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Why Do I Feel Reluctant About Having A Girlfriend by Ladikwa(op): 1:07pm On Jun 14, 2021

When I get a girls phone number, I feel reluctant calling them. while some times That I decide to call, I have to force Myself while I praying they don’t pickup. I don’t know why I am feeling this way. what could be causing this issue am having and how can I address it.

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Re: Why Do I Feel Reluctant About Having A Girlfriend by apostle96: 1:11pm On Jun 14, 2021

Somebody like me..I use to estimate the whole thing, how the thing will end, from the beginning...then I get fed up and conclude it doesn't worth the whole stress and paparazzi when I know where/how the relationship will eventually end

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Re: Why Do I Feel Reluctant About Having A Girlfriend by HealerH: 2:17pm On Jun 14, 2021

It's psychological.
First, from your poor English, it's likely you're reluctant because you don't trust your speaking ability to get you through to a girl.

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Re: Why Do I Feel Reluctant About Having A Girlfriend by Taguchi: 2:20pm On Jun 14, 2021

apostle96:
Somebody like me..I use to estimate the whole thing, how the thing will end, from the beginning...then I get fed up and conclude it doesn't worth the whole stress and paparazzi when I know where/how the relationship will eventually end

na me be this, back in the days...i dey always see the end from the begining grin

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Re: Why Do I Feel Reluctant About Having A Girlfriend by mystery22: 2:50pm On Jun 14, 2021

Cos you feel like you don't really need them

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Re: Why Do I Feel Reluctant About Having A Girlfriend by Deicide: 2:57pm On Jun 14, 2021

You simply scared of rejection

Re: Why Do I Feel Reluctant About Having A Girlfriend by Kryzboy(m): 3:01pm On Jun 14, 2021

HealerH:
It's psychological.
First, from your poor English, it's likely you're reluctant because you don't trust your speaking ability to get you through to a girl.

. I agree with you

Re: Why Do I Feel Reluctant About Having A Girlfriend by Bankerboy: 3:05pm On Jun 14, 2021

You're just nervous. . It do happen sometimes , and maybe you do reharse what you re going to tell her and along the line you get discouraged. My opinion tho.

Re: Why Do I Feel Reluctant About Having A Girlfriend by Youngpo413: 3:07pm On Jun 14, 2021

Are you broke?

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Re: Why Do I Feel Reluctant About Having A Girlfriend by Cerebellum: 3:08pm On Jun 14, 2021

HealerH:
It's psychological.
First, from your poor English, it's likely you're reluctant because you don't trust your speaking ability to get you through to a girl.

Lol...Awsear, you no well grin

Re: Why Do I Feel Reluctant About Having A Girlfriend by Nobody: 3:10pm On Jun 14, 2021

HealerH:
It's psychological.
First, from your poor English, it's likely you're reluctant because you don't trust your speaking ability to get you through to a girl.

Re: Why Do I Feel Reluctant About Having A Girlfriend by Tohsynetita1(m): 3:34pm On Jun 14, 2021

Ladikwa:
When I get a girls phone number, I feel reluctant calling them. while some times That I decide to call, I have to force Myself while I praying they don’t pickup. I don’t know why I am feeling this way. what could be causing this issue am having and how can I address it.

nervousness

Re: Why Do I Feel Reluctant About Having A Girlfriend by Whois(m): 3:46pm On Jun 14, 2021

Shy boy. Face your problem

Re: Why Do I Feel Reluctant About Having A Girlfriend by johndho(m): 4:01pm On Jun 14, 2021

Maybe you are broke, or you masturbate often. But brokeness dey cause am most times

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Re: Why Do I Feel Reluctant About Having A Girlfriend by AlexB300: 4:14pm On Jun 14, 2021

HealerH:
It's psychological.
First, from your poor English, it's likely you're reluctant because you don't trust your speaking ability to get you through to a girl.

Re: Why Do I Feel Reluctant About Having A Girlfriend by Ladikwa(op): 4:20pm On Jun 14, 2021

HealerH:
It's psychological.
First, from your poor English, it's likely you're reluctant because you don't trust your speaking ability to get you through to a girl.

I approach them and get their number, but I feal weak or reluctant to call them.

Re: Why Do I Feel Reluctant About Having A Girlfriend by Petyr1: 5:42pm On Jun 14, 2021

Ladikwa:
When I get a girls phone number, I feel reluctant calling them. while some times That I decide to call, I have to force Myself while I praying they don’t pickup. I don’t know why I am feeling this way. what could be causing this issue am having and how can I address it.

finally i found someone like me. In fact close friends are thinking I'm gay

Re: Why Do I Feel Reluctant About Having A Girlfriend by Nobody: 5:44pm On Jun 14, 2021

Ladikwa:
When I get a girls phone number, I feel reluctant calling them. while some times That I decide to call, I have to force Myself while I praying they don’t pickup. I don’t know why I am feeling this way. what could be causing this issue am having and how can I address it.

We are alike, I don't even ask for a lady's number because I know I won't call. My cousin thinks I'm gay, but I'm not. I don't have the strength for dating. I will end up with the lady that woos me, probably she will love me more and that will save me from a lot of stress. The ladies I have been with in the past made the first move.

Re: Why Do I Feel Reluctant About Having A Girlfriend by Cinema4d: 6:24pm On Jun 14, 2021

Ladikwa:
When I get a girls phone number, I feel reluctant calling them. while some times That I decide to call, I have to force Myself while I praying they don’t pickup. I don’t know why I am feeling this way. what could be causing this issue am having and how can I address it.

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