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wagzy37:
The redpills don’t want to get married… And rightfully so based on different reasons. However, if you decide to settle down, here are a few advices:

1. Get on your purpose. Perhaps this is the most important advice of them all. There’s almost nothing more attractive to a woman than a man who is on his purpose. Grind, go to the gym, get a hobby and be disciplined. These keep the kind of woman you’d like to have in the feminine frame.

2. Character trumps looks: A hot and extremely beautiful girl comes with a lot of baggage. This is what you are not told until you get into it. If you get a really beautiful girl, you will have more headaches than you’d normally have when you settle for a moderately decent girl. You’ll fight with insecurities, jealousy, attitude issues and high maintenance problems. Look for character and personality. Looks should come last when settling down with a woman because it fades away with time and use.

3. Lead: Lots of men these days are so feminine and they can’t lead. This has made women very masculine and difficult to deal with. Women aren’t hardwired to lead. So, learn to be a leader and master of yourself before you decide to get a woman to settle with. Women’s love and respect go hand in hand. A woman can’t love who she doesn’t respect.

Redpill is about understanding the nature of women in general. While there are exceptions (due to upbringing and societal pressures), there are general guides. You understand them, and you won’t have problems with women.

anthonyuncle:
the person that commented below me is very correct

Sibtygarr:
I see the above as a blatant lie covered in falsehood, it's all a fantasy world until most this so-called get to that stage of marriage. it is easy for teenagers to rant they don't want to

Relax. Don’t just try to sound smart. Understand the context and ask questions if you’re not sure. Redpill is a movement in the manosphere - according to men. There’s redpill, bluepill and purple pill. Redpillers are guys that bwant to remain single. Best believe I know and I’ve met guys in their 40’s and 50’s who would rather stay single than get married. Bluepillers believe in marriages and want to settle down. Purplepillers are a mix of the two. I’m a purplepill. Most ‘woke’ guys are purplepill.


in other words, grind, go to gym and get a hobby, it makes my woman be the woman and make me the man. Why not just see the good in doing those things and everyone is happy with it rather than seeing it as making me be the man?
I can avoid doing this as still be the man as much as I don't run away from responsibilities as a man and I don't bare responsibility which aren't mine, I see nothing can go wrong.

Understand the question. He asked what can he do to get the type of woman he WANTS. Being a man is different from being THE MAN. Men become! Women Are! There are lots of men around. Men who don’t run away from responsibilities but are they all attractive to women. A redpiller is THE center of attraction. The top of the food chain. Women fall over and do unthinkable things for his validation.

This is a point I was looking for but you messed it up when you said I have to fight with insecurities, jealousy, attitude issues and high maintenance just because a lady is "really beautiful" but instead will get same from a fairly decent girl. So in other words "really beautiful ladies are out of my league??

Respect is on a different level, girls can respect me and still don't love me, at least we all have people we respect at either point of our live and yet do not love. A lady may not love the man she don't respect but loving the man she respect is also another rabbit hole. which means for a lady I must stay with she either would love and respect me or she don't at all. Respect me as what? as a husband or as a suppressor?
Are you talking about the Stockholm syndrome kinda love or a love born of long term of understanding?

Point you we’re looking for? Am I trying to impress you? The advice is for redpillers who want to settle down (I.e purplepill). Men understand that as a redpiller, what attracts a woman to you isn’t only tied to you. Because as a man, you create value. Value is everywhere. So there could be a better man than you and can take over your girl - especially if she’s pretty. The pressure that comes with pretty women is insane. No one says they aren’t at your level. They also are the center of attraction for other guys and rightfully, other redpillers. Because men are visual in nature, a pretty girl attracts a lot of interests and often psychologically, the woman develops an attitude. That’s why redpillers don’t settle for marriages. A redpiller understands that love is conditional. The ONLY unconditional love in this world is GOD to us and a mother to her child. Any other form of love is conditional and attached to certain deliverables. In terms of respect, I’ll assume you have basic form of comprehension and logic. A=B does not mean B=A. Does that make sense to you? A woman cannot love a man who she does not respect but she can respect a man who she does not love. Because women show love by respecting their man. Women naturally date and marry men above them in different aspects (physically, mentally, intellectually etc). Men show love differently. A man shows love by PROVIDING for and PROTECTING his woman.

By the way, how did Stockholm Syndrome get into the conversation?


Well I am still finding it extremely hard to this hard to understand. I take it you understand manipulative women or the feminist counterpart

Thanks for your not so clear point but was kinda ok

stanliwise:
You’re a clown

So men should start forging wife out of Hoes and manipulative women.

Same shit you call out guys who try to do same as simp is same shit you’re bringing on the table as a panacea. SMH

This redpill drug is shaking your brain.

You just keep shooting your redpill the more you try to defend it

wagzy37:
The problem so that you wanted to give your input without reading through and trying to understand what was being said. Most Women ARE manipulative. That’s what Redpill is about. Understanding the nature of women so you don’t fall for their tricks.
Get this, women being manipulative isn’t a bad thing. It’s inbuilt in them - the same way babies are manipulative to their parents. At the end of the day, women want a strong, assertive and competitive man. A man who fits this description won’t have a problem getting a woman’s attention.

By the way, I’m a feminist too. Not that crap that the females talk about. I believe in females making a choice. They can choose to stay single too and die alone. The problem is, it’s worse being an old lady, single and dying alone. Women thrive on companionship, commitment and security.

Sibtygarr:
Saying women are naturally manipulative and men are not is a slap on our face. It means were born dumb, makes no sense at all at all.
Also how can you say you're a feminist(special kind of one) and support the redpill at same time? which is everything against women standing and representing anything at all.
That is a whole lot of confusion. it is best you label yourself another kinda pill and just state your own perception.

And to conclude I am still looking for a redpill to help me identify a good partner, none yet

nwaezeemmanuel:
TRP doesn't say you should not get married. Rollo Tomassi in his redpill-themed book is married and gave advice for men planning to settle down. One of which involves always maintaining a masculine frame.

If you knew enough of TRP, you would know good partners are not found but made.

Sibtygarr:
Then I can make wife from olosho and runs girls then.

Even Rollo Tomassi said himself - There are no right one(e.g soul mate), only good ones
Infact you're contradicting Rollo Tomassi

He agreed good women exist and he didn't advise to carve good women

Sibtygarr:
Then I can make wife from olosho and runs girls then.

Even Rollo Tomassi said himself - There are no right one(e.g soul mate), only good ones
Infact you're contradicting Rollo Tomassi

He agreed good women exist and he didn't advise to carve good women