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Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by mariahAngel(f): 8:07pm On Aug 18, 2021 |
Your story reminds me of the nairalander who celebrated his daughter’s 5th birthday on this platform. I pray you find and reunite with your father. 1 Like |
Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by VICTORCIZA(m): 8:07pm On Aug 18, 2021 |
Doradorwa:The reason she is policing you from moving around anytime you visit your mother's home is to prevent you for getting an information from any of her relative or she is simply bitter against them for the role they play in spoiling her marriage. try to get close to one of her family member and see if you can get a useful information from the person. I pray you don't discover something scary in your findings 1 Like |
Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by descarado: 8:09pm On Aug 18, 2021 |
Doradorwa: (She is actually trying hard for me to have a good life. Sometimes I believe she just want to have all the glory to herself) I will delete my other post Goodluck 2 Likes |
Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by Nobody: 8:12pm On Aug 18, 2021 |
VICTORCIZA:You are very close to the truth mam... I'm grateful for your words. 1 Like |
Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by Fountainofyouth(f): 8:21pm On Aug 18, 2021 |
Graxie: I think this has to be preached in every platform everyday, the earlier single mum's accept the fact that their kids will always look for the absentee father, the better. 5 Likes |
Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by OssyMalik: 9:19pm On Aug 18, 2021 |
You have to persuade your mother to connect you to your father. If she doesn’t want to, you can ask her friends or other members of the family secretly to help you out. It won’t be fair for you to be doing the search alone |
Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by signature2012(m): 9:25pm On Aug 18, 2021 |
@Graxie You are right and also wrong.Some men are just deadbeat.That is just who they are.While some want to be in their kids life but the mother will do everything to make it not work. It is very very unfair for a man to impregnate a lady and abscond.The child grows up and you want to take the glory.Some men do have this mentality that when the child grow to a certain stage,he or she will look for them. Doradorwa: Go to his village.I can tell you for real someone will know his whereabout. I pray you locate him soon. |
Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by Harrykn: 10:09pm On Aug 18, 2021 |
No matter how long it will take, a male child will always look for his father. Regardless of any amount of sacrifice, money and time, He will ask for his own father one day and you won’t do shit. Blood is thicker than water is a very strong adage. Every woman should know this and know peace. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by Kobojunkie: 11:06pm On Aug 18, 2021 |
Harrykn:That is not a truth! That is only true in some cases. No need to generalize! 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by KNOWMORE56: 11:23pm On Aug 18, 2021 |
Doradorwa: The day this your miracle will happen, it will remain unforgettable. The man is alive... himself maybe yearning for you. Don't reveal anything to your mom again (i.e your yearning to know and meet your dad) until the day you'll show her the picture of you and your dad... You are a treasure your mom doesn't want to loose... shes having the fear that you'll be taken away from her... 1 Like |
Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by Promiseibritam: 12:39am On Aug 19, 2021 |
Y we are waiting for this thread to b pushed, How old are u b4 I continue? |
Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by midolian(m): 12:50am On Aug 19, 2021 |
Doradorwa:If the emboldened is what your mum has told you, then there is something she is hiding from you. This isn't enough reason to block every access to you. The bond between female children and their dad is always out if this world..so it's not surprising to seet that you are desperate to reunite with him. I wish you good luck...but please, try to ask one of those you call family now about him. E get why 2 Likes |
Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by Kobojunkie: 1:09am On Aug 19, 2021 |
midolian:Oh please cut the bull! What bond exists again between female children and their dad's? Africans too dey like twist nonsense into facts. Stop making up stories because the lady says she misses her dad. Not every female out there who has been estranged from their fathers have the same pull to reconcile. There are equally so many documented cases of females who have found their missing past only to wish they has never done it. So, please stop lying to her. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by OnlyDeCapPlease(m): 8:32am On Aug 19, 2021 |
Doradorwa: My dear be gentle with your mum. Whatever the reason for your dad not being in your life (your mum's fault or your dad's fault), it must have been an extremely traumatic experience for her. No well adjusted human being will want to have anything to do with any person, place or situation that gave them trauma and heartbreak in the past. It's self preservation. Tracing your dad is something that you might have to do by yourself, starting with where he worked and lived in Edo. However, I must advice you to keep an open mind and thread carefully. So many people have idolised an absent mum or dad throughout their life, only to be bitterly disappointed and heartbroken with what they eventually discover. Keep an open mind and accept whatever you see. 3 Likes |
Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by midolian(m): 9:51am On Aug 19, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:ok |
Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by Nobody: 10:02am On Aug 19, 2021 |
OnlyDeCapPlease:Your words are very kind and your advice is valuable sir. I'm grateful. |
Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by NoToPile: 10:32am On Aug 19, 2021 |
Doradorwa: Watch it young lady be careful with your words. 2 Likes |
Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by blacq2009(m): 11:28am On Aug 19, 2021 |
Doradorwa:Of course. I just can't control my tears. I don't know why. |
Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by pocohantas(f): 11:49am On Aug 19, 2021 |
OnlyDeCapPlease: Apt! |
Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by Nuelito: 12:47pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
This life no just balance....pray God links you up with him real soon |
Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by oglalasioux(m): 1:24pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
CharisEleos: You probably have both parents. If you were in this person's shoes you'll search until you find him. Even if he's dead no problem. You can't understand the trauma of not knowing a parent. 1 Like |
Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by Kobojunkie: 1:43pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
NoToPile:Why is she not to speak her mind? |
Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by AmazonTopaz(f): 1:48pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Graxie: I agree @bold,and move on with your life 3 Likes |
Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by NoToPile: 1:57pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: Not saying she shouldn't speak her mind, its the way she described her mum as glory seeking is what I feel is not too palatable. |
Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by Kobojunkie: 1:59pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
NoToPile:If she believes her mother is indeed glory seeking, she shouldn't say so? She knows the woman more than you do so why isn't she allowed to speak her truth? 2 Likes |
Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by NoToPile: 2:00pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: Okay. |
Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by greenie77: 2:31pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Harrykn: No always o, take the case of Jason Njoku the CEO of IRoko TV, it was even his father probably after waiting endlessly for Jason to look for him, na him initiate am. 3 Likes
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Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by mabea: 3:12pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
OnlyDeCapPlease:In light of the above I think it's unfair for her Mother to deny her the right to know her father. 1 Like |
Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by Graxie(f): 3:22pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Doradorwa: If this quote is not enough for single parents to think twice while bearing the burden alone in the absence of their living partner, what more can? I beg you in the name of God, don't suffer alone. Besides what is the joy in saying I did it alone? You are cutting off from the relationship but not from the product. Even if that child refuse to look for the other parent, will it give you any satisfaction? 1 Like |
Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by Kobojunkie: 4:16pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Graxie:Single parents have a right to choose to suffer it alone. These choices are typically based on the circumstance so it is wrong to fault them for choosing to go it alone when it may have been the only option available to them. Many of the women or men were abandoned or even rejected for choosing to raise the child by the other side. So how can you fault them for having to go it alone? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by mariahAngel(f): 4:23pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: What inspired your signature? Where did it come from? |
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