Commotfornigeri:
It goes both ways.

I have a friend whose husband just ran away after securing papers. She left oyibo and went to nigeria to marry him

Left her with kids, bills, mortgage, everything.

So as you encourage men to learn, women should learn too.

I encourage girls to charge their "nigerian husbands" at least $100k as insurance. Forget love, it can be so deceitful. If he flees, then she has consolation. If he stays, they use the money for their kids.

If the man cannot afford it, let him take a walk.

Going to nigeria to marry a husband or a wife is like playing baba ijebu with your marital life.

Reeses:

You guys are always talking shit maybe your mom should have run it that way with you idiot.

Pierocash:
No woman can try that shit with me. If I start sensing danger,I won't alert her.

I will simply trick her down to Nigeria with one excuse of attending to an urgent issue.

Nah for naija here I go conclude her case before returning back alone to the states.

Don't ask me what happened to her,God will reveal it to you in the afterlife.

Rubbish

nedugroup:


Has a US Nigeria lady taken a Nigerian man from African to marry her and live with her in the US. I want to know pls cos I have never heard it.

Pierocash:
No woman can try that shit with me. If I start sensing danger,I won't alert her.

I will simply trick her down to Nigeria with one excuse of attending to an urgent issue.

Nah for naija here I go conclude her case before returning back alone to the states.

Don't ask me what happened to her,God will reveal it to you in the afterlife.

Rubbish

MALIGNANTGuest:
I suffered same FATE too.
It appears there's a headstrong spirit that accompanies Nigerian Ladies to the USA.
INDIANS & Chinese move with their culture.
Their women respect their men a lot despite residing in the United States.

I keep warning Nigerian MEN residing in the US...
In Fact, I stood up and called men out in our last Sunday meeting to stop traveling to Nigeria to get married. After all what will these LADIES do 4u?
Between you and the Lady residing in Nigeria who is doing each other a great Favour?

What you need, are KIDS, nothing else.
MILLIONS of Ladies are willing to give in to that.
Travel to Nigeria, get them pregnant.
Place them on reasonable salary or pay them off if they demand. Takeover ur child's custody.

Please cancel every suggestion that will to lead to Nuptial knot-tying. It's not worth it.
The MADNESS is too much.

OyinNurse:


Lol @ reasonable salary. Anyway there are still some of us who married US Citizens and have not gone crazy because of blue passport

MALIGNANTGuest:

You are pained because my verdict on the matter has solved that huge societal problem permanently & it will liberate a lot of CAGED MEN.

You can insult me, I don't care.
We are used to your INSULTS.
MEN are already working towards that.
You Ladies treasure BABYMAMA a lot, and we have openly accepted it wholeheartedly.
No GOING BACK.

Thank you.

MALIGNANTGuest:

It's not about the PASSPORT.
Does Blue Passport guarantee peace in marriage?
It's about giving your HUSBAND peace of mind.
It's about respecting him despite residing in d US.
A LADY can't be a husband.
A MAN can't be a Wife.
These are not elective positions.
They are Natural Roles which are not debatable.
Problem starts when the Lady decides to abrogate the role and lordship of men to herself.
The moment a man starts losing his RESPECT, anarchy becomes inevitable.

A LADY that isn't ready to listen to a man nor come under a man in tutelage of matrimony shouldn't even get close to Men.
No Lady will be penalized for being alone.
No one penalises the Reverend Sisters.

nedugroup:


Has a US Nigeria lady taken a Nigerian man from African to marry her and live with her in the US. I want to know pls cos I have never heard it.

Pierocash:
No woman can try that shit with me. If I start sensing danger,I won't alert her.

I will simply trick her down to Nigeria with one excuse of attending to an urgent issue.

Nah for naija here I go conclude her case before returning back alone to the states.

Don't ask me what happened to her,God will reveal it to you in the afterlife.

Rubbish

LadyRosa:



Yes, severally.
Infact one of my uncle who is known for being lazy almost nearly married one nice USA based lady, but him stupidity couldn't let him hide his nasty character.

The lady returned his bride price ASAP and dumped him in naija back to USA. She's lucky. She dodged a future disaster.

LadyRosa:



There are lots of women who bring their spouse over there after getting married to them in naija. Most end up misbehaving and divorcing their wives after gaining grounds.
But we don't hear about such, it hardly makes Frontpage.

Na only man dey carry wife come abroad. Many women wey dey carry their unemployed leeches go abroad, only for them to earn a few dollars and start chasing women n and transsexuals like he goat on heat.

talk about being biased.

Pierocash:
No woman can try that shit with me. If I start sensing danger,I won't alert her.

