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Can a man as a “Stepfather” genuinely love another mans child as his own?

Are you a Step father?

Yes

Yes!

The question should be like this: why should a man father another man's child.

It's possible....if we are to rate it in Nigeria only few can do that genuinely.

Sure, especially when the said child is well behaved.

blinking001:
The question should be like this: why should a man father another man's child.

don't twist - it's a YES.

to answer your question it is another - YES.

fathering isn't about just having children but about giving life to the helpless.

100%

Men doest love. They only take care

Of course but a woman will never genuinely love a child she didn't give birth to

Its very 100% possible.
Seen it play out before

It depends on the love he has for the mum. If he has genuine love for his mum, that love will transmit to her child.

Yes it's possible

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Are you a Step father?

Why do Nigerians love to answer a question with another question?

Even more obtainable than women truly loving their stepchildren.

Demogorgon:
Of course but a woman will never genuinely love a child she didn't give birth to

Yes never ,they will only pretend to love that child but deep down they don't.

Depends on if the kid is lovable..

Depends on her mommas attitude..

Men usually don’t have issues with kids..

Most men generally love children. This is because children are about the only humans that readily take people the way they are with less judgements. Also, that childhood innocence has a way of drawing good souls to them.

So, yes! It's possible for a man to genuinely love another man's child and care for him/her, unless of course the man is an evil soul.

How can she then claim to love her husband did she birth him ?

Demogorgon:
Of course but a woman will never genuinely love a child she didn't give birth to

It might be possible but for me I can live the child but if it ain't yours bro it ain't your blood

blinking001:
The question should be like this: why should a man father another man's child.

In this case the man chose to marry the woman who's got a child already... Not a bastard... I think the question is appropriate

9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

In Buhari'svoice: I assure u! They are all useless..... All of them!

Kobicove:
Who do Nigerians love to answer a question with another question?

Is that the answer to my humble question?

For me it depends on whether the step kid father is dead or otherwise

If the father is dead, I'll gladly take full responsibility and love him like my son but if the father is alive and decide to be irresponsible forget it I'm not loving child of a deadbeat like mine I can't take care of a child that the father and his family will show up one day claiming they want their son

Sincerely and deep down, e hard small...I pray everyone have his own son or daughter and kindly be calked a father!

Cheers!