Bodyodour:
Your own is better. I am becoming disinterested at life. I am not depressed but I think am tired.

pansophist:


That's the price you pay for being too smart. Expecially living in a country where the average IQ is less than 99.

There is a level of thought a man would reach, that will make him closer to the gods. You'll detest fraternizing with people in general, and apathetic to the masses. You'll see most people as anchovies, who lack an independent mind of their own, can't formulate their own path in life, and just live according to the dictate of their nature and nature. You're not alone.

This here is apt...you can't respect people who do not have a mind of their own, or people that are devoid of good judgement...if you look at the Nigerian situation, you will see most of the people are quite low in thinking.

Omo my own be say I no just know wetin I wan do for life. Nigeria don tire and frustrate pesin. I don start dey turn to troll to deal with depression. Infact if I was given a very easy way to die with no pain(as I hate pain) I go take am. I am only alive because the ways I know how to kill myself are painful if not I for don go

Stupidquestions:

Lol...look at this fool .... ...so tell us about your time in that mood and situation

Mine was bad my phone can be on flight mode for months ... I don't communicate even with family ... I just like solitude , meditation , but as time goes i lost interest in living . The only thing wey dey vex me dat period is that my thoughts were too busy thinking absurd things ... FORGET life is sweet wen u put smile on faces ... Go out n rub mind with people ... If u dey shayo , do it well , .... Lastly I still return to my solitude every day even if just for like and hours ... And I read stoic n philosophical books too.

I wanted to be like this too until 17 yrs ago, when I got a girl pregnant

Stupidquestions:
Is it possible to lose interest in people in general?
I only want to stay alone, far from where people know me, I don't want to have a friend who checks on me or who calls me, as I also don't wish to check on people or call...And my house should be as silent as solitude with no unnecessary movement of people around or prying eye. Just want it standing alone.
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..far from people who know me or who might take interest in me.
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And when I meet a woman, I want it to be for the moment, nothing serious, no reason to hold anyone accountable even if it lingers for some times. Just be free as bird and as well discreet ( private)
I just want to stay by myself and my own rules. And pursuing my personal interest..
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Is this possible or is this feeling normal?

Naijaibo:

This here is apt...you can't respect people who do not have a mind of their own, or people that are devoid of good judgement...if you look at the Nigerian situation, you will see most of the people are quite low in thinking.

There are some businesses I see going on in Nigeria and I wonder how people could be so dumb to patronise. The issue of lots of women voluntarily enslaving themselves to pastor who tell them fearful stories and milk their hard earned money on a regular basis. How about the crystal service Canadian immigration scam that happened few years ago, where the scammer duped thousands of people hundreds of thousand of naira, and ask them all to go wait at national theatre, that the chatrered aeroplane moving them all to Canada is taking off from there, and people gathered with their luggages in national theatre that day waiting for plane, and even worse, many of the victims have master degrees, phds, and are graduates, parents and people you would respect.

pansophist:


There are some businesses I see going on in Nigeria and I wonder how people could be so dumb to patronise. The issue of lots of women voluntarily enslaving themselves to pastor who tell them fearful stories and milk their hard earned money on a regular basis. How about the crystal service Canadian immigration scam that happened few years ago, where the scammer duped thousands of people hundreds of thousand of naira, and ask them all to go wait at national theatre, that the chatrered aeroplane moving them all to Canada is taking off from there, and people gathered with their luggages in national theatre that day waiting for plane, and even worse, many of the victims have master degrees, phds, and are graduates, parents and people you would respect.

Apt, this is one of the things that makes me have no respect for some of these people here, how can pastors be scamming you, and they act like it's cool.

Stupidquestions:
Is it possible to lose interest in people in general?
I only want to stay alone, far from where people know me, I don't want to have a friend who checks on me or who calls me, as I also don't wish to check on people or call...And my house should be as silent as solitude with no unnecessary movement of people around or prying eye. Just want it standing alone.
.
..far from people who know me or who might take interest in me.
.
And when I meet a woman, I want it to be for the moment, nothing serious, no reason to hold anyone accountable even if it lingers for some times. Just be free as bird and as well discreet ( private)
I just want to stay by myself and my own rules. And pursuing my personal interest..
.
Is this possible or is this feeling normal?

You will be filled with regret soon

Why are you like this? You're making laugh inside toilet.
Go and wait at national theatre

pansophist:


There are some businesses I see going on in Nigeria and I wonder how people could be so dumb to patronise. The issue of lots of women voluntarily enslaving themselves to pastor who tell them fearful stories and milk their hard earned money on a regular basis. How about the crystal service Canadian immigration scam that happened few years ago, where the scammer duped thousands of people hundreds of thousand of naira, and ask them all to go wait at national theatre, that the chatrered aeroplane moving them all to Canada is taking off from there, and people gathered with their luggages in national theatre that day waiting for plane, and even worse, many of the victims have master degrees, phds, and are graduates, parents and people you would respect.

