EmptyGarden:
"Low value men"! Chai! See title. Some men just dey sleep and wake up everyday not knowing say Dem be Low value men... Ok na.

Fountainofyouth:
Same cries, same vomit everyday, una no dey tire? What is wrong in going for already made men? If it hurts y'all too much, tell your sisters and daughters to marry broke men and leave other girls alone.

Fountainofyouth:
Same cries, same vomit everyday, una no dey tire? What is wrong in going for already made men? If it hurts y'all too much, tell your sisters and daughters to marry broke men and leave other girls alone.

Mikester:


Pls understand the thread before commenting.

Fountainofyouth:



I refuse to understand the thread cos I know it's same usual unending rant.

constance500:


He stated facts not that he attacked the female counterpart.. Sometimes read and understand

Mikester:
Not only in this part of the world but all around it, no lady follows a loser, a failure or one with no better future in sight. Losers have no girlfriends nor concubines. Even the gentlest and nicest of girls ignore them.

I came across this thread which graced the front page recently.

https://www.nairaland.com/6459224/insinuation-everything-money/1

It entailed a lady who sought to try make some specific set of guys understand that a lady isn't really all about money, that there are other things which they (the ladies) consider before deeming a guy good enough for a relationship, perhaps something more emotional.

I agree it's true mostly when it comes to youthful romance fantasy but isn't really true for majority of ladies who seek a partner to be with forever or to submit to.

As men are to lead and women are to follow submissively, they seek someone worth submitting to and that person is only someone who gives or assures them of comfort and not the one who always give excuses.

Most ladies if not all, both pretty and ugly will rather choose a man of substance over a man with lesser amount of substance in order to secure him to secure their future. This is required for their survival and easy sailing ahead through future issues like pregnancy, child upbringing, their maintenance and so on.

They might consider lesser men for fun, attention or backup plans whatever but wouldn't place them before the man of substance - as choosing a loser with no hope in sight as a husband will greatly affect their survival and this they consider important and marshall themselves to try secure the successful man.

They might have all the fun with low value men but they don't nurse the thought of taking them home - that is, unless they are left with no choice.

This choice of rich men they make is logical and less emotional for their own good and the women who are overwhelmed by emotions or illogical reasoning due to poor enlightenment, who scorn men of substance and choose losers or low value men mostly pay dearly for it after some period of maturity, constant discomfort, stress and anxiety which predated their will to fulfill a female fantasy.

We see this in our hoods where some homes of married lovers where the man is unable to render comfort is mostly filled with strife, arguments and lamentations from the woman. Homes where the woman isn't comfortable and see no sign of betterment in the future are usually absent of submissiveness and appreciation from her - except of course the ones touched by God Almighty.

Most men might cling to a woman because she is beautiful and all but if a woman is to cling to any man at all, he should either be successful or have a comfortable future in sight, the very reason why some ladies stick to broke men with intelligence and ambition because they are assured of comfort in the future and feeling of security which in other words means enough money to preserve her and her children.


Thereby in a nutshell, majority of women consciously or unconsciously consider money a factor in any man they intend to follow and this is enough to label women as money seekers amongst others. Money is important to every woman and will take you a long way with them.


Thus yes, with women, it is highly about money.

Fountainofyouth:



At the end, he arrived at the same conclusion of ladies only marrying made men as if it's a bad thing, whereas broke men keep getting married everyday, what should we call that?

Epistles about ladies marrying their choices shouldn't even be a topic of discussion in the first place cos it is baseless

AmazonTopaz:


Nonsense @men are to lead,women are to follow

Mikester:


Reply me with your facts not your emotions.

AmazonTopaz:

Lol I know Una way when the person doesn't agree with you you call it 'emotions' that is stale already try something new

josephevergreen:
Nice write-up

Fountainofyouth:
Same cries, same vomit everyday, una no dey tire? What is wrong in going for already made men? If it hurts y'all too much, tell your sisters and daughters to marry broke men and leave other girls alone.

skywalker240:

As your small brain no Sabi read

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