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| She Cheated, But I Still Love Her by jbreezy: 7:04am On Jul 08, 2021 |
So the story goes like, my gf and I have been dating for 2 years now. I really love her cos she's so interesting, extremely caring and so good to me. She's a pretty one too. So I finished school ahead of her (We were in same school). But we couldn't let each other go because we already love each other, so we continued the romance. I loved her after and I really gat plans to marry her even though I'm like 5 years older than her. I was going to wait till she finishes school (She was in 200 level when I left). So I went to visit her in school and out of curiosity, I checked her whatsapp chat...I read her chat with her very close friend (the best place to find the truth) Well well well...There was this gist about her having sex with a friend. Then another was about her trying to date a guy..It really broke me, but till today, I haven't challenged her... Actually, I would have broken up if I dont love her up to this level cos I hate it when I'm being cheated on... But I don't think I'm ready to lose the girl.. So I met a very pretty lady lately... We've been talking and she's really been giving me all the greenlight a normal guy needs to see... This one is more mature (I felt like my gf is still probably at what y'all call the hoeing stage cos she's 21)... So I've been contemplating on leaving her for this one, by bringing up the cheating part (something like a chess game)... Seriously, I still think I love her, and would have married her if she didn't do that... So I'm lost between challenging her and giving her another chance (cos she's going to obviously beg) or challenge her to leave her...Thanks and sorry for the long essay 17 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: She Cheated, But I Still Love Her by jbreezy: 7:08am On Jul 08, 2021 |
Forgot to add this...I once cheated sometime ago and she forgave me am d from the chat, I got to know she still really loves me. 11 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: She Cheated, But I Still Love Her by Realtalk20: 7:08am On Jul 08, 2021 |
You are very unserious A cheat is a mind set and a neurotic condition. Forget romanticizing the fact you love her only a goat will say this. A cheat will cheat on you again. Just like a kleptomaniac whom you forgive will do it again and again. Your type are addicted to pain heartbreak and self sabotaging. Guy you need to fix yourself 303 Likes 19 Shares |
| Re: She Cheated, But I Still Love Her by jbreezy: 7:09am On Jul 08, 2021 |
Realtalk20:Hmmmmm how sir? |
| Re: She Cheated, But I Still Love Her by Afonjashapmouth: 7:10am On Jul 08, 2021 |
Let all these girls explore when they want to. She's at that age when she want to explore. Don't cage a woman to end up with a full breed inexperience woman wanting to explore with other men at any chance. The University might just be her first true opportunity out of the house and out of parents supervision, let her enjoy it which ever way she chose. Focus on making money and exploring too. If yall are meant to be, you two shall meet, overlook the past and focus on the future with pure mind and understanding 166 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: She Cheated, But I Still Love Her by Realtalk20: 7:12am On Jul 08, 2021 |
jbreezy: Read the rest 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: She Cheated, But I Still Love Her by vibre: 7:12am On Jul 08, 2021 |
jbreezy:Na now you talk the koko, you both are two of a kind, promiscuous m'fuckers. You fit each other very well 122 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: She Cheated, But I Still Love Her by vibre: 7:14am On Jul 08, 2021 |
Afonjashapmouth:Especially men that haven't even given engagement ring still wanting to colonise a pussy for themselves alone meanwhile they themselves are exploring other pussies. And there's no guarantee they'll end up marrying the girl in question. 74 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: She Cheated, But I Still Love Her by jbreezy: 7:15am On Jul 08, 2021 |
vibre:Hahahahahahah actually, when she caught me, I vowed never to cheat on her again and I never did..Had to leave all my girls just to make things right between us 5 Likes |
| Re: She Cheated, But I Still Love Her by donbachi(m): 7:15am On Jul 08, 2021 |
Op,the hottest tears.na the tears of brokenhearted being..u fit use the tears do garri.to experience am done due for u. 10 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: She Cheated, But I Still Love Her by jbreezy: 7:16am On Jul 08, 2021 |
Realtalk20: 1 Like |
