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How To Increase Intimacy In Marriages by blog4all(op): 5:11pm On Aug 10, 2021
HOW TO BOOST INTIMACY IN YOUR MARRIAGE

1. Know that intimacy is not just about having sexual intercourse but nurturing a warm, exclusive and strong connection between you two

2. Talk heart to heart. Talk about how you feel, how you are, notice each other's goodness. Talk more than just bills, the children and responsibilities

3. Maintain oral and body hygiene. Your spouse will struggle to get close to you when you smell

4. Make time to spend together. Intimacy is not rushed

5. When you two are far from each other, chat and talk warmly over the phone so that when you meet at home it is a continuation of the warmth

6. Kiss more than your spouse's lips. Kiss your spouse's forehead, cheeks, neck, fingers, arms, back, thighs... The skin has alot of room

7. Talk to each other with a tone that is not attacking, this will invite you both to each other's presence

8. Laugh together. Humour makes two people bond easier

9. Eat together often. Food is a unifier

10. Make out often. Making out involves lengthy deep kissing, handling, cuddling, massaging

11. Ask each other leading questions. These are questions that will require conversations and not a yes or no answer. Questions such as "How is your dream coming along?", "How did you get this mark on your arm?", "What do you love about us?"

12. Complain less, appreciate more. It is difficult to enjoy the company of someone who is constantly negative

13. Pray more as a couple. Prayers brings you two closer

14. Do activities together. Find something you both can do together such as cooking, playing a game, watching a movie, dancing; love is built on activity

15. Dress in a manner that excites and pulls your spouse to you. Confidently look appealing

16. Give each other eye contact more so that you focus on each other. Tame your phone, TV and gadget use

God bless every home

Re: How To Increase Intimacy In Marriages by BirtherOfKings(f): 5:13pm On Aug 10, 2021
grin grin
Get my book and boost that marriage
If ur woman cheat on u,.it's ur fault
Re: How To Increase Intimacy In Marriages by Built2last: 5:14pm On Aug 10, 2021
profound
Re: How To Increase Intimacy In Marriages by iLegendd(m): 5:14pm On Aug 10, 2021
What is "intimacy?" I have never heard that word before. Is that another name for people that supply agbada to Hushpuppy?
Re: How To Increase Intimacy In Marriages by id4sho(m): 5:15pm On Aug 10, 2021
sad

Re: How To Increase Intimacy In Marriages by LakjumConsults: 5:15pm On Aug 10, 2021
Ok na...is reading book enough?
Re: How To Increase Intimacy In Marriages by KillIgbohoN0W: 5:15pm On Aug 10, 2021
No matter what you do, you can never satisfy Afonja women. They can cheat for Africa
Re: How To Increase Intimacy In Marriages by AntiChristian:
lipsrsealed
Allah says:
..And live with them honourably..
Qur'an 4:19.

Lovely points!
Re: How To Increase Intimacy In Marriages by Brokeronline: 5:15pm On Aug 10, 2021
Sex is good but it should be practice among married couple...

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Re: How To Increase Intimacy In Marriages by paulolee(m): 5:15pm On Aug 10, 2021
make I bookmark n send this page give my padi olu Chelsea, married for just 2 years n e say him don tire for knacks with d same banny wey e dey carry for head say her backie too biiig..
him de talk to me about having sidechick BT I de preach about am n go Gv am this tips If it would help boost their knacking tinz..
him de always tell me say na after him wife born twins naim knacking turn to house chores for am, azin him jus de do am to make the wife happy because dt fire wey e bin dey enjoy don off since
I just know say na excuse to use cheat na him de try lay down with those cappings..
Re: How To Increase Intimacy In Marriages by Realmi: 5:16pm On Aug 10, 2021
Change location


Too much of bedroom sex is boring
Re: How To Increase Intimacy In Marriages by filleSouriante(f): 5:16pm On Aug 10, 2021
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Re: How To Increase Intimacy In Marriages by HEBEI: 5:16pm On Aug 10, 2021
huh
Re: How To Increase Intimacy In Marriages by OVA200(m):
Marriage is just too difficult to understand because their is no accurate manual to what works in marriage.

