Kondomatic:
How can you say that someone who is paying almost a million naira as school fee for you annually is stingy?

Very vital question. The child doesn't appreciate the plans the parents have for him. This is someone that the parents would buy a car, job, house for at the right age. That child should be grateful he has strict parents that are rich at the same time.

TOTOnigga my Gee

It has nothing to do with stinginess, they're actually protecting you against whatever could divert you from your primary assignment at that tender age which is education.

You stated this already.

You will understand better when the time comes.

We wish you well from all of us at Certy AgroAllied

If u dey 4 my b4 i 4 flog u well well! U r unserious my friend

The funniest part is that, anytime I take any urgent lie(Asin scam) about any payment in school...they wouldn't Waits a second to send it to me... This has got me telling all sorts of lies just to get what I know can be gotten honestly.. It has even gotten to the point that any money that enters my hand now, I use it to play sports betting to see if I can get enough money for what I need, but I end up loosing the money...I am just frustrated.. someone time I wish I didn't even have rich parents cos what's the point...[/quote]

TOTOnigga:
Hello guys.... I don't just know.. Is it just me or is there anything I don't understand......my parents are rich people especially my dad, I know that for sure... someone paying #950,000 naira per year as school fees for me aside other expenses, plus multiple houses and lands I can't even keep count of....

How come they are this stingy? There is no time I would ask them for money for my own personal well being or any of my personal needs that they would like to assist me. I once ask mum for #12,000 naira just to buy a fairly used android phone (when I know they can even afford me an iPhone x) but she told me I should wait till months end before she gives me saying there is no money on ground... it's five months now and still nothing (not waiting for it though)...

Then I ask my dad, he told me I don't need an android phone... telling me that phone makes people unserious and other types of bulls*it( a 19 year old student for that matter)

Any expenses that is not book or academic related is not important...my parents would rather buy clothes for me than give me money to buy clothes... sometimes I end up not wearing some of them..

The funniest part is that, anytime I take any urgent lie(Asin scam) about any payment in school...they wouldn't Waits a second to send it to me... This has got me telling all sorts of lies just to get what I know can be gotten honestly.. It has even gotten to the point that any money that enters my hand now, I use it to play sports betting to see if I can get enough money for what I need, but I end up loosing the money...I am just frustrated.. someone time I wish I didn't even have rich parents cos what's the point...

Maybe it is because you are a guy. Parents are not stingy to the girls. Ones a lady has rich parents, and she needs anything, her parents especially her dad will not blink an eye before giving it to her.
My advice is that you should not dupe your parents. Start looking for how to make your money so that you can have change in your pocket. Don’t gamble oo and avoid illegal businesses. Look for genuine businesses you can do to bring you some change.

Can you tell us what other things you need money for?
You are clothed, fed and all requirements for schooling is provided and you open your mouth to call them stingy?
I can confirm you are a spoilt child they want to correct...Olosho nor wan let you focus.
Wake up!!!

TOTOnigga:
Hello guys.... I don't just know.. Is it just me or is there anything I don't understand......my parents are rich people especially my dad, I know that for sure... someone paying #950,000 naira per year as school fees for me aside other expenses, plus multiple houses and lands I can't even keep count of....

How come they are this stingy? There is no time I would ask them for money for my own personal well being or any of my personal needs that they would like to assist me. I once ask mum for #12,000 naira just to buy a fairly used android phone (when I know they can even afford me an iPhone x) but she told me I should wait till months end before she gives me saying there is no money on ground... it's five months now and still nothing (not waiting for it though)...

Then I ask my dad, he told me I don't need an android phone... telling me that phone makes people unserious and other types of bulls*it( a 19 year old student for that matter)

Any expenses that is not book or academic related is not important...my parents would rather buy clothes for me than give me money to buy clothes... sometimes I end up not wearing some of them..

The funniest part is that, anytime I take any urgent lie(Asin scam) about any payment in school...they wouldn't Waits a second to send it to me... This has got me telling all sorts of lies just to get what I know can be gotten honestly.. It has even gotten to the point that any money that enters my hand now, I use it to play sports betting to see if I can get enough money for what I need, but I end up loosing the money...I am just frustrated.. someone time I wish I didn't even have rich parents cos what's the point...

