U have a gud brain like a graduate 4rm a gud school. U nailed it.

It’s like CEO and CFO. The CFO is the person who does the finances, and advises the CEO on budgets, expenditure and income. But the CEO is empowered and trusted to make decisions for the company. In the home, the man is the CEO while the wife is the CFO. If you don’t think your man should lead your family, don’t marry him, stay single or find someone else. You stifle the man’s ability t

Insulting people's religion and culture to push the Narratives of Progress and enlightenment or seeking justice via an Egalitarianistic-Equalism ideology of Feminism that makes use of post-mordernism to construct it's dogma as a new belief system

I want proof from a study, not a banner from a women hating incel group online. I want a study published on a reputable academic journal, not one from a fake Nigerian pastor etc.

JESHAL:




You want statistics here they are as the meme above summarizes the various detriments of mordern Feminism, the studies and data are scattered all around the internet and they are sound proof

Demonizing and gaslighting people who don't subscribe to Egalitarianistic-Equalism ideology via Feminism that disguises itself as an enlightenment ideology that seeks to stop social Injustices but rather it's a post-mordernism dogma of Progressivism religion that sees itself as advanced

BRATISLAVA:


You still sound incredibly stupid. How do you manage to do it?

Renew your mind and stop hallucinating.

Some grew up in palaces with great networks and supposedly good women in their lives, yet they are as backward as the ghetto when it comes to human rights and equality. What a joke.

An insult isn't a sign of intelligence, the joke is on you.

You can say, according to so and so report compiled by so and so, we can see that 80 percent of women are physically assaulted, 40 percent are this and that for clarity..

Yes , it's better to be backwards than forward thinking when dealing with reprobates, I'll rather fight for true human rights than waste time on entitled cry babies.

Thing's that matter in my world..
Productivity, family stability, community, children's safety, lifting people out of poverty etc not useless woke grifters.

Adios

JosephXavier:
OP I don't know how you managed to think through this sh*t and was convinced enough to bring this online

I read just two paragraphs and I went back to check the gender and was surprised to see that it was from a male Nairalander, perhaps you might even be a simp

How will say that before a woman is born that she already faces discrimination

First of all, check the chances of getting a job after going to school and you'll see that women are more favoured

In an average Nigerian home, you'll see brothers working to earn a living decently but their sisters who might be earning less have more material things to show and flaunt as if they even earn higher than their brother. Now tell me how they're disadvantaged

You pick a quarrel with woman, whether you're right or wrong, the next thing you'll hear is "don't you know she's a woman? "

How many women are suffering from police brutality

this one touch me. Females r often given soft landing!

socialmediaman:
Feminism is misunderstood by many Nigerian women who advocate for it. I also do not agree with certain parts of feminism, especially the ones that advocate for equality of leadership in the household. I will get back to feminism in a moment, let me address something in the next 2 paragraphs.

Our parents understood there is something called role play in the house. The man is the head of household whether he makes less income or not. The decisions should be made by him after due consideration with the wife, but that responsibility should be left to him for the good of the home.

It’s like CEO and CFO. The CFO is the person who does the finances, and advises the CEO on budgets, expenditure and income. But the CEO is empowered and trusted to make decisions for the company. In the home, the man is the CEO while the wife is the CFO. If you don’t think your man should lead your family, don’t marry him, stay single or find someone else. You stifle the man’s ability to lead when you continue to contest leadership of the home with him. Many of us make more money than our parents yet we allow them to lead and make decisions, but in the home we want to lead our husbands.

Back to the topic of feminism. When it comes to equal pay, right to inheritance, right to vote, right to lead in organizations, right to be respected as humans, right of social association, I think many men already subscribe to feminism, though many Nigerian men struggle with that. Women should be able to have nights out with their friends and colleagues, belong to social and political groups etc but you see those household chores like doing dishes and laundry, vacuuming, cleaning and making food available? It’s her job, just like most men do the trash, wash the car, do the yard work and also help out sometimes

Anyway, feminism is about being treated fairly though the advocates almost always want to go beyond what it is, which is why many men oppose it. It’s a game, feminism will likely never be accepted by men because it threatens their role in the society and they not it’s not not just about equity, it’s something more. Nigerian feminism is worse, it’s about challenging gender roles on a platter of entitlement which is why it may never succeed.

the husband is NOT the head of the home . A hone is an EQUAL partnership between husband and wife .

urchcoded:
your point being?

