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Re: Advice Needed by Nobody: 2:48pm On Jun 10, 2021
Lilpen3758:
you don't have to shey you are waiting for your future virgin wife?
how I wan take toast my future wife if I no learn now?
grin grin
Re: Advice Needed by Lilpen3758: 2:50pm On Jun 10, 2021
Doja2000:
how I wan take toast my future wife if I no learn now?
grin grin
I no dey teach how to toast nah
I dey teach how to go straight to your point and do dey do
Re: Advice Needed by Nobody: 2:52pm On Jun 10, 2021
Lilpen3758:
I no dey teach how to toast nah
I dey teach how to go straight to your point and do dey do
why you dey enter me na? cheesy

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Re: Advice Needed by Lilpen3758: 3:07pm On Jun 10, 2021
Doja2000:
why you dey enter me na? cheesy
you no be girl why I wan enter you?? undecided undecided
Re: Advice Needed by Nobody: 3:10pm On Jun 10, 2021
Lilpen3758:
you no be girl why I wan enter you?? undecided undecided
I no no ooo.... embarassed

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Re: Advice Needed by ugohdignity111(m): 6:26pm On Jun 10, 2021
Lilpen3758:
hahahahaha dey feel wanted by someone
After all we all want someone to want us
Sometimes I no dey even tell them say I want sex
I make moves we fit dey discuss I go slap her ass or press am
But you go don read dey kind girl she be ooh make your face no go swell up in 2 secs
See brother to follow girls na sense
Them teach me too I use to be like you
Sometimes you Don't have to talk to a girl with your mouth
Nothing dey talk pass eyes
Eyes loud pass mouth

Thanks Bossman, really learning alot from you here...

But sometimes you will be looking at a girl with your eye and the girl will be reciprocating but if you approach her, she will start forming rubbish.....na wetin dey piss me off
Re: Advice Needed by ugohdignity111(m): 6:28pm On Jun 10, 2021
[quote author=fati2001 post=102576436]

everyone wanna be introvert..

WAHALA NO TOO MUCH!! [/quote

I'm a pure introvert dude.....I'm been serious here
Re: Advice Needed by ugohdignity111(m): 6:32pm On Jun 10, 2021
pansophist:
Refuse to be a victim of "confirmation bias". There are far more people of your age that are not in a relationship, than those that are in one. Because you're seeing people your age in relationships doesn't mean it's the norm, they are exceptions. Even at that, many of them are probably unhappy, patching up and not being themselves trying to keep the girl who most likely see them as a bridge to someone better and a source of livelihood.

Yea this may sound doomy, but I just got to say it the way it is. And being in a relationship should not be your priority this time, but your future. Yea I know, its a boring advice, your hormones are probably raging and you're wondering when you'll handle someone's daughter and practice all the styles you've accumulated from indecent movies, but the way to hell is paved with gold, fun and well cemented.

So what should you do now? Face your future. Men start from the bottom and rise to the top, while for women, it is the opposite. I've been your age, and oh boy, it was hard to deal with girls, even though I am a handsome guy. Because they get so much attention for just being women and doing nothing, competition is so high that decent, good looking guys are left in the dark romantically. I was competing with richer men that can buy her anything than a broke youth like me, so I ranked low at the bottom. You're probably at this stage now, but the good times are ahead of you and you'll only reach there if you improve on yourself, resist temptation and delay gratification.

You see the women you're hoping to be with now, you'll run when they start coming, sex will bore you and you'll just want freedom. Go to marriage counselling events or just search for it on YouTube, you'll see the audience are mostly females, not men. If men are desperate for women at that age, they should be there too. But go to money making events, there you'll see men. You're vulnerable now, I know, but your ability to go through this tough time will determine if you can handle the good time. Last last, you'll be fine.

Sir, thank you so much for this advice. I sincerely appreciate it wholeheartedly.
Re: Advice Needed by Lilpen3758: 7:27pm On Jun 10, 2021
ugohdignity111:


Thanks Bossman, really learning alot from you here...

But sometimes you will be looking at a girl with your eye and the girl will be reciprocating but if you approach her, she will start forming rubbish.....na wetin dey piss me off
that one dey see to follow girls na patience girls dey stupid like that
You know say girl fit love you die with all her heart and still dey snub you even if you dey make advances to her??
You know say girl fit wan Bleep you before you think of wan fucking her??
But them no go tell you
Girls want make we dey read their mind which is impossible....
So my brother if you go meet girl and she dey form I know say e dey annoying but if you really love her then she wants you to push on
But my no lie you I can never do that
I no get time for that again
Na only money fit form for me and I go still dey chase am
only cash brother
Re: Advice Needed by Lilpen3758: 7:28pm On Jun 10, 2021
ugohdignity111:


Sir, thank you so much for this advice. I sincerely appreciate it wholeheartedly.

you be virgin abi?
Re: Advice Needed by Lilpen3758: 7:30pm On Jun 10, 2021
Doja2000:
I no no ooo.... embarassed
grin grin
Re: Advice Needed by Nobody: 7:36pm On Jun 10, 2021
Lilpen3758:
grin grin
why you dey laugh?

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Re: Advice Needed by Lilpen3758: 7:37pm On Jun 10, 2021
Doja2000:
why you dey laugh?
you want my cry? angry
Re: Advice Needed by Nobody: 8:04pm On Jun 10, 2021
Lilpen3758:
you want my cry? angry
no ooo... I want make you shout

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Re: Advice Needed by Gerrard59(m): 8:44pm On Jun 10, 2021
pansophist:
Refuse to be a victim of "confirmation bias". There are far more people of your age that are not in a relationship, than those that are in one. Because you're seeing people your age in relationships doesn't mean it's the norm, they are exceptions. Even at that, many of them are probably unhappy, patching up and not being themselves trying to keep the girl who most likely see them as a bridge to someone better and a source of livelihood.

