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Friendship should be built on mutual ground. When guys ask most girls out for a relationship, especially when the guys are nice, the girls will cunningly reject the guys and politely suggest friendship instead. Some guys fall for this gimmick.

Guys, it is not good for your emotional health, you shouldn't be friends with someone you have a crush on, or someone you ask out and got turned down. Either she put you in her reserve because of uncertainty of her present relationship, which makes you an option or plan B, or she just wants to exploit you economically and emotionally.

What benefits do you derive from such friendship? Absolute nothing. You will do all the calls, listening to her boring stories, laughing at her dry jokes, you are always available to help her financially, hoping to impress her and win her love. Girl's love is not a trophy and relationship is not a rocket science. If she doesn't vibe to you then move on, cut contact with her, if she doesn't love you other girls will.

Don't undervalue yourself, don't settle for less, if she can't give you relationship which you want then let her go. That girl that is telling you she is tired to chat is begging another guy for message, that girl that lie to you that she doesn't visit guys is always choking her crush with visit, she calls her crush everyday and lied to you that she doesn't like calling people. Friend zone is a dangerous zone, don't allow any girl to exploit, you already have friends and you know the kind of friends you want. Don't settle for less, you deserve better.

Free free to share your friend zone experience.

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No female can friend zone me even doh am not redpilled. B4 you go chop my 100 naira airtime i no say i get enough to spare

wise man.... Funny thing be say some mumu guys go still read this ur write up tell u say u no sabi the koko. The day wey one of my friend tell me say him dey go after girls wey dey give am tough time & make sure him win their hearts by hook or by crook. Na that day i decide not to dey interfer for most guys woman matter. According to my friend, him say the thing dey make am feel more masculine . The only thing i tell am that day be say, as for me i no fit dey waste my time & resource on top lady wey no like me & dey treat me like shit. Them no swear for me.

I always tell dude to follow who follow you.

It complicated sometimes because a guy might like madam B but he will always find madam A all over him ( now that’s a huge problem) …

Drsnives:
No female can friend zone me even doh am not redpilled. B4 you go chop my 100 naira airtime i no say i get enough to spare

I learned that not quite long. I started giving my Mom and younger sister more attention when I discovered that my family over vagina people.

Sundrus:
wise man.... Funny thing be say some mumu guys go still read this ur write up tell u say u no sabi the koko. The day wey one of my friend tell me say him dey go after girls wey dey give am tough time & make sure him win their hearts by hook or by crook. Na that day i decide not to dey interfer for most guys woman matter. According to my friend, him say the thing dey make am feel more masculine . The only thing i tell am that day be say, as for me i no fit dey waste my time & resource on top lady wey no like me & dey treat me like shit. Them no swear for me.

LoL, some people are destined to destroy themselves, there's nothing you can do to help that your friend unless he learn the hard way. It is a waste of time and resources trying to please who doesn't love you.

Edyice:
I always tell dude to follow who follow you.

It complicated sometimes because a guy might like madam B but he will always find madam A all over him ( now that’s a huge problem) …

Yeah, often times we don't love who genuinely love us. We will be doing shit to impress who doesn't care about us.

Demigod22:
Yeah, often times we don't love who genuinely love us. We will be doing shit to impress who doesn't care about us.

Do things to impress people who will break you is really surprising.. and many people fall for this shit , it happens all time , every time

Good..

But guyman wey play him cards well go dey codedly dey chew her even when the initial plan of the friendship na to keep you for friend zone..