That’s how it’s suppose to be if you want to go far in life

pansophist:


How about the crystal service Canadian immigration scam that happened few years ago, where the scammer duped thousands of people hundreds of thousand of naira, and ask them all to go wait at national theatre, that the chatrered aeroplane moving them all to Canada is taking off from there, and people gathered with their luggages in national theatre that day waiting for plane, and even worse, many of the victims have master degrees, phds, and are graduates, parents and people you would respect.

Lwkmd

angelfallz:
Why are you like this? You're making laugh inside toilet.
Go and wait at national theatre

There are people that their only usefulness is to be duped, and be the sacrificial lamb for others to be successful and I say this seriously. As far back as I can remember, I've got lots and lots of request by people in Nigeria that I should help them process admission and visa to go to the west.

Everytime I tell them how to do it themselves, they just refuse to go through that process and want me to do it. Infact they are even willing to pay and submit themselves to be duped, but its only few individual out there that will not take that chance. No matter how I explain, do the research and tell them what they have to do, they just refuse. They just want to drop money, and let others take care of the rest for them.

Same with people who are victims of pastors, I mean, there is no place in the bible where God said that you must go through a pastor before he will answer your prayer. All you have to do is knee down and pray to him. But no, they prefer to give hundreds of thousands of pastors to help them pray. I don't get that logic really. I can go on and on, but all these experiences makes me to be convinced that lot of people usefulness is to be scammed. They are braindead.

This is so me... But I wanna break free, I need new people to relate with.

pansophist:


There are people that their only usefulness is to be duped, and be the sacrificial lamb for others to be successful and I say this seriously. As far back as I can remember, I've got lots and lots of request by people in Nigeria that I should help them process admission and visa to go to the west.

Everytime I tell them how to do it themselves, they just refuse to go through that process and want me to do it. Infact they are even willing to pay and submit themselves to be duped, but its only few individual out there that will not take that chance. No matter how I explain, do the research and tell them what they have to do, they just refuse. They just want to drop money, and let others take care of the rest for them.

Same with people who are victims of pastors, I mean, there is no place in the bible where God said that you must go through a pastor before he will answer your prayer. All you have to do is knee down and pray to him. But no, they prefer to give hundreds of thousands of pastors to help them pray. I don't get that logic really. I can go on and on, but all these experiences makes me to be convinced that lot of people usefulness is to be scammed. They are braindead.

Let me help your brain pin point the cause of this problem (no offense).


Now, you made mention of people who came to you asking for how they would come over to the west, and you told them how to and they still want you to do it and also the people who submit themselves to pastors to ripped off in a bid to get their prayers answered only points to one thing.

VALIDATION. They don't want to think they're wasting time doing certain things on their own. I noticed this recently in me except this was during job application as a programmer. I had told my boss to help me with a cv and he only pointed me to what do and didn't do it himself. A lot of the time, I do feel I am wasting my time. This is the same with people whom you have encountered over moving abroad and people who submit themselves to pastors to be ripped off!

Hope I helped ya?

Even Teni Makanaki talk am for her track "Hustle".

Sometimes she gat fetch water pour for head to calm pressure from family and friends wahala.....

OP nothing is wrong with you, you won't blv dat none of my family member knows where am staying let alone my Friends, none of my coursesmate knows my house, my colleagues at work, nobody visits me and am in love with everything about me, I so much love my freedom and privacy.

Same here but I think mine has more to do with suspicion and paranoia

People would tell me how much they missed me what happened to me did I travel etc, yet never for once did they ever try to call me, so I'm always on guard against friends and family generally.

Polynek:
OP nothing is wrong with you, you won't blv dat none of my family member knows where am staying let alone my Friends, none of my coursesmate knows my house, my colleagues at work, nobody visits me and am in love with everything about me, I so much love my freedom and privacy.

You be assassin?

SKhanmi:


You be assassin?

I love my peace of mind Bro. As I de broke make I mind my bixnex and continue hustling

Polynek:
I love my peace of mind Bro. As I de broke make I mind my bixnex and continue hustling

Okay o, There are friends who don't care if you're broke though.

SKhanmi:


Okay o, There are friends who don't care if you're broke though.

Na true Sha

Obodo999:
I wanted to be like this too until 17 yrs ago, when I got a girl pregnant

how did it end for you?

Stupidquestions:
Is it possible to lose interest in people in general?
I only want to stay alone, far from where people know me, I don't want to have a friend who checks on me or who calls me, as I also don't wish to check on people or call...And my house should be as silent as solitude with no unnecessary movement of people around or prying eye. Just want it standing alone.
.
..far from people who know me or who might take interest in me.
.
And when I meet a woman, I want it to be for the moment, nothing serious, no reason to hold anyone accountable even if it lingers for some times. Just be free as bird and as well discreet ( private)
I just want to stay by myself and my own rules. And pursuing my personal interest..
.
Is this possible or is this feeling normal?

It's a normal feeling but don't allow the brain to degenerate into schizophrenic state ...... The Brain must be socialized to some extent !!