TOTOnigga:
Hello guys.... I don't just know.. Is it just me or is there anything I don't understand......my parents are rich people especially my dad, I know that for sure... someone paying #950,000 naira per year as school fees for me aside other expenses, plus multiple houses and lands I can't even keep count of....

How come they are this stingy? There is no time I would ask them for money for my own personal well being or any of my personal needs that they would like to assist me. I once ask mum for #12,000 naira just to buy a fairly used android phone (when I know they can even afford me an iPhone x) but she told me I should wait till months end before she gives me saying there is no money on ground... it's five months now and still nothing (not waiting for it though)...

Then I ask my dad, he told me I don't need an android phone... telling me that phone makes people unserious and other types of bulls*it( a 19 year old student for that matter)

Any expenses that is not book or academic related is not important...my parents would rather buy clothes for me than give me money to buy clothes... sometimes I end up not wearing some of them..

The funniest part is that, anytime I take any urgent lie(Asin scam) about any payment in school...they wouldn't Waits a second to send it to me... This has got me telling all sorts of lies just to get what I know can be gotten honestly.. It has even gotten to the point that any money that enters my hand now, I use it to play sports betting to see if I can get enough money for what I need, but I end up loosing the money...I am just frustrated.. someone time I wish I didn't even have rich parents cos what's the point...

Guy, you don't know your parents at all
if you want your parents to do your bidding, then you must do theirs

Read this
You said you don't have a laptop, right?
Find someone (your teacher or relative if possible) who can teach you skills like Data analytics, graphics etc(something good that can help your life). Then go back to your parents you need a laptop to learn this particular skill, then you back it up by saying this particular person is ready to teach you. since your parents want you to have a good education, I am very sure they will start considering it and looking at you in a new light. But you have to start learning those skills as soon as possible even if the laptop is not ready, but learn it with your heart. once they see you getting serious, the pressure will be on them. The laptop will then come in.

Getting serious with studies and your life is the key to unlocking the padlock of your parents....it is not by asking for money every time to buy this and that. You have to do things in a trade by barter way.

Get serious and things will change.



Modified....abeg no mind my grammar

Funny ! Concentrate ur parents are trying for u . When it’s time all this things will fall in place. Focus !! Focus!!! Focus!!! On sch .

You should be grateful you don't have to work to put yourself through school and labour before getting food to eat .you owe your parents good grades and gratitude and If having an android is the only bad thing they did to you, then get a side hustle.

Ishilove:
Ungrateful child

I concur.

Marvyx:

You know these kind of advice don't apply to children of nowadays?

See, the guy has already gone into sport betting. If he was a lady, you would start to wonder why she's doing runs even though she has rich parents.

I don't think it's bad to give your child money for upkeep.

U are wise.

Parents should realize children only appreciate what they receive from their parents = Gifts, etc.

They should try their best to balance this with the education of their kids.

My parent were ok. A carpenter and a primary school teacher in a government school. My parent wouldn't give us exactly wat we want. They will tell you go and pray, then they will subsidize it. My brother will work for wat e wants.
Growing up I see as other parents lavish their kids but today they can't stand us and those kids still marry and live with their parents.
Wen I was employed as a civil servant in my state,my dad has a house close to my office (trekked able) at the state capital which e build there but never use because e does not stay in that state. I didn't move there , I build mine in another town.
My parent was proud of me and gave the house to me.
Now I appreciate those tough training cos it build the person in me. Now am training my children same way

TOTOnigga:


[/b]I am just frustrated.. someone time I wish I didn't even have rich parents cos what's the point...[b]

Read This comment over and over again

Ishilove:
Ungrateful child

Oh not another rich spoilt kid feeling entitled.

Prime1:



Guy, you don't know your parents at all
if you want your parents to do your bidding, then you must do theirs

Read this
You said you don't have a laptop, right?
Find someone (your teacher or relative if possible) who can teach you skills like Data analytics, graphics etc(something good that can help your life). Then go back to your parents you need a laptop to learn this particular skill, then you back it up by saying this particular person is ready to teach you. since your parents want you to have a good education, I am very sure they will start considering it and looking at you in a new light. But you have to start learning those skills as soon as possible even if the laptop is not ready, but learn it with your heart. once they see you getting serious, the pressure will be on them. The laptop will then come in.

