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Rossiminku:
I don't debate or argue with narcissists.

It is fruitless.

I only diagnose you.

Same here. Bigots never repent, nor agree that they are.

Worse of all, obsession is a sign of extreme admiration.



Obsession is when someone or something is so important to you that you are always thinking about them, in a way that seems extreme to other people

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Rossiminku:
DEFINITION OF NARCISSISM

''Narcissistic personality disorder — one of several types of personality disorders — is a mental condition in which people have an inflated sense of their own importance, a deep need for excessive attention and admiration, troubled relationships, and a lack of empathy for others. But behind this mask of extreme confidence lies a fragile self-esteem that's vulnerable to the slightest criticism.

A narcissistic personality disorder causes problems in many areas of life, such as relationships, work, school or financial affairs. People with narcissistic personality disorder may be generally unhappy and disappointed when they're not given the special favors or admiration they believe they deserve. They may find their relationships unfulfilling, and others may not enjoy being around them.

Treatment for narcissistic personality disorder centers around talk therapy (psychotherapy).''

https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/narcissistic-personality-disorder/symptoms-causes/syc-20366662

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This defines the igbo ethnic group 10000%

And this thread is a shining example of Igbo narcissism.

mamdanju:
Apt

Thanks.

Rossiminku:
DEFINITION OF NARCISSISM

''Narcissistic personality disorder — one of several types of personality disorders — is a mental condition in which people have an inflated sense of their own importance, a deep need for excessive attention and admiration, troubled relationships, and a lack of empathy for others. But behind this mask of extreme confidence lies a fragile self-esteem that's vulnerable to the slightest criticism.

A narcissistic personality disorder causes problems in many areas of life, such as relationships, work, school or financial affairs. People with narcissistic personality disorder may be generally unhappy and disappointed when they're not given the special favors or admiration they believe they deserve. They may find their relationships unfulfilling, and others may not enjoy being around them.

Treatment for narcissistic personality disorder centers around talk therapy (psychotherapy).''

https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/narcissistic-personality-disorder/symptoms-causes/syc-20366662

This defines the igbo ethnic group 10000%

And this thread is a shining example of Igbo narcissism.

Haaaaaah!
The fake history professor is now dabbling into psychiatry!
E pain you well well! What? You couldn't find a small atapiapia to end your misery?

While you're looking up words at Mayo clinic website, please also look up:
Paranoia
Schizophrenia
Schizoaffective disorder
Munchausen syndrome

After that, look in the mirror.

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gwafaeziokwu:


Oga you are quarrelling with SELF LOVE? Unbelievable!

Is it your love? Did anyone force you not to love your heritage.

Igbos are busy selling their image, if your like you buy if you don't like the product face your front.

Or rather carry mega phone and market your heritage. This life na once abeg.

Oh my God!
Rossiki, Rossimku, or whatever he chooses to answer is a psychiatric patient projecting himself into others.
His heart skips a beat whenever someone say "Igbo Amaka", and that tells you that the heart will not beat for so long, because Igbos Igbos, Igbos everywhere.
Small, but miserable death fueled by hatred and jealousy awaits anyone whose heart is filled with so much hate.

Narcissist - ''Nigeria is a zoo. Nigerians are evil, savage, backward, barbaric zoo animals etc etc....''

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PCSI:
The wise men from the EAST

The 3 WISE MEN came from the East.
The SUN RISES in the East.
ABRAHAM was the Richest in the East.
JOB was also the Richest in the East.
The wind that parted the RED SEA came from the EAST.... therefore called EAST WIND.

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Rossiminku:
Narcissism is not an ''explosive or a bomb''.

That is typical narcissist deflection and avoidance.

Narcissism is toxic behaviour that poisons the social environment and destroys relationships.

Narcissism is very different from ''self-love''.

Here is how experts differentiate the 2 concepts:

Need for Recognition

Self Love: Those who have high self-esteem and practice self love don’t need recognition or congratulations for their accomplishments. They are well aware of their efforts and their success, and that knowledge is more than enough to feel adequate.

