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Note: This is not a fiction or trying to troll

2 of my married ex still fund pleasures talking to me on phone but I'm not pleased with such

One of them is having bad time with her husband(according to what he told me) & sometimes keeps saying she regretted not marrying me that I am a good man just that he choose swagger over my kindness. I always tell her to be patient & prayerful that crisis in her marriage comes to an end and stop blaming herself that man proposes, God dispose. I've asked her many times without number to stop calling me that such act might makes him sees her husband as unworthy, I asked her to forget whatever anything we shared in the past & face reality that it's over but she kept saying not because of crisis she had but she just love talking to me that I'm a very nice person that every woman could dream of having


My ex number 2 is married too n very happy in her marriage but this woman can't stop calling me to the extent that it got to a point I blacklisted her number because I don't want trouble. She called me at least 3 times in s week whereas this same lady got married in less than 1month after telling me that am too soft for her liking despite the fact that we are together for good 2yrs. Now, after blacklisting her number, she called me with another number & I have no option than to unblock her previously blacklisted number so she won't suspect. Her excuse was that I'm a very nice person & she still loves me like those days but I've told her several time to stop saying such that it's not pleasant to hear

Non of these 2 ex lives in same town with me & the closest one lives about 300km to where I lives.

My problem now is, I don't just want to have any form of conversation with these folks not because of hatred but I don't want trouble with anyone

Truly, I don't know what they meant by the word I'm a nice person because we do quarell & resolve it, I don't lavish money on any of them & I've never render any financial assistance to any of them ever since we parted ways so I don't know why these women still want us to keep in touch

I don't want to hurt them with foul words but they need to stop talking to me!

I don't want to be rude to any of them as I don't know maybe I will need their help in neatest future

Only you?
Low budget king Solomon

Snitch24:
Only you?
Low budget king Solomon

Honestly I'm serious

I know some people might not believe this story but the truth is except by grace of God, a man of my age who's yet to be married will definitely had 2 or more gf in the past.

I've crossed mid 30s btw

mrfact247:
Honestly I'm serious

I know some people might not believe this story but the truth is except by grace of God, a man of my age who's yet to be married will definitely had 2 or more gf in the past.

I've crossed mid 30s btw

I try as much as possible to stay away from anything that will bring me and my any of my ex together

Slippery slope

You may not be interested in them anymore but you are excited about them calling you...

You can massage your ego all you want but remember your current or future partner is going to be doing the same with her ex.

Chloraseptic:
You may not be interested in them anymore but you are excited about them calling you...

You can massage your ego all you want but remember your current or future partner is going to be doing the same with her ex.

I am not excited in anyway

I even blacklist one but called me with another number

Nothing to be excited about because there's no gain in it

I av no gain talking to these people again but like someone suggested, ghost mode will be the best

I don't want any problem in my life

mrfact247:
Note: This is not a fiction or trying to troll

2 of my married ex still fund pleasures talking to me on phone but I'm not pleased with such

One of them is having bad time with her husband(according to what he told me) & sometimes keeps saying she regretted not marrying me that I am a good man just that he choose swagger over my kindness. I always tell her to be patient & prayerful that crisis in her marriage comes to an end and stop blaming herself that man proposes, God dispose. I've asked her many times without number to stop calling me that such act might makes him sees her husband as unworthy, I asked her to forget whatever anything we shared in the past & face reality that it's over but she kept saying not because of crisis she had but she just love talking to me that I'm a very nice person that every woman could dream of having


My ex number 2 is married too n very happy in her marriage but this woman can't stop calling me to the extent that it got to a point I blacklisted her number because I don't want trouble. She called me at least 3 times in s week whereas this same lady got married in less than 1month after telling me that am too soft for her liking despite the fact that we are together for good 2yrs. Now, after blacklisting her number, she called me with another number & I have no option than to unblock her previously blacklisted number so she won't suspect. Her excuse was that I'm a very nice person & she still loves me like those days but I've told her several time to stop saying such that it's not pleasant to hear

Non of these 2 ex lives in same town with me & the closest one lives about 300km to where I lives.

My problem now is, I don't just want to have any form of conversation with these folks not because of hatred but I don't want trouble with anyone

Truly, I don't know what they meant by the word I'm a nice person because we do quarell & resolve it, I don't lavish money on any of them & I've never render any financial assistance to any of them ever since we parted ways so I don't know why these women still want us to keep in touch

I don't want to hurt them with foul words but they need to stop talking to me!

I don't want to be rude to any of them as I don't know maybe I will need their help in neatest future

You need to learn to be more assertive. They're taking advantage of you. They're using you. What you can do is tell them that you no longer want to keep in touch because it's inappropriate as their married, then block them. Keep blocking them if they use different numbers, they'll eventually get tired and stop

You need to remember that love is not addiction. They're addicted to you. They're infatuated. They don't love you. If they truly loved you, they'll be with you. They'll divorce their husbands and come to you.