Getting serious with studies and your life is the key to unlocking the padlock of your parents....it is not by asking for money every time to buy this and that. You have to do things in a trade by barter way.

Get serious and things will change.



Modified....abeg no mind my grammar

Funny advice

Not everyone is interested in or has the aptitude for data analytics etc I guess that is your own area

All you are saying is still based on dependency on parents.

The fundamental issues is self reliance.

There are many jobs out there but many of our youth are too proud.

In the UK you will find graduates working in bars/pubs Starbucks Macdonald's etc serving the public

There are thousands if not millions who have no parents to do what this clown's parents are doing for him.

The Koko is if you determine that your father "is stingy" then organize your financial life and remove him from your calculus.
The reason he is able to engage in betting is because he is comfortable and has the mentality that he is a "rich man's son"

Your parents owe you only one thing and that is education

KingMack:
TOTOnigga my Gee

I dey my man

Boy what you need most from your parents is the wisdom by which they acquired their wealth not their money. Whatever they give you now please take without complains. They will not be there for ever for you to be collecting money from them. But if you acquire the wisdom by which they acquired their wealth, it will be useful for you for your entire lifetime.

Shoodboi:
TOTOnigga

Your last paragraph sums everything up. You don't have access to funds and you're playing sports betting. What will you play if you have access to funds?

I'm sure you move around with questionable guys and probably drink, party, womanize and use drugs alot.

You really need to be appreciative to your parents. They don't want you to focus on their wealth and are trying to encourage you to the outside the box and make yours too.

You may call it stinginess, but we long as they're covering the basic things they should (and buy clothes for you instead of giving you the money as you mentioned up there) they're carrying their weight.

It's your responsibility to carry yours, which you've refused to do.

You should WORK to get a phone for yourself and not depend on them to get one for you. It's NOT their responsibiliy.

I've been buying phones for myself since I was 19 and my brothers have been buying for themselves since they were much younger. Around 14 or so. They always saved up and worked for it. You should too.

When you do, you'll appreciate labor and hardwork and respect money.

Which do you want to be?

The spoilt, proud rich kid who doesn't appreciate money and lives on daddy's money for the rest of his life...

Or the well-trained humble average kid who appreciates money and lives on his own cash.

Choose one and choose wisely.

Thank you for this candid advice!

I get u, its better to have poor parents than this, u can't even bring yourself low to hustle cos your upbringing is of the rich whereas you don't have shishi in your pocket....lol

TOTOnigga:
Hello guys.... I don't just know.. Is it just me or is there anything I don't understand......my parents are rich people especially my dad, I know that for sure... someone paying #950,000 naira per year as school fees for me aside other expenses, plus multiple houses and lands I can't even keep count of....

How come they are this stingy? There is no time I would ask them for money for my own personal well being or any of my personal needs that they would like to assist me. I once ask mum for #12,000 naira just to buy a fairly used android phone (when I know they can even afford me an iPhone x) but she told me I should wait till months end before she gives me saying there is no money on ground... it's five months now and still nothing (not waiting for it though)...

Then I ask my dad, he told me I don't need an android phone... telling me that phone makes people unserious and other types of bulls*it( a 19 year old student for that matter)

Any expenses that is not book or academic related is not important...my parents would rather buy clothes for me than give me money to buy clothes... sometimes I end up not wearing some of them..

The funniest part is that, anytime I take any urgent lie(Asin scam) about any payment in school...they wouldn't Waits a second to send it to me... This has got me telling all sorts of lies just to get what I know can be gotten honestly.. It has even gotten to the point that any money that enters my hand now, I use it to play sports betting to see if I can get enough money for what I need, but I end up loosing the money...I am just frustrated.. someone time I wish I didn't even have rich parents cos what's the point...

Well. I think your parents are trying. Check out how much they spend on your school fees? Isn't that something to be grateful for?
You will lose their trust completely if they find out that you lie to collect money from them.
Besides, this should be a challenge for you to start up something that will earn you money, no matter how small!

So you started betting huh? You are on the path to ruin your life! So you claim you dont have money but you have money to bet? Well done ehn!

And what I can perceive from the tone of your writeup is that you are ungrateful and entitled.

So because your parents have land and houses they should lavish it on you?

Do you really think that having houses and land translates to having physical cash, plenty money?

