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Girls Generally Including My GF Has Been Irritating Me And I Don't Know Why by Kandeed: 5:16pm On Jun 19, 2021
I really can't seem to understand why I've been feeling this way for months. after I got into some study and music groups and maybe cuz of my contributions I add to most conversations on the group I've made lotta foreign friends who happen to be majorly girls and lately, my girlfriend has been gradually getting off my mind and the funny thing is, it's not her alone but most local girls I used to crush after.

I've been closer to Meredith and Renee (both from the US) cuz I noticed something they're both friendly, jovial and tell me lotta personal things even when ion ask. Infact Meredith and I has gotten so close that if rat climbs her leg, I'm the next person she'll tell using a VN shouting like urrgh. from her words, it's been a long time she had someone who listens to her & gives her time like I do and over time becuz I spend lotta time chatting these two, I've gradually limited the attention I give to my girlfriend and she been noticing it of lately and have complained times without number and just as normal I'll tell her something always take my time or i'll just look for one excuse to give her bla bla. Bfr I wake up I'll see like 8messages from Meredith cuz of the time difference and when I don't reply quickly she sometimes accuse me of getting silent on her cuz really she talks too much lipsrsealed and then what's app call me just randomly if ion reply in time and if I do mistake pick it'll be another hour of talk as she don't get tired.

well of lately things have been going south btwn me and my girlfriend and the major problem I got now is How To tell Meredith I got a girlfriend without hurting her and lest I forget I don't do mistakes of switching on my Data anytime my GF is around plus I carry my phone all around and she been noticing somethings wrong. what do you guys think i can do?? mynd44 lalasticlala farano , Rocktation
Re: Girls Generally Including My GF Has Been Irritating Me And I Don't Know Why by donbachi(m): 5:16pm On Jun 19, 2021
Mental issue

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Re: Girls Generally Including My GF Has Been Irritating Me And I Don't Know Why by Ablemed: 5:25pm On Jun 19, 2021
Lol it's normal for you to feel that way cuz I'm sure this medired or what do you call her no go bill you. cheesy but my Kandeed advice is to go for what's best for you man

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Re: Girls Generally Including My GF Has Been Irritating Me And I Don't Know Why by Ynix(m): 5:29pm On Jun 19, 2021
Kandeed:
I really can't seem to understand why I've been feeling this way for months. after I got into some study and music groups and maybe cuz of my contributions I add to most conversations on the group I've made lotta foreign friends who happen to be majorly girls and lately, my girlfriend has been gradually getting off my mind and the funny thing is, it's not her alone but most local girls I used to crush after.

I've been closer to Meredith and Renee (both from the US) cuz I noticed something they're both friendly, jovial and tell me lotta personal things even when ion ask. Infact Meredith and I has gotten so close that if rat climbs her leg, I'm the next person she'll tell using a VN shouting like urrgh. from her words, it's been a long time she had someone who listens to her & gives her time like I do and over time becuz I spend lotta time chatting these two, I've gradually limited the attention I give to my girlfriend and she been noticing it of lately and have complained times without number and just as normal I'll tell her something always take my time or i'll just look for one excuse to give her bla bla. Bfr I wake up I'll see like 8messages from Meredith cuz of the time difference and when I don't reply quickly she sometimes accuse me of getting silent on her cuz really she talks too much lipsrsealed and then what's app call me just randomly if ion reply in time and if I do mistake pick it'll be another hour of talk as she don't get tired.

well of lately things have been going south btwn me and my girlfriend and the major problem I got now is How To tell Meredith I got a girlfriend without hurting her and lest I forget I don't do mistakes of switching on my Data anytime my GF is around plus I carry my phone all around and she been noticing somethings wrong. what do you guys think i can do??

Just write her to offer a sack letter or tell her to tender a resignation letter because someone has replaced her in her duties.
Anyways take my advice in case you marry the oyinbo, no sign prenuptial oh so that you will not be eboued

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Re: Girls Generally Including My GF Has Been Irritating Me And I Don't Know Why by EdoFirstBorn(m): 5:38pm On Jun 19, 2021
Because she is one of those " give me" low budget bleached skin , 4 inch eye lash wearing no ambition hoes.

Next time stay away from girls who didn't go to university or girls learning make up, tailoring and hair dressing . Date a university graduate no matter what , cause at least there is a minimum level of exposure
Re: Girls Generally Including My GF Has Been Irritating Me And I Don't Know Why by heniford2: 5:47pm On Jun 19, 2021
Kandeed:
I really can't seem to understand why I've been feeling this way for months. after I got into some study and music groups and maybe cuz of my contributions I add to most conversations on the group I've made lotta foreign friends who happen to be majorly girls and lately, my girlfriend has been gradually getting off my mind and the funny thing is, it's not her alone but most local girls I used to crush after.