Yea this may sound doomy, but I just got to say it the way it is. And being in a relationship should not be your priority this time, but your future. Yea I know, its a boring advice, your hormones are probably raging and you're

You see the women you're hoping to be with now, you'll run when they start coming, sex will bore you and you'll just want freedom. Go to marriage counselling events or just search for it on YouTube, you'll see the audience are mostly females, not men. If men are desperate for women at that age, they should be there too. But go to money making events, there you'll see men. You're vulnerable now, I know, but your ability to go through this tough time will determine if you can handle the good time. Last last, you'll be fine.


While you're right, it's not easy considering raging hormones. To an extent, I think this "wait till you have money before you chase women" contributes to married men having extramarital affairs. These men know that their wives married them because they could provide for the household and believe they are at liberty to "enjoy their lives", after all, they worked for it. Also, they believe they should make up for the losses during their 20s.

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Re: Advice Needed by Nobody: 8:44pm On Jun 10, 2021
Lilpen3758:
you want my cry? angry
bros why you con dey vex na? grin grin

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Re: Advice Needed by ugohdignity111(m): 1:14am On Jun 11, 2021
Lilpen3758:
that one dey see to follow girls na patience girls dey stupid like that
You know say girl fit love you die with all her heart and still dey snub you even if you dey make advances to her??
You know say girl fit wan Bleep you before you think of wan fucking her??
But them no go tell you
Girls want make we dey read their mind which is impossible....
So my brother if you go meet girl and she dey form I know say e dey annoying but if you really love her then she wants you to push on
But my no lie you I can never do that
I no get time for that again
Na only money fit form for me and I go still dey chase am
only cash brother
My
I don experience am Sha....

Their forming no be here sha....even if they like you, they will still be forming rubbish, they don't know dat not all niggas got dat time bro....na money niggas dey chase now

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Re: Advice Needed by ugohdignity111(m): 1:16am On Jun 11, 2021
Lilpen3758:
you be virgin abi?

Who virgin help?
But if there is anything like that among guys, then I'm still a virgin.
Re: Advice Needed by Lilpen3758: 5:47am On Jun 11, 2021
ugohdignity111:


Who virgin help?
But if there is anything like that among guys, then I'm still a virgin.
hehehehehe grin
Re: Advice Needed by Lilpen3758: 5:48am On Jun 11, 2021
ugohdignity111:

My
I don experience am Sha....

Their forming no be here sha....even if they like you, they will still be forming rubbish, they don't know dat not all niggas got dat time bro....na money niggas dey chase now
dey don't know my man
And na still Dem go broke shame you ooh if you no get
Re: Advice Needed by angelfallz(m): 7:16am On Jun 11, 2021
Words of Wisdom

pansophist:
Refuse to be a victim of "confirmation bias". There are far more people of your age that are not in a relationship, than those that are in one. Because you're seeing people your age in relationships doesn't mean it's the norm, they are exceptions. Even at that, many of them are probably unhappy, patching up and not being themselves trying to keep the girl who most likely see them as a bridge to someone better and a source of livelihood.

Yea this may sound doomy, but I just got to say it the way it is. And being in a relationship should not be your priority this time, but your future. Yea I know, its a boring advice, your hormones are probably raging and you're wondering when you'll handle someone's daughter and practice all the styles you've accumulated from indecent movies, but the way to hell is paved with gold, fun and well cemented.

So what should you do now? Face your future. Men start from the bottom and rise to the top, while for women, it is the opposite. I've been your age, and oh boy, it was hard to deal with girls, even though I am a handsome guy. Because they get so much attention for just being women and doing nothing, competition is so high that decent, good looking guys are left in the dark romantically. I was competing with richer men that can buy her anything than a broke youth like me, so I ranked low at the bottom. You're probably at this stage now, but the good times are ahead of you and you'll only reach there if you improve on yourself, resist temptation and delay gratification.

You see the women you're hoping to be with now, you'll run when they start coming, sex will bore you and you'll just want freedom. Go to marriage counselling events or just search for it on YouTube, you'll see the audience are mostly females, not men. If men are desperate for women at that age, they should be there too. But go to money making events, there you'll see men. You're vulnerable now, I know, but your ability to go through this tough time will determine if you can handle the good time. Last last, you'll be fine.

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Re: Advice Needed by pansophist(m): 10:44am On Jun 11, 2021
Gerrard59:



While you're right, it's not easy considering raging hormones. To an extent, I think this "wait till you have money before you chase women" contributes to married men having extramarital affairs. These men know that their wives married them because they could provide for the household and believe they are at liberty to "enjoy their lives", after all, they worked for it. Also, they believe they should make up for the losses during their 20s.

I'm not against anyone being in a relationship, but I'm not a proponent of promiscuity either. Since it's difficult for him to score a girl, then the least he can do is to focus on his future. Along the way if a girl that likes him shows up (even tomorrow), by all means, he should cultivate a relationship with her. This is, and has always being my stance.

About men cheating on their spouse because she married him for money, well, this is a false equivalence.

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Re: Advice Needed by Drella(m): 5:05am On Jun 12, 2021
ugohdignity111:


Who virgin help?
But if there is anything like that among guys, then I'm still a virgin.

Ugohvirginity111
Re: Advice Needed by ugohdignity111(m): 7:01am On Jun 12, 2021
[quote author=Drella post=102631134]

Ugohvirginity111[/quote

grin
Re: Advice Needed by abibshine: 12:28pm On Jun 14, 2021
You sound like a gay ;[color=#990000][/color]D grin grin


SmellySperm:
At 23 you should be more concerned about ur future not puzzy.

You better not make same mistakes I made when I was ur age

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