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Peaceyw:
The redpill requires sacrifice, you have to be ready to lose the comforts afforded to you by gynocentrism. Redpill makes you realise how much you were suffering and also you realise what you were enjoying before. The redpill is another round of suffering if you understand.

dontai: dont listen to what he said about masturbation

if the red pill preaches self development above all else, then surely it is against masturbation

Some cool anecdotal facts about masturbation:

1. It destroys your self esteem

2. It reinforces the scarcity mentality albeit sublimely. If you could bed the woman you desire, would u masturbate?

3. It destroys your looks

4. It weakens your immune system such that you are unable to tide over illnesses and adverse life events. All roads lead to depression here

5. It dulls your spirit self and makes you extremely lethargic

6. Gradually, you will be unable to maintain a rock hard erection with a lady but fully erect when masturbating. All roads lead to eventual and certain erectile dysfunction.

7. It depletes your testosterone. Isnt this what makes a man a man? Without testosterone, what is left of a man? People take drugs to get testosterone and you want to willingly deplete yours?

8. Eventually, your self esteem will be eroded and you will question everything about yourself ranging from your looks, intelligence, self worth etc.

9. Masturbation is the opposite of testosterone. Everything you are able to achieve with testosterone, Masturbation will rob you of it

10. It leads to neurotic disorder

11. It brings bad luck. According to Napoleon Hill, Elon Musk and many other great men, the more Hot you are, the more magnetic your being and personality becomes. You will easily attract people and what you desire this way

12. One of the key components of the semen is zinc. Masturbation will erode your body zinc. Google up all the uses of zinc and know that the exact opposite of those benefits are what shall become your fate

13. Dont believe me but do me a favour. Research other platforms such as reddit, NL, etc and see what people who are able to control their urges and stay away from sex for even as much as 2 weeks experience. Maybe we are all lying but then to what end?

The guy go break ozo record o

Think4Myself:
https://www.nairaland.com/6696667/bbnaija-pere-bigger-simp-than

MALIGNANTGuest:
I reside & work abroad and I'm stating facts here.
CUOMO, the Governor of New York just resigned not because he raped a woman but because they ganged up against him.
He has penchant for Italian way of greeting.
We have many Italians in New York.
Now they used same thing against him.
This is what he has done for years.

MEN avoid women like Leprosy now in the US and Europe. And it's helping the men to manage dia attractiveness towards these ladies too.
Most Men who think they can't live without SEX are now growing from strength 2 strength without sex

Andremalan731:
D
Strong head. Una no dey listen. You asked for Ubunja's advice yet you didn't listen. Why then did you ask him? I have been saying it, most times when people seek advice, they don't want it. They just want you to validate and rationalise the decision they want to make. The pusśy power and love bombing really got you.

No one is perfect. We all make mistakes. Go and simp no more.


Bro
It was a terrible experience
The funny thing is deep down I know what Ubunja told me is the right thing to do, I was even arguing with him, I told him she swore with the Bible already.
He said and I quote “The Bible swearing hold no water” but unfortunately I didn’t listen to him.



Marto Marto ..... I think he can give one more chance.
Who knows, maybe she will change. Lol


Another chance
It’s not going to happen not in this life, not in the next one... I don learn my lesson the hard way
I will never give anybody male or female second chance again
Once I see red flag I move



My brother welcome welcome
We've all been there my gee
Your serious girlfriend na another person hoe
Once your girl gains admission.... Forget it
The minute you sense your lady withdrawing her love and affection that instant, is when you go commando!

Btw what kind of WhatsApp did you use in cloning

Bro
Go to WhatsAppweb.com on chrome
You will see a barcode
After that get the phone you want to hack
Go to WhatsApp on the phone
Click link the device
It will tell you to scan
So you will scan the barcode on the WhatsApp web
That’s it
You will be able to read the chats anytime he or she is online

Junnior:
Just look at all these morally righteous redpillers

What's all these? Look at them whining and getting all emotional

How come you guys are quick to castigate the guy? Did he rap€ her? He is a side nigga. Obviously, they both knew they weren't anything serious because she had a main boyfriend. So, why is she trying to keep the baby and pin it on him (the side nigga)? It's either she was careless or she knows what she is doing. The truth is it's most likely the latter. The main boyfriend might no longer be showing much interest again and she then decided to pin down the side nigga. Just because it's gonna be his child doesn't mean he should succumb to her manipulations. He already fell for her trick though by going in raw. But that he decides not to take responsibility for the pregnancy doesn't make him anti-redpill. It makes him a bad person. Yes. But the red pill is amoral. It is selfish. It is putting yourself first, even before your unborn child. . This is the bitter truth most of us cannot stomach. If taking responsibility for the child is gonna hinder his progress, as far as the redpill is concerned, it is okay for him to avoid the responsibility (if he actually can). He would be a terrible person though, according to society.

