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You are very much right. I don't know why girls expect to get some thing that their dad couldn't afford for free. If your dad can afford it, it should have been free.

I feel for the simps!

na their way.

most of them want everything for nothing.

if you will sit down and analyze, you will discover that you have not gained shi-shi from this gal but everyday naso so billing from her.

I have been in your situation before although I no spend reach 600k , me sef the thing tire me i just move.


if you truely get 600k to spend on top woman trust me women go dy give you enough green light because their talent is to smell money.....no stress yourself top that girl.
you are the prize not her.


the only sad part is that she has used you to upgrade herself for her next potential maga.


hope you don learn your lesson and begin to learn how to spot selfish women from afar to avoid stress.[/quote]

bepositive11:
There's always a risk of pregnancy though

is that your fear?

AvalonSpace:
is that your fear?

Isn't that everyone's fear? Unmarried men and women? You're not worried about it?

It's the kids I pity the most. Kids born into unstable environments and broken homes

KingClown:
what's your proof ?

Are you the Op ??

Gores:
Hello everyone. Their is this girl I have been dating since last year , I took real good care of the girl , I have spent roughly 600k on her ! She is a graduate but not working at the moment so I have to put her on monthly pay , send money for her upkeep each month and also render other support and buy her gifts.I have had many sexual relationships in the past .

Several months without sex in the relationship ,I want it but this girl kept insisting that no sex until I marry her of which I made it clear to her in the first place that it will still take few years before I can finally settle.

I love this girl to some extent and really want us to actually be together but I can’t cope with the no Sex in a relationship having waited for several months without sex! this girl is not a virgin !

I ended the relationship because I felt this girl is just using me or something. I felt since this girl isn’t a virgin , sex shouldn’t be a problem so far it’s protected sex! I ended the relationship because I felt she seems like many other girls out there who just want everything for nothing!


Your contribution will be helpful !

There is something you’re not telling us but it is clear

You’re doing what we call covert contract.

All your good deeds was for a reason. Not bad
But you didn’t spell it out nor make an agreement anywhere

multiple4u:
You are very much right. I don't know why girls expect to get some thing that their dad couldn't afford for free. If your dad can afford it, it should have been free.

I feel for the simps!

na their way.

most of them want everything for nothing.

if you will sit down and analyze, you will discover that you have not gained shi-shi from this gal but everyday naso so billing from her.

I have been in your situation before although I no spend reach 600k , me sef the thing tire me i just move.


if you truely get 600k to spend on top woman trust me women go dy give you enough green light because their talent is to smell money.....no stress yourself top that girl.
you are the prize not her.


the only sad part is that she has used you to upgrade herself for her next potential maga.


hope you don learn your lesson and begin to learn how to spot selfish women from afar to avoid stress.

Thanks

I am a simp for the first time after 9 relationships.I admit it. It’s nothing but love and strong feelings for this selfish girl . But grateful to God I am blessed already! I have learned my lesson and I will make sure the next girl pays for it. They will now get nothing from me from now on but postcards , flowers and those love emojis. I will only stuck my love in my heart and won’t show it!

Gores:
Thanks

I am a simp for the first time after 9 relationships.I admit it. It’s nothing but love and strong feelings for this selfish girl . But grateful to God I am blessed already! I have learned my lesson and I will make sure the next girl pays for it. They will now get nothing from me from now on but postcards , flowers and those love emojis. I will only stuck my love in my heart and won’t show it!

Better do

Gjmff:
Better do

Yeah

How you start is how you will end. Mistakes guys make is starting relationships by spending on the girl. That's a wrong foundation you've built. You started the relationship too seriously without even building sexual atttractions and she took advantage of that.

You portrayed to her that you ain't in cuz of sex, and you would be pretty ok with her even if she doesn't make out with you. She grabbed that as your weak point and used it to hoard sex from you while still spending on her.

You don't ask a lady for sex. You make advances and it happens naturally. If you like a girl, don't try too much to be overly serious with her by professing love to her. She doesn't need that. Rather, flirt with her ratically without fear of what she thinks about you. You are the master. Masters don't ask for sex. You put her where she needs to be and things fall into places for you.

That same girl that refuses to give you sex will give me sex if I get in touch with her even without spending a dime.