You have to study every situation and apply sense and hope it works.

But everything is mainly simplify by marrying a good compatible partner.
Re: How To Increase Intimacy In Marriages by perryy(m): 5:16pm On Aug 10, 2021
In this Buhari regime?
Re: How To Increase Intimacy In Marriages by GboyegaD(m): 5:17pm On Aug 10, 2021
Sounds interesting.
Re: How To Increase Intimacy In Marriages by LakjumConsults: 5:17pm On Aug 10, 2021
22-1...no sex?
Re: How To Increase Intimacy In Marriages by Flyingngel(m): 5:17pm On Aug 10, 2021
What of strength that will be use to actualise all this points? Do what ever works in your marriage.
Re: How To Increase Intimacy In Marriages by DrTee1(m): 5:17pm On Aug 10, 2021
If more married women read this and work hard at it, many marriages would survive better.

The soul of any marriage is usually about a full stomach and an empty scrotum. An unhappy man wouldn't discharge his scrotal content at home - and all men need to do that regularly.

It is what leads to the Chidinma Ojukwus of this world, you know.

Men have their own problems, but it can be easily avoided by marrying good men for character rather than money. Women own the marriage - and the home.
Re: How To Increase Intimacy In Marriages by abbaapple: 5:18pm On Aug 10, 2021
angry



Marriagehuh

Re: How To Increase Intimacy In Marriages by Munzy14(m): 5:19pm On Aug 10, 2021
blog4all:
HOW TO BOOST INTIMACY IN YOUR MARRIAGE

1. Know that intimacy is not just about having sexual intercourse but nurturing a warm, exclusive and strong connection between you two

2. Talk heart to heart. Talk about how you feel, how you are, notice each other's goodness. Talk more than just bills, the children and responsibilities

3. Maintain oral and body hygiene. Your spouse will struggle to get close to you when you smell

4. Make time to spend together. Intimacy is not rushed

5. When you two are far from each other, chat and talk warmly over the phone so that when you meet at home it is a continuation of the warmth

6. Kiss more than your spouse's lips. Kiss your spouse's forehead, cheeks, neck, fingers, arms, back, thighs... The skin has alot of room

7. Talk to each other with a tone that is not attacking, this will invite you both to each other's presence

8. Laugh together. Humour makes two people bond easier

9. Eat together often. Food is a unifier

10. Make out often. Making out involves lengthy deep kissing, handling, cuddling, massaging

11. Ask each other leading questions. These are questions that will require conversations and not a yes or no answer. Questions such as "How is your dream coming along?", "How did you get this mark on your arm?", "What do you love about us?"

12. Complain less, appreciate more. It is difficult to enjoy the company of someone who is constantly negative

13. Pray more as a couple. Prayers brings you two closer

14. Do activities together. Find something you both can do together such as cooking, playing a game, watching a movie, dancing; love is built on activity

15. Dress in a manner that excites and pulls your spouse to you. Confidently look appealing

16. Give each other eye contact more so that you focus on each other. Tame your phone, TV and gadget use

God bless every home
Oooh!!!!
Love nwanti nti...

OP you forget to add, make sure you both earn..The monthly alert is enough to arouse all arousal for both parties involved...cheesy

Re: How To Increase Intimacy In Marriages by TempUser: 5:19pm On Aug 10, 2021
wink
@OP, Waa shere cool

Re: How To Increase Intimacy In Marriages by Guyman02: 5:19pm On Aug 10, 2021
Abeg, I don taya for motivational talks
Re: How To Increase Intimacy In Marriages by kimacent(m): 5:20pm On Aug 10, 2021
When there are bills to pay also you guys shld pay together. [color=#006600][/color]
Re: How To Increase Intimacy In Marriages by bigdammyj: 5:20pm On Aug 10, 2021
Noted
Re: How To Increase Intimacy In Marriages by Nobody:
nice write up...
Re: How To Increase Intimacy In Marriages by seanery: 5:22pm On Aug 10, 2021
NA THIS PART GO HARD ME SMALL
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13. Pray more as a couple. Prayers brings you two closer
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