If indeed she's already conned him into getting her pregnant, he isn't obligated to be manipulated further by her in the guise of taking responsibility for the pregnancy. They both knew it was a game -- a risky one. She should be ready to take responsibility for her decisions. She currently has the upper hand though. And the game is still on.

Peaceyw:
According to the redpill, the guy isn't wrong and he isn't right. Redpill says; put yourself first. And this thread is "Strictly Redpill' according to The title. People who are insulting him are not sticking to the context of the thread. If they want to reprimand him, they should do it on where it is accepted and not troll on this thread. The guy can do whatever he wants with the redpill. Imagine shouting redpill is amoral and preaching morality on a " strictly redpill" thread.
What a Shame.

Nezzjnr:
Calling out the Dude and the Girl is now Trolling??

I'll never feel at rest knowing that someone else is Fathering my Child..... Worst of it all is seeing him Grow... I'll never take that... God Forbid!!!

If one can't take care of his child... There's something called protection and abstinence

FORWARDEVERLY:
I ain't darkceaser and would never be..

As for what you wrote.. there is a twist.. many people are comfortable with others raising thier child/children, Don't force others to accept your own ideas.. leave other people to their own thoughts and Fate..

We do see young girls abandon their babies by the roadside or bush just after giving birth and move on with life... What you tag being responsible or responsibility might differ for the next man..

Y'all should let the dude be.. .
His life his choice..
Know that.. to each their own..
Simple..

Skepticus:
Facts man! RESPECT

I'll give my opinion on the DarkCaesar story and the response that followed.

The whole issue just proved a thing that the Red Pill reveals that men are the better MORAL animal when compared with women. I expected the harsh reactions to the DarkCaesar's story and I appreciate him for taking the "risk" to share it. In my opinion, I think MJBOLT and a few others who were critical of DarkCaesar's actions were borne out of men checking each other for RESPONSIBILITY (a trait typically associated with men) were a man calls out a fellow man who doesn't want to own up his actions or consequences of his actions. For those who criticised his actions based on morality, they missed it because the woman who chose him to have sex never did it on moral standards.

What I noticed was that, no one ever mentioned the part the lady shares in the same responsibility and that, as a woman, she has more of the responsibility being the gender that holds the key to sex and reproduction. You, Junnior and SkyFlint were the ones who figured it out.

Since we are talking "morality" now which is not a theme of the red pill, no one all talked about the "amoral" behaviour of the woman planning to dump her seed on another man which women are known to do all the time (with Nigerian women topping the list for cuckoldry and promiscuity is some stats). Or trying to birth the child of a man who clearly states that he has no power for responsibility, against his wishes. One of those who criticized DarkCaesar once shared a story of him faking a call of him expecting money, which deceived a girl into letting him have sex with her. The old blue-pill in me, would have jumped to criticize him as amoral for lying to a girl but knowing that the girl was equally aiming for his "bag" while equally enjoying the sex for free, I saw it as a fair game of manipulation in which women do daily to men.

DarkCaesar, don't expect all men to give you a pat on the back for not taking care of your seed. It's responsibility and as far as the red pill is concerned for men, it trumps morality. If she had the baby against your wish, then, it is not your problem to worry about.

That said, there would always be men (regardless of race, looks, economic status etc) who would spread their seed around knowingly or unknowingly and not taking responsibility for it. The bigger fact is that women are the ones choosing these men based on whatever criteria they hold as their hypergamic standards.

For those who have swallowed the red pill deeply, your concern is not to be the guy who is manipulated/bullied into taking care of the trash of another man in the AMORAL game of the dual mating strategy that women of all race/background etc, play everyday.

Also, women are known to spin pity stories to gain empathy when they have babies for men who won't commit. When faced with such pity stories, find out if the man involved approved of her birthing his child. Some women trap men with babies against their wishes.

RAGGA40:
my guy women don use u catch cruise shhhh it is well, we all are learning

Andremalan731:
Hello guys
I created this account today to share my story with you guys
I will try as much as possible to summarize it
I have been a silent reader of the redpill threads on this forum for about 2 years.
Please pardon my typo
I met this girl Jan 2019 and as at that time I have never been in any relationship even though I was not a virgin throughout my school days Bsc Nysc MSc I never had a girlfriend not because I don’t want to but the opportunity didn’t come.