If we are following our feelings of superiority to be what nature demands, we would be right to accept the slavery of blacks and the supremacy of the white man. They believed it is nature for them to be above blacks and rule them. They graciously came to Africa to make sure of it and get manpower to do wonders. If we follow the Bible on such things, they have a right and reason to. And they have proved it was divinely mandated by the extent to which they have singlehandedly developed the world for all humanity. They are truly the lords of this planet.

Righteousness2:
The Word of GOD has everything humanity needs.
Sexism is Wickedness , Feminism is rebellion. They are both evils. They are not acts we should be comparing. It's like Comparing yahoo yahoo and Rituals, which one is this or that?

What we should be after in the Home is LOVE and SUBMISSION. These are 2 Major Indices the Institutor of the Marriage Institution gave to us.

Any other thing, no matter how Modified is Pure Rebellion against GOD'S Order.

We should strive to Live as our Maker, GOD Almighty asked us to not striving for Contention.

First time i will agree with you.��

neyoohhh:


An insult isn't a sign of intelligence, the joke is on you.

You can say, according to so and so report compiled by so and so, we can see that 80 percent of women are physically assaulted, 40 percent are this and that for clarity..

Yes , it's better to be backwards than forward thinking when dealing with reprobates, I'll rather fight for true human rights than waste time on entitled cry babies.

Thing's that matter in my world..
Productivity, family stability, community, children's safety, lifting people out of poverty etc not useless woke grifters.

Adios

You still sound uselessly stupid.

Go back to your sand castle, assumer.

Adieu.

BRATISLAVA:


You still sound stupid.

Go back to your sand castle. You still assume a lot.

Adieu.

Not an argument.

All the best.

Men are stronger and smarter.
Women are emotional and caring.
God knows the reason why he created the world this way
Everyone has a role to play.
But in the modern world, a man is expected to wash dishes, cook but u will rarely hear that a woman should wash the car or cut grass.
So much is expected from Males, So little from females
So little is given to males, So much to females .
Men are endangered species??

neyoohhh:


Not an argument.

All the best.

Assumer, FC.

K.

JESHAL:



Fell as a result of a decietful woman who was pedestalized and wanted to be like God

A deceived woman and a disobedient man.

Adam had the right to reject the apple you know.

BRATISLAVA:


If we are following our feelings of superiority to be what nature demands, we would be right to accept the slavery of blacks and the supremacy of the white man. They believed it is nature for them to be above blacks and rule them. They graciously came to Africa to make sure of it and get manpower to do wonders. If we follow the Bible on such things, they have a right and reason to. And they have proved it was divinely mandated by the extent to which they have singlehandedly developed the world for all humanity. They are truly the lords of this planet.

where did Mention anything about "sense of superiority"? I don't think I did. I'm not a bible follower either. I'm not even religious anymore.

DEMZEE:


Nature, God....

Same God that created Adam & Eve?

Not Adam & Eves?

It is part of the consequences of the fall of man.

And either men or women can be promiscuous.

Afterall, Durex calls Nigerian women are amongst the most promiscuous women in the world.

That alone blows your theory out of water.

NwadykExcel:


This feels true.
In the Catholic Church,women can't perform mass.
It'd be nice to know why.

Because Jesus selected 12 inner circles, board of trustees, and none is a woman.

Boat of the are worse

jy2kbeyond:
Oga wake up. The table has turned and that Sexism and Feminism is a big tool that modern women are now using to dominate the world.

Modern men are down the food chain. Even animals have more rights than men nowadays. In Europe and America for example, the heirarchy from top to bottom is:

Female-Trans-Homo-Dog-Men

Men are endangered my brother.

When I found this out it became obvious if certain feministic crave for domination

All I see is that they hate oppression but don’t mind being the oppressors... cz they never fought against this notion... they rather enjoy it

36STATES:
I want proof from a study, not a banner from a women hating incel group online. I want a study published on a reputable academic journal, not one from a fake Nigerian pastor etc.