| Re: She Cheated, But I Still Love Her by jbreezy: 7:17am On Jul 08, 2021 |
Afonjashapmouth:Okay then...let's make them explore |
| Re: She Cheated, But I Still Love Her by Realtalk20: 7:18am On Jul 08, 2021 |
[quote author=jbreezy post=103484538][/quote] If you don't understand my post then your case is worse than anticipated Have a good day 2 Likes |
| Re: She Cheated, But I Still Love Her by jbreezy: 7:18am On Jul 08, 2021 |
[quote author=jbreezy post=103484538][/quote]fix myself? Okay then |
| Re: She Cheated, But I Still Love Her by Nobody: 7:20am On Jul 08, 2021 |
You already know what to do OP 3 Likes 2 Shares
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| Re: She Cheated, But I Still Love Her by Clinghton: 7:24am On Jul 08, 2021 |
It seems cheating might be a huge challenge in your marriage with the first lady, I think you should discuss things with her I mean the issues of cheating because the both of you are guilty. The new lady would also have her own fault(s), so don't feel relaxed already. The DEVIL you know is better than the ANGEL you don't know. 9 Likes |
| Re: She Cheated, But I Still Love Her by jbreezy: 7:28am On Jul 08, 2021 |
Clinghton:Thanks a lot 1 Like |
| Re: She Cheated, But I Still Love Her by meobizy(f): 7:40am On Jul 08, 2021 |
What then is the problem here? |
| Re: She Cheated, But I Still Love Her by Savedday: 8:07am On Jul 08, 2021 |
9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it. In mosdii voice: They are all useless..... All of them! 19 Likes |
| Re: She Cheated, But I Still Love Her by ITbomb(m): 8:08am On Jul 08, 2021 |
Seems you just assumed that she will beg you  4 Likes |
| Re: She Cheated, But I Still Love Her by jbreezy: 8:13am On Jul 08, 2021 |
Savedday:In fact, I'm starting to believe this bro 6 Likes |
| Re: She Cheated, But I Still Love Her by jbreezy: 8:13am On Jul 08, 2021 |
ITbomb:She will |
| Re: She Cheated, But I Still Love Her by Snitch24(m): 8:33am On Jul 08, 2021 |
Realtalk20: Nigga you deserve a feather in your cap 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: She Cheated, But I Still Love Her by ITbomb(m): 8:33am On Jul 08, 2021 |
jbreezy:That means you are paying very well 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: She Cheated, But I Still Love Her by Realtalk20: 9:51am On Jul 08, 2021 |
jbreezy: You are a very weak boy and not a man. I bet my ball sac she will cheat on you again because she sees how weak you are. You are so weak I can smell the vaginal juices you secrete from your cünt from here. This is a shame and a disgrace for any man to justify a woman cheating on him. It's your type that father's other mens children. What a sorry excuse for a man . I am happy for the lady in question she has zero respect for you and knows you are a pathetic excuse for a man I bet she will warm real mens bed this weekend cause she knows all she needs to do is cry and to you that she loves you Disgusting thread 49 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: She Cheated, But I Still Love Her by Kaybae(f): 10:02am On Jul 08, 2021 |
I am not supporting cheating on any side oooo, be it from the man side or the woman side but why is it that when you guys cheat, lady or woman in question will forgive easily and let go but once the case is other way round, guys or men will want to leave the relationship, to tell you that the pain u feel when you find out your woman cheats on you is the same the woman also feels. Ask yourself if you haven't cheated on her before if the answer is No, u haven't then you can go ahead with the other lady but if you have, let your conscience work on that. Just my own piece of advice though 13 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: She Cheated, But I Still Love Her by sweet7oyin(m): 10:04am On Jul 08, 2021 |
A girl would only cheat when she dosent love you anymore A guy can cheat and still love the girl Why? Cause a girl sees sex as the ultimate show of love Excluding sex workers. A girl having sex with a guy is an absolute show of vulnerability and love While A guy can have sex without any feelings at all Infact sex is just sex nothing more. So bro You cheating and your girl cheating are two different things. This might look bad on paper but it is reality. Thats why polygamy is a thing and polyandry isn't. 65 Likes 7 Shares |
| Re: She Cheated, But I Still Love Her by jbreezy: 10:23am On Jul 08, 2021 |
Realtalk20:baba calm down...no be fight now 5 Likes |
| Re: She Cheated, But I Still Love Her by melaniaup: 10:41am On Jul 08, 2021 |
Uh |
| Re: She Cheated, But I Still Love Her by Dailymice: 10:41am On Jul 08, 2021 |
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