EmptyGarden:
How did the relationship end? I mean with that eX you can't get over...

Authoreety:
Call the ex and tell him how u feel

It won't cost you anything

Mercychen:


The issue is not about him but the way I now go about liking every little girl that looks like him.

I'm done with him. No going back except God says so. But he's the least of my worries for now.

Naijanascam:
In that case..........em em em simple try and born your own child to know if he or she can resemble him as well......

Amotolongbo:
I am sorry to tell you this ma, you are still dating your ex.

Mercychen:
I don't really know how to explain this but for some reasons I just think it may not be right.

There's this ex of mine that looks so adorable and I missed him so much after we parted ways.

Now, the thing is, I keep seeing little girls that look so much like him and I just take to liking them. As in.. I try to be friends with them just because of that resemblance they have with him. I begin to see them as the baby girl I would have had for him. They too naturally like me and always want to come around me.

There's one that is so close to me on my street. I buy her stuff. Call her when I'm cooking to stay with me. Sometimes, she'll come of her own accord and say she wants to stay with me. Even when I'm too tired to entertain any visitors, I'll still open the gate for her, leave her to make herself comfortable while I take a nap. And so the bond has sort of begun to form because today I asked myself, what if this girls parents relocate? I was shocked at myself at the way my heart skipped at that thought. So I quickly called myself to order and was like, I'll cope.

Now, is this a healthy or proper thing to do? I don't know o. Please what can this kind of affinity be called?

Only mature and sensible responses.

1stNumeroUno:
I wonder how many little girl that looks like him in same vicinity. Hope he doesn't work in a distribution company like this?

Truvelisback:
Omowunmi, Pikin dey hungry u. It is healthy, proper and normal, if only the parents, especially the mother of the child(ren) don't find anything wrong abt it or are pleased abt it.

Mercychen:


Lol.. pikin Neva hungry me for this harsh economy. Biko. I can't even imagine myself getting pregnant now.

The parents are cool. The mother even appreciates the fact that

Mercychen:


How do you mean, distribution company?

He's not even within my location or this children area. So I don't know what you're insinuating.

Truvelisback:
The harsh economy doesn't matter. Associate with them and feel free with the children.

JONNYSPUTE:
....Is time for you to have a baby either by getting pregnant or adoption.

Mercychen:

Ok, truvel. Thanks.

Mercychen:


That would definitely be after marriage. Not having a baby out of wedlock.

Adoption? Nah...

JONNYSPUTE:
....No wahala. Just consider your age besides I don't see anything wrong with having a baby out of wedlock,by adoption or surrogacy.

The world has evolved

Mercychen:


Ok. Not interested though.

Thanks dear.

Mercychen:


I needed to focus on my spiritual life at the time and didn't want any distractions from relationships. So we parted ways.

pocohantas:
Mercy I think you need to reduce your stronghead this year and allow a man love you.

Many grown women go through this stage of craving kids. You just took yours a step further by putting a face to the father of these kids.

If you ask me, I’ll say you keep spirituality aside and give the mind and body what it wants.