This Yousef just isnt happy there aren’t secondary school girls in the house.

Ok, I'm striking out Yousef from the list of wildcards because this nervousness cannot come from someone who's a wildcard.
If he is. This is phenomenal acting.
Or
is he nervous because he's afraid of being discovered as a wild card?
Lol, Biggie has me confused with this wildcard stuff.

Eh yah, Yousef please leave the other people and concentrate on showing yourself..

Which kind stories Sammie dey tell these housemates wey I never hear?

Eeghe:
Yousef is overwhelmed
I have been beefing him, but now my heart goes out to him some.

Me too!

Not enough girls crushing on Yousef to help him feel comfortable

Yousef inferiority complex ooo is a problem

Chai!

I come dey pity yousef, he is so nervous and reserved

Gbegirsoup:


So I can't stand a man in peace again?

I stanned Uti like a maniac during his time and he won..

Lol, just teasing you

Where to stream

Gbegirsoup:


Yeah!

Now I understand his students story.

The guy is not exposed.

Yeah, not exposed and I kinda see some self esteem issue.
Looking at it, he is totally different.
Even the halfcaste Spanish looking mullato blends in very easily.
Yosef is oddly different.

Ihavethingstodo:


that dude can do anything for big yansh

I tell you

Big yansh and half caste

He will die there

Olodo24:
With this your definition, how will they identify the wildcard candidate?

Only someone that knows what a wild card is would be able to identify the two candidates. Most of them think it’s a fake housemate but no it’s not. A fake housemate stays and leaves after a week or two. A wild card is trying to get into the game and win the money.

Yousef looks like Roki from Zim, BBA Stargame. Anyone?

MamBi:


I disagree oh. Wetin I watch with my koro-koro eye, Saga had his turn talking about drilling in different locations etc. Na Saga dey even prompt her to expand the story.. she was trying to avoid giving away too much details..

Thanks for this. It was an interactive gist. She talks fast so if u r slow u won't catch up.

majorbravo:
This Yousef just isnt happy there aren’t secondary school girls in the house.

Hei Ghod!

Thanks for making me laugh!

I love the way biggie calmed yousef,before he embarrasses himself

'You are not here to make others feel comfortable to your own detriment'
Nice summary from Biggie to Yousef

Tranquility2345:


Only someone thajt knows what a wild card is would be able to identify the two candidates. Most of them think it’s a fake housemate but no it’s not. A fake housemate stays and leaves after a week or two. A wild card is trying to get into the game and win the money.

could be Rose as she's kinda popular before now. I suspect Jaypaul for the male cos he seems so invested in the wild card thing

Yousef's DS

You seem nervous?

He has been overwhelmed, and he is still trying to connect with everyone in the house. He feels different, he hopes he doesn't make them uncomfortable with how he operates *mentions something about him being from the North*....

Biggie asks him to take a deep breath, he does.

This is your diary Session, as you can see, the Chair is quite big (basically asking him to relax) Do you need a moment to gather yourself?

He says he thinks he is ready.

Biggie reminds him this is a social experiment, and people of different backgrounds were chosen. He need not walk on eggshells amongst housemates and his beliefs are to be respected, and celebrated, in some cases. He should feel at home.

Let's talk about the other housemates?

He connected first with Saga, Saga is cool and he has been himself the whole time. He thinks there is a negative reaction he feels, and he feels a lot of people are pretending, he can't tell because he hasn't been getting closer to them. He thinks a lot of people are telling lies and he can't be comfortable, when things are not to his own understanding. He is trying to balance it, and be himself. He is just processing it and how he is going to be an amazing friend and connect with all the cliques and everyone in the house. He will take some days to get to know them all and then free himself and his soul, and talk more with the housemates. He is also maneuvering himself through the house and learning of it. That is basically how he feels at this moment.

A few moments ago, he spoke of his aversion for pretense and lies. Who does he think are the pretenders and liars?

Sammie is saying a story he feels did not happen, because he is trying to make the world feel sad for him, and he knows he is trying to play his game. He respects the game, but he does not like the way he is shut off. He hates to hear lies or people telling him what to do, and he feels like he is leading him to the wrong path. Boma, he was very energetic towards him, when he first came in, but after the 24-hours something changed, and he now tries to dodge the conversations when he is talking to him. He knows they are both models, so, he thought they would bond on that. Sometimes, he feels Boma is pretending not to respond to him.

Isolation experience and lesson?