Narcissism: If a tree falls in a forest and no one is around to hear it, does it make a sound? If a narcissist accomplishes success and no one is around to witness it, is it truly a success? The answer in this case is no. Without recognition and praise, they may as well not have accomplished anything at all. It makes the win feel empty, because they only receive satisfaction from the admiration of others.


Identifying flaws within one's self

Self Love: Everyone has flaws and idiosyncrasies that makes them an individual. Those who love themselves accept their flaws, and work to improve them if need be. They understand that those quirky little bits of themselves are what make them unique.

Narcissism: They act as if they do not posses any flaws. Everything they do, they do it better than anyone. Everything they have is better than what you have. If someone notices that they exhibit a flaw, it must be a misconception, because there is no way that any aspect of themselves could be anything less than perfect.


Knowing who you are-and being comfortable with it

Self Love: In lieu of self acceptance, these individuals are totally comfortable being themselves, and appreciate who they are and what they offer. They do not feel that they need to make any vast changes to themselves or their lives in order to achieve happiness, because they already are.


Narcissism: They are never happy with who they are and what they have. They often find themselves fantasizing about a more ideal lifestyle, job, or appearance. They never truly feel satisfied with any aspect of their life. They think that they deserve better, but put no effort forth to achieve their desires.


Humility is a virtue

Self Love: They have a strong sense of empathy and humility. They support and encourage others to do better, and are proud of their successes.

Narcissism: They can’t handle seeing others doing well. They cannot help but feel jealous, and will find a way to undermine their success in order to feel that they still have the upper hand. The common phrase, “misery loves company,” is all too appropriate in this circumstance.


Perception of other's emotions

Self Love: These individuals are receptive to others emotions, and can level with their struggles and pain. They will offer advice and assistance if they can, and genuinely care about the outcome of their struggling friends situation.

Narcissism: Although they may fake concern, they genuinely do not care about others struggles. In fact, they feed off of it. That’s one less person who is doing well in this world, and that makes them feel better about themselves.


Perception of others as individuals

Self Love: Appreciation of others is a strong attribute of those who have high self esteem. They see other individuals as valuable, and celebrate their existence. These people tend to be good friends, because they are incredibly supportive and understand that it takes all sorts of people to make a fully functioning world.

Narcissism: They do not view others as valuable. The only value they see in others is an opportunity to use them for their own benefit. Narcissists tend to surround themselves with other narcissists. The “special” people. The “elite.” No one else is worthy of their time. Gag.


Competition with peers

Self Love: With high self esteem, it is easy to view others as your equals. Each person is just that, another person trying to make it in this world and try to achieve happiness.

Narcissism: Narcissists always need to be doing better than their peers, or at least give off the illusion that they are. They thrive off of dominance and manipulation. They are not truly happy unless they feel that they are in complete control. They need for all of their efforts to be celebrated, and for themselves and people to be worshiped. Typically, narcissists will gravitate towards careers and hobbies that exhibit themselves as the center of attention.

Narcissists spend most of their time alone, because most people can identify their toxic behavior.
Signs of narcissistic behaviour tend to rear their ugly heads in the early years of adulthood; typically in men. 50-70% of those who suffer from Narcissistic Personality Disorder are male. The cause of this is unknown. Perhaps it is a combination of chemical composition, upbringing, and experiences during childhood.

Narcissism is incredibly toxic behaviour, and will repel anyone from your life who can identify these disturbing features. That’s why people with this disorder tend to have few friends, and spend the majority of their time alone. They distort this rejection from others as their own personal rejection. Because they are better than everyone else, and no one is worthy of their precious time.

Find a happy medium. It’s okay to love yourself, but don’t let it turn into obsession.
With the introduction of social media, it is easier to spot narcissists because they showcase themselves daily. You know that girl or guy who posts multiple selfies a day, and is constantly changing their profile pictures? They are doing this for the recognition. They want people to see them, and to celebrate their beauty. The likes and comments they receive feed their innate need for worship. Outlets such as Instagram and Facebook has made it alarmingly normal to constantly demand attention from peers and strangers alike.

