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Re: Marrying Last As First Child by Nobody: 12:33pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
You marry more early, you die more early esp in that jungle. michlins: 1 Like |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by lexy2014: 12:33pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
yanabasee1: So all d married men that are fooling themselves, carrying small girls and spending their hard earned income meant for their families on prostitutes are responsible and mature just because they are married 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by TruthUntold: 12:34pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
Why are you desperately trying to convince yourself that you're not in the wrong? You don't need validation, you just need to be comfortable with your choices, cause in the end, they're yours to bear. Chuky7: |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by RodgersAkpafu: 12:34pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
michlins:Which orphan is better off? The one whose parents had him at old age And left a financial war chest for them Or the one who married young, and struggled financially Leaving nothing for his kids when he gets crushed by tanker Answer honestly |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by pembisco(m): 12:34pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
lexy2014: The op said he's still a playboy and will marry at his own time. He didn't say he's financially incapable or any stuffs like that. I don't know why you are trying so hard to change the meaning. 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by lexy2014: 12:35pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
michlins: And every man who married early lived long enough to see their children to adulthood |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by RodgersAkpafu: 12:35pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
TruthUntold:He is not right or wrong Life is not exams Live your life and deal with whatever comes out of it Thats the motto many cannot follow |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by Nobody: 12:36pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
There are exceptions to every rule. It is just that Africans don't have the time and wisdom to observe them. michlins: 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by lexy2014: 12:36pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
pembisco: Change d meaning of what? I asked u this simple questions: D instance of Ataga and chidinma that I gave u, was Ataga not a playboy? Are there no married men that are still playboys? |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by michlins(m): 12:36pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
RodgersAkpafu:the one whose parents married late and left with warchest might not be able to claim those. Knowing how vicious our uncle's can be. T |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by BigDickhead1: 12:38pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
Chuky7: My brother marriage too go hard.... I dey always think am how pple take dey do am? Carry one unknown gal from unknown family background, come say na u want live live with for the rest of your life chai eh.... Non b here oh |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by adanny01(m): 12:38pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
Chuky7: The problem with responsibility is that the decisions you make today affect tomorrow. So being a playboy now and choosing to settle and have kids far later in your life is an irresponsible decision. This is because having kids at 50 doesn't give the best for your children. Believe me or not, time is part of responsibility. So to be responsible, you have to decide early if you will marry or not. Delaying that decision alone is irresponsibility. Responsibility is also bravery, imagine knowing you like women but you chose to have a stable family against your personal desires. That means you have made a sacrifice. That sacrifice is an act of responsibility to the wife and children you have. If you have decided not to have a wife or children, it means you have chosen not to be responsible for anyone other than yourself. Don't forget that you still have a responsibility towards your old parents and relatives. If you choose to have a wife and children, you are required to be responsible for them. It is always looked at as irresponsibility if you have no responsibility towards a person other than yourself. You have simply avoided any kind of responsibility so you can be said to be irresponsible. Any woman who dates you is dating an irresponsible man because you have no intention of assuming any responsibility in her life. In contrast, you are being responsible for using protection so that you will not become a full blown irresponsible man. The only thing here is that you are still only being responsible to yourself. I would say at this point, you cannot be judged as an irresponsible man, but if you let yourself reach 50 before deciding to have kids, you can be said to have lived an irresponsible life. 3 Likes |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by Henri8: 12:39pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
yanabasee1:Does getting married qualify one as being a man? 1 Like |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by SEGLIZ: 12:39pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
Chuky7: you no well. those that said you are immature and irresponsible are right. you find it difficult putting up with an unknown girl but you can at random bed or sleep with unknown girls. what you don't know don't kill but what do know does kill. 3 Likes |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by litaninja(m): 12:40pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
You're talking in the nonsense. yanabasee1: |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by edoairways: 12:40pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
scrolldown88:Good point |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by ekevwe(m): 12:40pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
yanabasee1: What about first child that took responsibilities of younger ones? |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by mmsen: 12:43pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
michlins: You people always take the wrong message/course of action. The logical decision would be to take care of your health, first. Lower stress and desperation levels so that you live longer, invest in your personal well being. Not to start breeding earlier. Breeding earlier only means that they will end up with more children by the time that they die, we all know how much Africans detest contraceptives and family planning. |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by edoairways: 12:44pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
yanabasee1:You point is not valid. Have you for observed why many marriages are crashing? |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by Trustedpronet: 12:45pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
mmsen: What is detrimental decision about what I wrote oo.. |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by TOPCRUISE(m): 12:46pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
yanabasee1:I avoid people like you who thinks been a man is getting married. To you those that are not married are not men 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by TruthUntold: 12:47pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
You said it better!
Don't know why he's so worried.
RodgersAkpafu: |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by seyz91(m): 12:48pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
You're right! Peace of mind and freedom is priceless! Chuky7: |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by Krosslife(m): 12:48pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
Chuky7: It seems we are in need the same shoes. I'm the only boy out of the family of 5. My last sister is getting married next month and I don't even care cuz I don't think about it. Though not a play boy like you. Lolz! |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by Idzitari1(m): 12:49pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
Take ur time nd do ur thing don't let anyone push u into it before time |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by seyz91(m): 12:50pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
You are smart and very wise I like your assertions Don't mind the other guy spitting trash Marriage is never a measure of maturity or how responsible someone is I feel you bro! scrolldown88: |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by Imustnottalk: 12:51pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
If even if you can't marry now Sha give one Belle e get why |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by seyz91(m): 12:51pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
This is wrong on all levels Marriage is not and never a measure of maturity and responsibility! Marriage is merely a choice! Won't say more than that! yanabasee1: |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by KushLyon(m): 12:55pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
RodgersAkpafu:Na so e shock all of us...I'm still observing that comment in 3D and I can't find any angle |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by DeBuddingSummer: 12:56pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
Chuky7: Don't listen to anybody oo. Nigerian girls of nowadays are very useless. Peace of mind and Freedom is key here. They are pests and leeches oo. They bring nothing to the table aside that rotten crap in between their legs. FYI, am 35 and have no plans of marriage till 45. That time, I will be very rich and find a 20 year old and marry. Thats my plan oo. Don't be a retirement plan for these hopeless naija girls oo. But please stop sampling girls. Go after money and success. 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by 4good(m): 12:57pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
scrolldown88: Please are you married yet? 1 Like |
Re: Marrying Last As First Child by Nobody: 12:57pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
scrolldown88: So a man's wife and children are leeches because he takes responsibility for them? You're sick in the head. |
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