I've been closer to Meredith and Renee (both from the US) cuz I noticed something they're both friendly, jovial and tell me lotta personal things even when ion ask. Infact Meredith and I has gotten so close that if rat climbs her leg, I'm the next person she'll tell using a VN shouting like urrgh. from her words, it's been a long time she had someone who listens to her & gives her time like I do and over time becuz I spend lotta time chatting these two, I've gradually limited the attention I give to my girlfriend and she been noticing it of lately and have complained times without number and just as normal I'll tell her something always take my time or i'll just look for one excuse to give her bla bla. Bfr I wake up I'll see like 8messages from Meredith cuz of the time difference and when I don't reply quickly she sometimes accuse me of getting silent on her cuz really she talks too much lipsrsealed and then what's app call me just randomly if ion reply in time and if I do mistake pick it'll be another hour of talk as she don't get tired.

well of lately things have been going south btwn me and my girlfriend and the major problem I got now is How To tell Meredith I got a girlfriend without hurting her and lest I forget I don't do mistakes of switching on my Data anytime my GF is around plus I carry my phone all around and she been noticing somethings wrong. what do you guys think i can do??
thats because your broke grin
Re: Girls Generally Including My GF Has Been Irritating Me And I Don't Know Why by troublemakea(m): 5:48pm On Jun 19, 2021
Ynix:


Just write her to offer a sack letter or tell her to tender a resignation letter because someone has replaced her in her duties.
Anyways take my advice in case you marry the oyinbo, no sign prenuptial oh so that you will not be eboued

This is not a relationship advice but if it were me o. one only needs ur time the other needs time, money and may probably cheat on you las las if one yahoo guy hol am.

if I be OP I go put leg for place wey pay me pass. cuz if he leave her for him 9ja babe I no wan know him go cry las las
Re: Girls Generally Including My GF Has Been Irritating Me And I Don't Know Why by Ynix(m): 5:50pm On Jun 19, 2021
troublemakea:


This is not a relationship advice but if it were me o. one only needs ur time the other needs time, money and may probably cheat on you las las if one yahoo guy hol am.

if I be OP I go put leg for place wey pay me pass. cuz if he leave her for him 9ja babe I no wan know him go cry las las
Actually I don't believe in double dating and confusion that is why I penned down my narrative
Re: Girls Generally Including My GF Has Been Irritating Me And I Don't Know Why by Kandeed: 5:50pm On Jun 19, 2021
heniford2:
thats because your broke grin

Trust me if I Was The type of my GF would have left my sorry ass a long time ago
Re: Girls Generally Including My GF Has Been Irritating Me And I Don't Know Why by Kandeed: 5:52pm On Jun 19, 2021
Ynix:


Just write her to offer a sack letter or tell her to tender a resignation letter because someone has replaced her in her duties.
Anyways take my advice in case you marry the oyinbo, no sign prenuptial oh so that you will not be eboued

It's kinda hard cuz ion want it to look like I dumped her without hurting me plus I and her bro vibe well
Re: Girls Generally Including My GF Has Been Irritating Me And I Don't Know Why by heniford2: 5:54pm On Jun 19, 2021
Kandeed:


Trust me if I Was The type of my GF would have left my sorry ass a long time ago
lol grin then chill small the heat is everywhere
Re: Girls Generally Including My GF Has Been Irritating Me And I Don't Know Why by Kandeed: 5:55pm On Jun 19, 2021
heniford2:
lol grin then chill small the heat is everywhere

you sef get same issue??
Re: Girls Generally Including My GF Has Been Irritating Me And I Don't Know Why by heniford2: 5:57pm On Jun 19, 2021
Kandeed:


you sef get same issue??
No but...sometimes I usually need space which women don't understand so I understand you
Re: Girls Generally Including My GF Has Been Irritating Me And I Don't Know Why by Robertgreene1(m): 6:05pm On Jun 19, 2021
u v seen d light bro..nd now u know d ultimate truth which according 2 d gospel of saint Mosdii the beloved is that "Nigerian girls re useless......." just like Abd ru shin d author of "in the light of truth" also saw d ultimate truth....so as expected of someone that's seen d light...darkness now irritates u...
Re: Girls Generally Including My GF Has Been Irritating Me And I Don't Know Why by vibre: 6:06pm On Jun 19, 2021
Guy, no dey waste your time, you be homo!! Just face your lane leave the girls for us.
Re: Girls Generally Including My GF Has Been Irritating Me And I Don't Know Why by Cholls(m): 6:06pm On Jun 19, 2021
donbachi:
Mental issue

Re: Girls Generally Including My GF Has Been Irritating Me And I Don't Know Why by Kandeed: 6:16pm On Jun 19, 2021
Robertgreene1:
u v seen d light bro..nd now u know d ultimate truth which is according to saint Mosdii the beloved that "Nigerian girls re useless......." just like Abd ru shin d author of "in light of the truth" also saw d ultimate truth....so as expected of someone that's seen d light...darkness now irritates u...