Your parents are training you to be responsible for yourself and you are there complaining?

Sit up man! If you carry on with this mentality, you'll graduate from school only to be disappointed! Cos you will come out thinking that people owe you...whereas no one owes you anything!!

Take this as a challenge and do the best you can for yourself. Start from somewhere.... betting is no option.

Infact, this is a registration link to a training holding tomorrow where you can learn 15 jobs you can do on your phone!

https:///15-JOBS-CLASS

Most importantly, take your studies seriously!!!

See your moniker sef...abeg if you want more money go work for it then you'll appreciate someone dropping a million every year for just your tuition

Only idiots will take a post coming from a moniker called totoniga seriously. Obviously a very fake story

That's the same thing someone I knew was going through until he arranged to get himself kidnapped and his parents paid a ransom of 5m. How is he doing now? Very wayward, tattooed second to zebras, drugs and girls etc. There's a reason why your parents are not letting you have it easy, focus on your studies for now and you'll still get what's meant for you.

Leave gambling especially that virtual aspect, it will put you in debt and before you know it, you're stealing from your parents for real. If your parents were stingy, you'd be in one federal university paying 30k as schoolfees and frustrated over endless ASUU strikes but not in a school paying more than half a million. Be thankful for what you have!

Lovelyn451:
I get u, its better to have poor parents than this, u can't even bring yourself low to hustle cos your upbringing is of the rich whereas you don't have shishi in your pocket....lol

Look at you. Obviously a lazy youth. If your parents have spent good money to send you to school, you should be ashamed of yourself for depending on them for money at the age of 19. Lazyyouths all over the place

TOTOnigga:
Hello guys.... I don't just know.. Is it just me or is there anything I don't understand......my parents are rich people especially my dad, I know that for sure... someone paying #950,000 naira per year as school fees for me aside other expenses, plus multiple houses and lands I can't even keep count of....

How come they are this stingy? There is no time I would ask them for money for my own personal well being or any of my personal needs that they would like to assist me. I once ask mum for #12,000 naira just to buy a fairly used android phone (when I know they can even afford me an iPhone x) but she told me I should wait till months end before she gives me saying there is no money on ground... it's five months now and still nothing (not waiting for it though)...

Then I ask my dad, he told me I don't need an android phone... telling me that phone makes people unserious and other types of bulls*it( a 19 year old student for that matter)

Any expenses that is not book or academic related is not important...my parents would rather buy clothes for me than give me money to buy clothes... sometimes I end up not wearing some of them..

The funniest part is that, anytime I take any urgent lie(Asin scam) about any payment in school...they wouldn't Waits a second to send it to me... This has got me telling all sorts of lies just to get what I know can be gotten honestly.. It has even gotten to the point that any money that enters my hand now, I use it to play sports betting to see if I can get enough money for what I need, but I end up loosing the money...I am just frustrated.. someone time I wish I didn't even have rich parents cos what's the point...

they're sending you a message. That money doesn't come easy. They are raising you right since they have not neglected your needs. You are 19. What do you want to be in the future? Utilize this opportunity you have now that they are ready to sponsor your academics.
Like you can take courses on programming, and have them pay. Then start building softwares for people, advertise your skills and do freelancer jobs. In the end, you will thank God you had the parents who didn't spoil you and make you a stupid child.

Utilize he education part of it by training yourself on very sellable skills. That's what you should be looking at now and not sport bets. Work on your self and offer solutions to people's problems. You will be rich and wise. Many children of rich parents are stupid. They don't want that for you.

Seeing this post, I'm sure some criminals on nairaland will soon contact you to suggest a fake kidnap to scam your parents. They will key into your greed and nativity. Don't be stupid. If they had parents like yours, they would be doctors, engineers, programmers, accountants and not touts and thieves.

aribisala0:


Funny advice

Not everyone is interested in or has the aptitude for data analytics etc I guess that is your own area

All you are saying is still based on dependency on parents.

The fundamental issues is self reliance.

There are many jobs out there but many of our youth are too proud.

In the UK you will find graduates working in bars/pubs Starbucks Macdonald's etc serving the public

There are thousands if not millions who have no parents to do what this clown's parents are doing for him.