Unless those who suffer from NPD seek therapy, it is unlikely that they can amend their behaviour, because they are oblivious to the fact that they suffer from this disorder. That kind of reflection would prove that they are imperfect; something that does not compute in the mind of a narcissist.

https://www.lifehack.org/596475/how-we-are-confusing-self-love-with-narcissism-in-this-generation

Who would have believed that a psychopath would be running loose on a threat about loving being Igbo?

I am black an proud is a popular song by a well known artist!
St. Patrick's day celebrates Irish love for their heritage!
Peuto Rican, Italian, and Jamaican day parades are popular with anyone living in the east coast, because people profess their love for their origins.
So, someone celebrates being IGBO!!!
Now, this psychopath has not only taken over the thread, but he is awake all night venting hatred on Igbos.

If you don't love your self, you can't love your people, nor your country.

Welcome to Yorubas, Ijaws, Hausas, and Tivs loving themselves! Igbos love themselves no matter what.

Someone, please help this psychopath get assistance before he completely loses control.

OriakuAmara:
Yes o.
When they dish out their hate towards us, we should be happy that we are peppering them.
Igboamaka, that's what I named my last baby girl .
Right from little age, am raising them the Igbotic way and teaching them histories.
In my next world, it's either Igbo or Igbo

But why should everybody hate you ? Are you the only ones. If everyone is complaining about you ,you should check yourself. Why is it that it's only Ibos that feels everybody hates them.
Everyday we hear of how everybody hates Ibos , yet the Ibos refused to leave claiming THEY DONT WANT US TO GO......it's only biafrans that are waiting for Nigeria to give them permission to leave ,if you can , leave .
Get this into your skull, THE ONLY REASON NIGERIA DONT WANT IBOS TO GO IS BECAUSE WE LOVE THEM........all this narrative of other NIGERIANS hate Ibos is hogwash, if we really hate you , you would be gone from our cities already .

THE IBOS WANT TO LEAVE BECAUSE THEY ACTUALLY HATE OTHER NIGERIANS not the other way around

Difrent:
But why should everybody hate you ? Are you the only ones. If everyone is complaining about you ,you should check yourself. Why is it that it's only Ibos that feels everybody hates them.
Everyday we hear of how everybody hates Ibos , yet the Ibos refused to leave claiming THEY DONT WANT US TO GO......it's only biafrans that are waiting for Nigeria to give them permission to leave ,if you can , leave .
Get this into your skull, THE ONLY REASON NIGERIA DONT WANT IBOS TO GO IS BECAUSE WE LOVE THEM........all this narrative of other NIGERIANS hate Ibos is hogwash, if we really hate you , you would be gone from our cities already .

THE IBOS WANT TO LEAVE BECAUSE THEY ACTUALLY HATE OTHER NIGERIANS not the other way around

I get your point. But please don't play into the narcissists' trap by telling them you ''love them''.

That is music to the ears of the narcissist, and will only draw more demands on your 'love' from them.

Narcissists are NEVER satisfied.

All they do is extract and extract from you, emotionally, until they've completely drained you.

Do not submit to their evil behaviour.

You owe a narcissist NOTHING, including your love.

Why isn't he the one saying that he loves you?

Why are you the one who feels compelled to say you love him?

It's psychological manipulation, and the narcissist is expert at it.

He comes and settles on your land where he earns a living without harassment. HE should be the one praising you for accommodating him and his people.

Instead what do you get? Insults, snide remarks, tribalist hate, and his claiming he wants to secede from you, while eating your land's food daily.

Don't let them ever do that to you. Stand your ground.

You have no reason to 'love' him.

When the narcissist displays hate and disdain for you, and calls your fatherland a 'zoo', and mocks your traditions by displaying images of your people with tribal marks etc, keep him at arm's length.

Don't try to pacify him or let him see reason.