Lol I'm trying to be as careful as I can be cuz I've not told her I'm in a relationship yet and my GF is not that sensible she fit copy her number go dey rake for innocent girl that leave my boyfriend bla bla shit, she's that typa person
Re: Girls Generally Including My GF Has Been Irritating Me And I Don't Know Why by Ynix(m): 6:23pm On Jun 19, 2021
Kandeed:


It's kinda hard cuz ion want it to look like I dumped her without hurting me plus I and her bro vibe well
oh, then just try avoiding her, with limited communication the whole relationship will break down
Re: Girls Generally Including My GF Has Been Irritating Me And I Don't Know Why by Robertgreene1(m): 6:23pm On Jun 19, 2021
Kandeed:


Lol I'm trying to be as careful as I can be cuz I've not told her I'm in a relationship yet and my GF is not that sensible she fit copy her number go dey rake for innocent girl that leave my boyfriend bla bla shit, she's that typa person
just ghost that darkness called a naija girl 4 good nd go 4 d light... if u play ur cards well enough...that light might even change ur life 4 d good..so no dulling bro
shalom

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Re: Girls Generally Including My GF Has Been Irritating Me And I Don't Know Why by Kandeed: 7:00pm On Jun 19, 2021
Robertgreene1:
just ghost that darkness called a naija girl 4 good nd go 4 d light... if u play ur cards well enough...that light might even change ur life 4 d better...so no dulling bro
shalom

lol looks like Virtually every guy don chop am from these sect of 9ja girls. initially din see us lasting long actually din know it'll be this quick

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Re: Girls Generally Including My GF Has Been Irritating Me And I Don't Know Why by Hungrychicken(m): 7:48pm On Jun 19, 2021
Team foreign babes cool

Back to the topic. When you see babes, foreign ones them, with beta vibes. All these naija girls go just dey irritate you.
Them no even dey fun at all, not to even while chatting sef.
Re: Girls Generally Including My GF Has Been Irritating Me And I Don't Know Why by OKOATA(m): 9:01pm On Jun 19, 2021
My guy anything you won do think am twice, if na yankee girl I for say make you no dull yourself. I have many friends that do legit with white U.S women. Just know that if your GF see opportunity to meet a white man who would help her abroad she might not think it twice. Just play your game well.

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Re: Girls Generally Including My GF Has Been Irritating Me And I Don't Know Why by josh123(m): 9:25pm On Jun 19, 2021
Kandeed:
I really can't seem to understand why I've been feeling this way for months. after I got into some study and music groups and maybe cuz of my contributions I add to most conversations on the group I've made lotta foreign friends who happen to be majorly girls and lately, my girlfriend has been gradually getting off my mind and the funny thing is, it's not her alone but most local girls I used to crush after.

I've been closer to Meredith and Renee (both from the US) cuz I noticed something they're both friendly, jovial and tell me lotta personal things even when ion ask. Infact Meredith and I has gotten so close that if rat climbs her leg, I'm the next person she'll tell using a VN shouting like urrgh. from her words, it's been a long time she had someone who listens to her & gives her time like I do and over time becuz I spend lotta time chatting these two, I've gradually limited the attention I give to my girlfriend and she been noticing it of lately and have complained times without number and just as normal I'll tell her something always take my time or i'll just look for one excuse to give her bla bla. Bfr I wake up I'll see like 8messages from Meredith cuz of the time difference and when I don't reply quickly she sometimes accuse me of getting silent on her cuz really she talks too much lipsrsealed and then what's app call me just randomly if ion reply in time and if I do mistake pick it'll be another hour of talk as she don't get tired.

well of lately things have been going south btwn me and my girlfriend and the major problem I got now is How To tell Meredith I got a girlfriend without hurting her and lest I forget I don't do mistakes of switching on my Data anytime my GF is around plus I carry my phone all around and she been noticing somethings wrong. what do you guys think i can do?? mynd44 lalasticlala farano , Rocktation
baba chat the white girl wella, na sure way to get out of this shit hole

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Re: Girls Generally Including My GF Has Been Irritating Me And I Don't Know Why by Came4amod: 7:49am On Aug 07, 2021
Kandeed:
I really can't seem to understand why I've been feeling this way for months. after I got into some study and music groups and maybe cuz of my contributions I add to most conversations on the group I've made lotta foreign friends who happen to be majorly girls and lately, my girlfriend has been gradually getting off my mind and the funny thing is, it's not her alone but most local girls I used to crush after.

