amrichy:
The fact you should keep in mind is that your achievements form a part (an important part actually) of your personality, and your personality will determine who will love you and how much they will love you.
So if people love you for your wealth, academic qualification or profession, it doesn't really mean that they don't love you genuinely. And when you conceal certain parts of your personality, you simply make yourself unattractive and unappealing to some people that would have otherwise been influenced to love your through such
hidden personality (your achievements).
To get my point better, answer this question: could a woman's academic qualification, communication skills, intelligence or culinary skills (which can all be considered as achievements) affect whether you will love her or not?

LagosNissan:
Good day!


I want to know if it's right to hide one's achievements like educational, monetary etc because one wants to find true love.



Does it make any sense?


Would a woman be considered bad for rejecting you, if you said you squat with your brother whereas you own a house?

Or that you didn't attend a university whereas you did?

Or that you you didn't have a job whereas you did?

Note that all these are in a bid to test if she is a wife material.

Is it wrong for women to insist on certain things like wealth, educational background, etc?

dingbang:
If a woman lied to you that she cannot conceive children, will you still go ahead with the marriage plans?

Lets be guided

Goldbw122:
If the reverse was the case will you be happy?

Kandeed:




y'all are the ones rubbing the ego of these girls to think Money is the most important thing in marriage. how bout building with the husband like most of our mothers did

Kandeed:




y'all are the ones rubbing the ego of these girls to think Money is the most important thing in marriage. how bout building with the husband like most of our mothers did

dingbang:
nobody is rubbing anyone's ego here. Let us face facts, can you take the shit you dish out?

Kandeed:


What he's trying to do is not shit.....that to me is not bad except for the fact that he'd want to seem like he's not learned or hasn't been to the four walls of Uni. that he wanna act broke to prolly see someone worth the search is not bad

Jeon:


How many men can be like our father's [the responsible set ]?

When now we have boy's in male body doing nothing apart from sagging, dying their hairs,wearing the latest fashion dress,thinking that life is about money, sex and fûcking. With under developed mentality, no emotionals and low IQ chasing only worldly properties without planning his/their foundation.

dingbang:
and when a lady tries to pretend she is not conceivable, cannot cook, i hope you will also understand.

Kandeed:




y'all are the ones rubbing the ego of these girls to think Money is the most important thing in marriage. how bout building with the husband like most of our mothers did

Kandeed:


She cannot hide those two

Kandeed:


But all the same it's not all of us. our clime has programmed it to be that way while on the other hand things were easy for the learned and there was hope for the common man back then with lil exposure, that cannot be said of our dispensation esp with the sect of leaders we've got. Youth will get back on track (not all tho) if this country get to function.

Jeon:


Don't bring Nigeria into this and don't BLAME BUHARI.. This present youths are too lazy, they want quick things. Can endure any pains.


IF OUR FATHERS CAN DO BETTER OUR BOYS CAN DO GREAT =SAME TO OUR GIRLS.

amrichy:
The fact you should keep in mind is that your achievements form a part (an important part actually) of your personality, and your personality will determine who will love you and how much they will love you.
So if people love you for your wealth, academic qualification or profession, it doesn't really mean that they don't love you genuinely. And when you conceal certain parts of your personality, you simply make yourself unattractive and unappealing to some people that would have otherwise been influenced to love your through such
hidden personality (your achievements).
To get my point better, answer this question: could a woman's academic qualification, communication skills, intelligence or culinary skills (which can all be considered as achievements) affect whether you will love her or not?

dingbang:
If a woman lied to you that she cannot conceive children, will you still go ahead with the marriage plans?

Lets be guided

Kandeed:


She cannot hide those two

StrangerForSex:


Why not?

In contemporary Logic, Dingbang question is valid and requires a Y or N answer. Saying that it isn't would also invalidate yours or are you invoking a 'special plead' here, like religious folks?

Kind of like: if the existence of something is a testament of its created and God exists; who created God?
Would you say: I cannot ask that question?

Why not?




PS.
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If you like it, feel free to share.

LagosNissan:



That's another angle

Pansophist, ishilove where are thou?