Bunmhi:

Well said, that was my advice to my friend also, I was even begging her to consider her children buh she wouldn't listen, she told she's the only one that know what she's facing

The illogical reason many ladies give when they leave their marriage over infidelity is that the man will give them STDs and this always crack me up.

I simply ask them...

Will they ever in their life sleep with another man again without protection?

If YES then what is the guaranty that what you are running from won't meet you in front?

And if they say they will never have unprotected sex then I tell them why not just stay in your marriage and use protection for your hubby?

I tell ladies, if your hubby starts sleeping around, switch him from a hubby to a intimacy gadget and your booty call and focus on your life and that of your kids... Are there no better things to achieve in life than bothering your head over what a man does with his pnis...?
I honestly believe that the reason many ladies run out of their marriage is more because of the thrills of meeting someone new, of experiencing another dck without the guilt of adultery...

But when they realize that there are randy men out there willing to use them as intimacy gadget and perhaps after being passed from one man to another, they will realize that there is nothing out there except vampires in the name of crazy men looking for vulnerable ladies.

I repeat, ladies please and please once you are married just stay put... It is better to be single as in never married than to be a divorcee, the stigma will never go away, your marital seal can never be replaced..

Let me drop mic biko.

I hope people know that Paul beats Anita regularly and he has impregnated another woman out of wedlock.
She doesn't have to take all the disrespect o

mariahAngel:



Would you still stay with an unfaithful woman?

If my wife commits adultery and she is repentant AND I LOVE HER WHY NOT?

And I remember telling you this lady that you must never ever compare a man and woman when it comes to matters such as this.

A man can marry as many wives as he likes, there Is no sin in it so if a man can marry as many as he wants then tell me if it is not madness that a lady will now leave her husband cos he wants to be with another lady?

Please I beg you, stop asking this shallow question again

KingOfAllIgbos:


Wa shi ere, Baba daada.

I don read your posts tire.

@ Menance would be crying his eyes out because it's just the bitter gospel truth.

I dey wire their babes married and single. Na their men go pay high bride price and 35 page wedding lists for our leftovers.

Pump & Dump

Ukeme8:



I don't know how some people are so foolish and stupid. How is Paul and his wife Anita more mature and ccivilised,tthat they had to head for divorce? What's the maturity there? I guess your drunk somehow.

The maturity there is , knowing when to call it a quit

Ayo2004:
Food for awon bloggers bloggers

Food for afonjas to defend their sister,Lola who have been bashed

Food for redpillers to drag our dear Okoye for sacrificing his dear brother for a woman

Food for feminists to support their sister for having secured the bag

Food for our baby mama to the world gang and marriage na scam FC

Food for vanity crew to say everything isn't about money

Food for wicked Nigerians who derive joy in broken celebrity marriages

Food for our chidinmas and sidechicks in the house who will start preying our the new rich single handsome Okoye

No matter what,everybody is eating something
Which food are u eating?

You have 67 likes, clap for yourself.

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Hmmmmmm

There's really no true friendship after a casual relationship breakup let alone 7years of marriage with 3 powerful kids to crown it up.

Mtcheeew! Who are u peepu fooling

KingOfAllIgbos:


Carry a bible or better still ask your sisters to swear on Amadioha.

I am 100% sure they have all tasted at least 10 afonja rods. If you don't take time ...might even be in triple digits. Bone that one... no Igbo ladies dey escape that. Check your future wife sef

And this my brother is planning to make heaven like this

Revelation4:
Still doesn't make sense because if they are truly friends. They would settle their differences

For them to go their separate ways is problem/differences solved , they are better as friends not lovers

prettyangel10:


This jimmyjames na the greatest fool of the century I've discovered. You've been saying rubbish from the start of this thread. You get functioning brain @ all?

Who are you?

focus7:


You have 67 likes, clap for yourself.

What is your point
Did I say anything wrong?

pocohantas:


Don’t you ever, ever, in your miserable life, quote me. You dey ment? I resemble person wey you fit advise? You and your fellow cretins go about cheering guys insulting women, then when you are given a taste of your medicine, you start preaching to the woman.

Don’t try this nonsense again. I am in a good mood this period. So I will allow you get away with this.

Kwinnnnnn! Omo. I miss o. Watin alfas commit again?

Damn. I felt this, even though it wasn't directed at me, but I still don't feel pity for the receiver sha. He must have had it coming.

[quote author=Norphiee post=105008433]Big shocker , they all thought it’s was Lola’s marriage that will end up this way,... inter-ethnic marriage war is real, with power of love you’ll overcome it, and you’ll be vindicated.






Paul and Anita's marriage is an inter-ethnic marriage. She is not an Igbo lady.

Klass99:


Are you serious?

This is the first time I will hear this, but I usually don't keep track of celebrities and their lives.

Unless it's front page news like this one is.

Someone that named himself rudeboy and publicly insults his brother's wife. You can be sure he is showing his own wife pepper at home o.
I heard the gist about him impregnating someone else since. She probably has given birth already.
The guy has no husband material attribute on him at all.
His brother is a more peace loving person.

20 pages Jesus H. Christ of Nazareth!

Over persin divorce abi watin??

[quote author=Norphiee post=105008433]Big shocker , they all thought it’s was Lola’s marriage that will end up this way,... inter-ethnic marriage war is real, with power of love you’ll overcome it, and you’ll be vindicated.




