baby124:

She can. It’s facts. European and American law take the legal wife and kids as a very serious matter. They are well provided for and cared for. Babymama just get child support.

She’s better off getting a divorce now and getting what she can, before he starts paying child support everywhere for all the illegal children.

baby124:

If your dad mess up like this, why should it affect your quality of life? Who mess up go pay now. Your mama must collect everything she can grab to provide for you. Let your papa fight the rest with his girlfriends and concubines.

If the woman is the richer spouse she also pays for the legal husband and her kids. It’s both ways. It’s a good thing, let everybody respect themselves and their children in marriage.

Beancounter93:


Am afraid your children won't see it that way.

If that is how you are approaching marriage, be prepared to have your children hate you. I am not cursing you...I have seen and personally know children of marriages where the husband had side chicks. The kids do not get along with their fathers, or the fathers never have a relationship with their children

I know a guy whose dad abandoned his mother for side chick. The guy put himself through school. His mother suffered to provide for the children by herself. The guy has no relationship with his father. Even when he got married a few years ago...the guy refused to invite his dad. I don';t think the dad has seen the guy's first child yet....

Better learn to love a woman. Women are not out to get you.

Martinez39s:
When you get married over there or you bring your wife over there, the marital laws will reign supreme over your marriage and half of your money automatically belongs to your wife.

Sterope:
Your second paragraph is not true.

Once the children have no use for his money, HE WILL BE ABANDONED. He is as good as his money.

You think they will forget the rich man that made their mothers cry? Most wouldn't!

MansoryMX:



I think they got married in Europe because she said if she wants to take everything from him she can with snap of her fingers and I support her. Ighalo didn’t only cheated on his wife but got another woman. If your sister’s husband did something like this to her you will be pained.

ibedun:


You will be pained for nothing!!!

jaxxy:


If desuwa is really pained ighalo will be in serious trouble by now. He will only be able to protect investment he has in Nigeria. Anything outside oyo.

Desuwa is very nice.

Harpyeagle:

The generation is not asstrange as u make it out to..
In the time of david and solomon if the wives had so much a say...
Even as far back as the time of jacob. He married more than one wife.

ednut1:
There is no faithful rich man lol

ibedun:


Well.....men are no longer getting married over there. I pity Nigerian parents in the US, UK, Canada, Italy etc etc, nobody is coming forward to marry their daughters!!!! It’s a nightmare....

baby124:

If your dad mess up like this, why should it affect your quality of life? Who mess up go pay now. Your mama must collect everything she can grab to provide for you. Let your papa fight the rest with his girlfriends and concubines.

If the woman is the richer spouse she also pays for the legal husband and her kids. It’s both ways. It’s a good thing, let everybody respect themselves and their children in marriage.

Fahdiga1:
Pained bitch

baby124:

She can. It’s facts. European and American law take the legal wife and kids as a very serious matter. They are well provided for and cared for. Babymama just get child support.

She’s better off getting a divorce now and getting what she can, before he starts paying child support everywhere for all the illegal children.

benji93:
Then marry more than one wife, instead of Philandering about. May God help us, cos that's not easy.

okuta007:



Oyinbo Mr Monogamy doooo - I dey salot u

Sterope:
Dangote has money and you don't know the kind of father he is.

Lmao. Same Alaafin? . If he dies tomorrow, most of his children won't go 'Oh father'.

Sterope:
She also impregnated those women.

sharpwriter:


Does the law in western countries still make husband part with his money even if there's no child between couples?

Harpyeagle:

I feel modern christianity is kinda flawed. We condemn things to easily. God spoke to all these man of old severally not once did he condemn their marital lifestyle.

MansoryMX:


Shut up your dirty mouth if you don’t know what to type. She is still married to him legally and can collect half of his wealth with just a snap of her fingers. Maybe na ur mama you dey call bit*ch.

pocohantas:


If their father did the same to their mother, they will come here to tell you how they don’t connect to him because he spent all his money with side chicks while they struggled with their mum. But because they are on NL and trying to look woke, they have somehow made Ighalo the victim.

When this case started, she made no mention of his cheating or babymama, but trust Nigerians to go for her and start dragging her. In situations like this, there are many things the other party would rather leave unsaid to protect the image of the other (especially the man). Until they start pushing you to the wall and you will be forced to talk or act, make everywhere kuku scatter.

They think the solution is marrying her in Nigeria where she could be chased out with just her pants. Not amending their ways. Very wicked lots. He won’t even try this nonsense with their #TeamForeignWomen.

With what I have seen Nigerian men do or say, I don’t blame any woman who hides her money or builds houses without her husband’s knowledge.

MansoryMX:


Bro I won’t agree with you on this because I am married and I know how much my wife treasures my Kids and I. A woman who has fathered 3 kids for Ighalo (2 boys and one girl) isn’t someone one can paint bad in a case her spouse cheated on her and fathered a child outside. No calm woman can take such. Her world revolves around her kids and the man she calls a husband. That is why she has refused to file for a divorce yet. She is financially stable but she is heartbroken and in pain. Nigerians eh! Una too wicked. Y’all should cut this woman some slacks. The idiot Ighalo now has baby mama number 2. Na life be that!

tunapawizzy:

Ok u spoke some truth, so the right thing fr her to do is to threaten to take away the things he has worked for so e can be miserable. If her life truly revolves around d man, that wouldn't be an option for her

MansoryMX:


My brother! You have no idea how childish women behave when they are in pains. One time I had a serious misunderstanding with mine and left home for 1 week to cool off. You need to see her WhatsApp statues

Mandela27:
laff wan burss my Belle here.marriage na Western women dia own Yahoo yahoo

tunapawizzy:

So it is now a man's problem that women behave in a childish way when in pains?
See impregnating other women while u r married can never be right, cheating on your wife can never be right. But NOTHING will ever justify a broken wife threatening to take away all/part of a man's fortune(especially if the man does his responsibility as father to the kids). They don't have to married to be at peace with each other. Not easy but possible