The Koko is if you determine that your father "is stingy" then organize your financial life and remove him from your calculus.
The reason he is able to engage in betting is because he is comfortable and has the mentality that he is a "rich man's son"

Your parents owe you only one thing and that is education

The advice is funny to you but not to others
Is data analytics the only skill... Its just an example.
Read and think before you open your mouth

Marvyx:

You know these kind of advice don't apply to children of nowadays?

See, the guy has already gone into sport betting. If he was a lady, you would start to wonder why she's doing runs even though she has rich parents.

I don't think it's bad to give your child money for upkeep.

There is nothing like children of Nowadays.

Giving your children money for upkeep ? Well define "upkeep" because in this case it includes betting
There is nothing good or bad in giving children money but that should go with training as well once the child is old enough they should be encouraged to WORK FOR MONEY at weekends and holidays
As a child I worked in my parents store and got paid for it
If indeed your father is a rich man
ASK HIM TO HELP YOU GET A JOB part-time and during the holidays
Some of the IOCs in Nigeria like shell actually have such schemes for undergraduates

There are many different kinds of children depending on how the parents bring them up.
When you travel outside Nigeria to countries that are way richer than Nigeria you will be surprised
Less than 1% of the population have maids/servants etc. In the UK people generally do all their housework by themselves , no outsiders even painting.

At 16 you get a job and start earning money even when in University or you borrow and you pay back.

Are those children of Yesterday? Even Obama's daughter got a job at McDonalds.

aribisala0:


Funny advice

Not everyone is interested in or has the aptitude for data analytics etc I guess that is your own area

All you are saying is still based on dependency on parents.

The fundamental issues is self reliance.

There are many jobs out there but many of our youth are too proud.

In the UK you will find graduates working in bars/pubs Starbucks Macdonald's etc serving the public

There are thousands if not millions who have no parents to do what this clown's parents are doing for him.

The Koko is if you determine that your father "is stingy" then organize your financial life and remove him from your calculus.
The reason he is able to engage in betting is because he is comfortable and has the mentality that he is a "rich man's son"

Your parents owe you only one thing and that is education

The advice is funny to you but not to others
Is data analytics the only skill... Its just an example.
Do you want him to be independent overnight without any effort
Read and think before you open your mouth...

You are bad child seriously trying to become worse. Just thank GOD for the kinda parents you have.

@op You should be eternally grateful you have such parents. I grew up the same way and now, I have a healthy respect for money. I don't beg for money and I don't spend frivolously.

Fashion and material things do not interest me. Go figure. Meanwhile, I am training my kids the same way. Today, my teenage daughter spent the 5k she got for her birthday on toiletries. I didn't give her a dime. If anything, she reminded me that her change was N21. I am hoping she learns the value of money on time so that she won't be useless to herself and her family.

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TOTOnigga:
Hello guys.... I don't just know.. Is it just me or is there anything I don't understand......my parents are rich people especially my dad, I know that for sure... someone paying #950,000 naira per year as school fees for me aside other expenses, plus multiple houses and lands I can't even keep count of....

How come they are this stingy? There is no time I would ask them for money for my own personal well being or any of my personal needs that they would like to assist me. I once ask mum for #12,000 naira just to buy a fairly used android phone (when I know they can even afford me an iPhone x) but she told me I should wait till months end before she gives me saying there is no money on ground... it's five months now and still nothing (not waiting for it though)...

Then I ask my dad, he told me I don't need an android phone... telling me that phone makes people unserious and other types of bulls*it( a 19 year old student for that matter)

Any expenses that is not book or academic related is not important...my parents would rather buy clothes for me than give me money to buy clothes... sometimes I end up not wearing some of them..

The funniest part is that, anytime I take any urgent lie(Asin scam) about any payment in school...they wouldn't Waits a second to send it to me... This has got me telling all sorts of lies just to get what I know can be gotten honestly.. It has even gotten to the point that any money that enters my hand now, I use it to play sports betting to see if I can get enough money for what I need, but I end up loosing the money...I am just frustrated.. someone time I wish I didn't even have rich parents cos what's the point...

You're just a spoilt ingrate...face your education, graduate and experience how life is after school. Smh

Juicewrld27:
different strokes for different folks

That ur dad pays 950k doesn’t make him rich either, you don’t know if he is sacrificing a lot to make sure u get the best education. Ogbeni face ur studies, and when it’s time, hustle for yours