk and see how the relationship is going to go back on track...

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