The woman that wants to cum cannot tell the husband what tickles her? If a man is not hitting the particular spot why not direct him to where it is or what position works. Is not a if he's making love to a log of wood

SUCKCESSFUL:
If this write up is actually true and not some cooked up fiction, then I'll first have to say that the writers sincerity is commendable.

I think maybe there's a disconnect in between the two of you, either your wife is not feeling you enough or you're being too nice with the sex thing, you need to be on the lookout for what gets her Hot, either her tits or her tats .
Whichever it is, just try something different.

However, if you try your BEST and it's not working, don't try anymore. (Remember, there's nothing better than the best).

The fact that your wife ran back to her ex (to be fingered or whatever) Does not speak well of her.

Imagine how her ex will be feeling like after helping your wife reach were you obviously can't get her. As for me, I don't like what I hate o.

Try talking sense into her for the last time, if nothing comes out of it, then separation should be inevitable.

To start with she made you agree to a no sex relationship when she wasn't even a virgin or nothing and now she can't orgasm cus she rode the cock carousel during her hoe periods. Too many pipe makes a bvtch hard to pairbond emotionally and sexually. How many times i gotta school you niggvz.

The truth hurts

Any bvtch can jump on my mentions and say shvt, i dont care. Svck my dvck bvtches.

I can't help you bro. Here is what will happen, she will stop complaining and act like all is well but she will link all her exes and also find new customers.


My message is for all new niggvz! Do not let a old 30e give you terms and conditions when she's bringing a mileage cvnt to the table.

4evertoxic

Gainman:
The truth is living in Kenya have affected her sex life. She had sex with Kenyan men when in Kenya. We should all know Kenya men are strong in bed and endowed. Most Kenya men are slender and tall and they don't eat sugar and starchy food d way we use to eat them here. The wife is not telling d husband d truth. My advice for men is never marry a woman who tells you no sex before marriage unless she is a virgin. Many ladies out their have mumu many men.

Kenyan men are useless in bed. I know women who have dated or been married to some. They drink too much and use hard drug, which affects their performance. However, you will hardly find a Kenyan man who is a simp. They are harsh with their women to the extreme and don't believe in using money to chase women (that is why Kenyan women sometimes prefer Nigerian men who will spend for a woman even before talking to her). Kenyan men beat their women a lot ( I am not encouraging this). Also Kenyan man is prepared to sit down at home while his wife goes out to get money, and he will still expect her to cook for him and open yansh for him when she comes back. Any complain from her is met with serious beating. In a way Kenyan men are lucky, because their women her physically strong (like Hausa women) and they don't see sex as anything unlike our Nigerian women who see sex as a bargaining tool. Kenyan women are also sexualised from a young age and a lot have high sex drive.

Khd95:
If you like die ontop bottomless towtow, because she no come

What efforts is she making to make her self come, does she just lay like a dead cow and you do the works, or she's creative and genuinely open minded to reaching orgasm

She has a part to play, if she's not playing that part and she wants you to dig a pit that will never end, then you are in for a long haul


Don't use drugs to satisfy her either, do your bit and go, especially now that she's no longer interested in sexx with you.

If you Bleep a woman till she cums her brains about and rendered spent, and overjoyed due to the sexual Satisfcation you gave her, when she wants to cheat on you and lay with anyhow somebody, nothing will stop her, women are wired strangely, God's creative shaa

Don't be heartbroken that your wife might even be fucking one of her exes now, acting slutty and bitchy, spreading her legs wide like an eagle, drinking his deeq like she needs it to survive, while she's acting like she doesn't even want you to touch her bra straps

This is why you test a car before you buy it, to check if she Smooth and u enjoy her sound and voice, be doing till wedding night while she dey fuckkk other guys, because u promised her marriage on a bent knee .

This same wife of yours that said she won't Bleep you till wedding night already had multiple exes, she's not a virgin, double standards

The bad guys who are wise enough to know that till wedding night is a scam already bleeped her and dump her for simpps like you, good guys

Woo, make I see where I fit see ewa agayin buy this afternoon, I get bread already

Even if she claims to be a virgin, you can still be scammed.