NOTE:


Paul and Anita's marriage is an inter-ethnic marriage. She is not an Igbo lady.

eyinjuege:


Someone that named himself rudeboy and publicly insults his brother's wife. You can be sure he is showing his own wife pepper at home o.
I heard the gist about him impregnating someone else since. She probably has given birth already.
The guy has no husband material attribute on him at all.
His brother is a more peace loving person.

Waawuu.

DonroxyII:
Mumu dey wire your DNA .... There is no perfect marriage of course they have their issues same way your mom and dad have theirs .... same way you will have yours .....

But when issue get to divorce... water yaff pass ocean....

Paul and maturity is never in the same sentence..... you are as backward as he is ....

Peter might married Lola for money and background and Lola married Peter because he is very hardworking and a SuperStar.....

Both Lola and Peter came together and create a family and they keep blossoming and glowing in wealth and Riches...... Lola keep making more wealth, Peter keep Making More money ......

When it's time for you to marry, go and marry poverty and Wretchedness.... U no well !

There is no perfect marriage yes I know , but once the love is no longer there between husband and wife there is no reason to remain in the marriage go your separate ways and be happy

See how unfortunate some nairalanders are.......Anita Isama Okoye is a typical Igbo woman......So because she filed for divorce you all decided to deny her.... spits**







NOTE:


She is not Igbo. She is from River State. She bears same name 'Tonye' as my Sis. Na River State name. (Tonye means God's plan/destiny).

EndRape2:
I am happy she is the one filling for divource, this is to teach all nairaland boys that not all women are Crazy about money fame positions and ,, handsomeness, not all ladies you can traet anyhow, because you think you have money, responsible girls still value men that , treat women well, not men that proud and arrongant , and cheats

We heard he is a proud and arrogant, and talk to his wife anyhow, even slept with their maid.

e choke am say the babe don use am dump am.

That Paul sleeping with their maid part is what is making rounds on instagram, I wonder why nairaland hasn't gotin that part of the gist yet....

Toks2008:


If my wife commits adultery and she is repentant AND I LOVE HER WHY NOT?

And I remember telling you this lady that you must never ever compare a man and woman when it comes to matters such as this.

A man can marry as many wives as he likes, there Is no sin in it so if a man can marry as many as he wants then tell me if it is not madness that a lady will now leave her husband cos he wants to be with another lady?

Please I beg you, stop asking this shallow question again

Joseph?
Zachariah?
Jesus?
Peter?
Paul?
John?
John the Baptist?

Biglittlelois:


That Paul sleeping with their maid part is what is making rounds on instagram, I wonder why nairaland hasn't gotin that part of the gist yet....

Plus infidelity, domestic violence, and being a stingy man.

pocohantas:


You for quote me if them born you well!

Nonsense hypocrites.

This is stew mush! Ahan. Why you bring landmines for sticks and stones play?

nenyewrites:


Plus infidelity, domestic violence, and being a stingy man.

Ahh e plenty, it is well.

DrDax:


So women are not wired to be as intelligent as men?

Talk about turning compliment to an insult.

Women are also intelligent.

But they are intelligent in their own ways.

Just as men are intelligent in their own ways.

It's hard to see women who can reason like men and express whatever they reason like men.


Same applies to men trying to do the same in the female world.

nenyewrites:



Joseph?
Zachariah?
Jesus?
Peter?
Paul?
John?
John the Baptist?

Polygamy or monogamy is a choice bro. My point is that it is not a sin and not a taboo.

Today's women have a way of making it look like a taboo.

No man should allow any lady cage his sexuality... If you want to be monogamous please do just that and remain faithful to one woman... No side chicking and if you feel like marrying 100 wives do just that and avoid adultery... Any lady who is not cool with that should leave.

All I see is people desperately trying hard to clarify the ethnicity of Anita, yet none has the balls to call her a "Rivers witch" same way Lola has always been called a Yoruba witch, what happen? Your hands fail you? Or only Yorubas fits the "strange women" or witch tag

From pages 1 to 20, I'm yet to see a single insult directed only to Anita, instead, I see same usual women rant most tribalistic Igbos are shamelessly spewing here to cover face, still waiting.....

Toks2008:


The illogical reason many ladies give when they leave their marriage over infidelity is that the man will give them STDs and this always crack me up.

I simply ask them...

Will they ever in their life sleep with another man again without protection?

If YES then what is the guaranty that what you are running from won't meet you in front?

And if they say they will never have unprotected sex then I tell them why not just stay in your marriage and use protection for your hubby?

I tell ladies, if your hubby starts sleeping around, switch him from a hubby to a intimacy gadget and your booty call and focus on your life and that of your kids... Are there no better things to achieve in life than bothering your head over what a man does with his pnis...?
I honestly believe that the reason many ladies run out of their marriage is more because of the thrills of meeting someone new, of experiencing another dck without the guilt of adultery...

But when they realize that there are randy men out there willing to use them as intimacy gadget and perhaps after being passed from one man to another, they will realize that there is nothing out there except vampires in the name of crazy men looking for vulnerable ladies.

I repeat, ladies please and please once you are married just stay put... It is better to be single as in never married than to be a divorcee, the stigma will never go away, your marital seal can never be replaced..

Let me drop mic biko.

You were making sense at the very beginning but not up to the last paragraph, you type rubbish there

Some people need to go and beg Lola Okoye for forgiveness otherwise,this is just the beginning ! That woman (Lola) was wrongly accused of so many things. Peter Okoye made a right decision by separating his family from his brother's.

Kriss216:

I've never said anything bad to Lola. Peter has always been my favourite. You must be mistaken me for someone else.

Lwkmd. Mistake u ?? when she don group u with wailers