When I met this girl she ticked all the boxes of how I want my woman to be... fair, not too tall, not too short , wide ass, round tits and I was like enough of admiring girls from afar, I will try my luck with this one. I got her number and we started chatting on WhatsApp, I told her I like her and I want her to be my girlfriend and she agreed.
We started dating and for the first time in my life I was getting regular sex
This girl was just so good to be true, very beautiful, always ready to have sex, she won’t even ask for money from me , she calls me like every 1 or 2 hours just to hear my voice , she will cook and bring it to my house , she calls every morning to pray for me, she send me love messages almost everyday, always begging me not to break her heart , she was even planning our future how many kids we will have etc

For the very first time in my life, I fell in in love... I was so addicted to her company that she became my only source of happiness.
I don’t watch or play football anymore, I stopped reading , stopped watching documentaries, stop watching series, I even cut contacts with my friends... foolish me I was so in love with her

This went on for about four months, during the fifth month she started withdrawing all her love and attention, she stopped calling every morning, she stopped picking calls until I call for about three times sometimes even more.
The more she was withdrawing the more I was chasing her so i started spending, she sent a message to me that she want us stop having sex
I started sending love messages, I did a lot of things to make her fall In love with me again but it just won’t work.
She finally told me she was no longer interested in the relationship on the sixth month.
I was heartbroken, she was my only source of happiness
I was not interested in anything but her
It was a really though month for me , what did I do where did I get it wrong I kept asking myself
I started searching online for how to forget about a girl you really love and that was how I found ubunja..
After a month she messaged me and we started talking again, I was still in love I told her i want her back and she agreed.
I was happy again, she came to my house few days after, we had sex and she slept off, that was when I decided to check her phone for the very first time
Lo and behold I saw things that made me cry.
In just one month she was already having sex with 3 people YES 3!!!
A new guys she just met, her ex and her boss who she just aborted for .
I couldn’t believe my eyes, it was like dagger was cutting through me.
I woke her up , showed her all what I saw and she started begging and crying, girl that has been doing a lot of shakara changed immediately.
She begged and begged , she was crying like a baby asking me to forgive her and give her another chance
She swore with the bible in front of me that if I give her this one last chance she will never disappoint
Apparently a part of me was still in love with her so I forgave her and just like that she became very loving and caring again but the flashes of what I saw keep coming back so I got ubunja WhatsApp number and I messaged him, I told him everything and he told me to be strong and let the girl go, he said once a bitch is always a bitch.

I didn’t listen to him I was still in love with her because this time around the love and care she was showing me was double to cut the story short, she got admitted to a university and she went to school Jan 2020 but before she left for school I scanned her WhatsApp barcode and I was reading her chats and just few months after getting to school this girl changed again she traveled to see another ex and they had sex.

I couldn’t believe my eyes, a girl who swore with the Bible??
I screenshot the chat and sent it to her
She started begging and crying again
She cried and begged and swore with her life her future and everything.
The funny thing is I was still in love with her
Foolish me gave her the last chance
To cut the story short after some months she started misbehaving again
Please note i have invested a lot in the relationship
She started misbehaving and she was ignoring me
I cried again.
A girl I forgave twice for cheating is ignoring me ??
Unbelievable
After 2 months she called me and started accusing me of abandoning her
She said she want us to meet that she miss me
I told her I will come and visit her in school
I got to her house in school
We talked, she cooked and we had sex again
She slept and I checked her phone
Guys in just 2 months this girl has changed boyfriend 3 times and even had sex with a guy she just me the very same week we stopped talking .

Guys for the first time in my life I raised my hand on a woman
I slapped her like 10 times
I had to control myself so that I won’t do what I will
Regret

I left her house immediately and she started begging and crying again.
I blocked her all her numbers, blocked her WhatsApp number too, I blocked her telegram, Facebook, Instagram.
In short I blocked her every where.

I wish I listen to Ubunja
I really really regret it

Redpill is the way guys , never fall in love with any girl, you cannot change a damaged girl, never give a hoe another chance, focus on yourself.

Peaceyw:
Either in the form of you being lonely, loss of familial love, seeing everything as fake,

SkyFlint:
Recent posts on this thread show that most people are unwilling, and perhaps unable, to learn.

Someone on this thread was generous enough to recommend a great book - Sperm Wars. The book is a comprehensive manual on sex, sexual habits and sexual strategies.

That book especially gives invaluable insights into sexual strategies. All men should read and comprehend it.

Now, a guy on this thread posted a string of messages where he boldly told a woman how he wasn't ready to be a father yet...

And almost everyone came for his head. Funniest of all, some people dubbed him a "simp." Others claimed he's not a "true alpha male" and others said "that's not what red pill is about."

They are all full of sh1t.

First of all, if there's anything that the TRP is unequivocal about, it's PUTTING YOURSELF FIRST. In fact, that's the first few lessons you learn when you come in contact with TRP.

Now here's a man doing exactly that and he's being vilified. All because he's somehow violating the moral principles of some people. Moral principles that were painstakingly sculpted by a gynocentric society, I might add.

These outcries are vestiges of ingrained blue pill conditioning sealed deep where even daily exposure to TRP is yet to exorcise them.