Note before Feminism children out of wedlock was unpopular untill after where welfare systems was created to support them and it became norms
For single motherhood;
https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://singlemotherguide.com/single-mother-statistics/%23:~:text%3DAccording%2520to%25202020%2520U.S.%2520Census,were%2520headed%2520by%2520single%2520mothers.%26text%3DOf%2520all%2520single%252Dparent%2520families,were%2520born%2520to%2520unwed%2520mothers.&ved=2ahUKEwjT_4WB6bLyAhXkzoUKHalmBfwQFnoECAMQBQ&usg=AOvVaw0zVmoWHGqjgqVo86vLVHEj



For declining birth rates
https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/births.htm&ved=2ahUKEwjMpsXs6bLyAhXlzoUKHdDKAPwQFnoECCIQAQ&usg=AOvVaw0YVtXu3Tl8sHtdY6RHKMIG&cshid=1629023650174

For declining marital rates
https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.statista.com/statistics/195951/marriage-rate-in-the-united-states-since-1990/%23:~:text%3DUSA%2520%252D%2520Marriage%2520rate%25201990%252D2019%26text%3DIn%25202019%252C%2520the%2520marriage%2520rate,9.8%2520marriages%2520per%25201%252C000%2520people.&ved=2ahUKEwjatIei6rLyAhVKqxoKHUrEAT8QFnoECAMQBQ&usg=AOvVaw1pdY6O3omhWOsSlcaoQ7uh



For divorce rates at 50% and 70% initiated by women

https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.wf-lawyers.com/divorce-statistics-and-facts/%23:~:text%3DAlmost%252050%2520percent%2520of%2520all,first%2520marriages%2520end%2520in%2520divorce.&ved=2ahUKEwjotZnT6rLyAhUxzIUKHVR2BSkQFnoECAMQBQ&usg=AOvVaw3GX_-x5kZaQ235KfWMfJYK&cshid=1629023842827


Abortion is legalized and babies killed everyday
Most Alimonies are paid from men to women
Most child support is paid from the man to the woman
Most women get full child custody

statistics and studies are undebatable and are facts , links scattered to see the reality of western civilization
We have affirmative actions and Quota policies for women also


Note; all these statistics are for western Societies that have fully embraced Feminism, and after all these data, you still see the relevance of Feminism, then I know you are ideologically bound to it's dogma rather than operating with objectivity in reality and want to follow the Narratives of Egalitarianistic-Equalism ideology seeking social justice via delusions like gender is a social construct

bukatyne:


Same God that created Adam & Eve?

Not Adam & Eves?

It is part of the consequences of the fall of man.

And either men or women can be promiscuous.

Afterall, Durex calls Nigerian women are amongst the most promiscuous women in the world.

That alone blows your theory out of water.

So many professors.
We will survive las las

TWLifestyle:
the husband is NOT the head of the home . A hone is an EQUAL partnership between husband and wife .

I didn't say a home was not an equal partnership. That's where many people get it wrong. A home is an equal partnership but someone has to be the leader. Google was owned 50% each by Larry Page and Sergey but someone has to be the CEO. Someone has to play that role. In the home, it's the husband's role, it's a God given role. That's why a woman should not marry someone who cannot play that role in her home.

bukatyne:


Same God that created Adam & Eve?

Not Adam & Eves?

It is part of the consequences of the fall of man.

And either men or women can be promiscuous.

Afterall, Durex calls Nigerian women are amongst the most promiscuous women in the world.

That alone blows your theory out of water.

Women are Hypergamous nature
Men are polygnous in nature


Very big differences

JESHAL:



Note before Feminism children out of wedlock was unpopular untill after where welfare systems was created to support them and it became norms
For single motherhood;
https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://singlemotherguide.com/single-mother-statistics/%23:~:text%3DAccording%2520to%25202020%2520U.S.%2520Census,were%2520headed%2520by%2520single%2520mothers.%26text%3DOf%2520all%2520single%252Dparent%2520families,were%2520born%2520to%2520unwed%2520mothers.&ved=2ahUKEwjT_4WB6bLyAhXkzoUKHalmBfwQFnoECAMQBQ&usg=AOvVaw0zVmoWHGqjgqVo86vLVHEj



For declining birth rates
https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/births.htm&ved=2ahUKEwjMpsXs6bLyAhXlzoUKHdDKAPwQFnoECCIQAQ&usg=AOvVaw0YVtXu3Tl8sHtdY6RHKMIG&cshid=1629023650174

For declining marital rates
https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.statista.com/statistics/195951/marriage-rate-in-the-united-states-since-1990/%23:~:text%3DUSA%2520%252D%2520Marriage%2520rate%25201990%252D2019%26text%3DIn%25202019%252C%2520the%2520marriage%2520rate,9.8%2520marriages%2520per%25201%252C000%2520people.&ved=2ahUKEwjatIei6rLyAhVKqxoKHUrEAT8QFnoECAMQBQ&usg=AOvVaw1pdY6O3omhWOsSlcaoQ7uh