I will simply trick her down to Nigeria with one excuse of attending to an urgent issue.

Nah for naija here I go conclude her case before returning back alone to the states.

Don't ask me what happened to her,God will reveal it to you in the afterlife.

Rubbish

Pierocash:
No woman can try that shit with me. If I start sensing danger,I won't alert her.

I will simply trick her down to Nigeria with one excuse of attending to an urgent issue.

Nah for naija here I go conclude her case before returning back alone to the states.

Don't ask me what happened to her,God will reveal it to you in the afterlife.

Rubbish

nedugroup:


Has a US Nigeria lady taken a Nigerian man from African to marry her and live with her in the US. I want to know pls cos I have never heard it.

aswani:


You should see the way a good chunk of these women treat their "husbands" when they take them abroad. It is no surprise the men start counting the days to when they can flee.

And before you mention, I knoe some men that take women abroad try to dominate the women in an unacceptable naner too.

The difference is the Naija men run away and leave the women that took them there, but the Naija women play the system and take the man's properties that he had before he met the entitled madam.

Good luck to all those that try it ṣá, I am yet to see one that works which doesn't mean there aren't any.

MALIGNANTGuest:
I suffered same FATE too.
It appears there's a headstrong spirit that accompanies Nigerian Ladies to the USA.
INDIANS & Chinese move with their culture.
Their women respect their men a lot despite residing in the United States.

I keep warning Nigerian MEN residing in the US...
In Fact, I stood up and called men out in our last Sunday meeting to stop traveling to Nigeria to get married. After all what will these LADIES do 4u?
Between you and the Lady residing in Nigeria who is doing each other a great Favour?

What you need, are KIDS, nothing else.
MILLIONS of Ladies are willing to give in to that.
Travel to Nigeria, get them pregnant.
Place them on reasonable salary or pay them off if they demand. Takeover ur child's custody.

Please cancel every suggestion that will to lead to Nuptial knot-tying. It's not worth it.
The MADNESS is too much.

LadyRosa:
Hmmm...
You want to bring your wife to USA and still want to use the subjugative laws on here to run her life abroad. Guy, for Away, there's no kinsmen to settle blue black punch marks you guys often decorate her with here in naija.

The laws there are pro-women, you do anyhow, you see anyhow.

Respect your wives abroad OR better still don't marry at all.

JeffreyJunior:


Some of our brothers bring village girls, encourage them to be nurses and sit idly to eat their paychecks. One day, slaves will want to revolt naa, it's normal.

JeffreyJunior:
If you will be kind enough to share your story a little bit, that will go a long way in driving home your point.

I ask this because in some of the cases I've witnessed, both the husbands and the wives had a good share of the blames.

However, I will say that in most of them, the wives proved to be the greater evil.

Firstly, if you don't know her so well and never dated her while in Nigeria, think it well.

Secondly, avoid village girls, they turn out to be worse than city girls when they tear eye. City girls can only be golddiggers but village girls mostly turn out to be worse than that. They want to show we have arrived.

Thirdly and most importantly, get yourself a good job or business. Don't turn somebody's daughter to slave and relax to eat as master.

Some of our brothers bring village girls, encourage them to be nurses and sit idly to eat their paychecks. One day, slaves will want to revolt naa, it's normal.

DAramis:

This is the second time I am seeing this comment. Does this really happen bro? The other person who made similar comment said something about “cooking the woman up” though he didn’t give further information.

Lastly, what is your view on married woman working in the region of their residence?
Should the husband allow her to keep all her salary while facing the home front by himself?or should he demand certain percentage to be paid into joint custody account monthly?If yes, what percentage is appropriate? 50 or 60 or 70 etc (I am not talking about joint account were the woman donates everything while the husband then spends money for running the house from his salary)

I am asking all these questions because I know money happens to be one of the motivating factor that leads to most problems. No wonder some would not allow their wives to work but rather become a full time housewife

NB: Experienced and married people should also contribute towards answering my questions above.

WinterMinter:
Another modafuka sighted,piss of

JeffreyJunior:
Yea, it happens. Some of our older brothers never bothered to plan for their retirement while they could so they now resort to bringing Nigerian wives to be their retirement package whereby the girls will be working and be paying the bills.

Most of them were shipping cars and general goods, had businesses that got closed for one reason or the other, and were into fraudulent activities which have been bursted forcing them to close shop and make them unemployable.

So these nurse wives are like their meal ticket.

Nevertheless, in most cases, the wives have greater share of the blames because a good number of them have terrible attitude and often take matters to extreme.

My brother, I'm not in position to give opinion on how finances should be run in marriages. Sorry I'm not experienced in that yet.