I've been closer to Meredith and Renee (both from the US) cuz I noticed something they're both friendly, jovial and tell me lotta personal things even when ion ask. Infact Meredith and I has gotten so close that if rat climbs her leg, I'm the next person she'll tell using a VN shouting like urrgh. from her words, it's been a long time she had someone who listens to her & gives her time like I do and over time becuz I spend lotta time chatting these two, I've gradually limited the attention I give to my girlfriend and she been noticing it of lately and have complained times without number and just as normal I'll tell her something always take my time or i'll just look for one excuse to give her bla bla. Bfr I wake up I'll see like 8messages from Meredith cuz of the time difference and when I don't reply quickly she sometimes accuse me of getting silent on her cuz really she talks too much lipsrsealed and then what's app call me just randomly if ion reply in time and if I do mistake pick it'll be another hour of talk as she don't get tired.

well of lately things have been going south btwn me and my girlfriend and the major problem I got now is How To tell Meredith I got a girlfriend without hurting her and lest I forget I don't do mistakes of switching on my Data anytime my GF is around plus I carry my phone all around and she been noticing somethings wrong. what do you guys think i can do?? mynd44 lalasticlala farano , Rocktation

Ur problem is u doing everything because u alone u need people who depends solely on you.. u need challenges u need to invest in people then their problem will become yours and u will be broke quickly and boredom will disappear because now u have to work twice as hard .. then ur fulfillment and sense of pride will come back .. think about it .. the real joy is seeing others happy because of you
Re: Girls Generally Including My GF Has Been Irritating Me And I Don't Know Why by Pegi23(f): 8:12am On Aug 07, 2021
It is because you are stupid. U are not chatting with whitee and you feel local girls are not attractive again..look e go shock you when they turn to you to boy boy knowing fully well u will do anything to please them.. it is your type that marry white grandma that will be controlling every aspect of your miserable local life.
Re: Girls Generally Including My GF Has Been Irritating Me And I Don't Know Why by Expresswriter: 9:28am On Aug 07, 2021
Kandeed:
I really can't seem to understand why I've been feeling this way for months. after I got into some study and music groups and maybe cuz of my contributions I add to most conversations on the group I've made lotta foreign friends who happen to be majorly girls and lately, my girlfriend has been gradually getting off my mind and the funny thing is, it's not her alone but most local girls I used to crush after.

I've been closer to Meredith and Renee (both from the US) cuz I noticed something they're both friendly, jovial and tell me lotta personal things even when ion ask. Infact Meredith and I has gotten so close that if rat climbs her leg, I'm the next person she'll tell using a VN shouting like urrgh. from her words, it's been a long time she had someone who listens to her & gives her time like I do and over time becuz I spend lotta time chatting these two, I've gradually limited the attention I give to my girlfriend and she been noticing it of lately and have complained times without number and just as normal I'll tell her something always take my time or i'll just look for one excuse to give her bla bla. Bfr I wake up I'll see like 8messages from Meredith cuz of the time difference and when I don't reply quickly she sometimes accuse me of getting silent on her cuz really she talks too much lipsrsealed and then what's app call me just randomly if ion reply in time and if I do mistake pick it'll be another hour of talk as she don't get tired.

well of lately things have been going south btwn me and my girlfriend and the major problem I got now is How To tell Meredith I got a girlfriend without hurting her and lest I forget I don't do mistakes of switching on my Data anytime my GF is around plus I carry my phone all around and she been noticing somethings wrong. what do you guys think i can do?? mynd44 lalasticlala farano , Rocktation

First, can I know?

1.) What type of music group?
2.) What platform or social media do you use for this?
3.) How did you meet them?
4.) How often do you discuss with the white girls?
5.) What do you often discuss with them?
6.) Do you want to still date your girlfriend?

I need to have answers to these questions so that I'll know where things are and give you the best advice.

You can send me a mail here for a start:

bobmanuelhamilton@gmail.com

God bless you.

I need to know
Re: Girls Generally Including My GF Has Been Irritating Me And I Don't Know Why by siofra(f): 9:56am On Aug 07, 2021
You turning gay bro

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