For divorce rates at 50% and 70% initiated by women

https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.wf-lawyers.com/divorce-statistics-and-facts/%23:~:text%3DAlmost%252050%2520percent%2520of%2520all,first%2520marriages%2520end%2520in%2520divorce.&ved=2ahUKEwjotZnT6rLyAhUxzIUKHVR2BSkQFnoECAMQBQ&usg=AOvVaw3GX_-x5kZaQ235KfWMfJYK&cshid=1629023842827


Abortion is legalized and babies killed everyday
Most Alimonies are paid from men to women
Most child support is paid from the man to the woman
Most women get full child custody

statistics and studies are undebatable and are facts , links scattered to see the reality of western civilization
We have affirmative actions and Quota policies for women also


Note; all these statistics are for western Societies that have fully embraced Feminism, and after all these data, you still see the relevance of Feminism, then I know you are ideologically bound to it's dogma rather than operating with objectivity in reality and want to follow the Narratives of Egalitarianistic-Equalism ideology seeking social justice via delusions like gender is a social construct

They'll ignore this.. feminism great in theory bad in practice.

All it does is encourage dysfunctionalities in women.

The best thing to do now is ignore, let them lobby with the policy makers, that's even if they have any objectives.

What happens next is obvious and already in motion given the liberties women already enjoy.

They simply turn into beast's, look at Nigeria, the glorification of thotery, baby mamas, nudity everywhere, yet this mofos will still rationalise it

Let the boat sink, sit back relax and enjoy the shit show.

bukatyne:


A deceived woman and a disobedient man.

Adam had the right to reject the apple you know.

They were both created equally remember, until God cursed women to be under men's authority

Don't seek plausible deniability, take responsibility for the mistake you made and bear the consequences of your actions

descarado:

So many professors.
We will survive las las

We will survive

queenblossom:
A woman is being raped and she is scared to speak up , because when she speak up,she will be blamed and the man will go free . I remember some years back when I was ganged raped, I couldn't open up to alter a word to anyone because in those days you there not say it. Not now that women are coming out to speak up . And now women are speaking up and they are still being condemned for speaking. And they say feminism is evil. You do not have the right to speak. And even some so called women of God ,still join the men to condemn us for speaking . We will fight this evil till we win the battle. Yes call it feminism, I don't care. The way of feminism has not even started and they are scared already. We are just in genesis now,by the time we get to malachi they will understand.

You make it sound like a fight & women have no voice. There has always been the talk of “believe a woman” cz people wanted to believe she’s always right. So some women weaponized this line of believe a woman and sought revenge on men by false allegations cz they would believe her without even hearing from the man at all. This in turn had a negative effect on the words of women as people now want evidence of abuse (as expected in the court of law).
I don’t see any reasonable human being who would hush a woman up whenever she’s molested or even ponder the thought of it happening to anyone around them.
In reality, every sane person is a feminist and would want their sister, mother or friend to have same chance as others. So I’m yet to see a law that condemns women from speaking or denies women any job or any choice of career or home they want to establish (single or married)
Life has changed already and any sane person would root for any woman or man doing great in what they do.
So I wonder what way of feminism you’re waiting for?

Kindly leave out the feminism of misandrists cz they are beyond help if they can hate and class all men as same with myopic mentality

Another issue is women who call themselves king... inadvertently saying that they are on a higher level and being a king is higher than a queen... thus bringing more prejudice to the voice of women who call themselves queens

JESHAL:



Note before Feminism children out of wedlock was unpopular untill after where welfare systems was created to support them and it became norms
For single motherhood;
https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://singlemotherguide.com/single-mother-statistics/%23:~:text%3DAccording%2520to%25202020%2520U.S.%2520Census,were%2520headed%2520by%2520single%2520mothers.%26text%3DOf%2520all%2520single%252Dparent%2520families,were%2520born%2520to%2520unwed%2520mothers.&ved=2ahUKEwjT_4WB6bLyAhXkzoUKHalmBfwQFnoECAMQBQ&usg=AOvVaw0zVmoWHGqjgqVo86vLVHEj



For declining birth rates
https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/births.htm&ved=2ahUKEwjMpsXs6bLyAhXlzoUKHdDKAPwQFnoECCIQAQ&usg=AOvVaw0YVtXu3Tl8sHtdY6RHKMIG&cshid=1629023650174