I know someone who's wife claimed to be a virgin. After marriage, she will scream like she is going to die when he attempts to penetrate her. He was very worried and they agreed that she will have to be broken medically. I don't know how this woman manipulated him into agreeing to do this procedure abroad. I asked him if he was present in the room when the procedure was carried out and his answer was no. There is no way this man could have found out if she was actually a virgin because patient-doctor confidentiality is a big thing abroad and they will not release any information to a third party without court order. This bitch could have gone in there and told the doctor any rubbish she liked and her husband will never know.

Personally, there is no way I would have married a virgin but this guy insisted on virgin and was scammed.

take it to God in prayer

Romancehub:
I think me and my wife are not s*xuallly compatible. Maybe we should never have gotten married. We met through a friend three years ago. It was a long distance relationship because she was in Kenya doing a work project for her oil and gas company. I fell in love with her heart, very loving, very thoughtful lady, that is apart from her stunning beauty and intelligence.


When she returned to Nigeria after her six months project, she said no s*x before marriage. I was cool. I thought she was being a classy woman. Well, fast forward to marriage, I see myself as someone that is into intimacy, I thought she was as well. I am not perfect but my past relationships, I have not disappointed either.

Two weeks after marriage, my wife said she wanted to talk to me. I wondered why. She said that she does no want to hurt my feelings but she wants me to put more effort into lovemaking. I asked her how? She said, she has not experienced orgasm with me since we started making love. That was news to me because I spend a minimum of 20 to 45 minutes when we make love. And all these while, she moaned and seemed to be enjoying s*x with me just as much as I have been enjoying it with her.

To tell me that she is not enjoying it but she was faking it was a little disappointing but I took it as a man and promised to be more sensitive to her feelings. Since then, I try all the tricks in the book that most guys know. I do pre-intimacy, I do fingering, etc. And when I asked her, she will sometimes say yes but most times, she does not come.

Maybe because we were young and newly married, this became very frustrating to spend an hour making love and she still does not come. I found that strange and I told her maybe she needs to relax and be less anxious. And she responds that I dont know how to make love to her. That hurt me honestly because I thought I was putting in the effort.

This situation has greatly affected our marriage. I began to loose interest in s*x and she too felt she was not going to bother about it. So, for like two weeks, we can go without s*x. This made me very frustrated cos when I feel Hot, she will be giving me attitude. Thoughts of cheating started coming into my head. I tried my best to push them away.


Many times, I decide to be the bigger person, I call her and say: let us talk and she goes, she is not interested. I tell her I love her, send her romantic messages. I try my best, I swear but she just puts me off all the time with wrong attitude. This made me seek help from from online research etc and I found out that some women have problems like being frigid or generally do not have the ability to experience orgasm at all.

I shared my research with her and she said that she had exs before me and all of them gave her orgasm all the time and I am the first man not to give her orgasm. That broke me and I began to actually think something was wrong with me. Since talking to her was not working, I left her alone. I also did not know what else to do. I have tried my best. I did not think she was ready to try as well. It was tiring.


We were both miserable too. We quarreled one night and I told her she does not behave like she wants to be married cos all she is thinking about is orgasm. At least, its not like I don’t last long, I do. Its just her that takes forever to reach a place of pleasure. Even with my tricks. Then she now said: Lanre, we are not s*xually compatible. I was shocked.

I was wondering what she meant by that and she said: Lanre, I am so sorry but I actually began to think something is wrong with me but since the problems we have been having, I mistakenly connected with an ex and I confided in him that I am having issues in my marriage s*x and he wanted to help.

We met in his car and it didnt take him 2 minutes of fingering me, I had the best orgasm of my life. My mouth went like: what the crap is my wife saying? She said, she is not having penetration with her ex…he just fingered her and she came. She had the audacity to say they didn’t have penetration!!!…like is that supposed to make me say she did not cheat on me?

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it's either ur wife is not truly in love with u, sometimes when a woman heart still belongs to the ex, nothing the present man can do to satisfy her sexually. Secondly u n ur wife are not sexually compatible the chemistry is not there...it's definitely one of the two things above

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Bros,dont kill yourself because of woman.i sensed 2 things here,your wife is cash loaded so you are afraid to let her go,and thats ehy she had the gut to finger elsewhere and tell you.
Secondly,you will.just die like rat and the woman will go back to her so called ex and continue her olosho duty.
Pls dont die for your mama,release her and let her go
QED