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I'm 21 and I'm chatting with this Norwegian man I met online, he wants to meet up with me, he's already in Nigeria, but I'm not so sure about him anymore, he says he loves dark skin which seems a little bit weird to me, maybe he's one of those weirdos that fetishise black women?

I'm kinda confused right now

Nothing strange.There are blacks who trip for white ladies.Some white men too trip for black ladies.

If you want to meet up,meet in a public place.Don't follow him home or to the hotel.Take your time to know him.

What do you want us to do in this situation?

It's your cross my dear, and you're matured enough to carry it.

that one concern u

More and more unnecessary questions coming in..one after the other on nairaland..had it been he asked for your account details will you come here to ask us if you should send him

thorpido:
Nothing strange.There are blacks who trip for white ladies.Some white men too trip for black ladies.

If you want to meet up,meet in a public place.Don't follow him home or to the hotel.Take your time to know him.

Okay thanks.

They call it jungle fever I think, if you're okay with a man who likes just because you're black good for you.
If you like him go for it but be careful.

Thank God he's not a Nigerian man that may use you for Yahoo.

lilvicky68:
.had it been he asked for your account details will you come here to ask us if you should send him

Must you always pull this card all the time?

Hintona:
If you like him go for it but be careful.

Thank God he's not a Nigerian man that may use you for Yahoo.

that is if he's a Nigerian people can change VPN and assume any country they want to be.

Rareoil:
that is if he's a Nigerian people can change VPN and assume any country they want to be.

True.

He's probably just sweet-talking his way through to you. When it's time to chat a Caucasian girl up, he would have been dreaming of a Caucasian girl.

siofra:
I'm 21 and I'm chatting with this Norwegian man I met online, he wants to meet up with me, he's already in Nigeria, but I'm not so sure about him anymore, he says he loves dark skin which seems a little bit weird to me, maybe he's one of those weirdos that fetishise black women?

I'm kinda confused right now

He’s definitely fetishising you. Seeing you as a sort of fantasy objective.

You’re not a white mans doll or muse to be prodded and gawked at.

The guy na naija man jor. You wey oyibo dey shak be careful.

Give him a chance, but be careful. Before meeting up with him inform your parents or sibling, the date should be in a public safe environment. Black girls are marrying white men regularly, so no digiddies!

Rocktation:
He's probably just sweet-talking his way through to you. When it's time to chat a Caucasian girl up, he would have been dreaming of a Caucasian girl.

I think this resonates the most.

Vision101:
The guy na naija man jor. You wey oyibo dey shak be careful.

We've video called each other, buy I'll be careful. Thanks.

Now its not like he love Asians while knowing fully well you're not one..so why not take a simple compliment maturely and say "thank you?"

But if you really want to sweat it though and prove if he really loves you for you, try bleaching then ask him what color he likes now and see.. Lol

Pernotti:
Now its not like he love Asians while knowing fully well you're not one..so why not take a simple compliment maturely and say "thank you?"

But if you really want to sweat it though and prove if he really loves you for you, try bleaching then ask him what color he likes now and see.. Lol

Seriously? Lol What if he then says no? How will she reverse the bleaching?

Kessythegeek:
Seriously? Lol What if he then says no? How will she reverse the bleaching?

you can 'bleach' yourself with Photoshop.

siofra:
We've video called each other, buy I'll be careful. Thanks.

I’m sure if he was a Nigerian guy with such weird fetish, you for don nak am better blocking & insult his generation unborn but since he’s European ,it’s cool

Fetishizing ko, let's go a fishing ni

You won't come here to ask questions if he ask for your acc no

You are exotic, that's just it. See him as equally exotic, y'all don't video call?

CheedyJ:
I’m sure if he was a Nigerian guy with such weird fetish, you for don nak am better blocking & insult his generation unborn but since he’s European ,it’s cool

I block more European and Asian men that Nigerian and black men on social media, honestly it may be surprising but Nigerian men are way more decent.

CheedyJ:
I’m sure if he was a Nigerian guy with such weird fetish, you for don nak am better blocking & insult his generation unborn but since he’s European ,it’s cool

I block more European and Asian men than Nigerian and black men on social media, honestly it may be surprising but Nigerian men are way more decent.