He was thinking of what the other housemates would be like, and how he can make himself as fun as possible and how to hang out with everyone, despite where he is coming from. He hoped some of his things would not make them feel uncomfortable. One of his challenges was contact with the outside world. He kept thinking of what people outside were thinking, he also was concerned if the house would be a house for everyone, and if people would receive him positively or negatively.

Biggie says the best way to show the world that the house is for everyone, is by being comfortable. It seems he thinks too much of what people think of him, and what would make others comfortable. He tells him to prioritise himself, and be comfortable in the house. He asks if he has anything else to discuss.

He has a lot of thoughts, but for now, there is nothing else, until his next session.

End of Diary Session.

Biggie says if he needs a moment to gather himself, he may do so before returning to the house. He says he understands and will think about it (I doubt he understood though)

I connect with yousef.

He's a guy that's trying to please others against himself..

Yousef I almost slept off. Gosh. I belive am sha, dat Sammie go fit d lie. His stories too much.

This show is not for the faint hearted Yusuf, be brave.

Eeghe:
Yousef looks like Roki from Zim, BBA Stargame. Anyone?

Roki just with the eyes and dark lips.

But he's looking more like Nando everyday.

Left, but back now...


Biggie: You seem abit nervous.

Yousef: I’ve been alone and still trying to connect with people in the house, I feel so different and hope I don’t make other housemates uncomfortable with how I am.

Biggie: Yousef, take a deep breath. This is your diary session, as you can see the chair is quite big.

Yousef; Readjusted.

Biggie: Do you need a moment to gather yourself?

Yousef; Yea, I’m think I’m ready.

Biggie: You must remember, this is a social experiment. People of different backgrounds were deliberately chosen, you are all guest here, you are all equal, you don’t need to walk on eggshells around your fellow housemates, your belief are to be respected and in some cases, celebrated. So kindly feel at home.

Biggie continues...

Let’s talk about your fellow housemates.

Yousef: Firstly, i think I connected easily with Saga, I feel a lot of people are pretending but I can’t fully tell because I haven’t gotten closer to them, but I feel a lot of them are selling stories for pity, I’m an honest person and I know I’m a little bit difficult, it makes me uncomfortable but I try my best to be an amazing friend and also connect to people in the house. I try my best to free myself and talk more with the housemates, I’m also trying to show myself to the world. Basically, that’s how I fell at the moment.

Biggie: A few moments ago, you spoke about pretenders and liars, who do you think tells lies a lot.

Yousef: Uhhhm! I think [Didnt get the name] is trying to sell stories for sympathy and I feel he’s just trying to play his game. I just feel he’s leading me into the wrong part. I think Boma, when I first came in, he was energetic, but after 24 hours, something changed about him, from talking to ye ye ye, trying to dodge conversations. I also know both of us are models, I thought we could relate. I feel he’s pretending and not responding to me.

Biggie: Yousef, before you entered the house, what did you learn from the isolation.

Yousef: Well, on the lockdown, I think I was thinking how can I make myself as much as possible, how to mingle with everyone, I was also thinking about how the outside world will see me as, was trying to balance the whole thing. I think some of my challenges were how to cope with people, will it be positive or negative, will it be something better? I feel and was actually thinking if my character and aims will be positive or negative.

Biggie: Yousef, the best way to show the world that the house if for everyone is by being comfortable, it may seem as thou, you think too much, it may seems as thou you are trying to prioritize others by making them comfortable, be yourself, be comfortable.

Biggie: Do you have anything to discuss with Big brother?

Yousef: No


Biggie: Your diary session has come to an end.

MamBi:
Eh yah, Yousef please leave the other people and concentrate on showing yourself..

Which kind stories Sammie dey tell these housemates wey I never hear?

Kayode show us Sammie’s gists
You have started again, o kwaya?
A part of me wishes he would take a voluntary exit. I am feeling too sorry for him.

Commentary:

Yousef is so much like Kaisha.

He has made himself an outcast in the house, and has automatically assumed that being from the North is a disadvantage for whatever reason. He talks like he came into the house with a bomb, and other housemates are avoiding him for that reason.

Jackie B and Saskay are equally Northerners, who have blended in well. He better get out of his own head, because he has done himself no favours with this defeatist and victim mentality.

Struggling to feel empathy for this Yousef guy. If it's to talk about his students crying over him and girls feeling him mouth go sharp. Went in expecting to be special but received a reality check. Maybe my mind will change on him later, we watch