Stop preaching love. Don't preach love to ladies. They've heard that countless times. Be different and mysterious.

One of my babes asked me for 5k yesterday. I didn't give her even though we"ve smashed. I don't want to spoil her with the impression that I have alot to spend on her. She still kept chatting with me. I did that to see how she will react. Maybe later in the future I might attend to her request. If I eventually decide to give her later in the future, she will so appreciate it why? Because girls love scarcity.

How you handle a girl that's how she will treat you. Treat her nice and watch her take you for granted. Spend heaven and earth on her and you won't still see the pussy cuz you have already built a poor foundation of I care about you so much with her and she uses that against you by hoarding sex from you.

Money is not everything. Guys should know this. Stop using money to build love. 600k is huge amount. Your mistake was thinking spending on her will allow her give you the Puna. You don't need to spend a dime on a lady before opening Puna for you if you know your way around ladies.

No sex before marriage is a pure scam. Never start a relationship by spending. If you asked a girl out and the next minute she is already asking you for money or telling you about one problem or the other, don't take such a girl seriously. I think that's what this babe did to you. Immediately you asked her to be your girl, she immediately requested financial help from you and you sorted it out just to prove you loved her. She kept on making demands and you were attending to all without declining any. That's one of your problem. That's one reason she refused giving you the Puna. You grant all her requests at the twinkle of any eye.

Learn how to turn girl's financial request down. Spending on a girl doesn't guarantee girls love for you.

Gores:
Thanks

I am a simp for the first time after 9 relationships.I admit it. It’s nothing but love and strong feelings for this selfish girl . But grateful to God I am blessed already! I have learned my lesson and I will make sure the next girl pays for it. They will now get nothing from me from now on but postcards , flowers and those love emojis. I will only stuck my love in my heart and won’t show it!

Well I won't subscribe to this tho,another girl shouldn't have to suffer and pay for one h.oes fvckups..treat ur new girl with a pure heart but DNT SIMP like u did with the other selfish farm tool who wasn't a virgin yet denied u punna and u still spent so much on her smh ..As for me even before we start i go first clear u say me I no dey no sex relationship o,I need sex in my relationship and if u can't give me then il find another who will simple,it has worked for me with most girls but NOT all I have met..ur Big mistake was agreeing to No sex relationship and sticking to it..even if she fine pass beyonce and gives that as a condition to date u and u feel u like her that much then date her but keep ur money in ur pocket or spend on the girl who likes u enough to give u sex..

torqque7:
Well I won't subscribe to this tho,another girl shouldn't have to suffer and pay for one h.oes fvckups..treat ur new girl with a pure heart but DNT SIMP like u did with the other selfish farm tool who wasn't a virgin yet denied u punna and u still spent so much on her smh ..As for me even before we start i go first clear u say me I no dey no sex relationship o,I need sex in my relationship and if u can't give me then il find another who will simple,it has worked for me with most girls but NOT all I have met..ur Big mistake was agreeing to No sex relationship and sticking to it..even if she fine pass beyonce and gives that as a condition to date u and u feel u like her that much then date her but keep ur money in ur pocket or spend on the girl who likes u enough to give u sex..

True

i need sex in my relationship. i have caught another fish and we are cool with sex

Gores:
Hello everyone. Their is this girl I have been dating since last year , I took real good care of the girl , I have spent roughly 600k on her ! She is a graduate but not working at the moment so I have to put her on monthly pay , send money for her upkeep each month and also render other support and buy her gifts.I have had many sexual relationships in the past .

Several months without sex in the relationship ,I want it but this girl kept insisting that no sex until I marry her of which I made it clear to her in the first place that it will still take few years before I can finally settle.

I love this girl to some extent and really want us to actually be together but I can’t cope with the no Sex in a relationship having waited for several months without sex! this girl is not a virgin !

I ended the relationship because I felt this girl is just using me or something. I felt since this girl isn’t a virgin , sex shouldn’t be a problem so far it’s protected sex! I ended the relationship because I felt she seems like many other girls out there who just want everything for nothing!


Your contribution will be helpful !

As long as she's not a virgin she doesn't have the right to deny you of protected sex or she should stop demanding money from you.

marcopollo:
As long as she's not a virgin she doesn't have the right to deny you of protected sex or she should stop demanding money from you.

True.

Thank you all