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Re: Marrying Last As First Child by Nobody: 11:47am On Aug 09, 2021 |
yanabasee1:lots of responsibility out there begging to be taken care of, must you follow crowd? 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by RodgersAkpafu: 11:48am On Aug 09, 2021 |
mmsen:It's amazing 1 Like |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by shadrach77: 11:48am On Aug 09, 2021 |
[quote author=Chuky7 post=104581736]Has anyone experienced this. This is where I find myself. And I keep getting talks like it's a bad thing. Talks like your last has married before you shouldn't you be ashamed. Some even go to extent of proclaiming abomination. For me all this one's no concern me. I am a playboy at heart and will marry at my own time or not at all. Depends on how I feel. Peace of Mind and Freedom is Priceless. Don't Take it away from me. So have you had similar experience please share The only thing that ruined your post is the fact that you called yourself a playboy at heart as if being a playboy is a good thing. It's not good. There is a time for everything. Ensure you settle down but do it at your own time and pace. Don't allow anybody to push you. It's just African mentality which is quite ridiculous to be honest. Marriage is not an achievement 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by Vision4God: 11:48am On Aug 09, 2021 |
Being a play boy isnt a good thing. Trust in God, get yourself focused, organized and when you are ready, you can settle down 1 Like |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by Tonnyray: 11:49am On Aug 09, 2021 |
Have they started catching latecomers in the marriage parole? |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by michlins(m): 11:49am On Aug 09, 2021 |
It's all good until you start raising kids when others are planning retirement. Get married when you are young especially when you have the resources. Raising children is one hell of serious venture. You need all your skills and resources to be topnotch 4 Likes |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by Skullano(m): 11:50am On Aug 09, 2021 |
yanabasee1: Marriage is not a must, let's stop pushing ourselves for nothing.. 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by Trustedpronet: 11:51am On Aug 09, 2021 |
scrolldown88: Oga if you don't know the cost of pampers, child depriving you from sleeping at night, paying school fees, providing daily bread and browsing a website for 10years without intention of changing IP address man! You are not responsible. 1 Like |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by qtguru(m): 11:51am On Aug 09, 2021 |
michlins: true |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by RodgersAkpafu: 11:51am On Aug 09, 2021 |
RenerdsMedia:A single Colonel for example who is responsible for a lot of troops is not deemed responsible because he is not married or have a family That's the logic of the person you quoted Something is seriously wrong somewhere Indeed, having a family is ideal and the norm But if one does not want to, there is nothing wrong with it IMO However, sleeping with multiple multiple women, as a separate issue get as e be 6 Likes |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by RodgersAkpafu: 11:53am On Aug 09, 2021 |
michlins:This scenario can go two ways This is just one Nothing wrong with raising kids later on in life Especially if you have the financial muscle to do so at that age Humans live longer on average A couple who are 45 years each can have kids and still live till 90 3 Likes |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by Plut01: 11:53am On Aug 09, 2021 |
. Get someone pregnant and take care of your kids. Issa simple thing. Marriage nah overdo, having children is ok. . |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by mmsen: 11:55am On Aug 09, 2021 |
yanabasee1: Marriage is no sign of maturity or being responsible. The two have nothing to do with each other. One is a societal convention, the other is a trait. Nigeria is full of people who are married yet woefully ill equipped to be in a relationship or raise children. 4 Likes |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by Nobody: 11:56am On Aug 09, 2021 |
Wahala for who get all it takes to get married & still claim a playboy. As soon as I get a lady that has money & can take care of me, I wouldn't think twice about getting married. |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by mmsen: 11:56am On Aug 09, 2021 |
Trustedpronet: Making a detrimental decision is no sign of responsibility but rather one of cowardice and stupidity. That is what you have described above. 5 Likes |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by McOluOmo: 11:57am On Aug 09, 2021 |
Afamsi: E no concern you now but dont forget, when you get old e go concern you. His money can do everything for him till he dies.....investment is the key Guys wey no get girlfriend get peace of mind
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Re: Marrying Last As First Child by Yankee101: 11:57am On Aug 09, 2021 |
Sometimes it's cos na you sponsor the others |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by robinfemi: 11:57am On Aug 09, 2021 |
There are many angles to it, next time state your age and of your siblings for me to know how to reason your matter 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by mmsen: 11:58am On Aug 09, 2021 |
michlins: Does the average Nigerian even make it to 'retirement'? No. They die before 60 while struggling to take care of children as well as their own basic needs. 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by Nobody: 11:58am On Aug 09, 2021 |
RodgersAkpafu:all these are just social norms, and inasmuch as the society still remains in a lot of confusion, after following these norms, It shows that a lot is fundamentally wrong, therefore, I rather tow a different path than try and adjust to the society, if there are no confrontation, there wount be a change, let everyone chose the life they wish to live, if others see the result, and and its good, they may be compeled to follow suit. |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by BamakSNR(m): 11:59am On Aug 09, 2021 |
Chuky7:The fact is; you want to run away from responsibility 1 Like |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by Jorge91: 12:01pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
Chuky7:This our nigeria mentality that a man must marry, if the man dies tomorrow leaving the wife and kids with nothing, those that pressurized you to marry will not do shit for your family. Marriage you have to be mentally and financially ready. 3 Likes |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by engrchykae(m): 12:03pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
Chuky7:that's the exact situation I find myself. The funny thing is that I am a graduate, working and more handsome than my junior brothers yet they are married with two kids each. I don't have luck for women. 1 Like |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by Ishilove: 12:07pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
Y'all need to learn to think for yourselves. 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by Parisian: 12:07pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
But you're comfortable with exposing your prickk to many different women that could either kill you or drug you. Chuky7: |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by MrMcJay(m): 12:07pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
Marriage is like the University. Those yet to marry are looking for how to get in and those in marriages are looking for how to get out. |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by Parisian: 12:08pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
Sleeping with many different women is irresponsibility wether you're using protection or not. Chuky7: |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by BlueAir: 12:08pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
Person wey dey madt. As if e go how mouth to type and spew all those shiit if the op is single and SUCCESSFUL. but since he's single and wants to live life to the fullest at his own pace,e don become none entity scrolldown88: |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by Nnemuka(f): 12:08pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
True disciple of ubunja yen yen yen playboy and young at heart creating thread upon threads of how unperturbed he seems to be... Alfa male oshiii |
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