He does NOT want to see reason.

He wants you to grovel at his feet, like you just did.

One more thing. Nigeria has NO PROBLEM letting the Igbos go.

What led to the civil war was that they claimed the Niger Delta as theirs, which holds Nigeria's oil and gas resources.

If they had simply gone with their landlocked states, everyone would have waved them goodbye happily.

And if they leave Nigeria today with Igboland alone, we would all wave them goodbye. HAPPILY.

If they try to corner our resources by annexing the Niger Delta for themselves (narcissists are very selfish), they will be destroyed and annihilated, and this time there will be no ''No Victor, No Vanquished'' policy, which was what saved them from total annihilation after they lost the civil war.

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OriakuAmara:
Am a super proud Igbotic oriaku.
Igbo amaka.

Amarabae, so this is what you bare these days..

Nurse that is always on social media. Covid didn't even increase your workload. Shows how redundant you are.

OriakuAmara:
let the guy be.
What's narcissistic about praising ourselves?
Does it hit your nerve or what

Opening a thread to praise oneself is actually not normal
And only you guys do that always

The guy might be correct.

I love Igbos though.

Difrent:
But why should everybody hate you ? Are you the only ones. If everyone is complaining about you ,you should check yourself. Why is it that it's only Ibos that feels everybody hates them.
Everyday we hear of how everybody hates Ibos , yet the Ibos refused to leave claiming THEY DONT WANT US TO GO......it's only biafrans that are waiting for Nigeria to give them permission to leave ,if you can , leave .
Get this into your skull, THE ONLY REASON NIGERIA DONT WANT IBOS TO GO IS BECAUSE WE LOVE THEM........all this narrative of other NIGERIANS hate Ibos is hogwash, if we really hate you , you would be gone from our cities already .

THE IBOS WANT TO LEAVE BECAUSE THEY ACTUALLY HATE OTHER NIGERIANS not the other way around

"Dr. Sowell's research found that the historical prejudice against Jewish business men has also been experienced by other successful trading groups. Where middle men are an ethnically distinct group- the Chinese in South East Asia, the east Indians in Uganda and the Igbos in Nigeria- that ethnic group is hated by the masses who deal with them"

The Jewish Phenomenon by Steven Silbiger.


When the resounding for your hate against Igbos have been studied by scholars, then you know how real it is. But we care not, we move!!!!

Rossiminku:
I get your point. But please don't play into the narcissists' trap by telling them you ''love them''.

That is music to the ears of the narcissist, and will only draw more demands on your 'love' from them.

Narcissists are NEVER satisfied.

All they do is extract and extract from you, emotionally, until they've completely drained you.

Do not submit to their evil behaviour.

You owe a narcissist NOTHING, including your love.

Why isn't he the one saying that he loves you?

Why are you the one who feels compelled to say you love him?

It's psychological manipulation, and the narcissist is expert at it.

He comes and settles on your land where he earns a living without harassment. HE should be the one praising you for accommodating him and his people.

Instead what do you get? Insults, snide remarks, tribalist hate, and his claiming he wants to secede from you, while eating your land's food daily.

Don't let them ever do that to you. Stand your ground.

You have no reason to 'love' him.

When the narcissist displays hate and disdain for you, and calls your fatherland a 'zoo', and mocks your traditions by displaying images of your people with tribal marks etc, keep him at arm's length.

Don't try to pacify him or let him see reason.

He does NOT want to see reason.

He wants you to grovel at his feet, like you just did.

One more thing. Nigeria has NO PROBLEM letting the Igbos go.

What led to the civil war was that they claimed the Niger Delta as theirs, which holds Nigeria's oil and gas resources.

If they had simply gone with their landlocked states, everyone would have waved them goodbye happily.

And if they leave Nigeria today with Igboland alone, we would all wave them goodbye. HAPPILY.

If they try to corner our resources by annexing the Niger Delta for themselves (narcissists are very selfish), they will be destroyed and annihilated, and this time there will be no ''No Victor, No Vanquished'' policy, which was what saved them from total annihilation after they lost the civil war.