For declining marital rates
https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.statista.com/statistics/195951/marriage-rate-in-the-united-states-since-1990/%23:~:text%3DUSA%2520%252D%2520Marriage%2520rate%25201990%252D2019%26text%3DIn%25202019%252C%2520the%2520marriage%2520rate,9.8%2520marriages%2520per%25201%252C000%2520people.&ved=2ahUKEwjatIei6rLyAhVKqxoKHUrEAT8QFnoECAMQBQ&usg=AOvVaw1pdY6O3omhWOsSlcaoQ7uh



For divorce rates at 50% and 70% initiated by women

https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.wf-lawyers.com/divorce-statistics-and-facts/%23:~:text%3DAlmost%252050%2520percent%2520of%2520all,first%2520marriages%2520end%2520in%2520divorce.&ved=2ahUKEwjotZnT6rLyAhUxzIUKHVR2BSkQFnoECAMQBQ&usg=AOvVaw3GX_-x5kZaQ235KfWMfJYK&cshid=1629023842827


Abortion is legalized and babies killed everyday
Most Alimonies are paid from men to women
Most child support is paid from the man to the woman
Most women get full child custody

statistics and studies are undebatable and are facts , links scattered to see the reality of western civilization
We have affirmative actions and Quota policies for women also


Note; all these statistics are for western Societies that have fully embraced Feminism, and after all these data, you still see the relevance of Feminism, then I know you are ideologically bound to it's dogma rather than operating with objectivity in reality or you outri

So who told you feminists are responsible for single parenthood and not irresponsible men that want to keep sleeping around instead of sticking around to raise their kids.

Single motherhood is more prevalent among black people and that is why majority of inmates in prisons are black males. The reason these men became criminals is not because of feminism or single motherhood, they are adults with minds of their own.
Also, They are in a society that is heavily biased and racist against black people and police do not waste time to arrest black people for offences white people get pardoned for.

What about in Nigeria where males from the North turn out to be almajiri or bandits and they have a patriarchal system of polygamy in place there. Will it be sensible to blame patriarchy and polygamy for banditry and almajiri lifestyle?

Or Southern Nigeria where patriarchy is being practiced and there are few baby mamas but the males are yahoo boys and ritualists. Can we blame patriarchy for Internet fraud and ritual killing as well, like the way you blame feminism for criminal behaviour of males as if males are not naturally more violent and prone to criminality

36STATES:


Sometimes love mate! sometimes family pressure or even wrong judgement.

Play according to the rules of marriage if you want to be in one, if you want it to work. It's that simple.

JESHAL:



They were both created equally remember, until God cursed women to be under men's authority

Don't seek plausible deniability, take responsibility for the mistake you made and bear the consequences of your actions

I think you should take your own advice.

You stated the fall was a result of a deceitful woman who wanted to be like God.

And I corrected you that the woman was deceived and the man disobedient abi your Bible is different?

sirusX:


You make it sound like a fight & women have no voice. There has always been the talk of “believe a woman” cz people wanted to believe she’s always right. So some women weaponized this line of believe a woman and sought revenge on men by false allegations cz they would believe her without even hearing from the man at all. This in turn had a negative effect on the words of women as people now want evidence of abuse (as expected in the court of law).
I don’t see any reasonable human being who would hush a woman up whenever she’s molested or even ponder the thought of it happening to anyone around them.
In reality, every sane person is a feminist and would want their sister, mother or friend to have same chance as others. So I’m yet to see a law that condemns women from speaking or denies women any job or any choice of career.
Life has changed already and any sane person would root for any woman or man doing great in what they do.
So I wonder what way of feminism you’re waiting for?

Bro's, they are female supremacist seeking special victimhood status and privileges because of their gender, they want to demonize conventional Masculinity as primitive, oppressive and evil,and reform it to suit their ideological narratives



After all the right to vote, work, study, why does it still exist?

JESHAL:




Women are Hypergamous nature
Men are polygnous in nature


Very big differences

A woman has to be promiscuous to be hypergamous.

If she is with A and sees a better B, she has to leave A for B till she gets to Z.

I don't believe the hypergamous/polygamous nonsense anyways.

bukatyne:


I think you should take your own advice.

You stated the fall was a result of a deceitful woman who wanted to be like God.

And I corrected you that the woman was deceived and the man disobedient abi your Bible is different?

I take full responsibility but I'm saying in the garden of Eden they were both equals, if Adam was superior that nonsense probably would not have happened, regardless he chose to follow his wife and disobey, it's his fault