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Cowbell521:
This mumu dey praise himself like say he no go still call her before Sunday

Bro must you throw insult argue, advice and suggest you shouldn't start throwing insult on a person... It's illogical and fallacious grow up big man

Kobojunkie:
I can't speak of whether she does or not since the side i have read from is yours and not hers.

Love ìndeed has phases, yes, but throughout each phase, it maintains its integrity .I.e. when it is love. Recall you in your Op proclaimed that you wanted to focus on you and not anyone else? Unless what you intend to focus on is bigger and greater than the love itself, you would always find reason to include love in your plan.

it was never bigger than the love rather a minor adjustment and it wasn't really my fault cuz it was base on livelihood and survival... I was able to pure out my thought to her and explained things to her she agreed but it was very unfortunate she had to jump ship... She always pushed me to be the best of myself and left me along the journey...

Brunosamel:
it was never bigger than the love rather a minor adjustment and it wasn't really my fault cuz it was base on livelihood and survival... I was able to pure out my thought to her and explained things to her she agreed but it was very unfortunate she had to jump ship... She always pushed me to be the best of myself and left me along the journey...

Why then are you letting your ego make the decision for you?

Kobojunkie:
Why then are you letting your ego make the decision for you?

My ego was never the problem cuz I tried to sort things out and know her reason why she wants to quit she said i qoute "She doesn't feel love in the relationship anymore" I told her I will make it up to her but the later couldn't be better... I have been thinking where I got it all wrong but couldn't find any fault maybe she wanted more

Brunosamel:
My ego was never the problem cuz I tried to sort things out and know her reason why she wants to quit she said i qoute "She doesn't feel love in the relationship anymore" I told her I will make it up to her but the later couldn't be better... I have been thinking where I got it all wrong but couldn't find any fault maybe she wanted more

more what?

Kobojunkie:
more what?

more time, more attention, more physical contact, and my in&out and where about...
I only gave the best that I could give

Brunosamel:
Bro must you throw insult argue, advice and suggest you shouldn't start throwing insult on a person... It's illogical and fallacious grow up big man

Oya sorry

Brunosamel:
more time, more attention, more physical contact, and my in&out and where about

Ok, and you didn't have that to give her?
Well, you can't give what you don't have to give.

I took it from your Op that you put up an ego wall refusing to beg her back. But if that is not the case, then remind her that you are still waiting for her and go from there.
She may just need time to adjust her expectations.

Cowbell521:
Oya sorry

Apology Accepted

Kobojunkie:
Ok, and you didn't have that to give her?
Well, you can't give what you don't have to give.

exactly that was the main reason I had to focus more on myself maybe my future relationship wouldn't have to face the same faith like this one... It hurts badly cuz we had each other's back for 3 years anyway life goes on thanks for rolling with me and giving me a listening ear.. It's what I need the most from a total stranger

Brunosamel:
exactly that was the main reason I had to focus more on myself maybe my future relationship wouldn't have to face the same faith like this one... It hurts badly cuz we had each other's back for 3 years anyway life goes on thanks for rolling with me

I took it from your Op that you put up an ego wall refusing to beg her back. But if that is not the case, then remind her that you are still waiting for her and go from there.
She may just need time to adjust her expectations.

Kobojunkie:
I took it from your Op that you put up an ego wall refusing to beg her back. But if that is not the case, then remind her that you are still waiting for her and go from there.
She may just need time to adjust her expectations.

sure I will do that before I travel but if things goes south I guess I don't have to look back again

Brunosamel:
sure I will do that before I travel but if things goes south I guess I don't have to look back again

Love requires what you guys call faith.. so have faith.