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I Need Help,i Dont Know If This Is Normal by Percy0006(op): 3:54pm On Jul 17, 2021
I will be glad if this post get to the front page, i really dont know if this is normal, i don’t know what depression is but this has been happening to me for so long now, i do have this mood swing which i am not comfortable with some minute I’ll be happy the other minute I wouldn’t know what will take this happiness away and when this hapens i feel like just letting everybody leave me or i rather find a quiet place to sit or just wanna be alone, i got married a month ago cause i feel whenever this happens if i see her i will be happy again but it aint working, i get tired of everything whenever it happens and if my wife notice and ask I wouldn’t be able to say this is what is happening i am really tired of this.. my wife is even thinking maybe she’s not making me happy but i swear she’s the best thing that ever happened to me, i am always scared whenever this happens please help me on what to do? Please i need help
Re: I Need Help,i Dont Know If This Is Normal by pocohantas(f): 3:56pm On Jul 17, 2021
i do have this mood swing which i am not comfortable with some minute I’ll be happy the other minute I wouldn’t know what will take this happiness away
Stop thinking of your account balance.
Re: I Need Help,i Dont Know If This Is Normal by Hathor5(f): 3:59pm On Jul 17, 2021
Mindlog, your expertise is very much needed here.
Re: I Need Help,i Dont Know If This Is Normal by pocohantas(f): 4:00pm On Jul 17, 2021
Hathor5:
Mindlog, your expertise is very much needed here.
My expertise nko? angry angry
Re: I Need Help,i Dont Know If This Is Normal by Kriss216: 4:01pm On Jul 17, 2021
, i got married a month ago cause i feel whenever this happens if i see her i will be happy again but it aint working, i get tired of everything
You got married to a Nigerian girl and you're expecting extraordinary happiness all of a suddenhuh


You must be mistaken Nigerian girls for Angels. You worsen your condition by getting married to a Nigerian girl.
Re: I Need Help,i Dont Know If This Is Normal by Hathor5(f): 4:02pm On Jul 17, 2021
pocohantas:
My expertise nko? angry angry
This girl. grin
Re: I Need Help,i Dont Know If This Is Normal by Kondomatic(m): 4:03pm On Jul 17, 2021
How long does this "unwanted mood" last and what normally brings back your happiness?


How's life with you generally?
Re: I Need Help,i Dont Know If This Is Normal by ahnie: 4:03pm On Jul 17, 2021
Are you indebted to anyone?
Re: I Need Help,i Dont Know If This Is Normal by Aaaaarghmed(m): 4:03pm On Jul 17, 2021
You have bipolar disorder
Re: I Need Help,i Dont Know If This Is Normal by Kondomatic(m): 4:04pm On Jul 17, 2021
pocohantas:
My expertise nko? angry angry
They will soon beat you on this forum.
Re: I Need Help,i Dont Know If This Is Normal by Percy0006(op): 4:04pm On Jul 17, 2021
ahnie:
Are you indebted to anyone?
NO
Re: I Need Help,i Dont Know If This Is Normal by Percy0006(op): 4:04pm On Jul 17, 2021
Aaaaarghmed:
You have bipolar disorder
What is that sir/ma
Re: I Need Help,i Dont Know If This Is Normal by pocohantas(f): 4:06pm On Jul 17, 2021
Kondomatic:
They will soon beat you on this forum.
Nawa. You people are underrating me sha. I tell una say na OP account balance dey cause this wahala. Hathor5 is still calling Mind.log. embarassed
Re: I Need Help,i Dont Know If This Is Normal by Kondomatic(m): 4:08pm On Jul 17, 2021
pocohantas:
Nawa. You people are underrating me sha. I tell una say na OP account balance dey cause this wahala. Hathor5 is still calling Mind.log. embarassed
How you take know?
Re: I Need Help,i Dont Know If This Is Normal by ahnie: 4:09pm On Jul 17, 2021
Percy0006:
NO
Have you ever bn abused sexually before?
Re: I Need Help,i Dont Know If This Is Normal by Tokskob2008: 4:09pm On Jul 17, 2021
Percy0006:
What is that sir/ma
Manic depressive illness..
Re: I Need Help,i Dont Know If This Is Normal by Percy0006(op): 4:09pm On Jul 17, 2021
Kondomatic:
How long does this "unwanted mood" last and what normally brings back your happiness?


How's life with you generally?
I wouldn’t say this is what bring back the happiness most time i force myself to smile to people noticing it.. about that of life I’m not suffering and I’m not living large am just another average man
Re: I Need Help,i Dont Know If This Is Normal by Percy0006(op): 4:10pm On Jul 17, 2021
ahnie:
Have you ever bn abused sexually before?
No
Re: I Need Help,i Dont Know If This Is Normal by ahnie: 4:11pm On Jul 17, 2021
Percy0006:
No
Have you ever stolen before....think very well
Re: I Need Help,i Dont Know If This Is Normal by Kondomatic(m): 4:12pm On Jul 17, 2021
Percy0006:
I wouldn’t say this is what bring back the happiness most time i force myself to smile to people noticing it.. about that of life I’m not suffering and I’m not living large am just another average man
Are you an introvert?
Re: I Need Help,i Dont Know If This Is Normal by pocohantas(f): 4:12pm On Jul 17, 2021
Kondomatic:
How you take know?
- He rented an apartment two months ago.

