Avviala:

Was a side chick to my ex. After an abortion and heartbreaks, he ended it. I moved on and started dating someone else. Now he came back to apologize and all...and I went back. I feel guilty that I'm cheating on my boyfriend with the person that hurt me badly. But I love him and I don't love my boyfriend. I think my boyfriend knows I'm cheating on him. I don't know how to break up with him. I don't even know if I should break up with him and follow my ex. My ex shows me that he loves me and I feel more connected to him. My ex claims he has ended things with his girlfriend but I don't even know how true that is. Advice please.

Note : this is not my story. It's a friend. So your insults would not reach her.

Obviously u don’t want your head to help you with the reasoning, so follow ur heart..Life na risk..
if it works out.. all good..
if it doesn’t... pick ur self back up..At least u’ll have no regrets that you ddnt try to follow your heart and be happy with the one your heart beats for..

I wish sense was a common commodity
Keep giving out ur pussy foolishly. Tomorrow one SIMp will come and wife u with a shallow pussy

Okafor's law..
That's all I see here, too bad AWALT

You are the biggest idiot alive if this story is true. No advice for fools.

playapayaski:
Okafor's law..
That's all I see here, too bad AWALT

Asin ehn ...
The ex na badt guy...eat him cake and still come get am...

As for the op ...u re a mumu woman...and don't say its ur friend blah blah blah....we know its u o jare

It is not advice you need.


They need to kanayo-o-kanayo you!

Confusion break bone yeepa .........

No amount of advice will get through at this point, so just ride with it and see where it goes. Chances of premium tears is high though.

Avviala:

Was a side chick to my ex. After an abortion and heartbreaks, he ended it. I moved on and started dating someone else. Now he came back to apologize and all...and I went back. I feel guilty that I'm cheating on my boyfriend with the person that hurt me badly. But I love him and I don't love my boyfriend. I think my boyfriend knows I'm cheating on him. I don't know how to break up with him. I don't even know if I should break up with him and follow my ex. My ex shows me that he loves me and I feel more connected to him. My ex claims he has ended things with his girlfriend but I don't even know how true that is. Advice please.

Note : this is not my story. It's a friend. So your insults would not reach her.

You can go back to your ex but on what grounds? Don't make the same mistake that might lead to your heart being broken in the first place. Someone who loves you sh not be treated like that fa. Cheating on your man is disgusting so break up with him and let him know his place with you.

And, be sure you have thought this decision through. We don't like premium tears for fellow sisters. Again, think it through because that guy might just be playing you.

Don't lose a man for a boy.

Note this!


IT WILL END IN TEARS...

Number one, l position myself well in relationships, no heartbreaks, you can't break my heart. We would have negotiated it, It's either I'm your main girl or nothing. Before you fumble, you'd think twice.

Secondly, I'm an asset. Be an asset. Forget about fine gurl things, men would jostle to put a ring on it. Don't be a push around or a regular kind of girl, such that it will be easy to discard you. Work on yourself, leave Mary Kay and Iman alone for a while.

How can someone leave me, go away with another, then come back again? He won't see anything to come back to cause I would've stepped up.

Ladies, stop making yourselves handkerchiefs or foot mat for men to use anyhow. Body Count be increasing for nothing, Olorun maje!

Avviala:

Was a side chick to my ex. After an abortion and heartbreaks, he ended it. I moved on and started dating someone else. Now he came back to apologize and all...and I went back. I feel guilty that I'm cheating on my boyfriend with the person that hurt me badly. But I love him and I don't love my boyfriend. I think my boyfriend knows I'm cheating on him. I don't know how to break up with him. I don't even know if I should break up with him and follow my ex. My ex shows me that he loves me and I feel more connected to him. My ex claims he has ended things with his girlfriend but I don't even know how true that is. Advice please.

Note : this is not my story. It's a friend. So your insults would not reach her.

AND YOU WILL FOREVER REMAIN THE SIDE CHICKEN TO EX.

use ur brain, you better run back to ur boyfriend before the karma hits ur face.

Avviala:

Was a side chick to my ex. After an abortion and heartbreaks, he ended it. I moved on and started dating someone else. Now he came back to apologize and all...and I went back. I feel guilty that I'm cheating on my boyfriend with the person that hurt me badly. But I love him and I don't love my boyfriend. I think my boyfriend knows I'm cheating on him. I don't know how to break up with him. I don't even know if I should break up with him and follow my ex. My ex shows me that he loves me and I feel more connected to him. My ex claims he has ended things with his girlfriend but I don't even know how true that is. Advice please.

Note : this is not my story. It's a friend. So your insults would not reach her.

Honestly, I understand how you feel,,,,,, it's not easy to let go of your feelings for your ex, expecially when the connection is so strong.

Know this and know peace.
One who broke your heart, and you even had an abortion for, will never respect you, and would treat you as trash always.

I know it's hard,
You have to let go,,,,, don't let your feelings get over you.

Move on with your new partner, find a place in your heart to love him,
Do things together and stay clear of your ex, I bet you won't regret this decision.

I don wash hand comot for relationship advice abeg!

When your village people placed confusion sacrifice for you at a junction where 7 roads meet

What a sad state... Just use a condom to avoid another pregnancy.