Cry cry baby

"Dr. Sowell's research found that the historical prejudice against Jewish business men has also been experienced by other successful trading groups. Where middle men are an ethnically distinct group- the Chinese in South East Asia, the east Indians in Uganda and the Igbos in Nigeria- that ethnic group is hated by the masses who deal with them"

The Jewish Phenomenon by Steven Silbiger.


When the resounding for your hate against Igbos have been studied by scholars, then you know how real it is. But we care not, we move!!!!

IGBOSON1:
I don't think they would have 'conquered Lagos and installed a Emir'. However, i do believe they would have 'engineered' things by now to the extent Lagos would have had a non-Yoruba as Governor of the state...quite possibly a muslim northerner. See how they've taken over administrative control of FCT....a territory in which all ethnicities and regions ought to have equal stake.

And you think Yoruba will look on?
Is Kwara not a Fulani dominated state?
Why have all Thier governors been Yoruba?

Igbos can win election in Lagos if Yoruba can do same in Anambra~which is impossible

MALIGNANTGuest:
The 3 WISE MEN came from the East.
The SUN RISES in the East.
ABRAHAM was the Richest in the East.
JOB was also the Richest in the East.
The wind that parted the RED SEA came from the EAST.... therefore called EAST WIND.

The wise men went from the east to the WEST
The sun moves to the WEST through the day

Did it strike you that the east always goes to the WEST eventually?
Even in Nigeria today Easterners rush to the WEST?

Difrent:
But why should everybody hate you ? Are you the only ones. If everyone is complaining about you ,you should check yourself. Why is it that it's only Ibos that feels everybody hates them.
Everyday we hear of how everybody hates Ibos , yet the Ibos refused to leave claiming THEY DONT WANT US TO GO......it's only biafrans that are waiting for Nigeria to give them permission to leave ,if you can , leave .
Get this into your skull, THE ONLY REASON NIGERIA DONT WANT IBOS TO GO IS BECAUSE WE LOVE THEM........all this narrative of other NIGERIANS hate Ibos is hogwash, if we really hate you , you would be gone from our cities already .

THE IBOS WANT TO LEAVE BECAUSE THEY ACTUALLY HATE OTHER NIGERIANS not the other way around

True
The hate is also false
They actually hate us more
See how nnamdi started his "freedom fighting" by grossly insulting Yoruba

I don't hate Igbos

PeaceforNigeria:
I have been following you on this platform for over a decade in different guises - initially you started well with your PAN Africanism adventures but now you seem to have changed into a frustrated angry person, What happened over the years ?

They're always like that!
Igbo hate is their default mode! There's that eternal morbid fear of the igbo that's inate in them. Ofcourse, they hide that by pretending like the igboman is the problem! I used to follow that dude too but I'm not totally disappointed with his latest outbursts. Even then with Rossiki, once you push him very hard on any issue, his base instincts take over as he starts attributing your "anti pan Africanist" disposition to your tribal pulls.. It's unbelievable! The rate at which most , if not all APC supporters of this janja-weed government turn from 'ordinary party supporters' to virulent igbo haters is worth doing some research on though.. Obviously it's the collective disdain for the Igbos that bind that hatefilled lot together..

NA U SABI.

24SEVEN:
Amarabae, so this is what you bare these days..

Nurse that is always on social media. Covid didn't even increase your workload. Shows how redundant you are.

This ikwerre boy.
Respect yourself

Na wa for this rossi gịnị guy oo...
Iro na ekworo a niile ebe ndi Igbo nọ, ọọ maka Naijiria ga-ada echi ka o ji emege inyo ndị a niile
Ndị Mba Igbo... Mmamma nụ oo

theTranslator:
Opening a thread to praise oneself is actually not normal
And only you guys do that always

The guy might be correct.

I love Igbos though.

Its non of your business.
We praise ourselves because it is freedom of choice.
I don't know why anyone should lose sleep over that.