hosemujica:
That last one na coco. Thats why most guys want a child before they even say yes these days .

Rozcol:
Please let us hear word and for your information she's right about that number 2,in marriage a man should provide everything and its solely depend on your wife's decision to assist you or not,its not a mandatory task.Women are care givers and not providers, you can't expect a woman to provide and still respect you it usually don't happen that way.She's not here to say her own side so nobody has the right to condemn her yet. No be Nigerian men again mtchewww

Ishilove:

Let me direct your question back to you since you don't know the meaning of civility. If you are not drunk, then you must be high on your own fart.

NoToPile:




So the Females are to blame for the incapability of Men to be sole providers really?


Its actually okay to admit economic realities of our dear country is preventing men from being sole providers, at least we all know this.

You didn't answer my question in the other quote and you have raised the matter here again, at least you have admitted that both care -giving and providing responsibilities should be shared across board- sounds fair enough.

Rozcol:
Mother Theresa well done ooo,you should have asked if I'm already engaged or not and I don't pray to ever meet the likes of your brothers who doesn't know their right from left.If its your choice to suffer with a man what's my own there? and if its my choice not to suffer with any man how e take concern you? The op is a liar and wisdom demands that we read both sides before passing judgement but he succeeded in winning you all to his pity party game.

Munzy14:

The number of men looking for this test eeh...


My mind tell me say some mr nice guys weh go marry some bad babes plenty here...

They want to confirm the colour of their problems..

Bad guys marry good women, good guys marry bad babes...inside life..

Ishilove:

He is a nincompoop. He did not ask what I was referring to in my post. Some women take good men for granted and they only know the value of these men when they lose them. This is what I meant in my post, but being the dumb donkey that he is, he was quick to quote me to type the same trash he ejects from his grimy anus.

valtorking:

Bros how far.....chose to die?

elay44:
Bro I only read stuff as a guest. this your post made me register on nairaland. I am in this same boat the, threats, jealousy, anger, no support financially,( I earn very well to take care of the family but it can be exhausting sometimes) etc. but we have Kids . I salute your courage bro. you need to be in this shoes to understand what this bro went through. you can comment and call names but you just can't understand. I feel you and I am very happy for you. thanks for speaking up and being an encouragement. a lot of men are going through shit all in the name of love. forget redplliers. we are not built to be violent, we geniuely care for people, that just how we are wired. but we are taken for granted and our nature taken for weakness.

Xilsbridalhouse:

I suspect he could be a cheat too. You know these things brings out the beast in women.

ObaKlaz:
Asides direct mentions from you, I have not read any of your comments here. In fact, you jumped into a mention from me to that Roscol moniker. You weren't in the convo originally, to begin with!

sparko1:


Oh you forget, we are equal now, no special treatment, and no civility, when you attempt to use scriptural reference to give credence to bad habit.

Emotional abuse is worse than physical abuse and should be treated as such, if he was a lady, would you quote the scripture, or is it not the same scripture that says, "Should we continue in sin and expect grace to abound".

Nobody deserve a terrible person, peace of mind above all else.

Ishilove:
[s] Op, nobody is perfect. Let he who is without sin be the first to cast the stone.[/s]

MummyD2020:



May u live long oh. She is not here to say her own side. See how he is vibrating about single mums. When u trace now, the gals dad might be the one at fault. How about single dads? Let me entertain myself with the comments o jare

Nancee4love:

I still pity that man you are engaged to. Your mindset is wack and u are. Ot ready for marriage go fix yourself please and let that young man go. A woman who loves her man supports him.
I can't call you a wife material is to be honest you don't measure up to the yardstick.

MummyD2020:


How about those that impregnate and leave? Una no serious
Humans cannot be wiser than God. You see this life, e no get formula. Atimes things just happen.

Females' insistence on gender equality while avoiding equal responsibility is what I've been harping on. How else do I break it down to you?!

And what is your question again, in very clear terms?!

Rozcol:
Please let us hear word and for your information she's right about that number 2,in marriage a man should provide everything and its solely depend on your wife's decision to assist you or not,its not a mandatory task.Women are care givers and not providers, you can't expect a woman to provide and still respect you it usually don't happen that way.She's not here to say her own side so nobody has the right to condemn her yet. No be Nigerian men again mtchewww

MrColdsweat:


At least he's being honest.

Women don't tell you they'll leave when you become broke.

Fountainofyouth:



Your mother bled too right?

Fountainofyouth:



Your mother bled too right?

Pecoleee345:
Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/6653469/another-marriage-crash

So over last weekend.... I called family meeting my mum, elder brother and I went to my wife parents house... her family members were present.

They wanted to resolve things between us but no one gave a Bleep about me....they asked her to speak and she said alot of things both truth and lies.

I was lambasted from both sides and I let them finished properly before dropping the bomb......I looked into her eyes straight up and told her am divorcing you.

They were all stunned.... they were now interested in my side of the story.

I decided not to say anything.....am not the type that bad mouth people to score points or look good (my ex-wife is very good at that)....I just told her family to demand the truth from her.

My advice to young men.

1. Make sure u know the background of the lady u wanna get involved with....the way of life etc.

The mistake I made was not evaluating her background...... We came from completely different backgrounds....eg where she comes from people talking crazy and shouting at one another isn't a big deal but me it was a Taboo infact in my parents' house u can't talk with high tones for normal discussions.

2. See forget love and looks...... Make sure you know the main reason she wants to marry you.

I know she loves me but she had another motive which is am meant to give her everything she wants in Life.... She had that mind set of her responsibilities is totally dependent on me.

She told me she can only spare or borrow me money towards doing anything in the house but it is my duty to provide anything she wants even the riddicules ones.

3. For your peace of mind stay away from most ladies raised by single mothers because most her poison to hate men right from teens by their mother.

They are mostly insecure....they believe all men cheat and can never trust.
Comes with mad jealousy

They mostly have anger issue.... they will tell you I don't take shit... trying to show they are strong and can't take what their mother took despite you not doing any shit.....they want to have say in everything just to show you are equal.

They are always quick to be on the defensive
Just to mention a few

I once told my wife am not like your father when I couldn't take the policing, sneaking and threat anymore.

See as a man no one gives a shit about you..... people are sympathetic towards the female and expect you to take whatever she throws at you but you need your peace of mind.
The society has made it possible for women to get away with lot of things.

If you found a woman you want to marry please put love aside and get to really know her background well......cohabit with her for 6month......lastly even if you don't have money, please borrow and go for comprehensive medical check up with her.... (check your sperm count and the state of her womb) please.

TarOrfeeek:
My current GF is from a single mother home.

Immediately I finished reading this topic. I will break up with her mentally.

DrayZee:

Is there a reason why all of you are picking this one part of finances while avoiding the fact that she lays curses on her husband all the time and also may not be able to conceive due to an abortion (and thinks it’s spiritual)?

Stupidquestions:
One last point....be careful with women with big yansh....cos most times..the yansh dey geh insurance for outside unknowing to the man.

amrichy:

Someone is going to beat you very soon with the way you are always quick to insult people. What do you really gain from such choleric and petulant disposition?

Ikwerelastborn:

My mother and sisters are the useless bleeding holes and idiots