Mennnnnnnn,see as the brother man just easily resume work for free knacking ministry

Girls wey comfortably know say them be sidechick nai I fear pass

Avviala:

Was a side chick to my ex. After an abortion and heartbreaks, he ended it. I moved on and started dating someone else. Now he came back to apologize and all...and I went back. I feel guilty that I'm cheating on my boyfriend with the person that hurt me badly. But I love him and I don't love my boyfriend. I think my boyfriend knows I'm cheating on him. I don't know how to break up with him. I don't even know if I should break up with him and follow my ex. My ex shows me that he loves me and I feel more connected to him. My ex claims he has ended things with his girlfriend but I don't even know how true that is. Advice please.

Note : this is not my story. It's a friend. So your insults would not reach her.

The truth is that you have affection for your ex and you guys get connected easily because of the love you have for each other, so no matter the hurt, love still wins

As for your boyfriend, just let him go if he can't stay, so that you can work out your relationship with your ex

But bear in mind that there will be another abortion from him.
Remember that it's your womb that you are playing with

No matter the advice you will still Goat.
Note:goat no dey hear word.

toujurs:
Shut up, you are the one. You are a prostitute, An ashawo thats what you are. A very big shame on a worthless bitch like you. To even think your parents took you to school, only for you to become a sperm bank for men, makes it so bad. See the way boys are tossing you, any ow. Chai so sad You must really be hungry, i doubt a hardworking lady would be treated this, go and find work and do and stop opening your thighs for money, Am not saying you shouldn't have sex if you want to, have some self worth

Wait ... I’m not understanding why the matter come dey vex you like this...

Later now na Shiloh, you go dey run go

Confusion Everywhere!

placeofallure:
Number one, l position myself well in relationships, no heartbreaks, you can't break my heart. We would have negotiated it, It's either I'm your main girl or nothing. Before you fumble, you'd think twice.

Secondly, I'm an asset. Be an asset. Forget about fine gurl things, men would jostle to put a ring on it. Don't be a push around or a regular kind of girl, such that it will be easy to discard you. Work on yourself, leave Mary Kay and Iman alone for a while.

How can someone leave me, go away with another, then come back again? He won't see anything to come back to cause I would've stepped up.

Ladies, stop making yourselves handkerchiefs or foot mat for men to use anyhow. Body Count be increasing for nothing, Olorun maje!

Lol, all these story. Na person leave Kim, Beyonce and J Lo. Forget grammar, people will leave whom they want when they want.
The best way to deal with life is to believe that who belongs to you will stay.

placeofallure:
Number one, l position myself well in relationships, no heartbreaks, you can't break my heart. We would have negotiated it, It's either I'm your main girl or nothing. Before you fumble, you'd think twice.

Secondly, I'm an asset. Be an asset. Forget about fine gurl things, men would jostle to put a ring on it. Don't be a push around or a regular kind of girl, such that it will be easy to discard you. Work on yourself, leave Mary Kay and Iman alone for a while.

How can someone leave me, go away with another, then come back again? He won't see anything to come back to cause I would've stepped up.

Ladies, stop making yourselves handkerchiefs or foot mat for men to use anyhow. Body Count be increasing for nothing, Olorun maje!

I had to quote u....are u a carpenter ?
See the way u just nailed it

In my town. . Givin advice is prohibited. .

Liar it is your story! You cheap lying manipulative ugly lookn beech that got teetees with no niples!

your type keepz dentin the image of this gender

Avviala:

Was a side chick to my ex. After an abortion and heartbreaks, he ended it. I moved on and started dating someone else. Now he came back to apologize and all...and I went back. I feel guilty that I'm cheating on my boyfriend with the person that hurt me badly. But I love him and I don't love my boyfriend. I think my boyfriend knows I'm cheating on him. I don't know how to break up with him. I don't even know if I should break up with him and follow my ex. My ex shows me that he loves me and I feel more connected to him. My ex claims he has ended things with his girlfriend but I don't even know how true that is. Advice please.

Note : this is not my story. It's a friend. So your insults would not reach her.

babe are u kidding me? U went back to your ex after everything he did to you..the truth is your ex will still hurt you, he came back because he misses your Pu**y not because he loves you, u beta stick with your bf and stop wasting your time..
I can't imagine myself with my ex, I hardly forget and forgive especially people that made me cry

Avviala:

Was a side chick to my ex. After an abortion and heartbreaks, he ended it. I moved on and started dating someone else. Now he came back to apologize and all...and I went back. I feel guilty that I'm cheating on my boyfriend with the person that hurt me badly. But I love him and I don't love my boyfriend. I think my boyfriend knows I'm cheating on him. I don't know how to break up with him. I don't even know if I should break up with him and follow my ex. My ex shows me that he loves me and I feel more connected to him. My ex claims he has ended things with his girlfriend but I don't even know how true that is. Advice please.

Note : this is not my story. It's a friend. So your insults would not reach her.

It will be a bad idea to leave your Boyfriend,
It's also a terrible idea to leave your ex.
But you might consider adding another boyfriend to your list that will act as the glue in between the two.
Just heed to my advice!

@OP Please discharge the boyfriend, let him find happiness elsewhere while you go about your on/off relationship with your ex.

It's because of things like this that some guys prefer virgins for relationship and marriage.