The guy claims he's not ready yet and he's called irresponsible for his decision. Meanwhile, the lady in question seems to have a "serious BF" somewhere else while still fxcking another man raw.

Plus, abortion is ALWAYS an option. Especially when the pregnancy results from casual sex. Religion is obviously NOT an excuse here since the girl is already fxcking outside marriage and possibly double dating.

So if she's keeping it, she'd better take responsibility for the baby.

By the way, women are not called "Gatekeepers of Sex" for no reason. They are the Gatekeepers because they decide whether sex is going to happen or not.

If they decide whether sex is going to happen or not; they automatically decide whether baby is going to follow or not. If they decide that a baby will follow, then it is expected that they have a way to cater for the baby already.

Women as the Gatekeepers have to take responsibility for the offspring that results from a sexual congress they authorized.

Responsibility for offsprings is NOT a man's duty, it's a woman's. Marriage conveniently turns the equation on its head. But marriage is not an evolved phenomenon, it's conditioned by society.

Women, of course, are aware of this reality - that responsibility for the offsprings rests on them. That's why female sexual strategy are so BRUTAL and UNFORGIVING.

They are very quick to get hitched to a beta PROVIDER that guarantees provisioning that'll give their offsprings the best chance of survival. They'd also never hesitate to fxck an ALPHA who'll provide the best genes that also improve the survival chances of their offsprings.

The strategy emanates from a deep-seated understanding that responsibility for offsprings rests on them.

This is an unbelievably effective strategy.

Women are confident that the beta PROVIDER will raise the offsprings whether they are his or not because he's a GOOD DOG of the society. Thus, he does what the society tells him to do. But the Alpha, not so much.

Now, I'm not saying that ALL fathers are betas. All I'm saying is that no one should EVER blame a man who makes it clear that he's not ready to raise a kid.

By the way, there are undeniable genetic benefits to impregnating ladies and letting betas raise them. But they'll not be coming from me.

Read SPERM WARS.

That said, whenever someone says:

"A true redpiller..."
"A real Alpha Male..."

Remember this age-old line:

"A real man..."

And tell them to SHOVE IT!

Let no one define what Alpha Male, Masculinity or being RedPilled means.
Define it for yourself. That's the whole point for being unplugged from the Matrix.

To think for yourself. With your own brain.

If you must follow any definition of what Alpha Male, Masculinity or being RedPilled means, leth this be it:

To thine own self, BE TRUE.

FORWARDEVERLY:
Respect to you brother..

All I saw here was Wailings from some peeps..

The Redpill is Amoral.. it is not a moral code for anyone..

They are blaming the dude and forgot that the lady wants to keep the baby against his wish, so should he kill her for going against his wish or simply let her be to cater for it and look for a simp that would play the father figure for the child willingly.. which is what she is wants to do and not even complaining.. but some dudes here are complaining on her behalf..
People should stop judging others from their moral compass.. if the dude is wrong on his decisions, it should be the court that would address that not some moral police here..

Nezzjnr:
There you guys go again... How are we exonerating the dumb bitch too .

An Alpha Male should own up to his responsibilities... If you aren't ready to Take care of a child... Then get protection.... Tuface that has countless children from multiple women is still taking care of them.

Our society is already filled up with dysfunctional kids!!!!!!

Martinez39s:
^^^^


Strong head. Una no dey listen. You asked for Ubunja's advice yet you didn't listen. Why then did you ask him? I have been saying it, most times when people seek advice, they don't want it. They just want you to validate and rationalise the decision they want to make. The pusśy power and love bombing really got you.

No one is perfect. We all make mistakes. Go and simp no more.

Zabiboy:
I stopped reading when he said "She got admission"
I'm not against marriage or relationships o.. But man, go and see what your current gf's or future wives are doing in universities, lets not even talk of nysc camp or the outside world ( parties,strip club, bars, hotels e.t.c)
Anytime i see marriage posters or someone tells me he's in a relationship, i just laugh unconsciously

Jessepaid:
By suffering do you mean why most women these days just look unattractive to me?

And why I can't help myself evaluating every woman I see

No wonder they say if you love women don't understand them...


If you understand them, you can't love them..


Yh.. m feeling it

Hypocrisy:
You can't be having unprotected sex with random girls and claim to be putting yourself first.

DarkCaesar:
You've always got this soft sweet simping side of you, forget about me being responsible or not……I have always been my own man

Peaceyw:
I don't even try hard to talk to women anymore , I just say what it on my mind as long as I am not making more enemies. Then all is good to me.

DarkCaesar:
You've always got this soft sweet simping side of you, forget about me being responsible or not……I have always been my own man

Peaceyw:
Brutality

Martinez39s:
Someone should verify if this is legit

https://www.nairaland.com/6696587/mtn-take-80-women-20