- He married a month ago.

Some wicked guests at his wedding must have sprayed him N20 after all the money spent.

That is enough to cause mood turbulence sef. lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Re: I Need Help,i Dont Know If This Is Normal by nautybride: 4:13pm On Jul 17, 2021
Visit a psychologist. You might need medical help.
Re: I Need Help,i Dont Know If This Is Normal by ayourbamie: 4:14pm On Jul 17, 2021
If you have steady income then you need to see therapist... If you're broke, then it's caused by lack of money
Re: I Need Help,i Dont Know If This Is Normal by Kondomatic(m): 4:14pm On Jul 17, 2021
pocohantas:
- He rented an apartment two months ago.

- He married a month ago.

Some wicked guests at his wedding must have sprayed him N20 after all the money spent.

That is enough to cause mood turbulence sef. lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
gringrin



He married because he thought it would nah, the thing don tey wey e dey worry am fah.
Re: I Need Help,i Dont Know If This Is Normal by Percy0006(op): 4:19pm On Jul 17, 2021
nautybride:
Visit a psychologist. You might need medical help.
I’ve done this but the doctor recommend i stay with loved ones most often
Re: I Need Help,i Dont Know If This Is Normal by Percy0006(op): 4:22pm On Jul 17, 2021
Kondomatic:
Are you an introvert?
I tend to be shy at times I’m not that outspoken cause most people will take your weakness to their income
Re: I Need Help,i Dont Know If This Is Normal by Percy0006(op): 4:24pm On Jul 17, 2021
Kriss216:
You got married to a Nigerian girl and you're expecting extraordinary happiness all of a suddenhuh


You must be mistaken Nigerian girls for Angels. You worsen your condition by getting married to a Nigerian girl.
How boss ?
Re: I Need Help,i Dont Know If This Is Normal by Kondomatic(m): 4:29pm On Jul 17, 2021
Percy0006:
I tend to be shy at times I’m not that outspoken cause most people will take your weakness to their income
Being shy has nothing to do with having an introverted personality. They're different.

You have to find out what makes you happy and do it whenever you have this mood swing.

You can also go for a walk or call someone just to talk. It helps.

Please don't shut your wife out when it happens, she can help if you let her in.
Re: I Need Help,i Dont Know If This Is Normal by Mindlog:
Hathor5:
Mindlog, your expertise is very much needed here.
Low energy, need to be a recluse and others he shared reflects affective disorders which bipolar and depression falls under.

He should seek out a Clinical Psychologist for interviews and psychological assessment, who would determine the most suitable tools for the assessment and scoring in order to reach a definitive diagnosis and come up with an appropriate treatment plan.

Just as we have depression, we also have clinical depression which is a more severe form.
Re: I Need Help,i Dont Know If This Is Normal by phemmyfour: 4:53pm On Jul 17, 2021
Percy0006:
I will be glad if this post get to the front page, i really dont know if this is normal, i don’t know what depression is but this has been happening to me for so long now, i do have this mood swing which i am not comfortable with some minute I’ll be happy the other minute I wouldn’t know what will take this happiness away and when this hapens i feel like just letting everybody leave me or i rather find a quiet place to sit or just wanna be alone, i got married a month ago cause i feel whenever this happens if i see her i will be happy again but it aint working, i get tired of everything whenever it happens and if my wife notice and ask I wouldn’t be able to say this is what is happening i am really tired of this.. my wife is even thinking maybe she’s not making me happy but i swear she’s the best thing that ever happened to me, i am always scared whenever this happens please help me on what to do? Please i need help
Make more money and you ll be fine. Your worries are your tomorrow
Re: I Need Help,i Dont Know If This Is Normal by Timmi: 4:53pm On Jul 17, 2021
May I suggest that you open up to your wife about your mood swings. That’s when she can help you cope by engaging you in discussion because most times having someone to talk with helps. Above all pray and read the Bible together with your wife. The Lord bless you. Nothing is wrong with you my friend.
Re: I Need Help,i Dont Know If This Is Normal by Hathor5(f): 5:03pm On Jul 17, 2021
Mindlog:
Low energy, need to be a recluse and others he shared reflects affective disorders which bipolar and depression falls under.

He should seek out a Clinical Psychologist for interviews and vpsychological assessment, who would determine the most suitable tools for the assessment and scoring in order to reach a definitive diagnosis and come up with an appropriate treatment plan.

Just as we have depression, we also have clinical depression which is a more severe form.
Percy0006
This is the answer of a specialist. Please talk to a psychologist.

Thank you Mindlog,

I hope Percy will take care of his mental health appropriately.
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